DD CHOICE E-Book

Tom Ross

• Herausgeber: BookRix
• Kategorie: Erotik
• Sprache: Englisch

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2017

Beschreibung

So many couples know the existence of Domestic Discipline lifestyle, but not all of them has the courage to put the issue on the table. Or even the ones who do, still do not know where to start and how to define who is who in the lifestyle. Sor Tom Ross explains exactly what the couple will go thru if they decide to start living in DD. A wife must be submissive to her Husband's rule, but the Husband must submit himself to certain behavior standards. Know what they are reading Domestic Discipline - DD Choice.

Leseprobe

TOM ROSS

DD CHOICE

The choice of a lifetime

This book is dedicated to all the couples sho lives in this wonderful lifestyle.BookRix GmbH & Co. KG81371 Munich

Introduction

INTRODUCTION

More and more people are finding out Domestic Discipline as a satisfactory lifestyle. More than just satisfactory, it´s the ideal lifestyle for the loving couple. More and more couples happily adhere to that lifestyle and most of them seem to be happy with it. This book is designed to be read by both the HOH and His submissive wife. It´s written to women – single or not – who are discovering submission and questioning themselves about what to do and how to proceed.

I strongly recommend HOHs to give special attention to the “Submissive Wife” section and the women to read with special attention to the “HOH” section. This way they will be able to realize what to expect from each other. The goal is that Men and women come to understand better not only their own behavior mechanism in the relationship, but the other part’s behavior mechanism as well. This book is a panel to help Men and women to behave properly in the relationship. From both Men and women it´s expected to help on the development of each one´s part on the Loving Domestic Discipline life. By understanding each other´s reason to be what is expected from each one that you will be able to have a happy and peaceful marriage. The real Domestic Discipline lifestyle requires much more than simple Domination/submission behavior. It requires love, commitment, focusing, care, respect, trust. That´s what Domestic Discipline is all about. More than an exciting lifestyle – which by itself could be the major reason to adopt it in your marriage – DD means much more to the relationship. DD means one step forward in love connection. Do not try to introduce DD in a failed marriage in order to save it. It will be the worst thing to do because DD in such case is disastrous. DD is thought for marriages in a state of full love and respect. Most people think they know how to deal with DD. But the true is: we still do not know how to manage it correctly. DD evolves different concepts from different personalities. Every couple should find out their own way to live a DD relationship. People have differences. There are no equal couples. Everyone has a way to think and a vision of life itself. Desires, fantasies and fetishes are different from person to person. The best on a DD relationship is that it allows the couple to live a life in their own way, with their specific rules, discipline and punishments. On the contrary of what many of you may think Domestic Discipline is not about spanking. Spanking is just a minor part of a huge universe. Most couples do not explore it because they still did not realize how many possibilities DD offers to couples: sex and love lived in all its intensity.

Domestic Discipline is intense by definition. Living in DD is living an intense relationship. Intensity does not mean turbulence. Intense of emotions and feelings. Intense in pleasure and pain. All that intensity works for the couple for their own good. In the end of the day, it must serve to unite the couple, not to separate it. Couples living in DD feel much more secure of themselves. It means much more attachment to each other. It means much more loving and best sex quality. Isn´t it what we all really want after all? Happiness, love and first class sex? Of course it is.

Some Men simply do not know how to behave as a HOH. Some women do not submit enough to their HOHs. They want to, but they just can´t. This is caused by a lack of trust, strong personality and sense of independence, whatever… Women are changing back to submission in the last years. They are not innocent anymore. They are smart, they can do any man´s job and many of them make much more money than their HOH. But they are still women. And their nature calls for caring and for guidance. Even strong and tough women need some male caring and guiding and controlling. But in order to win that, the Man must show to His woman that He is reliable – first thing ever to get her submitting to you. I mean 100% reliable, nothing less. The moment she loses it, she is yours no more. And no more means forever. She will never ever trust you again. Not in the same way. She will trust you 80% most. And that´s not enough to live a plenty DD lifestyle.

The reality of facts shows us that we are still going thru something that we do not know what exactly we will find in the end of the way.

How to behave as a true HOH? How to submit as a deeply submissive woman? The value inversions thru the years were so many and so violent in Men´s and women´s behavior that it became difficult to find it back and readopt them.

“Who am I?” That´s the first question Men and women should ask themselves. The answer must come from down deep inside. “Who am I? What do I want? What do I want from my marriage? Is it the right time to submit?” Am I prepared to submit myself to my husband?” These are questions that must be asked both for Men and women themselves.

What? “I´m a Man and do not want to submit myself to my wife, but the contrary”. You are right. But one of your first lessons is that Men must never submit to their wives, but they must submit to the commitment of marriage. Every Man must submit to:

Their love for His wife and family.His wife´s love for Him.His wife´s respect for Him.His wife submission and obedience for Him.

Yes. Men must realize that they must agree to submit to those before anything. In order to become the Head of the Household, He will obey certain implicit rules to make it work. Anything other than that is abuse.

Other questions to be made are: “how should we behave in front of each other?” “What are our parts in our marriage?”

The true is: most of the couples in DD still did not adjust their behaviors to it. They want to but they still do not know where to start and how to balance it.

DD means Domestic Discipline and Domestic Discipline must be a concept where HOH and submissive women must exercise their discipline. That´s the first thing we must understand before anything else.

Most Men think that women must be object of discipline and that´s about it, but it´s not. It does not work that way. Men must be subject of some kind of discipline himself too as said before. Imagine a couple, we should call them John and Mary. They love each other and He is the HOH. As a good submissive wife, Mary submits to John no questions asked. But what if John is the kind of man who likes to play poker with His fellas every Thursday night? What if He comes home after midnight drunk and smelling cigars? What if He cheats His submissive wife with another woman or even hookers wrongly thinking that she submits to Him and will be spanked at some point if she makes any commentary about it? Wrong.  You are not in a Domestic Discipline relationship, but in an abusive one.

Men must have their own discipline and responsibility before they can demand anything from their submissive wives and  family. There´s no one to tell Men what to do. His behavior must come out from His own mind. He must realize what´s the best thing to do in any situation. Men won´t accept orders, all right. But they must come up with something good no matter how bad the situation is. It´s His call. Submissive wife and kids expect from Him nothing else than a wise decision. And no one else decides for Him or in His place. Is it so good to become a HOH? It still is.

To be a HOH requires more responsibility and good sense than ever, since you have someone at home that makes no decisions and they are all your calls. They depend on you and their future depends on what you do to them now. The HOH decides for His wife and for His family. This means more responsibility. If the submissive woman has not the right to behave badly and have no decisions to make, He is the one whose decisions are frequently required. The true HOH imposes discipline based on His own self discipline. Which woman will obey to a drunken Man? What woman will give a Man the honor to take care of her if He is never at home? Trust, remember that.