Crazy Good Interviewing E-Book

John B. Molidor

• Herausgeber: John Wiley & Sons
• Kategorie: Fachliteratur
• Sprache: Englisch

Seitenzahl: 327

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2012

Beschreibung

How acting a little crazy and thinking outside of the box can get you the job you want Ever hear of a job candidate stretching out on the interviewer's floor to fill out an application? Or an applicant who sees nothing wrong with texting during the interview? Securing a job interview is a golden opportunity. The crazy-bad behavior described above will not net a job offer. Crazy Good Interviewing shows readers that crazy-good behavior, however, can make an applicant stand out favorably in a sea of mediocrity. Take the candidate who created a keynote presentation on his iPad to show what he could bring to the job or the one who created a DVD highlighting her abilities. Crazy Good Interviewing is a book geared toward those who are looking for work in this tough economy. * Addresses how slightly eccentric behaviors can tip the scales in the applicant's favor * Delves into how to access your three key strengths, how to use body language effectively, how to prepare a five-sentence history that builds a bridge to the interviewer, and more Turn just plain crazy into crazy-good, and land the job at your next interview.

Leseprobe

Table of Contents

Praise Page

Title Page

Copyright

Dedication

Foreword

Acknowledgments

From John B. Molidor, Ph.D.

From Barbara Parus

From John and Barbara

Chapter 1: Job Hunting in a Crazy Economy

Job Market Overview

Why Is the Interview So Important?

What Makes Me an Expert?

Chapter 2: Go Crazy—In a Good Way

How Do You Rate?

Introducing the “Psychotron”

What's Crazy Bad Behavior?

What's Crazy Good Behavior?

Chapter 3: First Impressions Are Lasting Impressions

Look at the Research

Exceptions to the Rule

The Rating Game

Preparation Is Key

Get Ready to “Act Out”

Part I: ACT Out: Assess

Chapter 4: Everything from Soup to Nuts

Your Strengths and Limitations

Assessment Instruments

What's Your Weak Spot?

Human Interaction: Where the Action Is

Education: Know Your Own Strengths

Jobs that Don't Require College Degrees

Skills and Work Experience

Areas of Improvement

The Best Policy

Chapter 5: Wild, Wacky, and Wonderful You

Biology 101

Personality 101

Introversion versus Extraversion: Are You In or Out?

Interpersonal Skills: Can You Relate?

Your Assignment

Enthusiasm and Motivation: Rah-Rah, Sis-Boom-Bah!

Problem Solving: What's Your Problem?

Creativity: Thinking Outside the Box

Life Experiences 101

Hobbies and Interests: What Do You Do in Your Spare Time?

Netting a Job Offer

Chapter 6: Selling “Crazy”: Your Unique Value Proposition

Think “Log Line”

Create Your Unique Value Proposition

Your Five-Sentence Personal History

Why Anecdotes Work

The Power of Three

Mad About Metaphors

Chapter 7: Your Worldview on Work

Applying Your Worldview to Work

Work Makes the World Go 'Round

Worldview Provides Career Direction

Mapping a Career Plan

When Job and Worldview Don't Align

Square Peg, Round Hole

Part II: ACT Out: Communicate

Chapter 8: Bridge the Generational Gap with Crazy Good Behavior

Defining “Generation”

The Sound of “Silents” (Born 1925–1945)

Big, Bad Baby Boomers (Born 1946–1964)

Old and New

The Internet Generation X (Born 1965–1983)

High-Tech Generation Y (Born 1984–2002)

Chapter 9: Types of Interviews

Phone Interviews: Can You Hear Me Now?

Before the Interview: Ready and Waiting

During the Interview

Skype: Smile for the Camera!

FaceTime

One-on-One Interview: Up Close and Personal

It's Showtime!

Play Nice

All Ears

Panel Interview: All Eyes on You

Make One-on-One Connections

Turning “You're Fired!” into “You're Hired!”

Group Interview: When You're One Among Many

Chapter 10: Head Games

Games Interviewers Play

Tension Relievers

Chapter 11: Looking Good… Crazy Good

Perceiving Is Believing

Putting It All Together

For Men Only

For Women Only

Chapter 12: Use Body Language to Make a Crazy Good Impression

Make Crazy Good Eye Contact

Posture Perfect

Gestures and Facial Expressions

Chapter 13: Voiceovers: Your Voice Speaks Volumes

Sound Off: Elements of Voice

Part III: ACT Out: Communicate

Chapter 14: After the Interview: Thank 'em Like Crazy

The Waiting Game

Crazy Bad Follow-Up Efforts

Chapter 15: Post-Interview Self-Evaluation: How Did You Do?

Rate Yourself; Don't Berate Yourself

Do You Really Want to Work There?

Moral Dilemmas

Chapter 16: Putting It All Together in a Crazy Good Way

Establish Your Power Base

Use a Crazy Good Interview Strategy

Use Crazy Good Behaviors to Get the Job

Sell Yourself Like Crazy

Be Yourself, in a Crazy Good Way

Research the Employer Like Crazy

Research the Interviewer(s) Like Crazy

Practice Like Crazy

Take the Stage

Appendix: 150 Frequently Asked Questions

Opening Remarks and Comments

Old-Time Favorite Questions

Motivation Questions

Teamwork Questions

Leadership Questions

Communication/Self-Management Questions

Self-Awareness Questions

Skill-Based Questions

Offbeat Questions

Closing Comments and Questions

Illegal Questions

Questions to Ask Interviewers

Index

Praise for Crazy Good Interviewing

“I work with businesses to help them improve performance and profitability. Businesses look for the right people, and hire those who win in the interview process. If you know someone who is about to graduate, this is a perfect graduation gift. If your adult son or daughter wants to move back home, they need this book, too!”

—Joe Calloway,author, Becoming a Category of One

“Enlightening, engaging, and highly empowering! This book is a MUST READ if you want to know how to GET that job!”

—Monica Wofford,CSP, CEO, Contagious Companies, Inc., author, Make Difficult People Disappear

“John is a master presenter and a leading authority on the conduct of the selection interview. His wise counsel will serve you well if you need advice on preparing for and standing out in an interview setting.”

—Carol Elam, EdD,Associate Dean for Admissions and Institutional Advancement, University of Kentucky College of Medicine

“This book is a job seeker's bible. If you need a job, you need this book. I plan on anonymously leaving it by the bedside of several family members.”

—Molly Cox,co-author, Improvise This!

“I taught John the basics of interviewing while sitting around the dining room table. He'll teach you that and so much more. Be good to yourself—get this book!”

—Mary K. Molidor,Mom, Grandma, and Grandma the Great

Copyright © 2012 by John B. Molidor, PhD. All rights reserved.

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Published simultaneously in Canada

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data:

Molidor, John B., 1951-

Crazy good interviewing : how acting a little crazy can get you the job / John B. Molidor, PhD, with Barbara Parus.

ISBN 978-1-118-29514-4 (pbk); ISBN 978-1-118-33184-2 (ebk); ISBN 978-1-118-33405-8 (ebk); ISBN 978-1-118-33516-1 (ebk)

1. Employement interviewing. 2. Job hunting. 3. Personality. I. Parus, Barbara. II. Title.

HF5549.5.I6

650.14′4–dc23

2012006126

To Our Parents

Otto B. Molidor

One of the great executive recruiters and dads

Mary K. Molidor

One of the great master interviewers and moms

Anthony E. Parus

One of the great multitalented and multilingual dads

Erica J. Parus

Foreword

When I first met John B. Molidor, Ph.D., I fell in love with him. Everyone else does, too.

He's, well, unusual, both as a dean of a college of medicine and as a CEO. He's also unusual because he is a professor of psychiatry and a master presenter. He loves observing people, figuring out what makes them tick, and then teaching us how to use this information.

Along the way, he forgot to grow up. Intentionally. He gets something very few people get: People who make a massive difference take their results seriously and themselves lightly.

He is the epitome of “Let's knock it out of the park…and while we're at it, didja hear the one about the rabbi, the priest, and the minister who walked into a bar and asked to interview the bartender?”

He stays light. He just can't help himself. But don't kid yourself. Even as he's yucking it up, he's moving mountains. One huge area of his expertise is how people perceive others and how they make judgments about them—instantly. This has played nicely into his interest in the selection interview and how it works. But, more importantly, he shows us how to use this information to manage this process.

On so many occasions over the years I've known him, I've seen him light up like a light bulb as he explained to me how he, as one of the deans of the medical school, helped his students get the jobs they want. It's a play-by-play about each student…what they did to get ready for their interview, how they performed in the interview, and how they put it all together to seal the deal.

Just by looking at him, you know this man is no stuffed shirt academic. Take his teaching uniform, for example: dress slacks topped with a Hawaiian shirt in a colorful floral print. Keep in mind that he lives in Michigan with its frigid winters. But, by no means does his casual attire reflect his attitude: He's a man on a mission. He not only taught thousands of people lessons on how to land a job, he taught them a far more powerful and additional lesson: how to be in the workplace and in life. He hammers home the importance of being authentic and being the best you that you can be.

John wrote Crazy Good Interviewing about how to get the job you want, based on his many years of conducting workshops and teaching interview techniques. When the idea for this book was just a seed in his brain, he was searching for the right person to help him germinate his vision. Where would he find such a person?

His keen observational skills, combined with his vast interview experience, led him to Barbara Parus, a writer extraordinaire who has a knack for transforming dry subject matter into fun, reader-friendly prose. The two seemed to be an ideal fit. They are both big-picture people with an irreverent sense of humor. John, who is very methodical and analytical, asked me what it was like working with Barbara, who had interviewed me for a magazine cover story. Happily, I gave her the thumbs up. This set the ball in motion for Crazy Good Interviewing.

Knowing how to interview—using the strategies, behaviors, and skills covered in this book—will help you get the job. But it's also your job to be the same person who showed up for the interview and received the job offer.

Do you remember your first day of work? You arrived with your shirt pressed and your shoes shined. You told everyone that you were going to set the world afire and your pent-up energy was ready to explode. In a perfect world, you were ready to make a difference as a valued member of the team, produce attention-grabbing results, and start climbing the job ladder.

But what if the opposite happened? Two weeks went by and you discovered the work environment wasn't exactly ideal and you worked with a bunch of, well, dweebs—whiners, gossips, and drama queens—all moving relentlessly toward mediocrity! You wondered, “How did this happen?”

You probably forgot that the interview is a two-way process. You were so focused on getting the employer to like you that you didn't pay attention to a bigger question: Do you like them?

If you're a Gen Yer, you might jump ship, only to find that it happens again, and again, and again. There is no perfect workplace.

During my years of speaking, I've asked hundreds of thousands of people if they can relate to that scenario. Wherever I go, without exception, heads nod almost universally. You will need to step up your game of leadership to make your job perfect.

And that is when you get to be the person John shows you how to be in the interview—the woman or man who is filled with passion to make a difference through your work and a leader in helping the people around you get it. You use your interpersonal skills, body language, and powers of persuasion to rally the troops, motivate co-workers, and make meaningful contributions as part of the team.

So, go get that job. Then, if it falls short of your ideal, use your power of three and your unique value proposition to turn it into the job you interviewed for. What if instead of dragging yourself to work each week, you said, “Thank God It's Monday!” and couldn't wait to go to play? Now, that sounds like a good job to me…a crazy good job!

Rock on!

Roxanne Emmerich, author ofThank God It's Monday!: How to Create the Workplace You and Your Customers Love

Acknowledgments

From John B. Molidor, Ph.D.

Big acknowledgments go to:

My current and former medical students, who taught me about what they were encountering on the interview trail and what they needed to know to nail the interview and get the job.

My current and former pre-medical and pre-professional students, who taught me about the importance (and anxiety) of high-stakes interviewing.

My fellow admissions officers, deans, directors, and program directors (from medicine, business, dentistry, law, and other corporate associations and industries), who showed me how they interviewed and selected their best and brightest.

My friends from both of my NSA worlds: from the National Speakers Association (especially Joe Calloway, Roxanne Emmerich, Marilynn Semonick, C. Leslie Charles, Chris Clarke-Epstein, Terry Paulson, Mark Sanborn, Phil Van Hooser, Lou Heckler, Terry Brock, Ian Percy, Janita Cooper, Ed Scannell, Ed Gerety, and Kevin O'Connor) and from the National Safety Associates (especially Jay Martin, Randy Matthews and Ron Watkins), who have influenced me, encouraged me, and celebrated with me along this journey.

My colleagues from Michigan State University's College of Human Medicine and Michigan State University's Flint Area Medical Education, who can say they knew me when and who have supported me over the years in my various roles as a faculty member, dean, and CEO.

My friends and classmates from the College of St. Thomas (now the University of St. Thomas) and Michigan State University, who first saw me as a young pup as I started on this adventure toward cognitive psychology and how people make decisions about other people and how this affects their lives.

My old friend, Paul Elliott, Ph.D. (Florida State University), who first suggested that as a freshly minted faculty member and dean, I carefully pick key areas of expertise to explore as part of my life's work. Who knew that one of them would be interviewing and that it would come full circle to this book?

My family (especially my mom and dad and all of my siblings—Steve, Kathy, Dan, Mary Clare, Lisa, Jim, Kevin, Larry, and Tom—as well as their spouses and partners, my nieces and nephews, and my great nieces and nephews), who have shown me the incredible blessing and value of having such a loving and supportive family.

A special thanks to my Aunt Oopie (Sister Christian Molidor, R.S.M.), who has always believed I had a book (or two or three or more) in me and who has encouraged me along the way to get it down on paper (or on the computer) and get it out to the world.

A special thanks to my collaborator, Barbara Parus, who was a joy to work with and made this book become a reality with her extraordinary research skills and writing talent, razor-sharp wit, and dedication to seeing this project through to fruition. She made concepts and ideas come alive through humor, words, and stories.

A huge and loving thanks to my son, Christopher D. Molidor, who has endured years of being interviewed by me and whose good nature and spirit make me proud every day.

A big special, heartfelt and loving thanks to Pamela R. Benitez, M.D., who has stood by me throughout this process and who has taught me to pay particular attention to the feeling aspect of all things that are good in life.

To all of you, a big thank you.

From Barbara Parus

Big acknowledgments go to:

My loving parents, Anthony E. and Erica J. Parus, who have always believed in my abilities and think I am one smart cookie.

My son, Daniel Steven Max, who is my inspiration and has encouraged me to reach for the stars.

My sister, Patricia Parus Horwitz, who patiently listened to me while I worked on this book for more than a year.

Last, but not least, John B. Molidor, Ph.D., who used his “crazy good” interviewing skills to recognize my talent and work ethic, and determined that we would make a crazy good book duo.

To all of you, many thanks!

From John and Barbara

Special thanks to:

Dan Ambrosio and Tiffany Colón, at John Wiley & Sons, who guided us through the process of birthing a book.

Design and marketing team at Wiley & Sons, who made us look crazy good on the outside.

Bill Van Nimwegen of Vanim Design, who created the illustrations in Crazy Good Interviewing to make us look crazy good on the inside.

And finally, all of our readers and job seekers, who are out there doing what has to be done to get the job and then some.

Chapter 1

Job Hunting in a Crazy Economy

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