How to Raise Highly Successful People E-Book

Charles Bell

• Herausgeber: Youcanprint
• Kategorie: Sachliteratur, Reportagen, Biografien
• Sprache: Englisch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2021

Beschreibung

What is that thing that really makes someone successful? What kind of abilities or knowledge do successful people have? The truth is that success is made of a lot of simple and little things that can create great results when used together. For example: When it comes to parenting, it's a known fact that we tend to raise our children in the same way our parents raised us. Now, we don't want to do that, we want only to take the best of our parents efforts and leave all the rest. Our children will be able to grow up in a complete different way only because of this little difference. To examine how you can raise your children to be not only successful, but kind and independent too than you'll need a guide like: Here's a little preview of what you will find inside of the book: the Esther Wojcicki story let your children discover their passions build rock solid relationships the importance of discipline how much collaboration is important to become successful ...and much, much more!

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Table of Contents

Copertina

How to Raise Highly Successful People

SYNOPSIS

CHAPTER ONE

CHAPTER TWO

CHAPTER THREE

Note

How to Raise Highly Successful People

Learn How Successful People Lead!: How to Increase Your Influence & Raise a Boy

The ultimate guide to build a successful mind

Charles Bell

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SYNOPSIS

THE ESTHER WOJCICKI STORY

One reason individuals go to Esther Wojcicki for parenting counsel is that her three girls are off-the-charts uber-successful: Susan is the CEO of YouTube, Janet is a professor at UC San Francisco, and Anne is the CEO of 23andMe.

In addition, Wojcicki has been an educator for a long time, helping fabricate globally reknowned media expressions program at Palo Alto High School. Products of the program include James Franco, the award-winning actor, director, and essayist; Jeremy Lin, a Harvard graduate and a member of the Atlanta Hawks; and Craig Vaughn, a developmental clinician with the Stanford Children's medical clinic.With her own kids, as well as others, Wojcicki has exhibited real success. So what's thesecret?

Her five-point direction comes as standards, not rules, which implies that not at all like much of the existing parenting guidance, it traverses the years, from giving birththroughtheir toddler’s ages to how to respond when they grow up and fill the house. They are: trust, respect, independence, collaboration (cooperation), and kindness (TRICK). It comes down to cherishing your kids for what their identity is, not who you want them to be, and ditching the convention as much as you can. Children are more capable than parents may understand, and more in need of room to develop than their parents will give. Wojcicki follows an all around worn, yet still needed mantra of our time: let kids fail (the class test, the piano test, the tryout, the whatever).

"Kids are supposed to screw up as kids so they screw up less as adults," she notes, in her book, 'How to Raise Successful People'stating that most instructors realize that failure is basic to learning, yet most parents appear in obscurity on this genuinely significant actuality.

The objective, she reminds us, is to make yourself unseen by bringing up kids to become effective, working people; upset constantly nor protected from failure. Confidence isn't conceived from over-protecting, it is conceived from doing and risking. Esther dressed her kids like they were adults from the beginning, confiding in them to get things done: to swim at year and a half; to separate in a supermarket; to go to the shop alone at three and four (she as of late did this with two granddaughters, dropping them off in Target and picking them up an hour later, and Susan was not amazed).

"You want your child to want to be with you, not to need to be with you," she writes further. Also, all the children do this: in the wake of galavanting around the globe, they all live near each other and eat together at least once per week.

She talks a great deal about trust: believing yourself to make the best choice and believing your child to do tasks when they know close to nothing or to make choices that are important to their age. Kids can do far more than parents give them acknowledgment for. Be that as it may, parents need to model the behavior they want to see, giving children consequences when they mess up, pardoning them for mistakes, and failing to bear resentment. Give a child a smartphone each time

the individual in question is upset, and that child won't learn stability, or how to overcome weariness.

"Children will hear you out—they want your endorsement and love—however on the off chance that they want to be upbeat, they will need to figure out how to hear themselves out," she says. "Use trust to get trust."

THE STORY

Wojcicki learned early not to trust anybody, or anything. At the point when her youngest sibling ate a container of aspirin at 16 months and four hospitals dismissed them, her mom, an Orthodox Jewish worker, didn't trust her impulses, took the hospital's statement, and David kicked the bucket. Her dad, also a worker, declared young men asnot needed for her, and was cold and far off. Wojcicki disposed of the rules of her childhood, got a grant to Berkley, met her husband (an experimental physicist), and afterward brought up three kids and assembled a classroom worked around with her senses, not what others told her enway the journey.

Her distrust of institutions and the standard way of thinking set her free. At the point when she began recollection 36 years back, counselor told her to construct a consistence based classroom, to "not smile until Christmas," and to punish kids to build up power. She, be that as it may, did the inverse: she trusted kids, giggled with them, and found a good pace. She gave them control over their learning as tasks and cooperation (way before it became stylish) and allowed them pick their passion and interests.

There were slips up, consequences, and, in the end, forgiveness. In any example, the school thought she was wild and incapable to "control" a classroom; at whatever point the chief visited, kids were talking and sometimes (gasp) having a great time. She let her kids in on the mystery: in the event that they weren't peaceful when the chief came in, she'd lose her cool. They then held it down.

Like all good parenting books, Wojcicki's tackles grit. Suffering difficulties is the thing that assembles grit, she notes. She refers to lamentable stories of kids who are panicked to fail in school for dread they will frustrate their parents; in the same way as other educators, Wojcicki has noticed an emotional trauma in kids who say they feel totally helpless. Be that as it may, she also observes the individuals who take a stab at something because they want it. "This is the thing that we want to bring out in our kids," she notes, "grit that streams from unbreakable and sharp drive and helps them through any example." (Along those lines, it very well may be instructed, she says). Kids need to pick their desires and passions: not parents. Anne was a capable artist, however she wanted to be an ice skater. So she became an ice skater.

And there you have it: TRICK (Trust, Respect, Independence, Collaboration& Kindness). This book applies Wojcicki’s TRICK and many more parental strategies to create a framework for successful parenting. Chapter one outlines the important attribute of parents being sort of hands-off when dealing with their children’s career choices (Independence); Chapter Two examines the place of friendship between the parent and children; should they be soulmate – will that not hurt the very soul of parenthood?This chapter echoes Trust and Respect. Chapter three discusses one of the hottest parenting topics: Discipline. What’s the right way to discipline and not become an enemy to your child. This Chapter talks about Kindness as central theme. Finally Chapter Four touches on the issue of being a role model as a parent; this focuses on Collaboration. So the 4 components are well addressed.

CHAPTER ONE:

LET YOUR CHILD DISCOVER THEIR OWN PASSIONS

INDEPENDENCE

Growing up as a child yourself, you probably lived in an age where there was limited technology (at least comparative to now), and where “sensible’ career options were largely limited to professions like medicine, law, engineering (hardware), economics and accounting and a few others. Back them-you may recall- parents will have their children do these courses or nothing else and anyone who is not in these fields is either a failure or nonentity. Today, people are into computer programming, software development, machine learning, ecommerce and digital marketing, music and filmography (full-time), and so on; careers that were either virtually non-existent back then or were looked down upon by our parents.

Similarly, in time past (those times that we grew up as children), career satisfaction or to put it properly, the ideal job, was one in which you could get the most financial rewards – in short, the highest paying careers were the best. But today, people put to consideration a wide range of factors which would have been considered negligible or outright silly back then. We hear things like work-life balance, propensity to create impact, alignment with passion, amongst others. In short, the high-paying job is not the more important job or career.

These are the times in which our children will grow, and as such we have to rethink how parents handle our children in relation to their passions (and career choices). Why so much hassle about career choices or passions or job selection? And why start this book with that?

We spend many hours every week, without end, doing work. Doing work you love makes life significantly more satisfying. Consequently, it's basic we work at directing and empowering our children in their mission to discover and accomplish work they love.

The status of work in contemporary social orders is the aftereffect of a long chronicled process. Work has become a focal sorting out component of both the judiciousness and the morals of our social orders. Relations of creation and use, production and consumption, are currently at the focal point of monetary association and sociallife. Notwithstanding its conspicuous conservative importance, work       is also centralin a few different areas, in particular in its roleas a unifyingcomponent, as asource of social trades, and      as an element of individual character. Work, at that point, can be seenas the mainstay of social organisation, however, to an enormous extent, as an importantpillar of theexistential association of individuals. It is preciselybecauseofthisthat work has become a crucial element in manymeasurements of social inclusion, such ashealth,housing, and relational networks.