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In every step of Rabbi Brian Lurie’s atypical journey through various professional paths and objectives, he has personified leadership, social justice, a love of Israel, and an ambitious yet down-to-earth approach to the evolving challenges of Jewish peoplehood in the 21st Century.
Throughout our friendship, I have been impressed with Brian’s entrepreneurship and deep integrity. He leads by the power of his example and by the soundness of his judgment. I have seen him fine-tune his social conscience and reach deeper into his moral compass, while remaining firmly rooted in the Jewish community’s organized framework, beloved and respected across the board. I have seen an introspective mensch who practices what he preaches and whose deep intelligence informs his charm; the charm complements his ideals, and the ideals produce his actions - and vice versa.
There is much to learn from Brian’s rich experience and fascinating narrative, and I am pleased that his story will now reach even greater audiences.
ISAAC HERZOG
President of Israel
RABBI BRIAN LURIE’S life story can contribute to the essential dialogue about Zionism’s future. The fierce urgency of now means this conversation cannot wait. This book proposes a values-based Zionist ethos that needs to be voiced and heard.
“The test of Zionism will be when Israel turns 75. The children born will no longer meet Holocaust survivors, nor will they know the founding generation. Our belief in the righteousness of our cause will require a renewed definition, not based on what was, but rather on what will be.”
DAVID BEN GURION
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Acknowledgments
Foreword
Brian Lurie Professional and Lay Leader Positions
Jeff Saperstein
Books, Case Studies and Articles Co-authored by Hunter Hastings and Jeff Saperstein
Additional Books and Business Case Studies by Jeff Saperstein
Jeff Saperstein’s Statement of Purpose
Brian Lurie’s Statement of Purpose
How to Work in Organizations to Achieve Your Goals
Cooperative Spirit
We Helped Make Policy for Massive Emigration to Israel and the US
The Issue of Intermarriage is the Jewish Challenge of Our Times
Equality with Gays
Example of Listening to when I was Wrong
Advice to Jewish professionals
Jewish Soul is in the “Kishkas” (Our Insides)
Israelis Are Doing This
The Gap Between Native Israelis and American Jews
Relative Importance of Learning Hebrew for American Jews
To Bond with Israelis: How You Act Is More Important Than What You Say
Being a Jewish Parent: Shabbat, Yom Kippur, Pesach, and Other Religious Events
How to Make People Feel Comfortable with Being Who You Are
What I Want to Say to Israeli Arabs
What Change Should We Ask Israeli Jews Towards the Diaspora?
Why Brian’s Leadership Story Is Universal
Rabbi Brian Lurie's Legacy
Rabbi Brian Lurie's Journey: A Mirror to the Past and Guide to the Future
Key Questions and Themes:
Initiatives and Impact:
Rethinking Jewish Leadership and Connection:
People Referenced in Interviews
Alexander Lurie
Ari Lurie
Avrum Burg
Avraham Infeld
Caroline Fromm Lurie
Daniel Lurie
Daniel Sokatch
Donniel Hartman
Jeffrey Solomon
John Ruskay
Liron Shoham
Michal Steinman
Nehemiah Dagan
Sonia Lurie
Susie Gelman
Wayne Feinstein
Yosef “Yossi” Beilin
Brian Lurie: Professional Life As Leader
Brian's Reflections
Beginning Rabbinic Career
The Inspiration for My Life's Work
Family Influences
Brian's Childhood and Pathway
Brian's Father Figure
Teachers Matter
My First Israel Experience
My Love Affair With Israel Began with Infatuation
The '67 War that Changed Everything for Me in Israel
The Tide of History Can Carry an Idea Forward
Beginning in San Francisco
SOLICITATIONS
Congregational Rabbis are Not International Spokespeople
I had no Mentors
Basically, A Loner
God's Servant is the Role I Played
On Friendship
Nehemia Dagan reflecting on his friendship with Brian
Caroline Lurie reflecting on Brian’s friendships
A story from Caroline Lurie about how some people feel entitled to be friends
Rabbis Who Had the Greatest Impact on Brian Lurie’s Rabbinic Outlook
Abba Hillel Silver
David Hartman
Donniel Hartman
Donniel Hartman commenting on the relationship between David Hartman and Rabbi Brian Lurie
Donniel Hartman examines the distinction between Tolerant and Intolerant Deviance
Donniel Hartman reflecting on Brian’s understanding of the Relationship with Israel based on Values
Donniel Hartman rethinking how David Hartman could Bring Sinai to the Federation
Donniel Hartman recalling a story about Hilary Clinton
Leaders
Trevor Chinn
Avrum Burg
Avrum Burg Reflects on Brian’s Style and Personhood
Avrum Burg Evokes a Story When Visiting Mimi
Shimon Peres
Shimon Peres’ Story according to Yossi Beilin
Isaac Herzog
Benny Begin
Brian’s story about Benny not following his wisdom
Brian’s story about Benny flying coach
Brian’s story about Begin and Daniel Sokatch
Holocaust Influencers
Ernie Michel
Bill Lowenberg
Elie Wiesel
Comparison between two systems and approaches: Federation and Lubavitch
Comparison Between Lurie and Schneerson On The Two Visions, Achievements, and Staying Power of Each
The Lubavitch Movement: Philosophy and Practices for a Vision of Jewish Community Life
Chapters on Brian’s Professional Affiliations
Temple Emanu-el
Brian’s reflection on Golda Meir’s visit to the Temple
Susie Gelman reflects on her time at Temple Emanu-El
UJA-NY
Historical Development
The Relationship Between UJA and Federations
Evolution of Allocation Between Israel and Local Purposes
Annual Campaign Process and Volunteer Involvement
Evolution of Federation Endowment Funds and Private Foundations
Role During Major Crises
Challenges Facing Jewish Federations in the Future
The Evolution of the San Francisco Jewish Community Federation: Rabbi Brian Lurie's Impact from the 1960s to 2000
Downplayed My Financial Compensation and Resisted Pandering
Wayne Feinstein comments on the Vision, Innovation and Trend-setting in the SF Federation
Jeff Solomon Reflecting on Brian and the Mega Group
John Ruskay’s Reflection on How Federations Can Help People Understand What Matters
Federations Underpay and Under-Appreciate Their Staff
The Centrality of UJA/Federation Could Affect Government Policy
My Guiding Principle for the UJA
Leading the Federation
Is the Federation Emerging to Something Different?
Yossi Beilin Reflecting on Brian’s Commitment
Daniel Sokatch Commenting on “Yiches”: Lineage in Federation Leadership
UJA International
The Challenge of the Generational Gap
Factors Contributing to the Generational Gap
The Widening Gap Between Younger Generations for Connection with Israel
Judicial Reform Changed Israel
The Realization of the Holocaust Came Late to Me
Becoming Head of UJA
The Level of Participation and Connection to Israel of the Jewish Community Should Evaluate the Federation System
Avrum Burg’s reflection on Brian: Making Room for the Other Leaders
Amuta Was a Challenge to the UJA/Jewish Agency
Major Involvements
Post-YK War
The Six Day War, Yom Kippur War, and the Strengthening of the North American Jewish Community through Philanthropy
Roles played by the UJA (United Jewish Appeal) and Jewish Federations in addressing the needs of Israel during and after these wars
Role of UJA and Jewish Federations
Transformation in Giving and Participation
Strengthening of Jewish Federations
Rabbi Brian Lurie and the San Francisco Jewish Federation
The Advanced 60 Mission
Operation Exodus
Rabbi Brian Lurie's Role in Operation Exodus and Soviet Jewry
Brian’s Reflections on Operation Exodus
Mega-Donors Can Be Just Like Everyone: Insecure and Needing Recognition
Feeling During Operation Exodus – To Generate Motivation in People
Raising Money for Operation Exodus
Interagency Task Force
Liron Shoham Commenting on the Task Force
Michal Steinman Reflecting on Brian
New Israel Fund
The Establishment Needs to be Challenged to be Relevant to Changing Needs
Daniel Sokatch Reflecting on Brian’s Qualities
Daniel Sokatch Recounts Brian's Role in NIF
Daniel Sokatch Revives a Story of Real-world Example
Taglit Birthright
Jeff Solomon Looking Back on Birthright
Yossi Beilin Reflecting on Birthright
Avraham Infeld Revisiting Brian’s Insight
Moriah Conferences
The Moriah Conferences Forged Lasting Relationships
Successes and Challenges
Lasting Benefits and Future Potential
The Need for More Leadership Conferences
Leadership Qualities
(Stories and Quotes From Interviewees)
Susie Gelman Recognizing Brian’s Leadership
Daniel Sokatch Recognizing Brian’s Organizational Processes
Inspire by Standing Up for the Marginalized
Caroline Lurie Mentions Brian’s Inspiration/Hardworking Value
Listen and Learn
Avrum Burg Commenting on Brian’s Listening Skills
Liron Shoham Reflecting on Brian’s Ability to Listen
Michal Steinman Recognizing Brian’s Values
Jeff Solomon Analyzing Brian’s Emotional Intelligence
Intuitive understanding of Individual Motivations
Persuasive
Avrum Burg on Brian’s Power Perception
Liron Shoham Commenting on Brian’s Character
Charismatic and Charming
Avrum Burg Reflecting on Brian’s Character
Wayne Feinstein Touches on Brian’s Charisma
Daniel Sokatch Differentiates Thinkers vs. Operationalists
Innovative/ Visionary
Jeff Solomon Describes the Visionary Brian
Caroline Lurie Reflecting on Brian
Focus
Avrum Burg Commenting on Brian’s Focus
Understanding How to Position and Manage the Major Participants
Brian’s Approach for Relating to Wealthy Individual Donors
Avrum Burg Reflecting on Brian’s Approach to Donors
Encouragement and Nurturing of Others to Become Leaders
Daniel Sokatch Reflecting on Brian’s Mentoring of Him
Solicitation
Nehemia Dagan Recalling on Brian’s Solicitation Approach
Donniel Hartman on Raising Money with “Auschwitz” While Deemphasizing “Sinai”
Israeli Relationships and Power
Avrum Burg Reflecting on Power
Respect and Vision in the Jewish Communal Field
Women in the Field
Liron Shoham Reflecting on Brian’s Bringing Women Into Leadership Positions
Michal Steinman Reflecting on Brian’s Management Style
Standing up for Others
Brian’s Finesse
Avraham Infeld Recalling Brian’s Finesse
Israel
Israel Lifelong Love and Devotion Can Be Nurtured
Avrum Burg revising Judaism
Susie Gelman reflecting on Brian’s approach to Judaism
Cultivation of Relationships of Those Who Lead Across the Political Spectrum
Arab Israeli Priority
The West Bank Continues To Be A Divisive Issue
The Political Situation in Israel: The Urgency of Now
Avraham Infeld Compares Being Jew
Reflections Post-October 7
The Experience with the Hostage Families
Avrum Burg Commenting on the Israeli Conversation
Michal Steinman Commenting on the Importance of Americans to Learn About Israel and Its Situation
Israel Diaspora Relationships
The Israel Forum and Moriah Conference
Avraham Infeld: How Do We Build Kishke Peoplehood? The Story of American and Israeli Kids
Judaism and Democracy/Pluralism will Redefine Our Relationship
Yossie Beilin: Brian is a True Israeli
Rethinking Secular Jewish Education
Jeff Solomon Revising Jewish Education
John Ruskay Reexamines Jewish Education
John Ruskay Analyzes Jewish Education and Jewish Peoplehood
What Diaspora and Israeli Jews Should Do to Reimagine Zionism
Bridging the Gap Between American Jews and Israelis
The Chasm Between Secular American Jews and Israeli Jews
A Lay Leader is Perceived Differently than a Jewish Professional
Liron Shoham reflecting on American and Israeli relations
Michal Steinman reflecting on American Jewish identity
Nehemia Dagan: Brian is the American I wish I could meet
Avrum Burg reflecting on Brian and Judaism
Caroline Lurie Reflecting on Different Cultures
Daniel Sokatch: Can the Jewish World Make Room for People Who are Looking for Purpose?
Donniel Hartman: Jewish Education in America Succeeded in Assimilating
Antisemitism on American Campuses
Hope to Enable that Connection to Israel to be More in the “Kishkas”
Daniel Sokatch Reflects on How to Convince the Jews to Work for the Jewish Community
Avraham Infeld Analyzes Israeli Youth
Donniel Hartman, reflecting on the UJA Federation, could get a million Jews out of the Soviet Union, but without a Jewish soul, you cannot have continuity
Intermarriage
Interfaith Intertwining: Exploring US Jewish Intermarriage Rates and Implications
Rising Intermarriage Rates
Rabbi Brian Lurie's Perspective
Organized Secular Jewish Community's Response
Recognition by Reform and Conservative Rabbis
The Birthright Program and Intermarriage
Opening Jewish Life to Intermarriage and Those Who Seek Authentic Jewish Connection
Avrum Burg on How Brian Reframed Intermarriage
Avraham Infeld on Intermarriage
Donniel Hartman Reflects on Intermarriage
Brian Lurie: The Man
Brian’s View of His Professional Life and Family
Brian's Respect for his Children to Follow their Passions
Brian's Relationship with In-laws
A Cause Greater than Anything Else
Caroline was our Role Model
Judaism Through Women
Jewish Connection
Kishkas: Jewish Continuity
Aliyah
Jewish Continuity and Israel
Interviews
Caroline Lurie
Bridging the Gap Between Americans and Israelis
Brian and Caroline
Moving from Connecticut
Brian's Uniqueness and Strength
A Story About How Some People Feel Entitled to Be Friends
Major Donors Can Be Rude
Israelis Compared with American Jews
Brian's Resilience
Brian's Curiosity and Wonder
Brian's friends
Ari Lurie
Brian: A Prominent Dad and Public Figure
Shabbat and Judaism
Story – Summer Camp Kids
Learning From Dad
Story – Spray Paint in Branson High School
Story – Ari's divorce
Intermarriage
Brian's Legacy
Daniel Lurie
Brian, as a Dad and a Prominent Figure
Focused on Service
Service, not Philanthropy, is the Motivation within the Family
Brian's Friendship with People
Story – Bar Mitzvah
Brian: A Father and Friend
Story – Trip to Ireland
Daniel's Love for Israel
Brian's Ability to Transcend
Brian's Legacy or Influence
Committed Service, Unwavering, and never being satisfied
Alexander Lurie
Rabbi Brian Lurie: The Most Important Rabbi in the World
Brian's Absence
Story – Healing Trip
Family
Brian, as a Rabbi
Alexander's Connection to Israel and the Jewish People
Brian, as an Influencer
Philanthropy Does Not Equal Serving Others
Story - Thatcher School Incident
What I Will Miss
Traditions that Alexander Will Continue
Story – Trip to Israel with Brian and Daniel
Something Additional to Say…
Sonia Lurie
What it Was Like to Be Raised as the Only Daughter by Rabbi Brian Lurie
Living in Connecticut
Caring Story
Speaking Gibberish was Our Secret
Playful: Goofus Dreyfus
How I was Raised Differently from my Brothers
Brian's Israeli Friends
Brian's Passions
American and Israeli Brian are the Same
Brian: An Unusual Rabbi
Shabbat Blessings
Brian: A Great Communicator
Story – Rosh Hashanah Sermon
Story – How Brian Modeled Manhood in Sonia
Brian Sets High Standards for Sonia and her Brothers
Philanthropy
Sonia's Relationships with Israelis
Brian: Who He Is vs. Who He Was
Intermarriage
Story –Intermarriage: Darren and Sonia
What Sonia Will Miss About Brian
Conclusions
Lessons Learned
Organizations are a Means to an End
Reflections on Past, Present, and Future
Exodus was a phenomenal period from 1989 to 2000, the highlight of my professional life
Aging Brian
Brian's Legacy
Susie Gelman reflecting on Brian’s legacy
Wayne Feinstein Reflects on Brian
Yossi Beilin Reflecting on Brian
Avraham Infeld Reflecting on Brian
John Ruskay Reflecting on Brian’s Legacy
Brian’s Story is Complex
Postcript
Appendices
A Call to Action
David Bartov
David Amar
What of the People of Israel?
What of us here in North America?
Soviet Jewry Resettlement
Position Paper
Draft
Behind the Headlines: Getting More Jewish Teens to Israel
Seen As New Priority for U.S. Jewry
Little Money for Advertising
When JeffSaperstein approached me to write my memoir, I trusted his judgment from past associations. Still, I did not fully appreciate the journey and the destination we would ultimately reach.
I knew he shared my love of Israel and Jewish people, and he was familiar with the Jewish institutional world through his own experiences. Our shared feeling and knowledge proved propitious in developing this work together.
His probing questions and diligence enabled me to reveal my life to myself in ways I had not understood or had mostly forgotten. I once called him my analyst for his ability to articulate my intentions, actions, and relationships coherently and insightfully. He replied that his role was more like a detective, helping me connect the dots in my reflections.
Through our sessions, we realized this endeavor was not just about my life. Rather, it was how my life, together with the work of great contemporaries, enabled me to participate in Jewish history over the past half-century. We agreed that my vision of where Israel and Zionism should go was both necessary and relevant to the now essential task of re-imagining Zionism. Jeff interviewed others who contributed greatly to the book, and I am gratified that his work can bring whatever legacy I have into the future, so that others may lead the Jewish people and our relationship to Israel in better ways.
Thanks also to Jeff’s assistant, MarielA. GonzalezJunco, for her organization and administration of the material. Thanks as well to the NIV/SPINES publisher for accepting our work and bringing it to fruition.
I’m indebted to my loving wife, CarolineFrommLurie, for her support and encouragement, as well as my children, Ari, Daniel, Alexander, and Sonia.
Thanks to the many contributors who augmented my views with their insights and dedication to the Jewish people. It is with their collective vision and accomplishments that I fulfilled my intention to serve the Jewish people.
Brian Lurie’s life story can contribute to the essential dialogue about Zionism's future meaning.
David BenGurion predicted at the state’s founding:
“The test of Zionism will be when Israel turns 75. The children born will no longer meet Holocaust survivors, nor will they know the founding generation. Our belief in the righteousness of our cause will require a renewed definition, not based on what was, but rather on what will be.”
In every step of RabbiBrianLurie’s atypical journey through varying professional paths and objectives, Brian has personified leadership, social justice, a love of Israel, and an ambitious yet down-to-earth approach to the evolving challenges of Jewish peoplehood in the 21st Century.
Brian’s keen eye for equality made him a pioneer in the human rights discourse and led him to found the Inter-AgencyTaskForce on IsraeliArabIssues. His operations in the field of social equality and his advocacy for the IsraeliArab community have not only raised awareness of marginalized sectors but have also generated broad changes in fields desperately seeking public recognition and resources.
Throughout our friendship, I have been impressed with Brian’s entrepreneurship and deep integrity. He leads by the power of his example and by the soundness of his judgment. I have seen him fine-tune his social conscience and deepen his moral compass, while remaining firmly rooted in the Jewish community's organized framework, beloved and respected across the board. I have seen an introspective “mensch” who practices what he preaches and whose deep intelligence informs his charm; the charm complements his ideals, and the ideals produce his actions —and vice versa.
There is a great deal to learn from Brian’s rich experience and fascinating narrative, and I am pleased his story will now reach even greater audiences.
Isaac Herzog,
President Israel
Rabbi BrianLurie, a seminal leader of the AmericanJewish community for the last decades of the Twentieth and first decade of the Twenty-FirstCenturies, is a visionary, charismatic leader and a profoundly important friend and mentor. This is his story, and one worth reading by anyone interested in the development of the AmericanJewish community and the Israel-Diaspora relationship over those critical decades.
Wayne Feinstein,
Former ChiefExec of the Detroit, LosAngeles, and SanFranciscoJewishFederations (1982–2001)
This very interesting book tells the story of RabbiBrianLurie, a unique JewishAmerican leader who lives in the West, while his heart is in the East. I would love to see young Jews, all over the world, members of Hillel, and not only them, reading his life story. We can all be inspired by Brian, a man who came from the ranks of the AmericanJewish establishment and used his knowledge to challenge the same establishment and to have a real impact on Jewish life.
Yossi Beilin,
Chairperson of HillelIsrael
Rabbi BrianLurie‘s memoir covers an extraordinary period of opportunity in NorthAmericanJewish life. The opening of the former SovietUnion, Ethiopia, communities’ direct funding of needs in Israel, and the radical changes in Jewish philanthropy all impacted, and were impacted by, Brian‘s leadership and involvement. This volume documents that extraordinary story.
Jeffrey Solomon,
Former President of Andrea and CharlesBronfmanFoundation, SeniorAdvisor to ChasbroInvestments
Rabbi BrianLurie’s story is not just the story of an extraordinary Jewish leader. It is, in many ways, the story of the transformations and changes that have taken place in the AmericanJewish community over the last fifty years or so. Brian’s journey – from the preeminent leader of the AmericanJewish establishment to one of the most prominent leaders of the progressive Jewish community – reflects that of so many AmericanJews who retain their loyalty and love for community and for Israel, but who question and, in some cases, reject the prevailing orthodoxies that still define the agendas of the leading establishment institutions. It can’t have been easy for Brian to go from the center of the establishment to a leader of the opposition, but it has never seemed to bother him at all. Most important for Brian has always been to stand by his values. A new generation of AmericanJewish leaders could learn a lot about integrity, leadership, and ahavat Yisrael by learning from and following his example.
Daniel Sokatch
CEO of the NewIsraelFund
Rabbi BrianLurie has devoted his life to strengthening the JewishPeople—in SanFrancisco, NorthAmerica, Israel and far beyond. He was frequently ahead of conventional wisdom: identifying the challenges and opportunities facing us and identifying strategies for responding effectively. So much can be learned from Brian’s amazing life journey, for it is overflowing with insights and learnings which can be harvested to maximize the likelihood of a flourishing Jewish future. I hope this volume will be studied long into the future.
Dr. JohnRuskay
CEO Emeritus of the UJA-Federation of NewYork
When RabbiBrianLurie became the ExecutiveDirector, the organization’s name was TheJewishWelfareFund, and then in 1981, the name changed to JewishCommunityFederation of SanFrancisco, the Peninsula, Marin, and SonomaCounties. Now it is named the JewishCommunityFederation and EndowmentFund. For brevity, it is referenced as the SFFederation or JCF in this document.
Jeff Saperstein is a memoirist, author, university lecturer, consultant, and career coach specializing in career and post-career planning. He is an active Israel advocate who has led missions to Israel and visits frequently. Jeff lives in MillValley, California, and has two adult sons and five grandchildren. He is an avid hiker and enjoys leading groups to enjoy mountain trails.
Jeff Saperstein website:https://jeffsaperstein.com/about/
LinkedIn:http://linkedin.com/in/jeff-saperstein
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In 1982, while working as an account supervisor at FCB ad agency on the LeviStrauss account in SanFrancisco, I first met RabbiBrianLurie. I had recently arrived from NewYorkCity, and I was introduced to him by RonBerman, the agency's ExecutiveCreativeDirector and a prominent figure in the Jewish community. Ron, recognizing our shared commitment to social causes, involved me in creating a pro-bono ad for the JewishCommunityFederation (JCF) and the JewishCommunityRelationsCouncil (JCRC), to appear in local newspapers.
Brian, a national figure in Jewish leadership, and EarlRabb, the respected ExecutiveDirector of JCRC, were instrumental in this project. The ad, produced with volunteers, highlighted the complexities in Beirut, where the PLO used civilians as shields, and the Israeli response: sounds familiar? This experience led to many collaborative projects with Ron for the JewishCommunityFederation (JCF), where Brian gave us considerable creative freedom.
My dedication to Israel and firsthand experience in the YomKippurWar impressed him, so Brian persuaded me to join JCF as the MarketingDirector. Over two years, I witnessed his inspirational leadership and vision in making JCF a pivotal organization in local Jewish life and a leader in Israel relations.
After leaving JCF, I continued my involvement in Jewish organizations like UJA, Federation, AIPAC, and synagogue leadership, utilizing my marketing skills to benefit Jewish and Israeli causes. My career later evolved into a certified career coach and writer of memoirs for influential individuals, including DougHerst, one of Brian's closest friends. Doug suggested that Brian hire me to help him write his memoir about leadership.
In March 2023, I embarked on this project with Brian to document his life's story. In addition to our conversations, we compiled a comprehensive portrait of his professional and personal life through extensive interviews with his family, friends, and colleagues in Israel and the U.S.
This chronicles Brian's journey as a visionary leader over six decades, highlighting his pivotal role in strengthening Israel-Diaspora relations and advocating for a more pluralistic, democratic, and inclusive Israel. Brian feels sad that despite his endeavors in partnership with so many others, the goals for Israel and the Jewish community have yet to be fully realized.
In this new era, with rising challenges like anti-Semitism and conflicts in Israel, Brian's story stands as a testament to his influential role in both Israeli and Jewish-American spheres. The book doesn't offer direct solutions but can inspire through Brian's questioning of conventional wisdom and his audacious, visionary, and resilient approach to Jewish continuity and values-based Zionism.
Working on Brian's biography has culminated in my journey since that first meeting in 1982. This book is a tribute to his impactful life, hoping to motivate others to make a difference in their communities and the broader world.
Jeff Saperstein
Mill Valley, California
Hopefully, my reflections on a life of service will be useful to those who come forward in the upcoming generations. It may also revive some of the memories of past collective fellowships of endeavors with those who lived through these eras. Along with those referenced and quoted in this book, I tried to create a different future from what was bequeathed to us. To strengthen the Jewish people, to re-vision a Zionism based on values, and to invigorate a spirit of being part of Zionism in the process of becoming. We have not succeeded in our dreams, yet there is much to be proud of. It is for the next generations of Israeli and DiasporaJews to fashion their own Zionism. My purpose is not for this to be a historical or scholarly work but rather a conversation of stories, lessons, and insights from my life that may be useful for those who choose to read it. I do not have the answers, but my questions may help you seek how to be part of the miraculous chain of Jewish peoplehood.
This book aims to help people with their minds and ideas on how they can effectuate what they believe in despite the encumbrance of bureaucracy. There is an opportunity for creative impulse to be exercised even amid a congested passenger lane, but it is possible to make a difference and do it your way.
That is the whole idea of being an insider-outsider. AlthoughI personally led several major organizations, I saw how important it was to think outside the box and challenge whatever system I might find myself in.
People can make a difference; you do not have to be tied to succeed in any institution. To eventually succeed, you need to work with an army of people who work hard. For example, regarding the SovietJews, we raised almost a billion dollars to help resettle and rescue them from the former SovietUnion. Undoubtedly, it was one of the most important causes I have ever done.
Leaders coalesced and united to raise major funds across the country; we brought Jews who knew nothing about the AmericanJewish community and its involvement in the process to freedom. Initially, when the movement began, the government of Israel wanted to avoid being involved. It was worried that this “freelancing” of AmericanJewish life would hurt the relationship between Israel and the SovietUnion. Still, after over a million people came, the Israeli government cooperated with the program and established a special bureau to facilitate this process.
There was a huge fight about the issue of freedom of choice that involved the State of Israel and the AmericanGovernment. The two rights were the freedom of movement and the strengthening of the state of Israel. The paper I wrote (refer to the Appendix) circulated to the entire AmericanJewish community involved in this process and the StateDepartment. TheUJA leader, MaxFisher, who had many friends and allies in the StateDepartment, was influential in the US adoption of it. I will not say the paper did it; it had some effect on our government, and it opened a passageway for hundreds of thousands of Jews who chose to come to the US rather than go to Israel.
The AmericanJewish community received this paper, and it became the criteria championed by the AmericanJewish community: the freedom of choice for first-degree relatives. Coming to America was not just for everybody, but if you had a mother, father, brother, sister, or whoever was trying to get in, that freedom of choice would function.
The AmericanJewish community played a larger role than most people realize, and the Federation system's response is an example of cooperation with our US government. OperationExodus was arguably the pinnacle of UJA/Federation centrality and effectiveness for the Jewish people.
Initially, like many Rabbis, whether they be Orthodox, Conservative, or Reform, I was against the concept of intermarriage. As a Rabbi, I felt I could not participate, which was against my principles. I had close friends who wanted me to marry them on more than one occasion, and I had to say no. It always left a bitter taste in my mouth, and it was a moment where I could have welcomed them into the Jewish community, but they were excluded. AsI grow older, I realize that I have made a mistake.
We should welcome and celebrate them because they are voluntarily joining a spouse who is part of the Jewish community, and they should not be treated as strangers. I have discussed this with AvrahamInfeld, DavidHartman, and several other Israelis, but it took them longer to soften their reluctance. MyRabbi teacher Hartman had difficulty agreeing with that; his wife bitterly opposed it.
David Hartman
It remains so important, especially today, that we welcome the process of intermarriage because the rate, at least on the WestCoast, is something like 60%, and there would be a lot of exclusion if we do not welcome them.
I welcomed my son-in-law, Darren, into our family. But more importantly, Darren was willing to come in because why would you marry into a Jewish family if you do not want to be part of it? My wife, Caroline, was a very important part of that welcoming process to this day, but it is all about being an open person rather than trying to convince them.
