CUM! The Complete Guide to Orgasm E-Book

Micha Schulze

• Herausgeber: Bruno Gmünder Verlag
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2014

Seitenzahl: 189

Beschreibung

The Art of the Climax: Forget that old prejudice about men only wanting to finish quickly and get it over with. Among gay men, there is a strong desire for intense, intimate and lasting sex. The average male orgasm lasts 12.2 seconds. Learn to experience this short time to the fullest. Learn how your orgasm can be just the prelude to a whole night of passionate sex: it's not just a question of physical luck, but also of experience and training. For many men, it's just a matter of acquiring the right knowledge and letting their fantasies take them there. This book shows you the way to even higher peaks in your climax.

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Table of Content

Foreword

The Hunger for Orgasms

Foreplay!

Fifty Words for (Experiencing) ­Orgasm / One World Orgasm Day on August 8 / Embarrassing or Laudable? / Myths About Orgasms / Faces That Cum / Intimate Online Confessions / Volcano or Roller Coaster? — Types of Orgasms / Are Animals Able to Climax?

Orgasm Close-Up: The Biology of Cumming

Sex Is a Brain Thing / The “Magical” Sex Hormones / Orgasm as a Gesamtkunstwerk / Excitement Phase / Plateau Phase / Orgasm / Resolution Phase / Rien ne va plus: The Refractory ­Period / Ten Gallons of Sperm in One Life / Orgasm is Not Synonymous with Cumming / The Point of No Return / The Pubococcygeus Muscle / All About Your Erogenous Zones / Pain After Orgasm

Orgasm Uncovered: The Psychology of Orgasms

Your Doctor’s Advice: Three to Four Orgasms Per Week / Not Always, but More Often / Wet Dreams / Quick Shots / Slow Shots / No Orgasm Despite Ejaculation / The Faked Orgasm / Orgasms in Old Age / Cumming in the Age of AIDS

Orgasms in Our World

Are Judges Allowed to Wank in Court? / Sexuality: The Big Taboo / Orgasms Are Intimate / Relax! / Learn from the Old Asians / You Are Allowed to Moan Loudly / Cumming Publicly / Cumming in a Group / Is There a Gay Orgasm Culture?

Anal Orgasm

The Male G-Spot / Your Doctor Knows About Your Prostate / A Journey into the Center of Lust / Cock and Vibrator — Get Familiar with the Gland / Prostate Massage with 120 Beats per Minute

Orgasm: The Finale

Little Drops or Fountain Shower / Practical Cum Tips / Shoot Farther / Take Off with Your Whole Body / Simultaneous Orgasms / Twenty Ways to Maximize Your Orgasmic Potential / The Correct Lubricant / Comparisons Are Stupid!”

Mega-Orgasm Workout

The Ten Step Program: Cum without Cumming

Orgasm Extreme

How to Turn On Potential Mates / Ona Orgasm – How to Make It Yourself / Orgasm by Hypnosis / New Climaxes / Little Orgasm Helpers / Viagra — The Blue Orgasm Pill? / Chemically-Enhanced Climaxes / Report: My First Viagra

Afterplay

Orgasms in Six Languages / Thirteen Orgasm Jokes / Climaxes in the Movies / Ten Orgasm Anthems to Sing Along With / Orgasm Cocktails

About the Autors

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Foreword

The Hunger for Orgasms

Are you wondering how someone can write a whole book about something that only lasts a few fleeting moments? Counterquestion: Haven’t you tried almost everything to reach this brief moment?

The average male orgasm lasts 12.2 seconds, as the American psychiatrist Michael McGuire found out. He projected the data—according to him, the average John Doe spends nine hours and twenty minutes of his life in this ecstatic state. We guess that the average gay man might enjoy even more hours of ecstasy.

Those few seconds of spasmic twitches and glassy eyes have quite an impact on us. We dial sex lines for $2.99 per minute, we drive for many miles at night to meet a date at a deserted park, we ignore our promises of faithfulness, we fly for party weekends to Pattaya, we forget about safer sex rules at the sight of a super hot guy, we sometimes poison rivals and forget to finish our manuscript.

We are hungry for more and better orgasms. Sex seems to be simply the vehicle to reach this final climax. Why do we have this hunger for it? And why do basically all religious leaders condemn us for this hunger? In this book, we look at orgasms from biological, medical, psychological, and historical-cultural viewpoints. We give advice on how you can better understand your climax and make it a more thrilling experience.

It’s evolution’s fault that we are how we are. The orgasm is supposed to help us in procreation, but it has developed a life of its own. After all, heterosexual males do not only fuck when they find a woman ready to conceive. We all love finding toys to make the experience better. Sex can have a variety of functions: It can help relieve stress, prove our love, or save a relationship. But most importantly, it’s just fun.

There’s nothing wrong with stating the latter. In this book, we show that you don’t have to feel bad about yourself and your needs. It can even make your life better to learn how to control your orgasms without cumming. Orgasm and ejaculation don’t have to be the same thing. The Chinese have known that for thousands of years, but in our modern world, most people have forgotten about multiple climaxes and other brilliant possibilities.

Orgasms do not always work the way we want them to. Your partner might irritate you if he cums after ten seconds, while you are just mildly aroused. Or you might have problems reaching a climax when having sex with a partner, even though you can easily cum while masturbating. We’ll inform you about pitfalls and how to avoid stumbling into them. We’ll give you advice on how to maximize your potential for orgasms.

And why is this book written from a gay point of view? The following pages will be about sex between men simply because we are not interested in the woman’s G-spot or vaginal orgasms. A gay book about orgasms is necessary because most sex guides available in bookstores ignore the male G-spot. In fact, many men—gay and straight—have never even heard of it.

As gay men we know about the climax that can be reached by stimulating the prostate. This anal orgasm is very different from the “traditional” one. We’ll help you to find your G-spot. It is a very special experience to cum both in your cock and in your ass simultaneously.

If we succeed in giving you some new climaxes on the next couple of pages, we will be closer to our goal. Your lust is our lust! We cross our fingers, our glans, and our prostate!

Have fun cumming!

Extended foreplay is part of any perfect orgasm. This is also true for this book: Our introductory chapter will give you a bit of gossip and a bit of eroticism as well as a couple of scientific findings. And the chapter will make you horny for more …

Fifty Words for (Experiencing) Orgasm

abandon • access • accomplish • apoplexy • balling • carnal knowledge climax • cohabitation • coitus • congress • convulsion • copulation • coupling • cramp • craze • delirium • diddling • eclampsia • epilepsy • epitasis • falling sickness • finish • fire and fury • fornication • frenzy • furor • furore • hysteria • ictus • intercourse • intimacy • intoxication • lovemaking • madness • making it with • mating • onanism • orgy • pareunia • paroxysm • peak • rapture • ravishment • sex act • sperm • stroke • tearing passion • terminate • towering rage • venery