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- Herausgeber: Jessie Addison
- Kategorie: Ratgeber
- Sprache: Englisch
- Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2021
Oh, I will never forget that heart-breaking experience of mine, as a young guy in love, back then in college.
There was this pretty girl I did everything to impress. I would buy her chocolate, flowers, expensive jewelry, and other gift items with all the money I took time to save up, just to convince her to be my girlfriend.
I was desperate to prove to her that I would make a good boyfriend if only she would say 'yes' to me.
Well, it all turned out to be a huge mistake because she ended up falling in love with another guy; A guy who didn't care much about her.
This was the first time it dawned on me that the dating world is not a fair place for the 'nice guy.'
Now, here is the point!
This other guy got my 'supposed girlfriend' not because he was more handsome than me, not because he gave her more money or gift items than I did; In fact, I later learned she was the one who was even giving him gifts and money.
What then did he do that I didn't do?
HE PLAYED BY THE RULES OF THE GAME…
Now, pay attention to this, my friend!
When you shower gifts and money on a girl who you intend to date, you make her feel like a precious treasure that you are willing to do anything to please, and for this reason, she would likely not feel any attraction for you because she starts seeing herself as a girl that's too good for you.
As the saying goes;
"if you treat a lady like a celebrity, she will treat you like a common fan".
However, if you've been making this mistake, worry no more; because it's about to come to an end. It's time to stop being a 'nice guy' and start playing according to the rules.
This book is all you need to make that happen…
This book will lead you by the hand and take you through the rules of attraction that you need to command the affection and respect of any girl you wish to date, irrespective of how broke or ugly you think you are.
In this book, you will discover:
How to Make Her Find You Attractive
How to Make Her Respect and Cherish You
How to Make Her Run After You
How to Make Her Obsessed With You
How to Make Her Fall Madly in Love With You
And So Much More...
Get this book right now and turn the table around in your favor...
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This is Why She is Not in Love with You
Mel Robinson
Copyright ©
Mel Robinson
© 2022 United Kingdom
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or modified in any form, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.
Table of Contents
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Introduction | Trying Too Hard to Make Her Yours is a Huge Mistake
Chapter One | You Get Her Attracted to You When You Make Yourself Attractive
Chapter Two | Poor Personal Hygiene Won’t Make Love and Attraction Happen
Chapter Three | Why She Doesn't Love You and How You Can Change That
Chapter Four | Why Nice Guys Hardly Get The Good Girls
Chapter Five | She Treats You Like a common Fan When You Worship Her Like a Super-Star Celebrity
Chapter Six | You Earn Her Affection and Respect When You Treat Her Like an Ordinary Girl
Chapter Seven | She Takes You For Granted When You Are Too Predictable and Available
Chapter Eight | Confidence is a Vital Factor in Creating Attraction
Chapter Nine | Always Have the Abundance Mindset
Chapter Ten | Psychological Techniques that will Make Her Love You More
Conclusion
Dedication
I dedicate this book to my lovely family and every one out there that crave for a happy and fruitful Living.
Introduction
Trying Too Hard to Make Her Yours is a Huge Mistake
A lot of guys still hold on to the erroneous belief that if they go all out to chase after a girl, she would see how serious they are and then agree to date them.
They would say to themselves, “If only I can try harder to convince her of how much I love her, she would know how serious I am and fall in love with me”. No, it doesn’t work that way.
If you’ve been doing this, it is probably the reason she is not falling for you. You express a strong sign of desperation when you try too hard to make a girl become your girlfriend.
When you become desperate about making a particular girl become your girlfriend, you show her that there’s nothing much going on in your life. You show her that there is a void in your life and all of that will repel her. Have you ever wondered why you don’t seem to get those things you chase after desperately?
It is simply because when you become desperate about getting something, you create a kind of energy that repels those things from you. The same thing happens when you get desperate about making a particular lady become your girlfriend.
Someone rightly said and I quote “The easiest way to get a girlfriend is to act like you don’t need one”. Believe it or not, this works like magic. Permit me to explain this further with my personal experience.
There was this girl in my neighborhood I was interested in at the time. One day I walked up to her and asked her to be my girlfriend. Of course, she turned me down and walked away. I was too inexperienced to know that I was not supposed to hit the nail on the head as I did with her. I learned my lesson.
But fortunately, this was what I did right. I walked away without trying hard to make her reconsider her decision. I just moved on with other important things in my life and forgot about her completely.
Guess what happened two weeks later!
She came to me and told me that she had given a second thought to what I said and she is ready for us to date.
Wow! This blew my mind. That was a big lesson for me.
Ladies easily fall for guys who are not desperate about getting them. Ladies show more respect to the guy who shows he doesn’t want her, than for the guy who is rolling on the ground to get her. That is how they are wired. That is their psychology.
The right step to take
When you approach a girl, do not ask her to be your girlfriend right away. If you do that, she will raise her to guard against you.
What you need to do is simply keep things at a neutral, friendship level at the beginning.
When you are approaching a girl for the first time, do it as you would, a guy like you. Do so with a plain mind and with a relaxed intention.
You don’t have to reveal your intention of wanting her to be your girlfriend in the first instance. All you need to do in this first episode is to create some sort of familiarity and nothing more.
Even though starting a conversation by praising a lady’s beauty sometimes works, it is not the best way in starting a conversation with a lady.
If you start by praising her beauty, you end up revealing your intentions and she will raise her defense immediately. She might not give you the attention you need.
Instead of praising her butt, boobs, or beauty, you can say “nice dress” or nice shoes.
Your best chance of getting a girl is to give her the impression that you can do without her.
The way to do that is to simply let her go if she doesn’t show you any sign she is interested in you.
Do not act like you need a girlfriend
After getting a girl’s number, create some level of rapport with her and then set up a date with her. Go on several dates with her week after week until she becomes comfortable enough to visit you.
Despite all of that, do not ask her to be your girlfriend; just keep things neutral with her. This will get her confused because she expects that by now you would have asked her out already. This will make her start doubting herself like:
“Could it be that he doesn’t find me attractive”?
“Am I not pretty enough for him”? or
“Why is he not asking me out”?
Before you know it she will begin to see you as a different kind of guy, who is not desperate about getting her. This will make her start seeing you as the price and then she will begin to fall for you. She will then be the one trying to get you instead.
This is when she starts asking you questions like:
“Am I not good enough for you”?
