Journaling For Dummies E-Book

Amber Lea Starfire

• Herausgeber: John Wiley & Sons
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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2022

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Start journaling for the first time or get creative inspiration for your next journal Journaling For Dummies will introduce you to the abundance of excellent reasons to start putting pen to paper. Take some time to relax, get to know yourself better, cope with stress and anxiety, get organized, create something that outlasts you--plus, it's a cheap form of psychotherapy. This book is a comprehensive overview of the most widely used types of journaling. Learn which tools and supplies you'll need to get started and get tips on how to make writing into a habit you'll keep. * Begin journaling for fun, for your mental health, or to unleash your creativity * Discover new techniques and ways to deepen your existing journaling practice * Practice journaling on impactful topics with idea-generating prompts * Attend to your emotional needs, boost your mood, and achieve your goals Starting your first journal? Longtime journaling veteran looking for inspiration? Journaling For Dummies is the friendly guide for you.

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Table of Contents

Cover

Title Page

Copyright

Introduction

About This Book

Foolish Assumptions

Icons Used in This Book

Beyond the Book

Where to Go from Here

Part 1: Getting Started with Journaling

Chapter 1: Exploring Life with Journaling

Defining Journaling

Taking First Steps Toward Journaling Success

Introducing the Many Ways You Can Journal

Trying Your Hand at Journaling

Chapter 2: Discovering the Many Benefits of Journaling

Enhancing Your Well-Being

Supercharging Inspiration and Achievement

Improving Your Life

Chapter 3: Preparing for Your Journaling Practice

Exploring Your Reasons for Journaling

Setting Realistic Expectations for Your Journaling Practice

Choosing Your Main Medium

Gathering Your Tools

Preparing Your Journaling Space

Chapter 4: Establishing Your Practice

Making Time for Journaling

Setting Boundaries

Overcoming Fear and Other Obstacles to Journaling

Putting Your Seat in the Seat

Setting the Mood

Writing Your Plan

Part 2: Exploring Popular Journaling Techniques

Chapter 5: Journaling for Reflection

Exploring Life with Reflective Journaling

Getting Started with Reflective Journaling

Writing Through Time

Deepening Reflection to Uncover Gold

Chapter 6: Focusing on the Present: Mindful Journaling

Reaping the Benefits of Mindful Journaling

Centering Yourself: The Importance of Being Present

Exploring Mindfulness and How to Become More Aware

Centering on the Moment

Putting Mindful Journaling in Play

Chapter 7: Getting Organized with a Bullet Journal

Getting Acquainted with Bullet Journaling Benefits

Exploring Your Reasons for Bullet Journaling

Starting a Bullet Journal

Practicing the Bullet Method Over Time

Exploring Other Ways to Use Bullet Journaling

Chapter 8: Expressing Yourself through Creative Journaling

Unlocking Your Creativity

Making Your Own Rules

Collecting Creative Journaling Tools and Materials

Practicing Creative Journaling Methods

Chapter 9: Improving Life with Gratitude Journaling

Defining What Gratitude Means to You

Giving Thanks: Experiencing the Benefits of Gratitude

Gaining a Deeper Understanding of Gratitude

Practicing Simple Gratitude

Practicing Uncommon Gratitude

Part 3: Journaling Your Way to Health and Happiness

Chapter 10: Healing Emotional Wounds

Assessing Your Readiness to Journal About Trauma

Approaching Trauma Indirectly

Finding Meaning in Your Pain

Writing Through Pain

Releasing Your Pain

Loving Yourself

Chapter 11: Unleashing Your Creativity

Celebrating Your Creative Traits

Picturing Your Creative Side through Drawing

Playing with Ideas: Stimulating Your Imagination

Pushing Limits: Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone

Finding Inspiration from Within

Chapter 12: Achieving Success

Deciding What Success Means for You

Exploring Your Core Beliefs about Success

Establishing Your Goals

Creating Your Plan of Action

Get Moving! Putting Your Action Plan into Action

Chapter 13: Exploring Spirituality

Defining What Spirituality Means for You

Focusing on Spiritual Connection

Journaling for Spiritual Growth

Developing Spiritual Mission and Purpose Statements

Creating a Spiritual Journal

Chapter 14: Navigating Grief

Identifying Your Loss

Acknowledging and Validating Your Feelings

Allowing Self-Compassion

Having a Conversation with Grief

Expressing Grief Safely

Dealing with Numbness

Taking Action Against Loneliness

Getting Past Guilt

Journaling After Losing Someone You Love

Chapter 15: Transforming Relationships

Prioritizing Your Relationship with Yourself

For Better or Worse: Examining Your Relationships with Others

Finding Empathy

Enhancing Romantic Partnerships

Improving Family Relationships

Deepening Friendships

Part 4: The Part of Tens

Chapter 16: Ten Tips to Maintain a Vibrant Journaling Practice

Stay True to Your Purpose

See Yourself as a Journal Writer

Start Small

Make It Easy

Be Flexible

Be Honest

Use Journaling Prompts

Change Things Up

Pair Up with a Writing Partner

Make it Fun

Chapter 17: Ten Ways to Generate Inspiring Journaling Prompts

Use Current Events

Keep Lists

Browse Blogs and Friends’ Social Media Posts

Use Images

Pick a Word or Phrase from a Book

Explore Extremes

Examine Your Values

Picture the Impossible

Start with “What if?”

When All Else Fails: Google

journaling prompts

Index

About the Author

Connect with Dummies

End User License Agreement

List of Tables

Chapter 3

TABLE 3-1 How Often You Want to Journal

List of Illustrations

Chapter 7

FIGURE 7-1: Pages of a Bullet Journal that have a dot-grid.

FIGURE 7-2: Index pages that contain entries.

FIGURE 7-3: The first two pages of a future log.

FIGURE 7-4: Example of a monthly log spread.

FIGURE 7-5: An example of a completed daily log.

FIGURE 7-6: Indicate the page number in your index when continuing a collection...

FIGURE 7-7: An example of a simple habit tracker.

Chapter 8

FIGURE 8-1: Writing in and around shapes.

FIGURE 8-2: Doodling on a creative journal page.

FIGURE 8-3: An example of the “Coloring outside the lines” exercise using crayo...

Chapter 10

FIGURE 10-1: A creative cluster starting with the word “confusion.”

FIGURE 10-2: Example of a weekly habit tracker.

Chapter 11

FIGURE 11-1: Example entry for identifying and applying a creative trait.

FIGURE 11-2: A continuous line drawing of a chicken, including detail of one wi...

FIGURE 11-3: Hands in the act of clasping, with fingers interlaced.

Chapter 12

FIGURE 12-1: Your Life Area Success Chart.

FIGURE 12-2: An example completed Life Area Success Chart.

Chapter 13

FIGURE 13-1: A mission statement example, showing the different parts of the st...

FIGURE 13-2: A purpose statement using the [

what

] by [

mission

] format.

Guide

Cover

Title Page

Copyright

Table of Contents

Begin Reading

Index

About the Author

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Introduction

You’ve heard it said that life is a journey — amazingly beautiful at times, and yet also complicated and messy. Along this journey, you experience myriad emotions, ranging from despair to joy, and have to deal with countless decision points, from trivial to life-changing. No one is exempt from life’s challenges, and everyone needs help navigating the confusing events, responses, relationships, and choices that are simply part of being human.

Fortunately, journaling is a simple and effective tool that helps you address all of life’s issues. Moreover, it’s inexpensive and freely available to everyone — and that includes you.

This book can show you what you need to begin and maintain a journal, as well as how to use your journal to improve your life. The techniques and guidance provided in these pages can help you process and make meaning of significant life events, enhance self-awareness, identify ineffective or harmful habits and behaviors, build gratitude, establish a positive outlook on life, become better organized, solve difficult problems, and achieve your most important goals. That list of results may seem like a lot to promise, yet journaling has helped tens of thousands of people achieve these positive outcomes.

In these pages, you can discover how to practice journaling in ways that work best for you, so that you can continue to be engaged and maintain your journaling routines for years to come. While you grow in your knowledge and expand your journaling methods, you can expect to reap many of its benefits, ultimately attaining a greater sense of well-being and purpose.

About This Book

I wrote Journaling For Dummies with both beginners and experienced journal writers in mind.

If you’re a beginner, this book provides you with all the information that you need to figure out if and how journaling can work for you, how to get started, and the tools you need.

If you’ve journaled before and want to reignite or deepen your practice, Journaling For Dummies provides a rich resource that offers a variety of journaling techniques, prompts, and inspirational ideas.

To make the information accessible, I’ve divided the book into four parts:

Part

1

: Getting Started with Journaling:

Foundational information that you need to understand what journaling can do for you, how to get started, and how to fit it into your life.

Part

2

: Exploring Popular Journaling Techniques:

Takes a deep dive into five different methods — reflective, mindful, Bullet, creative, and gratitude journaling.

Part

3

: Journaling Your Way to Health and Happiness:

Shows you how to apply the different methods for specific purposes, including healing emotional trauma, improving relationships, becoming more creative, achieving your goals, exploring your spirituality, and journeying through grief.

Part

4

: The Part of Tens:

Offers tips to maintain a robust journaling practice and ways to generate your own journaling prompts.

Whatever your knowledge and experience level, you can find what you need in Journaling For Dummies to begin and develop your journaling practice. Feel free to work your way through the content in any order you choose — skip around according to your interest, or start at the beginning and work your way through all the techniques and topics.

Foolish Assumptions

In writing this book, I made a few assumptions about who you are and why you opened these pages:

You’ve either heard about journaling or tried it before, and you think it could help you. Or you already journal on a regular basis and are looking for ways to deepen your practice.

You’re interested in discovering more about yourself, your inner workings, and why you respond the way you do in relationships and life events.

You might feel a little shy or intimidated about expressing your inner feelings and thoughts — or maybe you’ve unsuccessfully tried journaling in the past — and you’re looking for guidance on ways to get started and maintain a fulfilling practice.

You want to have more clarity and improve the quality of your decisions.

You want to improve your mental, emotional, and physical health and your relationships.

Icons Used in This Book

Throughout this book, icons in the margins highlight certain types of valuable information that call for your attention. Here are the icons you encounter and a brief description of each.

The Tip icon marks information that can help you make decisions about how you want to approach certain topics or prompts more easily; they might also provide inspirational variations of prompts.

Remember icons mark information that’s especially important to know. To identify the most important information in each chapter, just skim through these icons.

The Warning icon tells you to be careful. It marks important information that can help you navigate difficult journaling topics and issues in safe ways.

Beyond the Book

In addition to the abundance of information and guidance related to journaling that I provide in this book, you get access to even more help and information online at Dummies.com. Check out this book’s online Cheat Sheet. Just go to www.dummies.com and search for Journaling For Dummies Cheat Sheet.

Where to Go from Here

Although you don’t need to go through Journaling For Dummies in any particular order, for best results, ask yourself, “What am I looking to gain by journaling?” The answer to this question can guide you to the chapters and topics that best meet your needs.

That said, I do have a few recommendations about how to approach the content in this book:

For beginners:

If you’ve never journaled before, I highly recommend going through

Part 1

first. Then, select a method in

Part 2

that appeals to you and give it a try.

If you want to know more about journaling’s benefits, be sure to go through

Chapter 2

.

If you have concerns or fears about journaling, see

Chapter 4

for how to overcome your fear.

If you’ve attempted journaling before and had difficulty making it a regular part of your life, I suggest looking at

Chapter 3

and

Chapter 4

before diving into specific journaling methods or topics.

For experienced journal writers:

If you’re looking to expand or deepen your journaling, I recommend trying a new method. Check out the different ways to journal in Part 2. Then, challenge yourself to begin something completely different.

For example, if you’ve only used the written word to journal, try creative journaling, which incorporates drawing and other visual journaling methods (see Chapter 8).

You may also find a topic in

Part 3

that can inspire you to new insights.

Part 1

Getting Started with Journaling

IN THIS PART …

Discover what journaling can do for you, what you need to get started, and how to integrate a journaling practice into your life.

Examine the many benefits of journaling and how to overcome any obstacles that might prevent you from journaling successfully.

Create a foundation for an enduring practice by identifying your motivations, deciding how you want to journal, gathering your tools, and setting up your writing space.

Take the steps you need to establish your journaling practice.

Chapter 1

Exploring Life with Journaling

IN THIS CHAPTER

Figuring out what journaling actually is

Setting yourself up for journaling success

Considering all the different ways to journal

Giving journaling a go

Discovering the world of journal writing — also known as journaling — is to find, all at once, unlimited and creative personal expression; a way of exploring, investigating, and making meaning of life; and a self-help tool for increased self-knowledge and confidence.

With a regular journal-writing practice, you can create a safe space in which to express your deepest fears and hopes, disappointments and satisfactions, heartaches and joys. By writing down your feelings, thoughts, attitudes, and beliefs, you can discover behavioral patterns, become more self-aware, and improve your ability to learn from and build on significant life events.

Exploring the variety of journal-writing approaches in this book can help you find the methods that work best for you and provide you with the most meaningful benefits. And you can develop and deepen your journaling experience by practicing it on a regular basis, on a schedule and duration that fits your unique lifestyle.

In this chapter, I provide an overview of what journaling is and isn’t as well as some of the different ways to approach journaling to help determine which journaling practice is a good fit for you and your lifestyle.

Defining Journaling

Journaling is the deeply personal practice of writing for personal development. It uses a variety of methods for recording life events, processing thoughts and emotions, increasing self-awareness and understanding, and achieving success through improved organization systems.

Journaling is similar to the once-commonplace practice of keeping a diary — a simple record of daily events. But with journaling, you take a deeper look at your life experience.

Whether you’re brand new to journaling or have journaled in the past, you may have a few preconceptions about journal writing that could limit your approach to it. When you think about beginning or resuming a journaling practice, understanding what journaling is and isn’t can help you approach journaling with a willingness to experiment and find a method that works best for you.

Appreciating what journaling is

At its essence, journaling is a self-help tool that is

Open-ended and flexible

Personal and private (not designed for publication)

A place to freely express feelings and thoughts, and to explore any topic of interest

Designed to fit your lifestyle and schedule

Relaxing and enjoyable

Beneficial for mental, emotional, and physical health

Used alone or in combination with professional psychological/mental health counseling and other services

Recognizing what journaling isn’t

Because journaling can be adapted in unique ways for each person, it’s not a one-size-fits-all form of exploring life’s meaning and experiences. Here are a few other things that journaling is not meant to be or do.

Not a substitute for professional psychological or mental health services if you want or need help that a professional can provide.

Not rule-based or rigid.

Not focused on writing craft such as grammar, spelling, punctuation — or even full sentences. As long as you understand what you write, that’s all that matters.

Not limited to writing — it may also include drawing, doodling, and other visual art forms.

Taking First Steps Toward Journaling Success

You may be wondering if journaling can work for you, and you probably have a few of the following questions: Will I enjoy writing? Will I be able to fit it into my schedule? Will it help me deal with some of the situations I’m experiencing?

Let me assure you that journaling is so flexible and effective that it works for just about everyone. The key to success is finding a method (or methods) and schedule that fit your lifestyle and feels comfortable.

To decide whether journaling is a good fit for you, it helps to understand your preferred communication style and your underlying reasons for considering journaling.

Determining your preferred communication style

Are you the sort of person who likes to talk out your problems with a close friend or confidante? Do you prefer reading and writing to watching videos? Do you enjoy working with your hands, perhaps with arts and crafts, or creating collages or scrapbooks? Do you practice or have you explored other self-help practices, such as mindfulness? Do you seek to better understand yourself?

If you answered yes to at least one of these questions, you likely can find journaling a natural extension of the ways in which you like to communicate and express yourself.

If you answered no to all of the questions, then journaling might not come naturally to you. That doesn’t mean it’s not for you, but you might have to work a little harder to find a method that feels natural and comfortable. If journaling doesn’t come naturally, I recommend reviewing the different methods presented in this book and trying those that appeal to you.

Understanding your motivations

Why do you want to journal?

Although journaling has many benefits, what do you personally hope to gain from it? Answering this question and understanding what’s drawing you to the idea of journaling can help you feel confident about your reasons for beginning or resuming a journaling practice.

For example, if you’re interested in journaling because you want a safe place to express your most personal and private thoughts and feelings, that’s a clear indication that journaling can benefit you.

On the other hand, if you’re interested in journaling solely because someone told you that you should journal, then your motivation is externally based and may not be strong enough to carry you through the learning curve. In this case, answer the question: Why do you want to journal?

YOU’RE IN GOOD COMPANY: FAMOUS JOURNAL WRITERS

The practice of keeping a diary or journal is as ancient as writing itself. Some of the oldest discovered travel journals and writing that contain personal experience and inner reflections were created as early as 900 CE.

Here’s a list of a few history-making journal keepers you might recognize:

Meriwether Lewis, explorer (of Lewis and Clark)John Adams, second president of the United StatesWolfgang Amadeus Mozart, composerCharles Darwin, naturalistCharlotte Brontë, novelistHenry David Thoreau, writerVincent Van Gogh, artistBeatrix Potter, writer and illustratorMarie Curie, physicist and chemistVirginia Woolf, writerCarl Jung, psychiatrist and psychotherapistAnne Frank, diaristFrida Kahlo, artist

Still not sure? Browse the chapter titles and subjects in this book’s Table of Contents, noting which ones appeal most to you or draw you in. That point of reference should help define what you’re looking for in a journaling practice.

Introducing the Many Ways You Can Journal

Because journaling is unique to each person, there’s no one right way to keep a journal. That said, there are some commonly used techniques and some techniques that have specific purposes or benefits. The chapters in Part 2 focus on particular methods, and the chapters in Part 3 focus on the reasons and benefits of journaling.

Writing without structure

The most common way to journal is to simply open your notebook (or digital app) and write or draw whatever is in your mind, whenever and for as long as you need. There’s no specific format for filling a page. This way of journaling is often referred to as free-writing.

Free-writing (unstructured journaling) allows you to be in the moment with your thoughts and feelings, and to take a stream-of-consciousness approach to your journal.

Unstructured journal entries — and, in fact, entire journals — tend to meander across numerous time periods, topics, and situations. They can include prose, poems, sketches, doodles, and lists.

One drawback to unstructured journaling is that it can get boring after a while, especially if you tend to circle around the same topics over and over without gaining self-knowledge or increased understanding in the process. In this case, try another journaling method for a while (you can choose from the options in Part 2), just to mix things up.

Using writing prompts

The second most common way to journal, after free-writing (see the preceding section), is to use writing prompts. Prompts are helpful when you’re not sure what you want to write about. And when you’re feeling uninspired, a prompt can help engage the mind and start the creative juices flowing.

I’m a big proponent of journaling prompts, and I provide a lot of them throughout this book. I recommend journaling prompts to help you jumpstart your writing, approach a sensitive topic in new ways, get out of a journaling rut, and break through fear or writing blocks. Prompts can also help you deepen your journaling practice and gain meaningful insights.

For best results, use prompts that interest you or generate an emotional response. You’re not likely to write authentically or deeply in response to a journaling prompt that you’re not engaged with.

Making lists and other structured forms

Lists and other highly structured forms of journaling, such as the Bullet Journal method (see Chapter 7), appeal to busy people who don’t want to spend a lot of time writing but still want a way to document important events, keep track of tasks, and use shorthand to record emotional responses and thoughts.

Using a list structure is easy and fast, and it doesn’t typically take a lot of mental or emotional energy. And it can still provide many of the benefits of journaling, such as enhancing self-awareness and identifying harmful or ineffective habits and behavior patterns.

You can use lists for many purposes: generating ideas, tracking tasks, identifying traits or attributes of people and objects, word associations, and so on.

Other structured journaling forms may include tables for habit tracking and graphs to track progress toward goals.

Drawing on your creative side

It’s important to remember that journaling isn’t limited to writing. In fact, some of the most famous journal keepers (think Leonardo Da Vinci or Frida Kahlo) used their journals to sketch out ideas for inventions, sculpture, paintings, or scientific concepts.

While you begin or expand your journaling practice, try adding different forms of expression to your pages. You might be surprised by the richness and depth of your multimedia journal entries.

Visual poems, paintings, collages, and ink drawings — with or without writing accompanying them — are all perfectly at home in a journal.

Journaling for specific purposes

Journals are often kept for dedicated purposes. For example, you can have a journal for cooking and recipes, another for inspirational ideas, and another for work projects. Whether you choose to keep one journal that contains all topics or keep a separate journal for each topic is completely up to you. Over time, depending on your lifestyle and needs, you can develop a journal-keeping system that works for you.

One common dedicated type of journal is a gratitude journal. This type of journal is used solely as a place to record things that you’re grateful for. You can find out more about gratitude journaling in Chapter 9.

Trying Your Hand at Journaling

If you’re new to journaling or just coming back to the practice after a hiatus, you might be wondering which journaling methods can work for you. Before jumping into any of the more detailed chapters on these approaches to journaling, why not give one a try?

Do This

Select one of the following prompts that most appeals to you and respond to it in the space provided. I’ve included prompts for structured and unstructured free-writing, list making, drawing, and gratitude.

Write the first thought that comes to your mind. Keep writing whatever occurs to you.

This prompt encourages unstructured, associative free-writing. If you enjoy writing to this type of prompt, you might want to check out Mindfulness Journaling, covered in Chapter 6.

Make a list of the things you want to remember about today. You can make this a simple list, or you can add additional details or notes for each item, such as why it’s important or what you want to remember about it.

This way of journaling is similar to what you might write in your daily log in a Bullet Journal. To find out more about this method, turn to Chapter 7.

Write about an event (large or small) that occurred recently. Describe what happened, who else was involved, and what your emotional response to it was. What about this event sticks with you the most?

This Reflective Journaling prompt helps you begin to think about a life experience and consider its implications or meaning for you. You can take a deep dive into Reflective Journaling in Chapter 2.

Select an object in your home or office that’s meaningful to you. Write about the object and why it’s important. Include a sketch of the object.

Including drawing and other visual art is an example of Creative Journaling. If this prompt speaks to you, check out Chapter 8.

Write down ten things and/or people you’re grateful to have in your life today.

This prompt is an example of a simple Gratitude Journaling technique. If this kind of journaling appeals to you, flip to Chapter 9 for more information about keeping a gratitude journal.

Chapter 2

Discovering the Many Benefits of Journaling

IN THIS CHAPTER

Boosting health through journaling

Developing inspiration and managing projects

Exploring the ways journaling can enrich your life

The reason that so many people are drawn to journaling — and likely one of the reasons you’re reading this book — is because journaling is so very beneficial and in so many ways. These benefits have been proven and documented many times, through decades of research.

From school children just learning to write to elderly adults, journaling has been shown to improve emotional, mental, and physical health. It can unleash creativity and enhance productivity. It’s all in the How and the Why you use it.

In this chapter, I examine those benefits and provide an overview of the many reasons and ways to use journaling to gain the most from it. I also talk about some of the studies that have been conducted, but don’t worry, I’m not going to bore you with a bunch of statistics. I just want you to know that the benefits outlined in this chapter aren’t the stuff of folklore — they’re real and backed by research.

Enhancing Your Well-Being

People who journal regularly report experiencing an enhanced sense of overall well-being. Moreover, many have gained tangible improvements to their emotional, mental, and physical health. In this section, I give an overview of how journaling can improve your health in each of these areas.

Emotional and mental health

The area that has been studied the most when it comes to journaling is emotional and mental health. You’ve probably heard that journaling is an inexpensive form of psychotherapy. Most sayings contain a seed of truth; in this case, the seed has grown into a tree.

Studies conducted in clinical and educational settings since the 1960s have shown the following mental and emotional effects of journaling:

Reduces stress and anxiety

Boosts feelings of well-being

Supports self-love and acceptance

Improves the ability to cope with grief, loss, and illness

Increases mental clarity

I’m not saying that journaling should replace counseling or psychotherapy. Professional therapeutic services have benefits that journaling can’t provide. And it would be irresponsible of me to suggest otherwise. In fact, when combined with conventional therapy, journaling has been shown to increase the effectiveness of the therapy.

Counseling and psychotherapy both focus on communicating thoughts and feelings in a safe environment. The counselor or therapist acts as a mirror and resource for the person being counseled. Like a mirror, they reflect your own words and emotions back to you so that you can see them more objectively. As a resource, they can provide guidance, wisdom, and access to additional resources.

Journaling works in the same way that counseling does. It gives you a safe space to communicate your deepest thoughts and emotions. It acts like a mirror, reflecting back to you, in your own words, your feelings, thoughts, attitudes, beliefs, and behavioral patterns. When approached with curiosity and an open mind, journaling can help you become more self-aware and increase your ability to process and make meaning of life.

Journaling also helps you tap into your inner wisdom, your innate guidance — that inner-self who knows what you really need and want and, when listened to, can help you shift your well-being in a positive direction.

Physical health

Improved mental health may be reason enough to journal, but did you know that journaling has also been shown to benefit physical health?

Dr. Ira Progoff, one of the first psychologists to study and document the effects of journaling, found that in addition to decreasing stress, anxiety, and fear, journal writing for just 15 to 20 minutes, three to five times a week, was correlated with increasing immune system function and decreasing blood pressure. The journal writers in the study went to the doctor less often and just felt better overall.

A 2017 study published in Psychosomatic Medicine: Journal of Biobehavioral Medicine (Elsevier) found that those who kept journals during divorce had lower heart rates and higher heart rate variability — both indicators of good health. We can extrapolate from this that journaling could have the same benefits during any stressful loss or life transition.

Other studies have shown that journaling improves overall memory function by enhancing the brain’s ability to intake, process, and retrieve information. And because of its positive effects on thinking, journaling has been used in educational settings to help students understand how to think more logically and analytically.

Supercharging Inspiration and Achievement

Because journaling is a safe and private activity, and lends itself well to delving into literally any topic or personal characteristic, it’s an excellent tool for exploring creative inspiration, practicing creative skills, and finding creative solutions to any kind of problem.

Inspirational ideas have a tendency to blossom into projects. It follows that journaling is a natural (and effective) way to develop and manage your project-related goals and tasks.

In this section, I discuss some of the ways your journal can help you power up your creative inspiration and achieve more in your life.

Creativity

Have you ever awakened from a dream inspired by a groundbreaking idea? Or had a brilliant solution to a problem while performing a routine task such as doing the dishes or taking a shower? Creative ideas come to us at all times of the day and night — often when we’re thinking about something else entirely.

In addition to using words to capture feelings and ideas, you can use your journal as a sketchbook to create mind maps, detail visual ideas, and express emotions through forms and colors. You can also use it to record those inspired dreams.

Your journal is a place to capture ideas when they happen and then explore them in more depth later, when you have time. Because it encourages capturing ideas and self-reflection, journaling can help you with your creative process, whether your art is painting, music, or writing itself.

One of your journal’s greatest gifts is that it can be messy and unformed, and that’s okay. In your journal, you can develop ideas privately, without the burden of having to “make something good.” Your journal gives you a place to practice without pressure. Because of its judgement-free nature, your journal can help you build confidence in your craft, as well as create a rich resource of ideas that you can come back to over and over again.

If you’re interested in journaling to enhance your creativity, Chapter 8 and Chapter 11 each take a deeper dive into the creative side of journaling.

ARTISTS WHO JOURNALED THEIR CREATIVE INSPIRATION

Artists have long used journals as a place to try out and develop their ideas. Along with writing about their intimate daily lives and artistic processes, they sketched and diagrammed in their journal pages to try out new concepts. Here are four artists whose journals were used to develop their inspiration and artistic vision:

Leonardo da Vinci, Renaissance artist, used his journals to sketch extensive diagrams, drawings, and notes related to his inventions and works of art, as well as entries on topics ranging from astronomy to everyday tasks.Frida Kahlo, Mexican painter, explored her life and art, including her fears and dreams, in her journals, employing a unique blend of colorful images and writing.Janice Lowry, American visual artist, filled her journals with small drawings, collages, and writing about her art, her daily life, and current events.Jack Whitten, American abstract expressionist, documented the progress of his artistic style along with his creative struggles in his journals, which he called his “studio notes.”

Productivity

Journaling can be an amazing tool for enhancing your efficiency and productivity. Your journal is a place to manage your projects, create goals, establish doable tasks and timelines, and track your progress. It works equally well for major or minor projects and for establishing new habits.

In Chapter 12 I talk about a variety of journaling techniques that can help you create, organize, and successfully achieve your goals.

Writing craft

If you like to write, and you dream of becoming a better writer, your journal is a wonderful playground in which to practice.

I think the biggest breakthrough for me as a writer — that moment I went from writer-wannabe to knowing I was a writer — came when I recognized that journaling was writing practice. And it was in my journal that I found my authentic writing voice.

Consider the following truths about your journal. It’s safe and private, and nothing you write is open to criticism. You can write from your heart, and your inner critic and editor — that voice in your head that’s constantly belittling your writing and telling you that you’re not a real writer — isn’t welcome. Your journal is a playground, and you can put together words however you want in this playground.

You don’t have to worry about spelling or punctuation, or whether your sentences flow coherently from one to the next. You can be as messy or neat as you want, and there’s no one to say otherwise.

For example, you can use your journal to

Brainstorm plots

Develop characters

Sketch a scene

Practice dialogue

Create poetry

Explore points of view

Piece together story ideas

Writing is writing, whether it’s in your journal or in text or e-mail. The more you write from your heart — which journaling encourages and helps you practice — the more authentic all your writing becomes.

Improving Your Life

While you begin your exploration and practice of journaling, keep in mind the many ways you can use it to improve your life. More than a simple repository of feelings, or a mind dump, journaling with purpose and intention can help you make important personal gains.

When you treat it like a diary, you can use your journal to document small and large events in your life. You can explore your reactions and thoughts about those events — or just life, in general — which can help you increase self-awareness.

Or you can use your journal as a place to write down all your confusing thoughts and emotions in order to gain perspective, better understand your triggers, and decide what’s truly important to you.

These are just two of the virtually unlimited ways that you can employ your journal, many of which you can read about in the following sections.

Recording events

An event is something that happens in a specific moment in time that creates an experience. An event can be planned or unplanned. It can involve interactions with other people, animals, or even objects.

Events can range from the mundane, such as receiving e-mails or making hair appointments, to the significant, such as weddings, accidents, or winning the lottery.

How many and what types of events you choose to write about in your journal is entirely up to you. Here are some things to consider when deciding which events to write about:

Day-to-day life:

Do you want to be able to review past months and years in order to gain perspective on the general flow of your life? If so, then keeping track of regular appointments, such as haircuts and when you got your car serviced, can be enlightening when you want to evaluate the time you’ve spent on these types of activities. And it can be useful to know how many times you visited doctors and other healthcare providers and for what reasons.

Emotional impact:

Do you intend to use your journal primarily to explore emotions and to make meaning of important events and relationships in your life? In this case, limiting your events to those that impact you emotionally makes the most sense.

Do you want to both keep track of everyday happenings and the bigger, life-impacting ones? There’s no reason you can’t do both.

Clarifying thoughts and feelings

You might want to start journaling in order to clarify the confusing thoughts and feelings that you have swirling around in you. Journaling is an amazing tool for making your thoughts and feelings more visible to you. The self-awareness and understanding you gain can give you the foundation needed to make significant and positive changes in your life.

Here are a few ways that journaling accomplishes this magic:

Slowing down:

Writing down your feelings forces you to slow down in order to articulate and describe them. This slower pace helps you better understand your emotions and the thoughts and belief systems behind them.

Changing your perspective:

Writing down conflicting thoughts helps you see things from different perspectives, which can inspire new insights and even help to resolve those conflicts.

Organizing:

Journaling aids in organizing your thinking. It supports you while you explore confusing situations to find clarity and purpose.

Living with purpose.

Writing about your strengths and passions helps you become more clear about your purpose. And a life lived with purpose is stronger and more satisfying.

Making decisions

Making sound decisions can be difficult, especially when you’re not clear on what you want or know the potential outcome of each direction you could take.

Journaling gives you a forum in which to explore needs, wants, priorities, and potential results of any decision you make.

Here are some of the reasons journaling can help you make better decisions:

Clarity:

Journaling is one of the best ways to gain clarity about your true, inner feelings about life choices. When you gain clarity about your feelings and thoughts, you make better decisions because you understand what’s truly important to you — and why it’s important.

Patterns:

When you write about decisions that you’ve made in the past and that you’re currently making in your life, you shed light on your decision-making patterns and results. This insight allows you to understand whether these patterns are serving you and consider trying different methods for making decisions.

Analysis:

You can include the research that you’ve done on the pros and cons of different options in your journal, along with your thoughts and reactions to what you’ve found.

Reflection: