How to Make Your Kids Champs in Life E-Book

Wellington Walter

• Herausgeber: Jessie Addison
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2021

Beschreibung

A child who is not properly raised by his parents will bring shame to his home.
Raising well-behaved and cultured kids in today's world is becoming increasingly difficult. This is why it is now very hard to find a sixteen-year-old virgin.

Even though parents today are not measuring up to the standard with which parents of the past generation raised their kids, the biggest problem of raising well-cultured kids today is hinged on how we deal with the external influences of the society that negate our effort of inculcating discipline and good morals into our children.

These external factors include peer pressure, drugs, and alcohol, and negative bandwagon influence promoted by TV and social media.
It is now a normal thing for young girls to dress almost naked while walking on the street.
It's also now very common to see 15, 16 years old girls dropping out of school as a result of unwanted pregnancy.

Drug abuse among teenagers is fast becoming the order of the day. Well, this is the world we and our kids now have to live in.

But I have got some cheering news for you…

In this book, I have carefully outlined some very effective parenting techniques that will help you raise your kids the right way.
This book will teach you how you can inculcate discipline and good morals into your kids, which will in turn make them grow up to become well-cultured and responsible adults.

Get this book, apply the parenting principles it contains, and trust me, your kids will stand out with an excellent character anywhere they go…

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How to Make Your Kids Champs in Life

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Walter Wellington

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Walter Wellington

© 2022 United Kingdom

All rights reserved.  No part of this book may be reproduced or modified in any form, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.

Table of Contents

Title Page

Copyright Page

Dedication

Introduction | Raising Kids the Right Way in Today’s World

Chapter One | How to Raise a Well Behaved Child

Chapter Two | How to Inculcate Good Morals and Values into Your Kids by Imposing Discipline

Chapter Three | How to Raise Kids with Good Character

Chapter Four | How to Bond Strongly with Your Children

Chapter Five | How to Inculcate Patience into Your kids

Chapter Six | How to Raise Emotionally Healthy Kids

Chapter Seven | How to Discuss Sex with Your Kids

Chapter Eight | How to Raise Sexually Disciplined Kids

Chapter Nine | How to Raise Financially Intelligent Kids

Chapter Ten | How to Raise God Fearing Children

Dedication

I dedicate this book to my lovely family and everyone out there who craves a happy and fruitful living

Introduction

Raising Kids the Right Way in Today’s World

If you are a parent, you would agree with me that raising kids in recent times has become very demanding. This may not be unconnected to the very many outside factors which consistently compete for the attention of kids and even that of us, parents.

Due to the enormous responsibility of raising a child in today’s world, parents from the past generation are feeling very lucky for doing their parenting earlier than now.

Now, the big question is; WHAT HAS REALLY CHANGED?

Can we say that the difficulties recently experienced in raising a well-behaved kid is resulting from poor education? Or could it be a result of the modern way of living? 

So many questions come to mind as to the reasons why raising a child has become more challenging in recent times. But the most important question that should be in the mind of any parent is; HOW CAN I RAISE A HEALTHY AND A WELL CULTURED CHILD IN TODAY’S WORLD?

Well, this book was put together to provide effective solutions and give result-oriented answers to this question.

Even though parents today are not measuring up to the standard with which parents of the past generation raised their kids, the biggest problem of raising well-cultured kids today is how to deal with the external influences of the society that negate our effort of inculcating discipline and good morals into our children.

These external factors include peer pressure, drugs, and alcohol abuse, negative bandwagon influence promoted by TV and social media, and so on...

But apart from external societal influences as earlier pointed out, other likely difficulties experienced when it comes to raising kids include, maintaining discipline, teaching and inculcating values and morals, as well as, giving adequate attention to our kids.

Irrespective of societal factors or the difference in dispensation between then and now, the fundamental needs of kids remain unchanged. Kids will always require nurturing, love training, relationship, security, and a good sense of belonging.

We come across various parenting information from time to time, but putting these pieces of information to work in our daily parenting experience is where the problem usually lies. 

Unfortunately, this is the most vital part of the learning process. THE APPLICATION OF KNOWLEDGE.

Anyways, let’s quickly take a look at some parenting tips that will be of help to you in raising your kids the right way, as well as inculcating good values and morals into your children.

Parental Control and Discipline

Family life has greatly changed in recent years. There was a time when parents were in complete control and kids had no choice but to do exactly as they were told by their parents. But today, unfortunately, the reverse has become the case in a lot of homes, especially in Europe and America.

The recent wave of relaxed discipline in our homes today has come with some negative consequences. Not only has it weakened our authority over our children as parents, but it has also left kids without the good values and guidance they require to make good choices and give a confident approach to life.

All in the name of ‘love’, parents also assist in developing bad character and poor values in their children.

You may have heard of a teenager who was kicked out of high school for being rude to a teacher or for fighting with his classmate. Instead of cautioning the child, his parents got really mad with the school authority!!! They take the child from that school to another.

These scenarios are not too fictitious ... they are so, so real! 

These are examples of real problems in families where parents put up with the excesses of children, submit to their demands, and “save” them from the consequences of their wrong behavior. Parents now easily give up custody of young children. 

Nowadays we know exactly who the boss is - we really aren’t! We are giving our kids so much power and we are losing our authority over them.

Although a lot of parents strive to teach their children the right values, there are still quite a few who do not see the need to go in that direction. How did it get here? What happened to the discipline?

It all started when a school of thought called on parents to be more tolerant and lenient with their children with the ideology of "being a friend". They also say that sending the children away would hurt their feelings of vulnerability and make them haunt their parents later in life. 

You've taken self-esteem to its limits and sold it to parents as the best educational technique - make your kids feel good! 

Experts told parents “Don't use negative words like no and bad. Keep telling your kids that they are special and that they can be whatever they want. “It was always like feeling good was more important than good itself. While building children's confidence is important, we cannot afford to replace it with discipline!

Don't over-protect

Don't try to protect your child from the consequences of their actions or mistakes. For example, if your son is negligent in damaging another child's toys, you might want your son to give him one of his own. Your child will not easily forget this lesson on respecting the property of others. 

Give your kids a taste of the real world. I let my teenagers take public transport, although a driver can easily take them around. They take buses, tricycles, and other kinds of public transport. I have done it and I always do it when I need to so why can’t they? 

As for the little ones, when they complain that “aunt” or “uncle” spanked them, my first question is usually “what did you do? Even my three-year-old knows better that someone will come and tell me when he has been naughty because he understands that I won’t take sides with him. This has a way of making him behave well even when I am not there. 

Before I conclude, I would like to state here and now that this book was not put together to make a parent love their kids less. Rather, it is aimed at helping parents build and inculcate good values and morals into the lives of their children with love.