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- Herausgeber: CICO Books
- Kategorie: Lebensstil
- Sprache: Englisch
Brown or black shoes? Single or double-breasted jacket? Tie or no tie? In our increasingly informal world, knowing how a man should dress for each occasion has become ever more challenging. So, take the stress out of getting dressed with this invaluable little book. The Perfectly Dressed Gentleman is an indispensable guide through the modern sartorial maze. Witty and informative, it offers practical advice on what to wear on every occasion, from workplace to wedding, from home to holiday. Discover what to look for in a suit, in terms of colour, fabric and fit; learn how to tie a bow ties and the different knots for ordinary ties; find out the best ways to accessorize any outfit; and much more. Not only will you learn how always to look your best, but also how to avoid making fashion faux pas. Packed with tips and tricks, and illustrated throughout, it ensures that, whatever the occasion, you will always be a perfectly dressed gentleman.Robert O'Byrne was Fashion Correspondent for the Irish Times for ten years and has written extensively on style and design. Among his previous books are Style City: How London Became a Fashion Capital and Mind Your Manners: A Guide to Good Behaviour.
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The
Perfectly
Dressed
Gentleman
The
Perfectly
Dressed
Gentleman
Robert O’Byrne
Illustrations by Lord Dunsby
Published in 2011 by CICO Books
An imprint of Ryland Peters & Small Ltd
20–21 Jockey’s Fields 519 Broadway, 5th Floor
London WC1R 4BW New York, NY 10012
www.cicobooks.com
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Text © Robert O’Byrne 2011
Design and illustration © CICO Books 2011
The author’s moral rights have been asserted. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, or otherwise, without the prior permission of the publisher.
A CIP catalog record for this book is available from the Library of Congress and the British Library.
ISBN: 978 1 907563 88 1
eISBN: 978 1 908862 42 6
Printed in China
Editor: Pete Jorgensen
Designer: Paul Tilby
Illustrator: Lord Dunsby aka Steve Millington, www.lorddunsby.co.uk
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contents
Introduction
Chapter 1
The Suit
Chapter 2
The Coat
Chapter 3
Shirts
Chapter 4
Knitwear
Chapter 5
Ties
Chapter 6
Shoes
Chapter 7
Socks and Underwear
Chapter 8
Accessories
Chapter 9
Formal Occasions
Chapter 10
Casual and Sports Clothes
Chapter 11
Grooming
Index
Introduction
As many definitions of what constitutes a gentleman exist as naysayers prepared to decry the decline in gentlemanly standards. “A true gentleman,” said Oscar Wilde, “is one who is never unintentionally rude,” while the 18th-century English physician Dr Thomas Fuller pronounced that a gentleman “is a man who can disagree without being disagreeable.” However, universal agreement will never be reached on what attributes are necessary for someone to be esteemed a gentleman, not least because the term itself has long been in a state of evolution.
The word gentle derives from the Latin adjective gentilis meaning “of or belonging to the same family, group, or race.” The notion of a gentleman emerged during the Middle Ages when such men, while not necessarily noble, were individuals entitled and expected to bear arms in defense of their monarch and country. In other words, they were members of a warrior caste.
This narrow definition of gentlemanliness began to broaden in the Renaissance with the emergence of princely courts at which the well-bred and wealthy were required to be in attendance. In order to flourish in the competitive courtly environment, men had to learn how to behave in company, a process assisted by the publication of guides to civility such as Baldassare Castiglione’s Il Libro del Cortegiano (The Book of the Courtier), which appeared in 1528.
This stressed not only the importance of skill at arms but also the advantages of good manners, and how to be polite and considerate. Instruction from informed sources was of importance, but so too was moving in well-bred society: An English proverb has it that “Education begins a gentleman, conversation completes him.”
Castiglione’s book had enormous influence throughout Europe during the following centuries and helped to formulate the modern definition of a gentleman, one that gradually became dependent not so much on birth as behavior. This interpretation of gentlemanliness fully emerged in the 19th century with the rise of a bourgeoisie whose male members enjoyed the advantages of money but not high social rank. They wished to be regarded as gentlemen and so sought to emphasize the value of education and good manners.
While of primary significance today, this aspect of the gentleman’s character has probably always been present to some extent. As the priest John Ball rhetorically asked during the Peasants’ Revolt of 1381, “When Adam delved and Eve span, who then was the gentleman?” And in the 17th century a woman supposedly once asked James II to make her son a gentleman, to which the king responded, “I could make him a nobleman, but God Almighty could not make him a gentleman.” In other words, regardless of origins anyone can be judged a gentleman provided he conforms to certain behavioral strictures, such as displaying consideration for other people. Different cultures will have their own rules of etiquette but a concern for the needs of society at large and an interest in the welfare of those he encounters are the hallmarks of the modern gentleman.
What does any of this have to do with clothing and how we men dress ourselves? More than you might appreciate. Once we move out of our private space and into the public arena, we should give thought to our appearance and whether it might cause disquiet or even offense. It could be, and often is, argued that how each of us dresses ought to be a matter of personal concern and irrelevant to anyone else. Whether it is piercings and tattoos or low-slung jeans that expose underwear, claims of personal expression are justified with the same defense: It’s my business how I dress. In theory a case can be made on such grounds, but it presumes our own opinions and interests are more important than those of the rest of society. Because a gentleman would never agree with such an assertion, it follows that in matters of dress, as in every other aspect of his life, he will always give consideration to the interests of the world in which he moves, however irrational they might seem. If, for example, he receives a wedding invitation stipulating a formal dress code, this is what he will wear. To do otherwise would be to put his own inclinations ahead of his hosts’ and that would be ungentlemanly. What some might castigate as conformism, a gentleman regards as consideration.
A gentleman takes both personal and public interest into account and dresses accordingly. That way he pleases not only himself but whoever meets him.
Points to Consider for Gentlemanly Dressing
* There should be nothing ostentatious about your appearance, nothing flash or attention-seeking. Elegant understatement is your hallmark: Observers will note that you are well dressed without necessarily being able to state precisely why.
* The value of cleanliness cannot be overstated. It does not matter how good are your clothes if the body beneath has not been thoroughly washed. Personal grooming is of the utmost importance and even supposedly minor details—the state of your nails, the line of hair on the back of your neck—must never be ignored. Every fine painting is composed of tiny individual details, all of which contribute to a successful whole. The same is true of your appearance: Overlook any one element of it and you risk impairing the finished result.
* Clothes should be kept in spotless condition, something not difficult to achieve provided you look after your wardrobe on a daily basis. Never wear the same item two days in succession, hang up or fold away garments after they have been worn, attend to stains and marks as soon as possible. Think reciprocity: The better you look after your clothes, the better they will make you look. In addition, taking care of your clothes means they will last longer and therefore amply repay the expense of their purchase. Not looking after your wardrobe is a waste of money.
* Know yourself. Become familiar with your body, and what you can and cannot wear. Your height, shape, and coloring ought to play a part in decisions about dress. As will be pointed out in the coming chapters, certain items of clothing flatter tall more than short men, slim more than stout. A man who understands his physique is more likely to be reckoned well dressed than someone with no awareness of himself.
* Buy the best you can afford. This is especially important as regards footwear since bad shoes can damage your feet. Price should not be confused with quality: Just because an item is expensive does not mean it is good. Therefore learn how to inspect any garment before you make a purchase, reading the fabric composition and care instructions, and turning the piece inside out to check the caliber of stitching.
* Always think through your entire outfit with the intention of producing a harmonious whole. While everything you wear does not have to match precisely—indeed it will be the better for not doing so—each item should complement the rest, and no one article of clothing should overwhelm everything else.
* Don’t equate conformity with conservatism. While the rules of gentlemanly dress should not be broken, they will prove flexible. Your clothes ought to provide an indication of your personality even while they are consistent with the accepted norms of dress. Within the strictest codes there remains room for interpretation.
* Enjoy yourself. Choosing your clothes and dressing well should enhance your day, not encumber it. Learn to take pleasure in your appearance and you are more likely to give pleasure to others. By so doing, you will prove yourself a perfect—and perfectly dressed—gentleman.
