Joy E-Book

Lydia Brownback

• Herausgeber: Crossway
• Kategorie: Religion und Spiritualität
• Sprache: Englisch

Seitenzahl: 111

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2010

Beschreibung

God's Word tells us of all that is ours through his Son. Our security is guaranteed, our provision is sure. In the face of such abundant life, why is our joy so often stolen from us? Undoubtedly we pass through seasons of difficulty, sorrow, and uncertainty. But real joy isn't conditional on circumstances, is it? How are we to pursue joy in seasons of both plenty and need? This newest addition to a series of small devotional books for women teaches that we will only find perpetual joy when we pursue Christ. Brownback helps women understand that their joy is not circumstantial, but built on the promises of God and the work of Jesus. Forty-two short devotionals look to Scripture for words of encouragement, correction, wisdom, and guidance to help women adorn themselves with joy. Part of the On-the-Go Devotionals series.

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Joy: A Godly Woman’s Adornment

Copyright © 2010 by Lydia Brownback

Published by Crossway                         1300 Crescent Street                         Wheaton, Illinois 60187

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First printing 2010

Printed in the United States of America

Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission.All rights reserved.

All emphases in Scripture quotations have been added by the author.

Trade paperback ISBN: 978-1-4335-1301-5

PDF ISBN: 978-1-4335-1302-2

Mobipocket ISBN: 978-1-4335-1303-9

ePub ISBN: 978-1-4335-2412-7

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Brownback, Lydia, 1963–      Joy : a godly woman’s adornment / Lydia Brownback.             p. cm. — (On-the-go devotionals)      ISBN 978-1-4335-1301-5 (tpb)      1. Christian women—Prayers and devotions. 2. Joy—Biblical teaching— Meditations. 3. Suffering—Biblical teaching—Meditations. I. Title. II. Series. BV4844.B765          2010 242'.643—dc22                                                                 2009040510

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With gratitude to God for his gift to the church of Cora Hogue

Contents

Introduction

The Devotions

Joy in Going Forward

Joy in Repentance

Joy in Rejection

Joy, No Matter What

Joy in God’s Place

Joy in Thanksgiving

Joy in Letting Go

Joy in the Present

Joy in Eternity

Joy in Discipleship

Joy in Wisdom

Joy in Waiting

Good Joy and Bad Joy

Joy in the Path of Life

Persevering for Joy

Joy in Forgiveness

Joy in Being Home

Joy in Drawing Near to God

Joy in the Blessings of Others

The Responsibility of Joy

Counterfeit Joy

Joy in Vulnerability

Joy in Knowing Jesus

Joy in Abiding

Joy in Eating and Drinking

The Joy of Wonder

The Fruit of Joy

Joy in All God’s Gifts

Joy in Hard Things

Joy in Today

Joy in God’s Providences

Joy from Failure

Joy in God’s Care

Joy in Prayer

Joy in Discernment

Joy in Trust

Joy in Full Provision

Joy from Rejoicing

Joy in Christ Alone

Joy in Submission

Joy in God’s Love

Introduction

Joy. It’s what makes us stand out from the world around us. Along with the gift of Christ himself comes everything we will ever really need. Our security is guaranteed. Our provision is sure. Our path is guided. Undoubtedly we pass through seasons of difficulty and sorrow and uncertainty, but real joy isn’t conditioned upon our circumstances. So why are we gloomy much of the time? We don’t have to be gloomy. We should most certainly not be gloomy! But all too often our thoughts and words are punctuated by grumbling and bad moods. We get caught up in looking at what we lack rather than all we have.

Most of us are privileged women, not only spiritually but temporally. That is part of our problem. We are over-privileged. Available to us is a pill for every ailment, government aid for financial difficulty, and eighteen permutations of our preferred Starbucks beverage. On top of that we have free access to the Word and the people of God. Because those things are so easily had, we have come to see our privileges as rights, but such an outlook is a joy crusher. Everything we have—health, freedom, friendship, family, job, government protection—is a gift, not a right. Remembering that, when things go wrong, keeps joy alive. Joy is always available to those indwelt by the Holy Spirit, which is why gloominess is a copout.

The apostle Paul was probably the most joyful man who ever lived, yet he had few privileges. Here is how Paul described his life:

Far greater labors, far more imprisonments, with countless beatings, and often near death. Five times I received at the hands of the Jews the forty lashes less one. Three times I was beaten with rods. Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I was adrift at sea; on frequent journeys, in danger from rivers, danger from robbers, danger from my own people, danger from Gentiles, danger in the city, danger in the wilderness, danger at sea, danger from false brothers; in toil and hardship, through many a sleepless night, in hunger and thirst, often without food, in cold and exposure. And, apart from other things, there is the daily pressure on me of my anxiety for all the churches. (2 Cor. 11:23–28)

The man who lived those things also wrote, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice” (Phil. 4:4). Despite all he went through on a regular basis, he could rejoice because “the Lord is at hand” (v. 5). He never lost sight of who controlled his life, and he lived for his Lord: “for to me to live is Christ” (1:21). Joy and Christ-centeredness go hand-in-hand, so if we lack joy more often than we have it, might the truth be that we aren’t Christ-centered? Surely, for some of us, it is. Even those of us going through a season of darkness can pursue joy, trusting that God designed us for it. Sooner or later, in Christ, we will find it. The trick for some of us is to change our self-oriented, worldly focus to Christ, and for others it is to take fresh hold of God’s promises that no matter how dark life seems, he is going to push you out into the light.

First and foremost, we have to want joy. Some of us find a perverse satisfaction in our gloom, much like a baby pitching a tantrum to get what she wants. But God doesn’t respond to tantrums. Our moodiness dishonors God and robs us of the happiness that lies right at our fingertips. If we want to change—to live with perpetual joy—we must pursue it, and in Christ we are guaranteed to find it.

thedevotions

Joy in Going Forward

The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and covered up. Then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.

MATTHEW 1 3 : 4 4

The man in Jesus’ parable was no fence-sitter. He had found the kingdom of heaven—the rule and reign and love of God through Jesus Christ—and he was overjoyed. The wonders of it made him want more and more, and his whole life became about acquiring it. He gave all he had to get more than he could even imagine.

Such self-surrender always leads to joy. No matter what we give up for the sake of Christ and knowing God better, joy is going to result. Initially, it might not seem that way. The man in the parable had to sell all he had in order to buy the field. The time of sale is usually where we are tempted to stop. We find the kingdom of heaven, but we don’t go all out to possess it fully and to let it possess us. We want Jesus but not necessarily costly discipleship. We want a kind heavenly Father, but not a disciplining one. We want our character bettered but not transformed. We want the benefits of Christianity without the cost, a price we must pay if we would go the whole way into the Christian life. Knowing this about us, Jesus said:

Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. (Matt. 10:34–39)

The man in Jesus’ parable did just this, and what he acquired was far better than anything he gave up. Fence-sitters can’t know the joy of the man in the parable. Holding back is a joy killer. Why do we cling to the possessions and desires and personal dreams that hinder our possessing the kingdom of God more fully? Some of us do so because we aren’t convinced that what we will gain is worth whatever we will leave behind. Others hold back because the pain of the loss just seems too great to bear. We cannot imagine how we will survive without that certain relationship or plan. It feels like death. That’s because it is death. It’s the losing of our lives that Jesus was talking about.

When we are facing the death of self, the costliness of discipleship, we are likely to pull back unless we remember the promise we have been given about how it will all turn out. The man in Jesus’ parable wound up owning the field. And Jesus said that those who lose their lives—all the earthly things they lean on for happiness and security—will find what they have been looking for all along. God will see to that.

Joy in Repentance

Do not be grieved, for the joy of the LORD is your strength.

NEHEMIAH 8 : 1 0

Sin brings misery. There are no exceptions. Ever. Experience has shown us all how true this is, but we continue to sin anyway because we think that somehow, someway, this time will be different. This time we will escape. This time things will go our way. This time we will be able to manipulate the circumstances to bring us the outcome we hope for. We buy into the lie again and again, but even when we turn from God, he never turns from us. He is faithful to his unfaithful people. That’s why Nehemiah, the governor of Israel, told the Israelites not to be grieved.

The hearts of the people under Nehemiah had turned away from God. The bad choices they had made over a long period had led them where sin always leads—to discouragement, loss, and feeling distant from God. (Sin never produces anything worthwhile in our lives.) But when the people heard God’s Word, they were deeply convicted of sin. They were done with excuses. They had ignored the Lord and hurt him, and their awakened awareness of it brought grief to their hearts.

We grieve after we sin, too, but there is a difference between the grief of consequences suffered and that of having hurt the Lord. Only one leads to repentance. The old saying is true: being sorry for sin means being sorry enough to quit. If we are sorry primarily because our sinful choices don’t work out very well, we aren’t really going to quit. We will just change our tactics.

Repentance means turning around and going the other direction. It involves an active cutting off of all that has come between us and the Lord. Feelings of grief may or may not be present, but holy action will be, and as we step out in real repentance, we will find that we do feel sorry for how our sin has driven a wedge into our relationship with God. The Israelites had reached this point, and they were weeping over what their sin had done. But it was just at this point that they were surprised by joy.

Joy is the last thing we expect when the fact of our sinfulness penetrates our hearts. We know we deserve to be miserable, and so often we are tempted to wallow in misery as a way to prove how sorry we are or to try to get back in God’s favor. But God doesn’t want wallowing. Wallowing actually has more to do with us than with God: “Oh, Lord, my sin is so very bad. How could you love someone as bad as me?”

Instead of wallowing, godly grief embraces grace. We forget our own badness and look at God’s kind heart and willingness to forgive. We look away from ourselves and toward the cross, where our badness was crucified with Christ. It is not our sin that wins the day, but God’s mercy. That’s why Nehemiah told the people not to be grieved. Now that they had repented and made a wholehearted commitment to turn back to the Lord, joy was theirs. They were to look away from their sin and even from their sorrow over it—away from themselves altogether—and find the joy of renewal, hope, and confident trust that would strengthen them in their way.

Are you discouraged by sin? Do you think you have forfeited joy forever because what you have done is so bad? Don’t linger there. Turn back to God with all your heart, and you will find that joy is right there awaiting you.

Joy in Rejection

Then they left the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the name.

ACTS 5 : 4 1

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