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A critical guide on creating inclusive classrooms for transgender students
Including a foreword from Dr. Peggy Brookins, President of the National Board for Professional Teaching Standards, The Advocate Educator’s Handbook offers a tested framework for educators to use in their journeys to create inclusive classrooms for transgender and non-binary students. Centered on a framework of four principles – educate, affirm, include, and disrupt – this book provides a new way of thinking about inclusivity in the classroom, as well as practical ways to foster students’ sense of belonging. The authors bring rich understanding to the topic – Kling as a transgender educator & advocate, Ford as a teacher & parent of a transgender child, and both authors being educators themselves. You’ll also read stories from transgender and non-binary students, teachers, researchers, parents, and more, providing unique and important perspectives.
Inside the book, you’ll find tools that you can start using on day one of being in the classroom. You’ll also find model policies for teachers, schools administrators, and public policymakers, so you can begin the important work of advocating for and with trans and non-binary students. By engaging with trans youth and allies, we can build inclusivity in and beyond the classroom.
This book was created especially for K-12 educators, administrators, and others looking to enact change and create safe spaces for transgender and non-binary youth. From daily life in the classroom to policy at the highest levels, The Advocate Educator’s Handbook will help educators & their community work toward meaningful change.
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Cover
Table of Contents
Praise for
The Advocate Educator’s Handbook
Title Page
Copyright
Dedication
Foreword
Author Bios
Introduction
Using This Book
Focusing on Trans and Non‐Binary Students
Becoming an Advocate Educator
Putting It into Practice
Notes
PART ONE: Setting the Stage
CHAPTER ONE: Background Information
A Brief History of Trans Identity
(Some of) The Many Ways to Be Trans
How Many Trans Students Are There?
Putting It into Practice
Notes
CHAPTER TWO: Glossary of Terms and Definitions
Putting It into Practice
Notes
CHAPTER THREE: Supporting Diverse Student Bodies
Race and Racism
Physical Disabilities
Neurodiversity
Economic Class
Family Structure and Dynamics
Putting It into Practice
Notes
PART TWO: The Four Core Principles
CHAPTER FOUR: Educate
Determining Who to Train
Determining What to Teach
Determining Who Will Teach
Challenges Facing School Staff
Putting It into Practice
Notes
CHAPTER FIVE: Affirm
Affirming Policies and Legislation
Affirming Practices
Putting It into Practice
Notes
CHAPTER SIX: Include
Windows and Mirrors
Inclusive Education Communities
Creating Inclusive Classrooms and Curricula
Creating Inclusive Extracurricular Activities
Putting It into Practice
Notes
CHAPTER SEVEN: Disrupt
Responding to Students
Responding to Parents and Community Members
Responding to Anti‐Trans Laws and Policies
Considering Legal Action
Advocating
with
Trans Students and Student Voices
Evaluating Your Comfort with Taking Risks
Taking Care of Yourself
Putting It into Practice
Notes
Conclusion
Note
Afterword—Vanessa Ford
Afterword—Rebecca Kling
Acknowledgments
Appendix 1: Additional Resources
Books
Videos and Documentaries
Scholarly Articles, Research, and Data
Resources Intended Specifically for Educators
Sample Curriculum Resources
Courses and Professional Development for Educators
Model Policies, Assessments, and Guidelines for Schools and Districts
Real Policies and Guidelines for Schools and Districts
Professional Association Policy Positions and Best Practices
Other Government Docs and Resources
Resources for Students
Appendix 2: Professional Development Provider Options
A Queer Endeavor
Better World Collaborative
GLSEN
The Human Rights Campaign's Welcoming Schools Program
Stonewall National Education Project (SNEP) Symposium
The Trevor Project
YES Institute
National Education Association (NEA) Professional Learning on Safety, Bias, & LGTBQ+ Issues
Note
Appendix 3: Guidance Template for Classroom Libraries
Index
End User License Agreement
Chapter 1
FIGURE 1.1 Ginny Suss, photograph from Trans Prom featuring youth activist D...
FIGURE 1.2 U.S. youth who identify as transgender.
Chapter 2
FIGURE 2.1 Headlines from various articles about de/re‐transitioning.
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Chapter 3
FIGURE 3.1 A selection of headlines about potential links between neurodiver...
Chapter 4
FIGURE 4.1 Keath Silva, Thank You My Allies, 2021.
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Chapter 5
FIGURE 5.1 Andy Passchier, There Is No One Way to be Non‐Binary, 2021.
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FIGURE 5.2 Movement Advancement Project (MAP) generated on May 26, 2023.
Chapter 6
FIGURE 6.1 Art twink, We Survive So We Can Thrive, 2023.
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FIGURE 6.2 Liberal Jane Illustration, If Your Activism isn’t Accessible and ...
FIGURE 6.3 Liberal Jane Illustration, Inclusive Curriculums Benefit All Stud...
FIGURE 6.4 Child Trends, Only 9 States and DC Report That More Than Half of ...
Chapter 7
FIGURE 7.1 AP Photo/Timothy D. Easley, Protesters of Kentucky Senate bill SB...
Cover Page
Praise for The Advocate Educator’s Handbook
Title Page
Copyright
Dedication
Dedication
Foreword
Author Bios
Table of Contents
Begin Reading
Conclusion
Afterword—Vanessa Ford
Afterword—Rebecca Kling
Acknowledgments
Appendix 1: Additional Resources
Appendix 2: Professional Development Provider Options
Appendix 3: Guidance Template for Classroom Libraries
Index
Wiley End User License Agreement
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“The notion of ‘Brave Education’ is never in opposition to the idea of a ‘safe education.’ Safety is just such a low bar and should be an inalienable feature of public education, not optional or a bragging point. The Advocate Educator's Handbook supports the notion that schools have to, first, be safe enough to honor the bravery so many LGBTQ+ students and educators are already demonstrating. Schools that promote a safe and excellent education for all students need this handbook if genuinely committed to living into that promise.”
—Tim'm West, M.Ed., Executive Director, LGBTQ Institute at the National Center for Civil and Human Rights
A resource such as this couldn’t come at a more crucial time, as transgender youth in the U.S. have become the opportunistic targets of the escalating waves of anti‐trans rhetoric and legislation. With its comprehensive and methodical approach to tackling challenging issues facing advocates for transgender rights, this handbook will become a fundamental tool for anybody who works with and serves youth.
—Rodrigo Heng‐Lehtinen, Executive Director, The National Center for Transgender Equality
“For educators, administrators, school staff, and anyone else who has asked, ‘How can I best support transgender students?’—this book is for you. The Advocate Educator's Handbook is scaffolded to meet educators where they are, and is a critical tool for creating safer, more inclusive learning environments for transgender students everywhere.”
—Keygan Miller, Director of Public Training, The Trevor Project
“This is my job in a book! The Advocate Educator's Handbook is a one‐stop shop for all the need‐to‐know information on supporting trans, non‐binary, and gender‐expansive youth in schools. It is an invaluable resource for educators and youth‐serving professionals who want to implement equitable practices for LGBTQ+ youth.”
—Booker Marshall, LGBTQ and Sexual Health Manager, Chicago Public Schools
“Ford and Kling have written one of the most comprehensive tools for educators not only to understand how to help LGBTQ+ thrive, but to understand how to position themselves, as educators, in the journey to understanding, acceptance, and advocacy of their students. Every teacher, counselor, administrator, and parent should know this book.”
—Willie Carver, Author of Gay Poems for Red States, 2022 Kentucky Teacher of the Year, Member of the American Federation of Teachers National LGBTQ+ Task Force
“A modern guide for anyone seeking to boldly support transgender and non‐binary students. Resources, reflection, real situations—all in one.”
—Levi Arithson, Program Manager, LGBTQ+ Equity Initiatives, Denver Public Schools
“This book could not come at a more critical time. Any youth‐serving professional or family member looking for tools to advocate for LGBTQ+ youth should read this book. I am grateful for the concrete strategies to ensure LGBTQ+ youth are in environments where they are valued and can be their authentic selves.”
—Cheryl Greene, Senior Director, Welcoming Schools, Human Rights Campaign Foundation
“The Advocate Educator's Handbook is an accessible and comprehensive toolkit that teachers, administrators, policymakers, and parents can use to create more inclusive, affirming, and joyful educational experiences for trans and non‐binary youth. By asking them to reflect on their own motivations, knowledge, and commitment to education, Ford and Kling inspire readers to disrupt inequitable policies and practices to better meet the needs of our gender‐diverse students.”
—Sara Moore, Associate Professor and Chairperson of Sociology, Salem State University
“As a parent of a trans youth, navigating the school system felt like an overwhelming and intimidating process. This book makes it less so! Every parent of a transgender kiddo should read this book and feel confident that their child can and should be supported in their schools and by their peers. Every teacher should read this to learn how to support and cultivate an inclusive classroom! This is a must read!”
—Lizette and Jose Truillo, Parent Advocates
“This book is a fantastic resource, and I cannot wait to share it with educators throughout Minnesota! Whether you are new to these concepts or a seasoned advocate, this book has something that each of us can learn. As states and municipalities across the country pass vastly different policies regarding transgender and nonbinary children, this book offers steps that each of us can take, within the bounds of our local laws, to support a school atmosphere that allows transgender and non‐binary students to thrive. Thank you for creating such an amazing resource!”
—Kelsey Waits, Activist and Founder of Transparent Alliance
“A timely and much‐needed handbook! EDI (Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion) practitioners, consultants, and facilitators like myself—not just teachers and school administrators—will learn and benefit greatly from reading and using this excellent guide.”
—Yee Won Chong, Senior Racial Equity Fellow, Western States Center for EDI
“The Advocate Educator's Handbook is beautifully written, clear, comprehensive, specifically helpful, warm, and open…open to human potential, to change, and to more beautiful, meaningful, joyful exchanges in our classrooms, led by, and centered on, trans joy.”
—Joji Florence, Co‐Founder of Trans formative Schools
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This book is dedicated to our parents,who were our first teachers, and to trans youtheverywhere who inspire us every day.
“One child, one teacher, one book, one pen can change the world.”
—Malala Yousafzai
“I like to reassure educators: you already know how to do this. You just need to trust that you know how to do this.”
—Kyle Lukoff
WE CAN all agree that great teachers, without exception, have a lasting impact on the students they teach. As an educator, I am (was) in a constant state of curiosity, awareness, and appreciation of the importance and value of the experiences I had each day with students.
Relationships matter, a sense of belonging is critical, and we cannot allow discrimination to be a part of the lives of the young people we help shape.
Educators recognize and acknowledge the struggles of marginalized communities, including the LGBT+ youth. The school environment is meant to be a safe and nurturing space for students to grow, learn, and discover themselves. However, for many LGBT+ students, a school can be a challenging and even hostile environment. As educators, we are responsible for ensuring that every student, regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, or expression, feels supported and respected in our classrooms.
For this reason, I am excited to introduce The Advocate Educator's Handbook: Creating Schools Where Transgender and Non‐Binary Students Thrive. Vanessa Ford and Rebecca Kling have gifted us with this brilliantly written book, a comprehensive resource for teachers looking to educate themselves on the issues faced by transgender and non‐binary youth, and learn how they can create an inclusive and supportive classroom environment. This guidebook is written by experienced educators and LGBT+ advocates who have firsthand knowledge of these students' challenges and the best ways to support them.
The book provides a roadmap for teachers to understand the struggles of LGBT+ youth in schools, and offers concrete strategies to make classrooms and school environments more inclusive. The authors also discuss the importance of intersectionality, acknowledging that the struggles of LGBT+ youth intersect with other aspects of their identity, such as race, ethnicity, and ability.
The book provides insights into creating a safe and welcoming classroom space through inclusive language, diverse literature, and teaching materials. It also explores how teachers can become influential allies for transgender and non‐binary students, and become an advocate for them. For teachers who may need help understanding LGBT+ identities and experiences, the guidebook offers an overview of the terminology, history, and culture of the LGBT+ community.
In addition to providing information and strategies, the guidebook also offers examples of real‐life scenarios that teachers may encounter in the classroom. It provides guidance on how to handle these situations. For instance, the book explores how to support a student who has just come out, how to respond to homophobic or transphobic comments made by other students, and how to handle bullying and harassment.
I was recently touched by the words of an immigrant teacher who came to this country not speaking the language and the sense of belonging teachers provided her, “I've been able to witness the beauty of our nation from perhaps a different lens, a lens that pays special attention to those who wrap their arms around those of us who are a little bit different. Often those who held me literally and figuratively were my teachers.” ~Rebekah Peterson— 2023 National Teacher of the Year
What we do and say as teachers matters! I learned even more with every page I read, and I am thankful for the opportunity to grow and put my learnings into practice.
The cruelty of ignorance, the discomfort of guilt, and intentional discrimination can be decreased and hopefully eliminated if we all do our homework!
~Peggy Brookins, NBCT
President and CEO, National Board of Professional Teaching Standards
Vanessa Ford (she/her) is an award‐winning educator and author. Her children's book Calvin won the 2022 Lambda Literary Award for Best Children's Book. Vanessa was a classroom teacher for 14 years in Washington, D.C., Public Schools, and her advocacy has been featured in the New York Times, Washington Post, Boston Globe, Newsweek, and NPR. She was a founding member of The Human Rights Campaign's Parents for Transgender Equality Council and sat for two years on the board of the National Center for Transgender Equality. She lives with her husband and two children, one of whom is trans, near Boston. Learn more about Vanessa's work at www.jrandvanessaford.com.
Rebecca Kling (she/her) is an educator, organizer, storyteller, and advocate for social change. Rebecca served as the community storytelling advocate and director of education programming at the National Center for Transgender Rights as well as on the leadership team of Harbor Camps, a sleepaway summer camp for trans and non‐binary youth. She is also the co‐founder of Better World Collaborative, a social impact consulting firm working to combat the recent flood of anti‐trans legislation. She lives in Chicago with her two cats. Learn about Rebecca's work at www.rebeccakling.com and www.bwcollab.com.
“Our role [as educators] is to try to meet young people where they are and to be relevant so that when we say things, or we set up a classroom, it’s actually something young people opt into with their minds and their hearts, so they are willing to say, ‘I’ll learn something from you.’”
—Bex Mui (she/her), Director of Stonewall National Education Project
THIS BOOK is intended for anyone who helps shape the educational experiences of transgender and non‐binary youth. (For a glossary of the terms and definitions used throughout this book—including transgender, non‐binary, gender binary, and more—see Chapter 2.) You may be a classroom teacher, a school administrator, a policymaker, the parent of a trans student, or simply someone who wants to create safer, more inclusive, and more affirming classroom environments. You may even be trans yourself!
How ever you have arrived here, we encourage you to use this book in whatever way makes the most sense to you. For those at the beginning of their allyship journey, it may make sense to read the book in order from cover to cover. For folks with a little more knowledge, feel free to skip around, jump right to a particular section, or identify the potential obstacles to equality that exist in your school community and go from there. At the end of each chapter, you'll find thoughts on addressing real‐world challenges and questions for personal reflection. And while these can be helpful for individual learners, we also hope they can provide some focus and structure for book groups or community learning.
With that in mind, we hope you'll use the resources in this book not only to educate yourself but to educate your peers and colleagues as well. We'd like to think that the adults in your school community want all students to learn, grow, and thrive, but it's critical to dig into whether or not those goals are actually being achieved. Melinda Mangin (she/her)—author of Transgender Students in Elementary School and a professor in the Department of Education Theory, Policy, and Administration in the Graduate School of Education at Rutgers University—put it this way: “Most educators are well intentioned, want to do better, and aren't trying to cause harm. That said, the best of intentions doesn't mean you aren't creating harm.”
But you don't need to go it alone! We believe that if you are looking to better support trans and non‐binary students, others in your school community are looking to do so as well (they just might not be very public about it). It's possible that your school or district already has resources, policies, or best practices on working with trans and non‐binary students. For example, Booker Marshall (they/he), the LGBTQ+ and Sexual Health Program Manager with Chicago Public Schools, cites “the demand from schools” as the primary reason for the growth of the Chicago Public Schools resources and professional development for creating LGBTQ+ supportive environments.
Even if you have not yet found allies in your community, you don't have to go it alone because you have the advice and encouragement of everyone we consulted over the course of writing this book. We conducted more than 50 interviews, speaking with educators, advocates, and researchers as well as trans youth and their families. Those interviews all took place in late 2022 and early 2023, mostly via Zoom. Quotes from those conversations can be found throughout these pages.
And while the data, organizations, and policy conversations mentioned in this book are U.S.‐focused, the best practices for working with trans and non‐binary students are broadly applicable. Likewise, if the resources you want don't yet exist in your school or district, you may be the perfect person to get the ball rolling by hosting a book group, sharing excerpts with colleagues and peers, or simply bringing a new perspective to your existing work.
We also know that advocating for trans and non‐binary rights can be emotionally draining. That's why we spoke with trans students about what brings them joy and what gives them hope for the future. We'll be sprinkling those throughout the book as well as some trans joy thoughts and resources we've seen elsewhere. In the Conclusion, we also have thoughts about hope for the future from trans students.
The best thing [about being trans or non‐binary] is being able to express who I am and not having to be limited by the gender binary. I feel complete and amazing!
—Emma (she/her), 14
Finally, while this book is mainly intended for adults, we always recommend that you work with trans and non‐binary students, rather than simply assuming you (as the adult) know what issues are the most important to them.
Every student deserves a learning environment in which they can thrive as their full, authentic selves. So then, some might ask, why should we focus specifically on how to support trans and non‐binary students? There are a few ways to answer this question.
Simply put, trans and non‐binary students face challenges that their cis peers do not. The Trevor Project's 2021 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health found that:
More than 3 in 4 trans and non‐binary youth reported symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder in the past two weeks.
More than 2 in 3 trans and non‐binary youth reported symptoms of major depressive disorder in the past two weeks.
More than half of trans and non‐binary youth had seriously considered suicide in the past year.
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The Trevor Project also found that affirmation and support can be life‐saving. Respecting the names and pronouns of trans and non‐binary youth, and allowing them to change legal documents is associated with lower rates of attempted suicide.2 Here's how Keygan Miller (they/them), Public Training Manager at the Trevor Project, put it:
Students are spending a third of their day or more in schools. And so if a young person is LGBTQ, the impact on their daily life of an affirming space is hugely shaped by [their] school, especially if they don't have an affirming home life; school might be the only space for that. And we know from our research that when LGBTQ students can have access to affirming schools—and trans students have support from their teachers and peers—they have lower rates of attempting suicide, they have less mental health issues, etc.
In fact, if you look at affirming spaces—schools, home, community, etc.—schools actually have one of the highest connections to lowering those rates, when [the school is] affirming. So that's a big deal. And we also know from our national survey research that when young people learn about LGBTQ people and issues in school, we also see significantly lower odds of a suicide attempt by our LGBTQ students. So just by learning LGBTQ history, or learning about an LGBTQ person, that can lower those [suicide] rates.
Schools then become this twofold space: What are we learning about, how are we growing in our understanding of our community? But also, where can I find that safe and affirming space? You have to be addressing both of those pieces. And doing that is going to increase [student] mental health and lower suicidality.
Ultimately, increased visibility of trans people across the United States has resulted in both greater support and greater pushback. One 2022 survey found that, paradoxically, more and more people in the United States favor protecting transgender people from the abstract idea of “discrimination,” but also that more and more people believe gender is solely determined by someone's sex at birth.3 (See the Glossary of Terms and Definitions in Chapter 2 for more on what that “sex assigned at birth” means, and why this survey presents something of a paradox for trans people.) Trans and non‐binary students need focused attention to ensure that vague or generalized ideas of support are translated into actual policy and practice.
Logan Casey (he/him), Senior Policy Researcher & Advisor for the Movement Advancement Project (MAP), told us about the double‐edged sword of visibility:
While knowing a trans person doesn't magically fix everything, it does—for a lot of people—really help begin a journey of changing hearts and minds. But it's a double‐edged sword: growing visibility is good because it helps us as trans people find each other, and not having to grow up the way I did, for example, with not knowing any trans person, or even what a trans person was, other than these really awful caricatures in the media that often ended in violent ways. There are some good things about that growing visibility, what it means for us as a trans community, and being able to find and see and connect to each other.
But with growing visibility, we're now seeing increased attention in the political sphere, targeting trans people and our rights to access basic things like housing, medical care, all kinds of things. So not purely a good trend. But definitely, there are good parts of it.
We are in a particularly critical moment for trans students, as trans and non‐binary youth are under unprecedented legislative and policy attacks. In 2018, fewer than 20 anti‐LGBTQ bills were introduced in state legislatures across the country. In 2022, more than 150 anti‐LGBTQ bills were introduced. In 2023, more than 500 anti‐LGBTQ bills were introduced.4 Many of these bills would make it more difficult for trans people to change their names, make it difficult or impossible for trans youth to access gender‐affirming medical care, ban trans athletes from participating in sports as their authentic selves, require teachers to jeopardize student safety by outing students, and more.
In some places, these anti‐equality laws explicitly limit what educators can and can't say to students, such as Florida's “Don't Say Gay” bill, which specified: “Classroom instruction by school personnel or third parties on sexual orientation or gender identity may not occur in kindergarten through grade 3 or in a manner that is not age‐appropriate or developmentally appropriate for students in accordance with state standards.” Then, in April 2023, Florida expanded this bill to cover all grade levels, meaning discussion of sexual orientation and gender identity are banned for K–12 students in Florida. But studies have found that kids as young as three years old retain their expressed gender identity as they mature—which is a fancy way of saying, “Yes, they are really trans.”5
Under Florida law, however, educators may be required to use the wrong name and pronouns for a trans student, lest the teacher be forced to provide “classroom instruction … on gender identity.” Educators working with older students may still experience a chilling effect from the legislation, and those educators may not be certain what behaviors or topics of conversation are or aren't permitted under the law. While LGBTQ advocates are continuing to fight the bill in court, they have had mixed luck so far and, as of March 2023, the case is still awaiting an appeal.6 In Chapter 7: Disrupt, we talk more about what educators can do to respond to anti‐trans legislation.
Danica Roem (she/her), a transgender advocate and member of the Virginia House of Delegates, lamented the “demonization that we've seen of trans kids specifically, and LGBTQ kids more broadly … number one, you're talking about children, and they [opponents of trans equality] are singling out and stigmatizing the most vulnerable people that these elected officials represent in the first place. So they're attacking their constituents, and you cannot serve your constituents when you're attacking them. And number two, [opponents of trans equality are] trying to establish a precedent that the existence of trans kids is wrong.”7
Hopefully, for most educators, the preceding clear needs identified are reason enough to support trans and non‐binary students. But broader support—for all LGBQ students, whether or not they are trans—is also crucial.
Absence of support may stem from a simple lack of knowledge or it may be part of a larger campaign against LGBTQ rights. Either way, schools and policymakers have a responsibility to take action. When Sarah McBride (she/her), transgender advocate and State Senator for Delaware's First District, spoke with us, she stressed that “elected officials [in Delaware] have a constitutional and moral obligation to make sure that every student is able to access a safe and quality public education in our state. That is a universal responsibility and obligation, but it's heightened for students who are vulnerable and marginalized, including LGBTQ students. And so we are not doing our jobs, we are not fulfilling our oaths, unless we are building school communities that are welcoming and safe for LGBTQ students, as well as LGBTQ educators, staff, and LGBTQ family members of students. Regardless of what one personally thinks about LGBTQ identities, or LGBTQ rights, we are not doing our job if we don't guarantee those safe and affirming environments for LGBTQ students to be able to focus on what their job is at school, which is to learn and to grow and to thrive.”
“One of the things that I’m really trying to help educators understand is that schools are harmful for cisgender folks and transgender folks. This isn’t about [an adult’s] perception that, ‘Oh, we only have one of those students.’ But all of the students are grappling with gender in some shape or form. We all need to be more savvy about how damaging it can be to have gender norms that limit who we can be.”
—Dr. Melinda M. Mangin (she/her), Transgender Students in Elementary School
Supporting LGBTQ students can also have a positive impact on an entire school community. McBride explained that trans‐affirming policies also help students “with LGBTQ family members, students perceived to be LGBTQ, or any student who at any point deviates from rigid gender norms or breaks through these oppressive gender stereotypes, which is essentially every student.”
The best available research backs up the view that affirming policies for LGBTQ students benefit not only those LGBTQ students but the whole school community. Dr. Kathleen Ethier (she/her), Director of the Division of Adolescent and School Health at the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), has looked into the policies and practices a school can put in place to support LGBTQ students, including “having GSAs, identifying safe spaces, having anti‐harassment policies that are enumerated and enforced, and providing professional development for teachers,” and found that “in the schools that put those policies and practices in place, [they] not only saw improvements in experience of violence, mental health and suicidality among LGBTQ kids, but also among students who identified as [not LGBTQ].”8 Ethier continued:
One of the most important things that schools can do is to provide a sense of what's called school connectedness, the belief that adults in your school care about you, care about your well‐being, are interested in your success, want you to succeed. There's 20 years of research on school connectedness and when young people feel connected in their schools, 20 years later—into their late 20s and early 30s—we see an impact on everything from sexual health to use of substances to violence perpetration and experience of violence, mental health, and suicide.9 So it is this really powerful, protective factor that speaks to the power of schools in shaping the trajectory of young people's lives.
In some of our most recent research, we found that young people who identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual, or say that they're questioning their sexual orientation, and students who experience racism are the two groups of students who are least likely to say that they feel connected to others at school.10 And so what that means for those groups of young people is not just the way that it impacts them on a daily basis, but it means that you don't have that protective factor that has the likelihood of that 20 year impact.
So we are setting LGBTQ young people, and also students who experience racism at school, to have a different trajectory than their peers. And we owe it to those kids to not send them off to a different adulthood than their peers.
We spoke with Terrance TJ Johnson (he/him) who is based in Florida. Johnson is an Education and Inclusion Specialist at the YES! Institute, whose mission is to “prevent suicide and ensure the healthy development of all youth through powerful communication and education on gender and orientation.” TJ is worried about the harm Florida's “Don't Say Gay” bill will cause. He also echoed a concern shared by other experts we spoke to, that a lack of support for trans youth in school “can lead to higher rates of mental illness, higher rates of suicide ideation, and just creating a space where people just don't feel like they can live being their authentic selves.”
On the other hand, TJ stressed that “when you create a space where you do have that belonging created there, that inclusivity created there, you're lessening the amount of suicidal ideation, you're allowing students to develop a sense of self‐worth.”
As a transgender person, what brings me joy is seeing other trans youth and trans adults flourish, and being happy in their day‐to‐day life.
—Daniel (he/him), 1411
Acting as an Advocate Educator requires identifying the needs of trans students—whether or not there are already out trans students in a particular school—and practically and pragmatically working to ensure those needs are met. Advocacy may require rocking the boat or pushing back against the way things have always been done.
It can also be tempting to wait for the perfect moment to take action, when you've done all the research there is to do, all your allies are ready, and you've prepared an answer for every possible question. Unfortunately, as the old saying goes, “perfect is the enemy of good.” If you wait until everything is exactly right, you may never get started at all!
We recommend that you take a moment to reflect on what these ideas mean to you:
Why did you become an educator?
What do you believe about children and learning?
How have issues of gender and gender diversity shown up in your professional work?
What is your comfort level in discussing these issues with students? Colleagues? Parents and community members?
What do you think it would mean for YOU to be an advocate educator?
This book uses four core principles—Educate, Affirm, Include, and Disrupt—to categorize the types of actions schools can take to support trans and non‐binary students. But these concepts overlap, meaning ideas from one chapter often connect to ideas from other chapters. In an ideal world, all four of the core principles would be implemented simultaneously, with strong education happening alongside the implementation of affirming policies and practices happening alongside inclusive classrooms; and curricula happening alongside the disruption of potential difficulties at the classroom, school, and community levels. Likewise, any strict division between the core principles is somewhat arbitrary: creating an inclusive classroom will require disrupting and redirecting disruptive students, disrupting potential difficulties will require educating staff, and so on.
Realistically, though, there are only so many hours in a day, and it's easy to get overwhelmed by how much you could do and use that as an excuse for not doing anything at all. (We can certainly think of times when we've looked at a long list of chores, decided they were all too much, and took a nap instead.) Give yourself permission to determine what will work best for you and your school community, rather than dividing things into strict categories.