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The book was written based on the real experiences and cognitions of the author. Many topics are covered in this book. The problems and misconceptions of contemporary spirituality are exposed. The author described the truth about God, love and the meaning of life in an unusual but simple way. The topics of men and women were touched upon, in which way both sexes make mistakes and make life difficult for themselves in terms of love and sex. Constructive solutions and suggestions are given regarding modern love relationships, morality and sexuality. The book does not provide a template, as many books do. This book provides guidance and highlights a wide range of possibilities and consequences that the worldly focused person does not count on or pay attention to. As soon as there is no pattern, it means that the decision is yours, but your decision will be correct and fruitful because of this book. We will mention only some of the topics covered in detail in this book:
– misconceptions of modern people.
– happiness in love relationships.
– the truth about God.
– karma and moral correctness.
– enlightenment and spiritual awakening.
– the meaning of life and creation.
– positive living of sexuality.
– seduction, engagement and marriage.
– fostering self-esteem, dignity and self-worth.
– emotional healing and emotional intelligence.
– spiritual experiences and knowledge of God.
– traps of the mind.
– developing character traits and knowledge of God's attributes.
– dangers and misconceptions of social networks and atheism.
– and much more...
You just need to research and process the information from the book and go on your own joyfully through life. Don't let some unpleasant statements from the book upset you. However, you decide for yourself and you know what you want. The book is precisely intended for you to live more correctly and happily and act with meaning. Good luck!
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SPIRITUALITY, LOVE RELATIONSHIPS, SEXUALITY AND MORAL CORRECTNESS
Unification of the Spiritual and Secular
Author:
Zivkovic Vladimir
D2D Edition
Copyright 2023
All Rights Reserved
TABLE OF CONTENT
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
BOOK NO.1: “RETURN TO GOD: MEN AND WOMEN”
Chapter I – MY WORKS
Chapter II –NEGATIVITY OF MEN AND WOMEN
Chapter III – UPBRINGING
Chapter IV – GENDER MISCONCEPTIONS
BOOK NO.2:”SEXUALITY AND SEDUCTION”
Chapter I – Sexuality – A short guide for dummies
Chapter II – Lectures/Discourse on seduction
Chapter III – The examples of seduction
Chapter IV – Delusions on Sexuality
BOOK NO.3:”RETURN TO GOD: LOVE RELATIONSHIPS”
Chapter I – PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE RELATIONSHIPS
Chapter II – RETURN TO FAITHFULNESS
Chapter III – RELATIONSHIPS AND KARMA
Chapter IV – DEVELOPING SYMPATHY
Chapter V – EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
BOOK NO 4: “SELF–HELP: THE UNDERSTANDING OF LIFE”
The Philosophy of Life
Internal injuries
Self–healing
Wisdom
Aggression
Destructiveness
Self–esteem
On meaninglessness
Perseverance
BOOK NO 5: “THE BOOK ABOUT DIVINE SELF”
Divine Self and Self
Knowledge
Faith
The Law and Karma
The Spiritual Path
THE BOOK NO 6: “Spirituality in the Age of Corona”
SPIRITUALITY AND CORONA
HUMANITY
THE BOOK NO 7: “HOW IS YOUR LIFE?”
SPIRITUALITY OF THE NEW AGE
RELATIONSHIPS OF MEN AND WOMEN
MEANING OF LIFE
SPIRITUAL TEACHINGS
THE BOOK NO.8: “Journey of the Clones”
HOW TO PROGRESS?
GOD'S JUSTICE
ARE WE GOD'S CHILDREN?
BATTLE OF THE SEXES
COMBINATION OF EGOISM AND CAREER
CULTIVATION OF IDEALS
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I am grateful both to good and bad people because they have helped me and they are still helping me defining my inner self and reaching the happiness within and around me.
Thanks to Supreme that is within me, who has never left me, and that is my lifelong friend, protector, and companion.
Short cautionary tales by Vladimir Zivkovic
If you’ve just been searching for self–help reading and an easy and quick fix for your problems, there is no such advice in this book. Vladimir’s trilogy 'Return to God' is an authentic collection of real life stories and situations which were created by the author as the result of his personal spiritual journaling. His stories offer great insights into the modern life of man and women, their inner struggle, and problems they face in their search for meaning and true spirituality. The external influences of the corrupted individuals and society, as well as main reasons and internal sources of corruption, could be found in our closest surroundings. These stories, in a nutshell, deal with the current lack of morality, truth, and spiritual guidance in everyday life, as well in male–female relationships. Vladimir sheds the light on possible underlying problems and their true origin in human misconceptions, blurred moral vision, and false beliefs.
The first part of the book 'Man and Women' covers a current variety of moral issues in life and relationships and to the point. Author’s witty and sometimes satirical examples and comments from the real life and from his own experience offer valuable guidance in spiritual, moral and relationships matters. He points to the ego and lack of knowledge and faith in Self and God as main sources of human misery. His tone is in a role of provoking the readers’ thoughts on the capacity to grow spiritually and believe in Divine Self inside of every living being. In author’s mirror, you can see the reflection of all faces of humanity that we meet in everyday life. This ugly sneering face of reality is teasing all of us to revise our current relationships and true nature of our motives for acting. The stories help us realize the shortcomings and help us recognize our way out of the jungle of modern misconceptions and virtual reality that leads us only away from the true spiritual path of Self and Divinity discovery as well true human values in common everyday life.
So, it is not easy finding answers. It takes the time to spiritually grow and find your true purpose. This reading is just an author’s gift to help you on your way of discovery. Keep your eyes and your mind open and bear in mind that “Not all who wander are lost”.
Maja Djolovic: English language professional, freelance translator and writer.
Vladimir Zivkovic is the man of the soul
Biljana Obradovic, poetess and the writer of several novels from Valjevo will tell us more about the book: Vladimir Zivkovic is a man dedicated to the lifelong study of the soul. His writing reveals calmness, consistency in his path to God, as the only light that sustains the inner being. I really like his voice which pays special respect to everyone, especially to girls and women. By reading his works related to the faith in God, and therefore in you, I realized that the path of knowledge is difficult but fruitful. I realized that badly directed ego might destroy even the greatest minds, as well as biggest believers. Vladimir talks about the modesty life and balanced desires. Thus he shares his knowledge with others, to make them deeply think about the life they live nowadays, in the modern times.
I hope he will publish more books to shed light on the path of the just and truly believing men. With due respect of this writing, I wish you success and a large number of readers!
ABOUT THE BOOK
This book is the result of four years’ text writing. However, writing is a result of many years of spiritual practice and experience. Each text is a whole in itself. This text collection is made with the intention of helping people find the answers to questions that bother them, and still, this questions and answers define a teaching for each individual while following it, to improve their spirituality and achieve more happiness, love, joy and goodness.
I have never before wanted to publish a book. Recently, some events and experiences convinced me of the purpose of sharing my insights and experience with other people. I must say that I'm not a particularly gifted writer, and everyone must understand that this is more informative reading.
Many examples that I have presented in this book are truth, and many of them represent the state of a human soul. I leave the opportunity to the reader to determine the character of the examples represented. Also, there are many examples with the answer to the question or the problem itself. However, there are situations where it is the best for a reader to find the answers on its own.
This book deals with self–criticism, and further on with self–healing. Also, many sections focus on male and female love relationships. The main reason is that most of the people want to have a loving relationship, to be happy and grow spiritually. Therefore, questions about love relationships, self–healing and recovering one’s own values are important because they are closely related to the spirituality of the contemporary man.
I took part in many spiritual activities and had significant spiritual experiences. Still, this book is not dealing with those same experiences, in general, but with things that every person should and must know.
I want to point out that this book is a great everyday reading. Thus, generally, this book is meant for reading on a daily basis. It could also be used while praying to God, as a reference to the question that bothers you.
Experiences help you achieve comprehension. Each text in this book is based on the vision, the comprehension, or spiritual experience. Therefore, it takes the time to adopt the truth presented in every text of the book.
If anyone doubts the truthfulness of the revelations in this book, my advice is that the person should check first for the justification of its suspicion.
Words may lie, but actions will always tell the truth.
If I am telling the truth, the truth will reveal itself in the world. So, do not be hasty. Always check for the message of the story that you are reading, and to what extent it is manifested in the life itself and in the world.
BOOK NO.1: “RETURN TO GOD: MEN AND WOMEN”
INTRODUCTION
Divine Self is related to a universal soul which is inside all living beings.
Self is also Divine Self but it is the single entity inhabiting a particular individual.
The main characteristic of the Modern Era is that man has estranged himself from the God. Some contemporaries practice spirituality, but God doesn’t appear in their spiritual activities. Likewise, some psychiatrists treat their patients, without knowledge of the purpose of their living, and without a goal that will ensure their lasting happiness.
This is the age of false spirituality and mentally disordered psychiatrists. Still, this is the time to get free from misconception and prejudice. So, no matter how much people went astray, as much is better that they recover their spirituality. It is only essential to recognize misconceptions, adopt goodness, and return to God.
What’s the problem here?
Because of their grievances, not only do people not want to return to God, but they would also like to show that He doesn’t exist. That is the common malice, as an effect of being hurt. It is similar to a child that cries, and no matter which toy it gets, it keeps throwing it away and crying even louder. It doesn’t even bother taking a toy, playing with it or being pleased.
Thus, the spite is an act of betraying yourself, others and happiness.
This book offers many answers to questions that many other books may not offer. However, this book also encourages readers to search for some enlightened emotions, principles, and joys in themselves, as well as for some important answers on their own.
Returning to God is returning to oneself. Returning to oneself is recovering happiness and love which further implies regaining self–value and eternity.
I am aware that many people consider my philosophy disquieting. So, what does it matter if you have the opportunity to recover your principles? Is it really important that you have been troubled, and if it bothers you because your vanity or your ego has been hurt?
Current Modernity makes people believe in evil and ignorance, and associate them with freedom. There is no freedom without real connection with God. No man can be truly happy without the presence of God. Modernity doesn’t equal to constantly having new half–witted ideas. Modernity means to always re–create a new and simpler path to reunite with God.
In this book, the effort was made to make intelligible both the contemporariness of man and his quest for happiness and God. It means that the book is full of inconveniences for the common man who has lived egoistically since his childhood. Here lies the misfortune of the modern man. He evades inconveniences and overlooks that evading brings misfortune.
That is why I don’t bother to promote some particular spirituality. That is because I know that all people are one and the same God. That implies that each man is deep inside perfect and spiritual. This story is about common spiritual life, with the fulfillment of desires and in connection with God.
No one will fail to reach God, and no one will reach it by violence, sin, or hypocrisy.
Thus salvation is in joyful living and continual spiritual growing.
Therefore, the purpose of life is in finding Divine Self, which is the God inside you, and in the experience of Divine Self, i.e. the Self.
Now is the moment to disperse the first misconception. God isn’t revealed only by people who deal with spirituality, faith, and religion. God is mainly reached by people who initially live a common life, work for money, create families and fulfill their goals. Being focused on God, love and joy are growing, and everything false disappears on its own.
That is why you should know that the happiness is in your hands. It’s found in the quest for God, regardless of the way of your life.
Therefore, basically, the chosen ones don’t exist. The man has a choice of its own whether he will be chosen by God itself.
Chapter I – MY WORKS
A PREDESTINED WINNER
It happens that man fights a battle.
It happens that God knows that the man is going to win.
Furthermore, it happens that God has the intention of giving that man reap hook for weed.
What does that mean?
The ones that weed out are favored by God.
Why?
Because God knows that there are many people who grow weed even while sleeping.
Thus, God respects those who weed out. God makes such men invincible.
Keep this in mind.
Not all that glitters is gold and not every ''fool'' is looser.
THE AGE OF EVIL AND OBSCENITY
Many people are miserable and lonely in today’s world of evil and obscenity. Those who live for fame, power, wealth and sex, are about to discover how miserable they are.
What does that mean?
When a person discovers that he/she is unhappy, he/she needs help. No one can really help such kind of people. Many say that love heals. That is, mainly, the truth. Still, I have to mention, miserable man is a danger to himself because the love of others can’t heal him. Healing is found in discovering oneself. Even if the whole world loves you, that doesn’t mean anything to you, if you are unhappy, and you don’t love yourself.
This book is based on my personal experience. I have been through everything that I am writing about. So, I rarely preach someone else’s teaching, although something like that is possible if I consider it beneficial. I believe I could help many people because I have experienced revelations myself.
However, I’m not like many spiritualists who tie the people to themselves. My goal is to offer direction to each person to reach God and healing. Happiness and self–respect of the individual depend on the relationship with God. Thus my goal is to help people in the proper way. That means that everyone has self–healing deep inside, and I can help anyone accomplish it. God is perfect. Life is perfect likewise if God exists in human life.
This book should teach you not to be ashamed of your wishes, urges, and passions. They exist to teach you how to use them, and how to overcome them through suitable, positive experiences. Misfortune and loneliness of the new age are the results of falsely living urges and passions. Many say that everything is created for man, but many have forgotten that everything is beneficial for man only if used correctly and morally, in a Godly manner.
Thus we reach absurd, where many nice songs have been sung, but due to vulgarity and nakedness, everyone’s mind and heart are poisoned, needlessly. That is because sex and nakedness are given more significance than needed. Only because sex and nakedness are placed where don’t belong at all. Thus, sinners don’t want to admit that it’s not freedom and not genuine living of urges and passions, but the sort of weakness and cowardice, which results in loss of dignity and love. No one explained to those people that it’s not possible to find happiness without God, love, and dignity– chances are literally zero percent.
Thus, you could see evil and doubt everywhere. Many people live in fear and sadness. I’m willing to offer them help. Especially to depressed ones. I’ll help by revealing the truth to them, and by pointing out their mistakes. When everyone reveals the truth and feels the presence of God, everyone will be saved, even before they realize it. So, the path to God itself leads to the wholeness of life, happiness, and the most important purpose of life, self–respect, and self–worth. To those people happiness, freedom and love have been predestined.
For me, God isn’t a mere word which many use without knowing Him. The commandment is that you shall not take the Lord’s name in vain. However, I’ll constantly refer to it in this book.
Why?
Because I’ll not mention His name in vain.
God is within me, and God is within everyone. That’s the truth that every person will discover.
Happy self–healing, and rejoice!
THE FREEDOM OF THOUGHT
The history of mankind shows that people in the past weren’t allowed to have their own opinion. Actually, they could have it, but in the most of the cases weren’t allowed to express it. In that way, despotism and hegemony ruled. Those in power had the exclusive rights and control, so people had to succumb to their will.
Why?
Mainly because the conflict of beliefs often leads to real clash, and even to the armed conflicts of unprecedented levels.
Many have been fighting for freedom of thought and speech. It’s called democracy today. That’s why people have been going to the great extremes. Everyone thinks that has right to do, say, and think whatever he/she wants. Such ideology is absolutely incorrect.
The truth is what’s important, not the belief. That further implies that many beliefs are wrong and untrue.
Take prostitution, for example. One might think that prostitution pays off. However, regardless of the thought and freedom of which man has right, the more it cheats, the promiscuous person gets even more miserable. This is an indisputable truth. Many people can deny it, and many may have a different belief, however, no man can be happy by violating intimacy and dignity, which stands in fact for the grave violation of the soul.
Here we are a step closer to what I want to explain.
Freedom isn’t to think and do what you want. Freedom means to love, and have the capability of being good, and therefore doing good deeds. When a man does evil, it means that even his thoughts are evil, so his thinking isn’t correct. That still means that person who thinks incorrectly, also has all the right to keep his/her thoughts to himself/herself and not to poison other people’s minds.
Certainly, despotism is not good if it is improper ideology. In that case, you have to listen to someone who’s unjust. On the other hand, it’s very destructive to use the freedom of thought and speech to live dishonestly, and poisoning the minds and hearts of other people.
So, everyone has the right to think and do what they want. However, this is my pledge. I pledge peace, love, justice and freedom. In case someone doesn’t like that, it’s not my problem. Rightness is the mother of wisdom for man striving towards God.
THE EXPERIENCE OF GOD
The experience of God is both the experiences of happiness and love. If in the certain moment stops being that, then it’s the experience of perfection.
What does that mean?
I’m often explaining that the presence of God is essential for the experience of true happiness. You need God’s presence so that you don’t feel lonely. The presence of God is essential for self–worth.
God is joy itself, the rest are just the paths leading to it.
The man who limits himself limits its own mind, thus he wants everything to be easily explained, to be proven and to be put into its own place. Therefore, giving spontaneous advice to many people to nurture God's presence indicates a tendency towards madness and delusions.
However, happiness is an experience. God is experienced. The world is experienced. If you haven’t experienced God, and you believe that it can be fabricated, that only shows that you haven’t experienced true happiness. Every man experiences its mundane happiness. However, that happiness isn’t complete. This is just fleeting happiness and leaves you with the feeling of frustration, disappointment and, which is the worst, with the feeling of loneliness and rejection when it’s over.
Why is that so?
God is perfection. Experiencing God, you experience harmony. That harmony gives you feeling of happiness, joy, and love to melt your heart. That means that the God’s presence is magnificent and vigorous. In this way, your consciousness can’t be low, even if the worst things have happened in life.
So, the conclusion can be made in this case, that someone who’s never had experience of God has neither experienced true happiness, nor love (i.e. experienced it incompletely).
Why do I explain all this?
People plan their future. However, this plan comes down to something that’s generally not the future, but planning how to live life until death, and to support their ego. In this way, the man isn’t really planning its own future, but the future for someone he isn’t, for his mind and body. Soul acquires body in order to acquire its own awareness through earthly experience. That’s why the only real plan is achieving awareness of God i.e. self. Everything else additionally comes, and if achieved, it must be done in a proper manner, otherwise, you’re in a big trouble, you will be left without God, purposeful life, and what is the worst – the loneliness will set in.
The message is following:
Take your God everywhere with you. Pray to Him and talk to Him. Entrust Him with things that bother you. For the start, take notice of which your prayers and problems were heard and granted by Him. That will help you develop certain unity with God. You are a lucky person if you have God’s presence.
God’s presence can’t be faked. If it doesn’t exist, there is only a lie. The same that you can’t fake happiness and that you’re not lonely.
Here we can see once again how the lack of faith in God reflects a lack of happiness and love and therefore lack of goodness and liveliness in man.
Therefore, when the man is dead, he can explain how the air is inhaled on Earth on the other world, but no one can understand it before being born and breathing air. Likewise, No one can know the experience of God until he has chosen goodness, love, happiness and His presence.
Evidently, here is confirmed that many are blind for obvious, while they pretend that something else is obviously bad and impossible, that certainly isn’t even close to truth.
According to that, ignorant is the man that denies God, therefore himself, her/his life and the Self. Such person is delusional. The evidence is following: the absence of happiness, the presence of sadness, fear of death and loneliness that such person can’t drive away or hide from oneself.
DESTROYING DEMONS
Each advanced soul can find and destroy a demon.
What does that mean?
It’s just difficult until you’ve spotted the first one.
When you’ve spotted the first one, you get scared like you’ve never been before. That happens because it’s ugly, terrible and evil. You think that demon’s going to eat you.
Nevertheless, there’s no way back. You have to face it. It’s emerged from the waters and attacked you. In the beginning, the demon is stronger and fiercer than you, but while you fight, he’s growing weaker.
You destroy it completely in the end.
Enlightened by the victory, you realize a thing:
You came to win. Your destiny is to win.
Therefore, main enemies are not demons that you made and nurtured for ages. True enemies are pessimism, skepticism, and disbelief in God and in eternity.
A piece of advice:
Believe in God. If you do, believe even more. It will lead you to unfathomable heights, achieving true victories, one after another.
THE YOUNG PASS IT ON
Nowadays it can be often heard that today’s youth is much worse than in recent years, and even much worse than in the older times.
What does that mean?
If that’s true, it doesn’t mean that young people aren’t good. For, while growing up they were significantly influenced by their elders. If the older are bad and not improving, then younger are even worse. There isn’t much philosophy. That further implies that if the young are worse, the most responsibility should be assumed by an elder. Certainly, that one’s disposition isn’t determined by the individual itself. So, what child has experienced in the family, that’s carried out onto the street and into the world. Therefore, affinities and ambitions are created in the family and there’s a great influence of the parents, as well as of others and society.
Lately, the entire society is deviant and there’s no wonder that children can’t have much good and valuable experience in real life.
The news is full of accidents, immorality, gossip and fabrications. The basic conception of the press itself and television illustrates the mentality and interests of people.
Here I don’t state that young are not guilty because they’re learned to inflict loss and violation to society. Here I want to say that it’s irresponsible not to understand that the old are directly responsible for such state, and take the most part of the responsibility for that.
If the child had been taught by parents to do harm to itself and society, then even a true spiritual teacher could not easily help such child. Wretchedness was passed on to children. Neither children respect their parents, nor elderly. Children suffer as well as the society. This is because no one understands that life is based on five basic human values (love, peace, non–violence, truth and morality), that are essential to prosperity and happiness.
Only an ignorant person could teach children egoism. Afterward, the same simpleton doesn’t want to take its responsibility. It often happens that parents complain about their children. They refuse to admit that they didn’t put enough faith in God, in themselves, and in their children, to bring them up appropriately, and teach them to live for themselves, and not for egoism and selfishness.
Only 10 years ago some spiritual paths made sense. Many made those paths leading astray, as they thought to themselves how extra spiritual they are, so they know so much and make progress. Egoism has grown so much that older are destroying mainly everything valuable created in the past. It’s bad if the tradition made people narrow–minded. However, it’s much worse when people have no regard for tradition, and when the old, good, valuable, and forever sustainable is degraded and rejected.
I explain this because many new innovations have been made that society doesn’t benefit from, but just enlarge someone’s pockets and buttocks. That’s how I am always newly struck with even younger people who foster such philosophy. There are no traces of goodness and mercy. Those come for help, but they can’t be helped. As we know, the person drowning must lend a hand to be pulled out of the water. It’s not enough just to complain, ask for help, and the savior will lend the hand. This further implies that nobody has to come to ask for help if he is not aware that he’s the only one who can help himself.
Is someone earning payment for you, or you earn it on your own? Does anyone eat for you? In which way you think someone else can pay off for your debts? What kind of belief, and what kind of philosophy is that? Isn’t it strange that such Utopia doesn’t exist, and the majority of people still think that they have right to fornicate, do wickedness and evil and that someone will help them in the end?
At this point ego will ask: – So why bother to ask for help, if I have to do it all on my own?
You don’t have to do it all alone, certainly many can help you, but you must allow being helped, you must accept consequences of your doings, and you must pay off all wrong doings.
That means that many people need help with instruction because they haven’t been appropriately raised. If you are taught good manners, you’ll live happily and in peace. If you’re rude, you’ll be miserable and lonely. Sigh, no one can save you from that, not even God.
The message is following:
Help itself is in giving direction and instruction.
It’s true that stubborn man can’t learn anything. Destiny will teach him/her. Thus, not all are stubborn and definitely, not all are badly taught. Some are badly instructed because the worse ones taught them, while they had pretended or been deluded that they knew.
Chapter II –NEGATIVITY OF MEN AND WOMEN
WOMAN–SAMURAI
In the physical plane, there’s only one Universe.
In the astral plane, there are an infinite number of worlds.
In one of those worlds, in a desert, there’s a hall. In the hall, there are all kinds of samurai warriors.
However, the most striking is a woman–samurai, who’s always ready to sacrifice and to give her life, and it seems for nothing.
What does that mean?
Woman–samurai is not pathetic.
Why?
For the reason, that her zeal for sacrifice is a God’s gift. Her fearlessness in sacrifice in itself is a reward.
Contemporary men are blind. Looking for forms and passions, they overlook dedicated wife. This woman loves without reservation, and sacrifices for the man.
The commitment of the woman’s the heart of love relationships. Without these qualities, every relationship is imaginary.
WAR
In one of the astral planes, there’s a place that is constantly at war. In that area, all kind of beings is fighting with deadly weapons as contemporary scientists can’t even imagine.
When I had seen what kind of horrific machines they were killing themselves, from the very spot I jumped into the abyss at once.
Then I realized how cramped was this small parcel of land. While I was falling, I saw the whole Universe beneath me. I could choose where to fall.
What does that mean?
This world, as it really exists, is a human counterfeit.
People are attached to their ego and they lead countless wars in the confined space.
So, jump into the abyss. Leave the fight and hatred. Don’t be afraid. God will allow you the freedom you want. Still, you have to give up on the evil and look for happiness.
Why?
Because the God gives what you seek.
Modern women look for wealth, money, and power in men. They don’t consider if a man has given up on violence and contempt. Afterward, they’re wondering, how they’ve been destroyed and ruined by man.
That is because they don’t look for a man that is nonviolent, and who is ready to jump into the abyss for them.
THE WALL OF PRIDE
A girl really loved a man. And he got to love her secretly. However, his friends that were against her were the main obstacle. Thus he had no courage to admit that. On the outside, everything looked as if the girl wasn’t worth it.
On one occasion, he rejected her rudely, letting her know that she’s not worth it.
What does that mean?
His friends applauded since he turned out macho. His parents have been telling him how special and smart he was. He could brag around, because he had refused to love someone, and it turned out that he’s more ''reputable''.
The message is following:
Pride is one of the worst traits. It makes you look good among fake friends but makes your inner world have very poor and pathetic.
Being proud– that means being a dead man before the death of the body.
So you better think twice, how much pride has taken a toll on your life so far?
TIME EATERS (Aka soul crushers)
There are many people that behave as if the soul could be destroyed.
What does that mean?
Today many people jump from one into another relationship. They are, assumedly, in search for “the one”. However, such people can’t help themselves taking someone’s dignity, as well as time.
What’s this about?
When the love relationship is over, then the following things are certain:
As first, you hurt someone, as well as yourself.
As the second, you took away someone’s dignity, because this person carries injuries and disappointment inside, as the relationship should be started with someone else. And how could he explain his previous relationship and sexual relationship to someone else?
Also, failed relationship means lost hope, trust and time.
If you’re keeping someone waiting, you’ve wasted its time. If you’ve cheated on someone, you wasted its time. In case you have abandoned someone, you took its time. It always takes time for healing. And time is God. Who doesn’t respect other people’s time and freedom, he also has no respect for God, therefore he can neither respect others, nor himself.
For that reason, beware of people who’ve left lots of relationships behind, and those who don’t respect other’s personality and time. Those are time eaters. They would like to be soul crushers. Luckily, God exists. No one can destroy the soul.
The message is following:
If you realize that time is God, you’ll protect both yourself and others easily, so you won’t accept sexual relationships irresponsibly, and you won’t stain others or your dignity.
A MALE HELPLESSNESS
When it comes to human weakness, man uses force in his helplessness and weakness.
What does that mean?
A weak and helpless person uses force just when he can’t be braver, either smarter. Such person has poorly developed its mind and heart. And in that way, he wants to control world and people. As soon as the person with a huge ego and complexes thinks that he’ll turn out sheep or weak, then he starts using force. This using of force just confirms his weakness and he’s even not aware of that.
Why?
Because he’s occupied with covering up of this that he knows to carry inside. If he wins by using force, this kind of person hopes to cover up weakness and cowardice. Otherwise, how do you think that stubbornness and resistance originated? A normal person will always go with a peaceful solution to the problems. A normal person always looks after other’s people interests, and afterward after its own. A weak one is afraid that someone will deceive or win him. Thus brute doesn’t think about reasons or consequences of his evil. He doesn’t want to face his weakness, so he uses force. There are few people who use force to defend weaker. Nowadays, stronger are bullying weaker and virtuous. Then, instead to defend weak, stronger team up against weaker, because the cowardice greatly increased, as well as evil in man, so ten stronger people are afraid of someone who is not able to beat anyone.
Have you heard the joke where four men have beaten one man? Some man was witnessing a fight, and thinking to himself whether to interfere. At some point, he joined the fight and said: – Look, we have bitten up the guy together.
That’s not the joke anymore, but a harsh reality.
Therefore, the only real disability is the spiritual weakness. This disability is starting to cause irreparable harm.
For that reason, always pay attention to man’s actions. If someone wants to dominate, that doesn’t reflect his reason and kindness. Domination is the form of manipulation. That form of manipulation stems from human complexes and distrust in oneself and God. Nowadays there’s widely accepted false conviction that manipulation can cure complexes, and thus achieve happiness. Not only that is it cowardly, but it’s very primitive conviction. If you believe that you’re wise and brave, why would you like to dominate someone and impose your will?
The described type of domination is common mainly for man. They impose it both on men and women. Domination is typical for weak. Mentally unstable man thinks that he has to use force.
The message is following:
Using force and manipulation is showing how much the other side is intolerable, i.e. the one that you want to dominate over. In that way, you subconsciously show how much the other side is better, wiser and smarter from you because if it wasn’t so, you wouldn’t be bothered and have to use the force (in desperation, fear, and weakness).
LUST
If love had to do with personal appearance and beauty, then mothers with ugly children wouldn’t love their offspring.
What does that mean?
If someone doesn’t know love, it can learn it from mothers.
Parents and children are linked by karma and they hurt each other very often. Though a child can be ugly, evil and sick, and mother will still love him/her. That means that present relationships between men and women are mainly based on lust and interest, not on love. Here I just want to point out that love between partners should exist and has nothing to do with looks or material state.
The man usually gets excited visually, and woman tactile. Therefore women that dress provocatively are evil and unfaithful. The man who take advantage of every chance to touch women, and meaning several different women, are unfaithful and irresponsible men.
What this men and women have in common?
It’s common that they don’t have respect for themselves, so for that reason, they don’t respect the opposite sex, so they take advantage of their position.
Which position?
They take advantage of the same position that allows them to dress provocatively, to touch and seduce someone. Therefore, I always repeat that seducing is trait related to people with complexes that don’t know love. Their success in seducing is very important to them because they have low self–esteem.
Therefore, Don Juans are never satisfied, nor happy. They exactly have evidence of being unfaithful. They know how much their victims are unfaithful. Why do I say, victims? There is no love relationship in seducing. There’s only seducer and the one that’s been misled. They are constantly taking turns in changing their roles. The victim becomes a despot and vice versa. Thus seducer never respects neither himself nor his victims. It's because he cheats, he doesn’t love those who cheats on, because what kind of person is the one that is tricked and led into bed by seducer?
What am I explaining here?
Today, when a girl looks good, she’s noticed by the most of the men for her looks. And if such girl succumbs to temptation and has so–called ''boyfriends'', there’s growing contempt inside over the time, and results in her inability to surrender to love.
There’s no wonder that modern girls dress up so scarcely and seductive. Such attire is the consequence of girls’ unconscious revenge. Most girls deliberately provoke lust in men, unconsciously, or out of revenge, because they’re not respected as human beings, but as hunks of good meat. A naive modern man thinks that they’re doing their best for him. Such man is not realizing that provocative dressing is often the outcome of subconscious contempt that woman carries inside in the same manner as lack of self–worth and self–respect.
A woman in love hides her charms only for her man i.e. spouse, because she knows intimacy, loyalty, and trust, and knows its values.
I’m not accusing women in this presentation. It might be even said that I defend them. Nowadays hardly any man could understand the misfortune of the woman that wants to love and be loved, but she only comes across the men who want to sexually abuse her, while they shamelessly lie how much they love and respect her. However, the real truth is usually that even if she was ugly, that man wouldn’t just dislike her, but he would also be disgusted by her.
Thus happens that contemporary women have to make effort to seduce men. They hadn’t been left any other choice.
Poor men are in the similar position, which, if they are noticed for their physical appearance when women see that they are poor, they turn bad. What a pity!
The message is following:
If someone doesn’t respect you, don’t mess with him. If someone tries to seduce you, run as far as you can. If you are seducing, think twice about yourself.
This should help you learn that it’s wrong for a woman to be provocative in public and that only unfaithful woman thinks that it’s good for man to take initiative when it comes to physical contact. There’s no wonder that many have eventually made the conclusion that they have contempt for the opposite sex, and they’ve never felt love.
Unfortunately, those who still haven’t recognized the truth will be unfortunate in love relationships.
MALE UNAVAILABILITY
The emotional unavailability of man is often proportional to the unfaithfulness of a woman.
What does that mean?
Men have always been more closed and tougher type of person when it comes to tenderness and openness in heart matters. However, modern man is extremely unavailable, far from being tolerable. Of course, this fault is closely connected with man. However, partners in the love relationship share the responsibility equally. Thus unavailability of the man is certainly related to the character of women. So, male unavailability is not a real problem. He was born as a man to learn to open up and surrender emotionally with the help of his woman. There is a problem if man never opens. So if he doesn’t open, his partner is equally responsible.
At this point, I have to point out modern female brutality. This brutality is found in secretive infidelity. The rule is that woman is to choose with whom she will engage in a sexual relationship. If she has sex with anyone outside of the marriage (even with so called boyfriend), her loyalty with time wears out, as well as her dignity.
One could think that dignity is equal to a number of partners one person had a sexual relationship with. That is not exactly the truth. Dignity disappears with committing sin. When it totally disappears, happiness and love also do. Loneliness and misfortune take their place. Thus a number of love partners reflect how much time and effort are necessary for man to heal. Many partners mean more injuries, wasted time for recovering, and more misery and unhappiness (very often sickness).
Male unavailability brings women loneliness and unhappiness.
So, why women look for unavailable men? The answer is: to learn what they do to others, while they think how emotional and clever they are. Neither man can sincerely open if he can’t rely on his woman. Women nowadays ask men to be aware and open, but they actually close the man with their secretive unfaithfulness they naively think to hide and act out their honesty.
Therefore many men close further as women press them more. If some open by force, overcoming fear and complexes, they disappoint even more about that. An unfaithful woman takes advantage of man’s sincerity, even unintentionally. This means that men could manage to open their feelings timely if they had been really loved. Because, men relies greatly upon woman’s fidelity, which women don’t understand, because they value sex differently, and very often completely wrong.
Women value faithfulness according to feelings they have, but their feelings are not sincere frequently. It means that they do not pay attention to purity of the body and sexual organs, which goes hand in hand with love and fidelity. So many women imagine that they love (although they sleep with other partners!), and wonder about how closed men are?
The message is following:
Men are responsible for their openness in relationships. Thus, any normal woman should know if her man is not opening, then it has to do with her character. In this case, I don’t talk about a relationship where man doesn’t love his woman, but he is with her for an unknown reason. Here I think about men that truly love their women.
Women having love relationships out of and before marriage, flirting and arousing jealousy, become extremely insensitive and evil in time, so they find evil men, or at least the men who do not open up and leave them deep inside abandoned and lonely.
So, heal yourself and you will find a good partner or your current one will change. Also, find closeness in self–healing, and happiness and love in a relationship.
Be careful when a woman complains that man do not open to her or cheat on her. That shows that such woman is unfaithful and manipulative, but she doesn’t see it, and no one even bothers to tell her. If someone is interested in such woman, discussion and closure are necessary. No one should think that need for clarity and safety in a relationship is cowardice. The real truth is when someone thinks that one shouldn’t strive for security in the relationship, is actually arrogance, which is the result of real cowardice.
As we see, having a bad partner is also a blessing, because thanks to his help you learn about loyalty and happiness. It’s all matter of choice.
IMPORTANCE OF FEELINGS
Many people nowadays live as if the sex and money are the most important things in life. Materialism is rapidly increasing nowadays. Though, there are people that think that only feelings matter.
What does that mean?
The feelings are important. Although, it is not reasonable that everything in your life depends on feelings. That means that if everything depends on them, then there is no wonder that you feel unhappy. And if you are unhappy, what kind of feelings you could have?
This means that the people that think that feelings are important also live with the illusion that everything has to be good and perfect in their lives. That is how attachment and egoism are developed. This is how developed attachment to family, sex, money, children, pets, comfort and more...
Here is raised the question: how and why is that so?
That is because if your feelings matter so much to you, then you are not interested in the deeper meaning of something. Something happens to you, and you don’t think about the significance of events, and why something happens to you, about the way to spiritually grow and become happy, but you think to yourself: – Poor me, I am so unhappy! – That is egoism itself that results in misery and misfortune.
When someone dies, people don’t consider why that is beneficial, they think about how to end their attachment and how ruined, tricked and injured they are. And why is that so?
The reason is that people consider themselves pathetic, and depending too much on feelings and pleasure. Love is an integral part of life, and love is free, unattached, and everyone can live it. The main problem is that many don’t live it, so they think it should be a gift from heaven.
What do I really point out here?
Men related to pleasure and easiness fosters selfishness, abandons love, while he believes that love is really important to him.
Also, the love feeling is not the only feeling.
The real trouble is that people find attachment more important, not the love. In that way a man thinks that God is cruel because he created suffering and death, not realizing that suffering and death are inevitable in creation. That is self–pity. Thus people that care about feelings, don’t actually live love, but the worst selfishness. They don’t live for love (although many won’t trust this), and, of course, they can’t perceive underlying reasons of incidents, suffering, and pain, they don’t understand the world around them, they can’t accept the world and people as they really are, and they believe as if they live for love and that they know love.
Thus, they live for selfishness, attachment, pleasure and belittled feelings, while they believe that they know love and live for it. Specifically, they live for love, but neither they have ever found it, nor lived it.
Some people really don’t understand opposite sex at all, not their partner, and they think as if they know something about love.
It is hard to explain the things I present here.
Nowadays, women mainly glorify their feelings. Yet, exactly these women are lazy to deserve and get real and true love and positive feelings. They live insensitivity, infidelity, and self–destruction, while they are not interested in real reasons of creation and search for God. The question is if something brings misfortune, and you imagine that it brings happiness, does that mean that your happiness is going to be lasting? And is possible for fabricated truth to become reality, i.e. real truth?
The message is following:
Love feeling is important feeling. Though, besides love, there are many other binding and destructive feelings. Many modern men and women confuse these destructive feelings for love. They are so overwhelmed with the importance of their feelings that they are overlooking living egoism and selfishness in reality, and not love. That is manifested through bad luck in love relationships and through sufferings reflecting the lack of understanding of life, creation, and God.
In simple words, no one has right to be evil and unfaithful and make excuses with ''love feelings''. This is, of course, hypocrisy and lie. You can deceive yourself and people on the secular, but you can’t deceive God and karma.
IRRATIONALITY (Aka short–sightedness)
Once there was a group of homosexuals who moved across forests and dark uninhabited places and raped men.
One night, in some park, there were two youngsters that talked. They got surrounded and provoked by a group of homosexuals who intended to commit premeditated wrongdoing. One of them managed to slip and run away. They let him go, anyway, because they liked better the other guy.
The guy stuck with them said:
– Please, let me go. My friend is very dangerous, he will come back.
They laughed. The young man said:
– I am serious. He won’t beat you up. He will kill you all.
They laughed even more.
The young man that ran away actually went to his car for a weapon, he came back, and he slaughtered them all while they were whining and begging to spare their lives. He killed them all cruelly, with no mercy.
This example, which is similarly repeating every day in the world, is very instructive and brings many teachings:
– As first, evil people that do evil deeds have no common sense. They are not able to judge neither man nor situation.
–Secondly, justice is always carried out, although many things in the world seem cruel and unjustly.
– As third, all people are equal in front of God, and you are considered crazy if you treat everyone fairly.
Thus, watch out for other people’s reactions to your actions? Are people afraid of you and if they cry because of you? The manner in which you affect people today, they will affect your life in future.
Homosexuals mentioned here were not only cruelly slaughtered in this life, but they will be raped many times in the next lives and without their knowing why.
The message is following:
An only man close to God and has an inner connection with God could know what he can, and what can’t, what is allowed, and what not. People that do evil are not aware of that. That is because they are led by ignorance throughout the life. A timid man is led by fear. That is not good. An evil man is led by complexes. That is also not good. Evil people use other people weaknesses to satisfy their urges and selfish interests. Such people always got tricked and hurt. Afterward, in the next life, they have to pay off karmic debts.
For that reason, cowardice, ignorance, and misfortune are one and same. They actually do not go separately.
Don’t be afraid of evil people and their actions. Be afraid for yourself and what you do, and you know it is not good for sure.
NOT LISTENING
The common feature of ego is that it likes to think that it knows and can do everything. It likes to have all and is proud of it. Thus strengthening ego brings loneliness. The more man thinks that he knows better, he gets lonelier.
What does that mean?
When a person imagines that he/she is smarter than others, it develops a bad personal trait, and that is –not listening. One thinks: why I should listen to anyone when I know the best? Such person will trample everyone by not listening, especially himself.
Naturally, at this point, I should explain the term of not listening. Here, I don’t think about many bad–mannered and uneducated that you really shouldn’t listen to. Here I refer to close people with whom you are sharing your life and time with. These are people that you are inevitably joined with karma, that you could resolve, of course, only if you listen to what others say.
Though, men are actually prone to not listening. Men are those who especially want to be wise and know everything. The funny thing is that men don’t listen to their women when it is really necessary. Also, they hear only what their ego wants to hear. If something doesn’t suit them, then the others are stupid, and that are certainly, their partners.
Here is the question raised: why are you with someone if that someone is stupid and you are always smarter than him/her? Should standards be raised in such case? What kind of meaning has person about himself if he believes he is in the relationship with someone worse and less smart than himself?
As evident, here question results in a principle. A person not listening to his closest one has an inferiority complex, so he presents himself above others in order to feel superior to others. The person that thrives from superiority can neither have partner nor friends, in its true sense. For true partner and friends, it is necessary to accept them and to show them recognition. Showing recognition is the quality of the wise. Why not appreciate what is valuable in others? Why not appreciate partner and friends, because only ignorant doesn’t know that those are the persons in his life that actually enrich the life? If you show your recognition to them, you show it to yourself too, because you have chosen those persons and let them into your life.
And what does the man who makes friendships and love relationships without listening to anyone, and pretending that others are not good enough to do anything good? Man thus shows too little respect for himself, and lack of self–knowledge.
Therefore, you should never build your relationship on superiority. Especially not in the way I have just described. Man doesn’t listen to anyone, even turns his friends into enemies. Thus, it isn’t the only problem that you are going to stay alone and lonely, unwillingly. The problem is also that you are going to have more and more enemies in the world, and you are going to have issues with many.
As we see, it is no wonder that some people think that there is nothing good in the world, and how all people are evil and cruel. One of the reasons for such experience is not listening, i.e. imagining that you are better and smarter than others.
The message is following:
One of the main reasons of man’s bad luck in love relationships and friendships is not listening. Not listening is pure hatred for yourself and your loved ones. Watch out for such people! And if you experience something like this with a friend or with a partner, be sure to discuss and resolve. The fact is that the person who is not listening has a problem with self–esteem and contempt of which must be cured as soon as possible.
ABOUT EXPECTATIONS (Aka, evil man – flexible exploiter of women)
Girls are extremely emotional beings. They like to indulge other people. Many men are abusing this female trait. With the help of a true case, I will try to present it, too. In this story to onlookers, it seems that ''poor'' man is the victim. The story goes as follows:
A boy met a girl. The boy liked the girl immediately. The girl didn’t love that man. The man noticed that she doesn’t like him. However, despite the situation, two of them started going out.
You ask yourselves, how?
Well, nicely. He expected that she will get to love him, and she expected that she will get to love him.
What they both didn’t know is that the love is not expected. Love simply exists or doesn’t exist. If you expect love today, you will expect the love tomorrow. Why? For love can’t be found in ungodly actions.
Thus, when you don’t love someone, don’t be a hypocrite. Admit the truth. Don’t settle for principles that are humiliating to yourself and others.
The message is following:
It’s better for a girl to stay single than be with the man that she doesn’t love.
Why?
Thus, such kind of person is robbing her of happiness and dignity.
FAKING, UNDERMINING, SUBVERTING (aka, universal example to take with you)
Girls are communicative beings. Girls like true friendships. However, nowadays there is a problem of the vast majority of men taking advantage of this female quality. In order to explain this, I will use a real–life example. A story goes as follows:
A girl has secretly loved a man for a long time. Since she has suffered failures in previous relationships, she was afraid to let her feelings be known publicly. Thus she pretended not to be interested in that man.
However, somewhere nearby, there was always a man who noticed that. When he had realized that the girl loved this guy, he became jealous. However, since he was afraid that his jealousy will come into the light, he started to act as a friend.
What do you mean, what happened then?
Next thing happened:
Under the disguise of friendship, and based on fake kindness and false compassion, did malicious things to the girl. To put it more precisely, by his constant presence and with his ''well–intentioned'' advice he made impossible for the girl to reach the man that she loved. He persistently came to her every day to torment and trouble her with his stories, fabrications, presumptions, advice and theories until she broke down and surrendered herself to desperation.
This is a very misfortunate example, but it is very much present nowadays, just people are so resentful that they don’t notice that.
Selfishness and egoism of the man that pretends to be a friend are obvious. However, the question is: what the girl did wrong?
Problem is that the girl shouldn’t be blind to such things. She should be in touch with God and with her own feelings. She should have developed intuitive skills at least to realize when a man does the injury.
The message is following:
Boring and clingy man, no matter how ignorant and narrow–minded, shouldn’t be underestimated. Such kind of man under the pretense of friendship does evil to others, and gets away as a ''good guy''.
Chapter III – UPBRINGING
A LOVED WOMAN
In heart of a loved woman, there are many demons.
When they see me, they whine and run away.
Why?
Because they remember how I have defeated them last time.
What does that mean?
Humble being, the invincible one is the king of the Universe.
NON–BELIEVERS MATERIALISTS
Nowadays many people can say:
– You can’t live off of love alone.
I can just ask:
– What to live on then?
God fed the hungry and quenched thirst of the thirsty ones. Only a disillusioned man thinks that money can do that.
To be a materialist and to look for sponsorship isn’t love. The materialist is always dissatisfied. Being materialistic means belittling oneself and love, and exploiting the closest people.
If you couldn’t live on love, God wouldn’t care about us.
Why for the reason that God is driven by love.
PROVINCIALISM
Wish to have a partner isn’t a sin. Allowing that lust controls you is a sin. So, when you search for the partner, your consciousness is clean. If you look to satisfy your lust, and you pretend to look for love, then you can’t appreciate yourself.
What does that mean?
The following exclamation: – Why do you say love, and you think about sex? – Makes more sense.
In modern times the number of women financially supporting men is increasing, although it should be the other way round. However, in this newly created world of lust and debauchery, women are much easier to earn money. The fact that many women humiliate themselves for money, and afterward they brag about it, doesn’t mean that they are more able or perfect. Excellence is an outcome of a good character, and not from questionable career success.
Certainly, there are women who work hard and make a sacrifice for the spouse and family. They even don’t emphasize their sacrifice, nor underestimate their man. Such women aren’t the subject of this presentation.
Thus, on social networks, we can often see many women claiming to be skilled equally as men. However, the fact is that man is easier being alone than a woman. That means that even when woman financially supports man, it’s for selfish reasons. She can’t be alone. The evidence is that her ego is hurt, so she has to be humiliated the same as men, and to emphasize her earnings and career success. That means if a woman can’t be alone and she financially supports man, then the man deserves it. He needs the money he doesn’t know how to earn, and she needs tenderness she can’t live without.
Such explanation brings up the idea of sponsorship and matching interests.
When women come from poor family, they can marry into the rich family and get out of financial misery. It’s to their benefit that women from poor families are less demanding, inclined to work and family care. Since man likes to feel important and needs his wife to applaud him, poor women even flatter him. Thus many men are not burdened if their loved one is well off. On the other side, men from poor families have difficulties breaking through the life, especially in the modern world full of righteous lawlessness. They have to do it all over again, and few are to succeed in that. Evidently, here is clear that opposite sexes i.e. incarnations offer various experiences and opportunities. What is decent for a woman, it’s devastating for many men, and vice versa.
As I have explained, many could get the impression that I’m criticizing a type of women because of envy, or because they are successful in their careers. The situation is quite the opposite. I want to point out that such women undoubtedly destroy the society, because by destroying themselves (mainly with emancipation), they destroy their partner, then family, and eventually society. And it has nothing to do with career or money earned.
If you say that a woman dared to pull up her skirt in front of the camera and earn money, why should such woman be superior to the man who is not earning enough? What’s the use if a woman destroys oneself and society, and earns money? Who needs money for losing its dignity? Does anyone have clue how many people are there crying over earned money? Crying for days? Crying for months? Crying for years?
Here we come to the point I’ve mentioned previously.
Most women are controlled by lust. Also, women mostly have fear of being alone. Sensible men usually don’t have this kind of problems. Rich men pay for female lust and perversion. Thus is increasing the gap between men and women. Men despise women even more, but they don’t hesitate to take advantage of them. Women do that subtle. For them, it’s just important to have someone who offers comfort and tenderness. Therefore, women still don’t realize they are looking for a partner, but for someone to satisfy their vanity and to drive away their fear of loneliness.
Still, I’ve been explaining it for many times. If you enter the relationship because of loneliness, you will even feel more alone in the relationship. Loneliness is the result of estrangement from God, and of not knowing yourself. For this reason many women today get disappointed. Then, they ask for a man to take the blame. They are not noticing their own infidelity and adultery.
The message is following:
If you’ve made a deal based on interest, then you can weigh forever. The truth is if you make deal with the devil, you will get burned.
A FALSE UPBRINGING
Youth and children education and upbringing is worse than ever. This is greatly supported by disrespect for mothers.
What does that mean?
Many people, and most of them man don’t have respect for mothers. They think those are some other women, not good ones.
And why they think so?
Because they are disappointed by their love relationship failures, betrayed by their wives, and they neither respect themselves, nor women. When a man doesn’t respect himself, he also doesn’t respect women. Then he hides behind manliness. He’s unfaithful and malicious. However, hunks don’t exist, as long as we’re talking about modern men full of contempt for themselves and wreak their contempt on others (especially on women).
Why does this matter?
When a child sees that man doesn’t respect or molest a woman, and particularly its mother, he/she’s unhappy. In this way, the child can’t grow normally nor properly and when is grown up, has no respect for self, neither for humans, nor could be happy. Unconscious childhood traumas hurt.
The men, who don’t have respect for women and themselves, actually have a serious problem with their mothers. They suppress their problems and pretend to be special, while they have contempt for women.
