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Finding a good man as a woman is not so easy nowadays! Many women are spoilt for choice and have to decide which values are most important to them in their future partner.In this guidebook, as a relationship coach, I go into certain rules of conduct that make the search for a partner and also the resulting relationship easier in the long run. We discuss the advantages and disadvantages of online/offline dating and what you should pay attention to.
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Dating & Relationship
How to find the perfect man as a woman
Introduction:
Love is healthy, beautiful and - perhaps most importantly - liberating. All these things are part of the need for love.
Manipulation or exploitation of power imbalances are not part of healthy relationships based on the pillars of vulnerability and interdependence. Simply put, healthy love is lustful. There is nothing wrong with wanting to love and be loved by your male partner.
If you like or are interested in someone, say it openly. This will elicit a reaction from the other person based on his personal interest in you. Allow him to decide if he is interested or not, the decision is not yours and your possibly wrong assumptions.
Below I'll give you some tips on how to meet men, strategies on how to make men fall in love with you, and most importantly, how to build a healthy relationship based on my personal experiences.
The first step is to find the right partner.
Who is the right person for me? This is the central question and a very personal decision that depends on each individual. Many people may have different views about who is the right partner, but I will give you my view of things.
I can tell the difference between a good person and a bad person by a number of criteria.
Some criteria you should consider when choosing the right man are:
Pay attention:
The most outstanding value I can wish for is his attention, which he gives me and puts me above everything else.
Paying attention to each other allows the relationship to flourish, promotes closeness and prevents the distance that can develop in long-term partnerships.
Common interests:
Be considerate of everything,
My partner and I are more likely to have a healthy relationship if we share similar interests to some extent.
We will take an interest in each other, think alike, have common passions, engage in unparalleled activities and ultimately connect.
We will also argue less because we agree on how we want to invest our time and money.
Couples who share common interests have a better life in many ways
He is a good listener:
Listening creates trust and demonstrates attention, compassion and respect.
But listening means more than just listening.
All I want from my relationship is for him to give me all his undivided attention and put his own plans and desires on the back burner.
Having a conversation without being interrupted is a liberating experience for many people.
Acceptance:
Acceptance is the most important aspect you should consider when choosing a man.
In a relationship, acceptance is crucial.
It has the potential to turn a good relationship into a bad one.
Acceptance means that my partner accepts me as I am without demanding that I change in terms of personality traits or whatever, and that I can talk to him about my fears without fear of being judged or rejected.
Moreover, my partner should not hold me back, but rather encourage me to pursue my goals.
