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- Herausgeber: 50Minutes.com
- Kategorie: Ratgeber
- Serie: Health & Wellbeing
- Sprache: Englisch
Change is only 50 minutes away! Find out everything you need to know about taking control of your life with this straightforward guide.
You have a university degree. A good job. A great social life. So why do you feel that something is not quite right, that you have missed out on something very important? You have probably realised that, while theoretically you should be happy, you actually do not feel fulfilled. Thanks to this guide, you can take practical steps to change that and feel in control of your own life.
In just 50 minutes you will be able to:
• Learn why you should not set objectives in your life
• Accept change and make choices
• Take your life into your own hands and learn how to stay in control of it
ABOUT 50MINUTES.COM | HEALTH AND WELLBEING
The Health and Wellbeing series from the 50Minutes collection is perfect for anyone looking to be healthier and happier in their personal life. Our guides cover a range of topics, from social anxiety to getting ready for a new baby, and provide simple, practical advice and suggestions to allow you to reduce stress, strengthen your relationships and increase your wellbeing.
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Seitenzahl: 35
Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2017
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Take control of your life
Problem: when you feel like you have lost control of your life, how can you get it back?Aim: many people dream of taking control of their lives, without really knowing how to get there. Each of us may be forced to take on this challenge at some point, and so this book aims to give you the keys to take the first steps down your new path in life. FAQs:How can you tell if you need to take (back) control of your life? Change scares me. How can I overcome this fear? How can I get out of my comfort zone? What can I use to help me take control of my life? How can I actually go about doing this? How can I find the time to take control of my life? I have a lot of plans that are really just vague ideas. What can I do to make them a reality? Do I need to question everything?Unlike the French director Étienne Chatiliez’s film, life is anything but a long, quiet river. You may sometimes have the unpleasant feeling that you are struggling through life rather than being the main actor. It is a little like being on one of those airport travellators, watching the scenery go by while actually not moving. Taking control of your life means getting off the travellator and walking with your own two feet, fully aware of where you are going and channelling your energy towards something meaningful.
To start with, take a look at your life. Imagine yourself climbing into a helicopter and then rising up off the ground. Suddenly, you can see your life’s path stretching out in front of you.
Whether close up or from afar, your journey looks like that of many others, with its highs and lows, its good times and the times you would have preferred to do without. You probably have a classic education, after following the advice of those who “want nothing but the best for you”. And so off you went to university or to learn that interesting trade which you idealised. As a result, there is a good chance that you have found a job loosely related to your studies and that you have begun to trade your time for your employer’s money.
Your personal life is no doubt rather similar. Yet one beautiful morning you woke up with this unpleasant feeling that you have missed out on something and are not living the life that you pictured for yourself. It is like a call from the deepest part of your being, a grave, intense whisper that takes you completely by surprise: “It’s time to take control of your life!” But how can you go about doing this? That is where this book comes in: it aims to help you to make a fresh start by listening to yourself and paying attention to the values that you hold dear.
Why have you lost control of your life?
Other people’s influence
It cannot be denied that education plays a vital role in how we take our lives into our own hands. You should not judge your parents for the way they raised you. It is natural that they wanted to share their vision of the world with you and, not counting a few rare cases, they probably did their best with the means that they had. Moreover, most of the time, they took an active role in the different choices that you were faced with. This is neither a bad thing, nor a good thing; they just unconsciously projected their own desires on to you. They only had your best interests at heart – they believed that you shared their values. After all, they made you! When they think of your personality, it is a bit like their “mini-me”. It therefore seems obvious to them that what would have been or would be good for them is obviously good for you too.
