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- Herausgeber: Publisher s21598
- Kategorie: Ratgeber
- Sprache: Englisch
- Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2022
It’s often said that one of the worst paths of action you can take is inaction. Essentially, this means that there’s nothing worse than doing nothing at all, and that you should at least try for something in your life.
This proverb applies to achievement, particularly pursuing life objectives. So many individuals have an entitled attitude, thinking success will fall into their laps.
In reality, there’s no such thing. Real, sustainable success is never by coincidence; it is earned. It is natural to aspire to overnight success. It’s tempting to hope and dream that you might strike gold and just achieve success out of nowhere, but it will not get you far.
If you bet your life on hopes and aspirations, you will remain put. If you want to be successful, you must work no matter what.
Waiting for success to arrive shows self-doubt and a lack of confidence. If you cannot even define your own objectives and plan how to get there, you will not succeed.
Unless you adopt an aggressive approach. Set an end objective if you want passive success.
You can not find a road to your objective if you do not know what it is. Otherwise, you would labor blindly until you reach a point where you are content.
That is, unless you change your strategy from a passive one to an active one. The first place you need to start if you’re hoping for success passively is to set a definitive end goal.
This is extremely helpful because you can’t really figure out a path to your goal if you don’t know what your goal is. Otherwise, you’d be blindly working up to a point at which you might feel satisfied with where you’ve ended up.
If this map is too ambiguous, you will not reach your destination.
Everyone has life objectives. Young children have job goals. As you become older, your tastes change, and you briefly consider your future.
You return to your original course. Pourquoi? Sometimes we let life circumstances stand between us and our aspirations.
You can do anything, no matter what you have gone through or will encounter. You only need a fresh viewpoint and the determination to confront the circumstances and pursue your ambitions.
Life goals are something just about everyone experiences during their lifetime. As a young child, you have career aspirations. As you grow older, your personal preferences develop and you have fleeting moments of focus on the possibilities of how your life could turn out.
You can achieve anything you want, regardless of what you’ve been through, are going through, or may face in the future. All you need is a new perspective and the willingness to face the situation and work on your goals in spite of it.
To you, it will be something you simply navigate around.
But it takes practice, and it’s not a comfortable thing to do.
Knowing that beforehand makes it simpler to withstand suffering while learning how to manage challenging situations.
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: Five Ingredients for Success in Work and Life
Chapter 2: Major Life Changes
Chapter 3: Financial Struggles
Chapter 4: Negative Influences
Chapter 5: Lack of Knowledge
Chapter 6: Continual Failures
Chapter 7: Health Concerns
Chapter 8: Traumatic Past
Chapter 9: Change of Heart
Chapter 10: Intimidating Competition
Introduction
Your Life Goals Aren’t Determined by Fate or Chance
It’s often said that one of the worst paths of action you can take is inaction. Essentially, this means that there’s nothing worse than doing nothing at all, and that you should at least stand for something in your life.
This same motto can be applied to the world of success - especially when it comes to chasing your life goals. So many people get into this almost entitled sort of mindset in which they think they might be one of the lucky ones that just happen to have success fall into their lap.
In reality, there’s no such thing. Anyone who’s found real, lasting success has never just achieved it by chance - they’ve put in the real work for it. It’s tempting to hope and dream that you might strike gold and just achieve success out of nowhere, but that mindset won’t get you very far.
If you spend your life wagering on hopes and dreams alone, you’ll stay in the same exact spot your whole life. You need to not only understand, but also accept the fact that if you want to be successful, you need to work for it, no matter what.
Waiting for success to just come to you signifies a lot of self-doubt and a lack of confidence. If you can’t even muster up the confidence and awareness to set your own goal and map out how you’re going to get there, it’s not likely you’ll achieve success.
That is, unless you change your strategy from a passive one to an active one. The first place you need to start if you’re hoping for success passively is to set a definitive end goal.
This is extremely helpful because you can’t really figure out a path to your goal if you don’t know what your goal is. Otherwise, you’d be blindly working up to a point at which you might feel satisfied with where you’ve ended up.
The next natural step is to map out the path you need to take in detail. Be honest with yourself and figure out where you’re starting at, and what steps you can take to get to where you need to be.
This map cannot be too vague, or you’ll end up having a hard time actually making it to your goal. There’s no harm in getting really detailed with it, it just makes things easier for you in the future.
Have you ever had a moment (or maybe several) where you focus on how unfair life is? Maybe you’re talking about your own situation, or someone else’s, but you think about how everyone had a dream at one point in time – and only a select few achieved it?
Life goals are something just about everyone experiences during their lifetime. As a young child, you have career aspirations. As you grow older, your personal preferences develop and you have fleeting moments of focusing on the possibilities of how your life could turn out.
Then, you simply go back to the path you were on. Why is that? Sometimes, it’s because we have circumstances in life that we allow to serve as our obstacles that come between us and our dreams.
You can achieve anything you want, regardless of what you’ve been through, are going through, or may face in the future. All you need is a new perspective and the willingness to face the situation and work on your goals in spite of it.
In time, working through these obstacles becomes second nature and you won’t bat an eye when and if something occurs that hinders most people. To you, it will be something you simply navigate around.
But it takes practice and it’s not a comfortable thing to do. As long as you know that going in, it makes it a bit easier to endure the discomfort as you educate yourself on how to handle the difficult circumstances.
Chapter 1: Five Ingredients for Success in Work and Life
If you want to find success in work and in life, there are five things that are essential to achieving that. When you have a strong sense of who you are, it’s easier to accomplish goals that you set for yourself or to make changes in your life.
Unwavering Sense of Self-Worth
When you have self-worth it means that you’re aware of what your value is. You want to have an unwavering sense of self-worth because it will help you not base how you feel about yourself on what you did or didn’t accomplished.
You don’t want your self-worth connected to what other people think of you or what they say either. For example, some people don’t think they’re worthy of love unless someone else says they are.
You must have your sense of self-worth firmly established in the positive aspects that you know to be true about yourself and not in things in your past or even in things you hope to accomplish.
If you look to external things to determine your self-worth, it will change as the external changes. Establish self-worth by making sure you use positive self-affirmations during daily pep talks.
Identify your strengths.
Accept your accomplishments for what they are as well as the praise from other people for what you have done. Don’t entertain negativity about yourself from yourself or from others.
Value yourself as you are. This will help you to have a rock solid sense of self-worth that won’t be shaken whatever you strive for.
Commitment to Work Past Obstacles
When you want to achieve something, at some point you’re going to be faced with obstacles. Something will get in your way and block your path. If you want to find success in your endeavors, then you need to make a commitment that you’ll work past whatever it is that tries to stop you.
One way to make such a commitment is by having a vision. A vision inspires you and helps you grow. It also helps you to stay focused through setbacks or emotional struggles with things like discouragement or doubt.
Your vision should define exactly what you want to achieve and specify any particular changes that you’d like to make. A vision helps bring you back when you veer off course.
It allows you to determine your achievements based on the milestones you reach on the journey. Plus, having a vision gives you clarity with your goals, the action steps you take and even your obstacles to help you make choices that will lead you to the desired outcome.
When you have a vision, it allows you to see past your current circumstances, which is helpful when you do run into roadblocks. A vision can help keep you on track with forward momentum when you feel like you want to quit.
