HOW TO GET A GUY TO COMMIT E-Book

Smeichel Jason

• Herausgeber: Jason Smeichel
• Kategorie: Gesellschafts- und Liebesromane
• Sprache: Englisch

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2024

Beschreibung

Unlock Your Feminine Power and Win the Man of Your Dreams!

In this empowering book, relationship coach Jason Smeichel reveals five game-changing secrets that confident women use to attract and keep the man they desire. Drawing from his extensive experience and insights, Jason shares practical strategies to help you unleash your feminine allure and create a fulfilling relationship.

Discover how to fascinate a man through your appearance and allure, while maintaining your authenticity and self-worth. Learn the importance of having a clear end game and how every relationship, even those that don't work out, brings you closer to your ideal partner.

He also delves into the art of self-sufficiency, balancing independence with inviting a man to journey with you and triggering attraction through emotional connection and tension.

Whether you're single, in a relationship, or navigating the dating scene, this book is your guide to becoming the queen of a man's heart. Don't settle for less when you can have everything you want and deserve!

If you're ready to own your femininity, attract the right man, and create a purposeful relationship, this book is for you. Get this book and start your journey to winning with the man of your choice today!

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HOW TO GET A GUY TO COMMIT

Jason Smeichel

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Jason Smeichel, 2024.

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Table of Contents

Title Page

Copyright Page

Dedication

Introduction

Perceived Quality

Understand The Guy

Create Distance And Explore Options

Examine You Both

Feminine Allure

Conclusion

Dedication

To my, Jake and two sons, I dedicate this beautiful work I’ve put my time and energy in.

Introduction

Commitment is given to the woman who requires it, and you can determine the future of a relationship without giving an ultimatum by coming from a place of both warmth and invitation. You want to come from a place of power and femininity because this is where you create less manipulation, less control, less making demands, and all that good stuff. Instead, you get to create an invitation, right? You get to invite a man to journey with you, and when you do that, not only do you nurture his masculine need, but you get what you want because you have created an opportunity for him to please you.

Here's an example of what this looks like. I received an email from a woman who didn't know where she stood in her relationship. This reminded me of a time before I got engaged to my husband. I knew he had a vision and a plan for us, but it felt like things weren't happening fast enough. Before expressing yourself, you need to be clear on your endgame and outcome.

For me, I was living with a man before marriage, which created a chaotic vibration within me because it was something I had sworn I would never do. This act felt like self-abandonment and self-betrayal. It also forced me to lean into love and what was uncomfortable for me. I decided that December 31st was my deadline. If nothing happened by then, I was out. We got engaged on September 20th, so I never had to move out.

I'm sharing this because your timeline is personal. You want to keep it personal and not share it as an ultimatum. Instead, come from a place of both power and femininity. This creates an invitation for him to journey with you. For example, you can express how you feel around the man. For me, I felt protected, loved, feminine, and happy. I admired and respected his strength. It was important for me to know that marriage was in our future, and I had to not be attached to that outcome. There's a 50% chance he might be on board and a 50% chance he might not, and that's okay.

You want to put the man in choice. A template for this could be: start by speaking about what you like about him and how he makes you feel. Then say, "It's really important for me to..." and express your desired outcome, whether it's marriage, family, or honoring God with your relationship. Then, say, "I understand that may not be what you want right now, but I wanted to let you know." Leave it at that. You don't want to convince or control because that takes away your power and femininity, pushing you into a masculine drive.

When giving feedback, use the Oreo method: start with something positive, give the feedback in the middle, and end with something positive and sweet. Understand your end goal and desire, making it about what you want, not about what he's not doing. After expressing yourself clearly, watch and observe. Listen to his language—does he use inclusive language? Does he talk about a future with you? Or does he brush it off as a joke?

If you know how to create safety in a relationship, it helps progress the relationship. If you don't know how, this is what I teach in the Feminine Allure Academy, my 12-month group coaching program. I teach women how to spark desire, attract the right man, create their purposeful relationship, and have the success mindset for that. It's about strengthening your mind and releasing unwanted thoughts that don't serve you. This is part of the human experience.

After expressing yourself, sit back, watch, and observe. Remember your timeline and keep it personal as you journey along your way.