monogamous, polygamous? E-Book

Clemens Wagner

• Herausgeber: novum publishing
• Kategorie: Gesellschafts- und Liebesromane
• Sprache: Englisch

Seitenzahl: 375

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2024

Beschreibung

It starts like a fairy tale: When Eva and Tom's parents meet by chance after fifteen years, there is a spark between the couple, and their offspring, who have now grown into attractive teenagers, also seem to take a great liking to each other. A friendship develops between the two families and they decide to renovate the "Waldhaus" - their children's beloved former forest kindergarten, which is now empty - and set it up as a shared weekend cottage where they can live out their erotic longings of a polygamous marriage of four. - A "fantastic dream" or a viable reality after all?

Leseprobe

Foreword

Are we humans monogamous or polygamous creatures of God?

There is nothing more important for mankind than reproducing!

Stories about the conservation of Homo sapiens and other animals.

What everyone already knows:

Prologue

Understanding the world in depth means

understand the contradiction.

Friedrich Nietzsche (1844-1900),

German philosopher and poet

Narrative

Kassia, the capable, good-looking financial lawyer, loves her new boyfriend more than her previous boyfriends! Frank is highly intelligent, tall and strong. A romantic lawyer. She likes his smell. His touch excites her. He also loves her beyond all measure. They desire each other every day and always orgasm at the same time, which is not something every couple gets to do! Nature has endowed his masculinity with great qualities. Both divorced, without children. They come from Bavaria, around forty. Frank and Kassia want to get married soon!

In Germany, there are very strict rules for both marriage and cheating: Monogamy, a single marriage, is required and encouraged by the state. Bigamy, multiple marriages, is forbidden and even punished! Polygamy, sex with several partners, is permitted.

So a man may not be married to two women at the same time! Of course, his wife also has the same duty of monogamy - logically!

On the other hand, a married man may have as many lovers as he likes in addition to his wife. His wife naturally has the same right to have as many lovers as she likes in addition to her husband! This polygamous adultery has not been punishable in Germany for over fifty years. It is also no longer a legal reason for divorce. The age of majority is always a prerequisite. A step in the right direction, one might say.

Polygamous adultery is very common and extremely popular worldwide!

Polygamous love, in the form of cheating, is therefore no longer forbidden in Germany either. Anyone can love anyone! Even of the same sex! "And that's a good thing!", as a ruling mayor once declared. Not unimportant knowledge for those looking to get married!

A large part of world literature is about this polygamous love, which often finds its secret place alongside marriage. It even gave rise to wars in ancient times! The Trojan War over the beautiful Helen is a dramatic example of this.

Many plays, usually accompanied by "slashing and stabbing", cannot do without polygamous love, i.e. without cheating!

This booklet is also about that, but without the hitting and stabbing! Instead, it reveals good reasons for cheating, for polygamous love!

Sensual pleasures, erotic delights, even new knowledge can be found here! By the way, this is not an immoral novel, even if it does occasionally deal with procreation! It reflects real life! Where others only make vague allusions, it creates clarity in eroticism, love and species preservation!

This novel is a satirically refined little non-fiction book about the beauty and problems of procreation. In language suitable for young people, of course!

The story doesn't begin where the bra sails to the floor and the button on her jeans causes problems or the camera shamefully pans to the side once again! No, it begins after fifteen years of monogamous marriage between two couples who ask themselves: "Is that all there is to our marriage? In our bedroom? Where have the butterflies gone?" Questions that are probably familiar to every couple. There should be exceptions!

The central theme of this booklet clearly shows the discrepancy between the beautiful, ancient, polygamous sexual desires that Mother Nature gave us and today's residual monogamous desires that religion and the state have established.

Moreover, our state counts humans as monogamous creatures, like the red fox and the white-tailed eagle, even though humans are quite obviously polygamous ... - and how polygamous!!! Everyone can clearly see this in their environment. Even the state!

But he only makes laws for monogamous people who may not even exist!

So why did he come up with this false idea of "man is a monogamous being"? Is it easier to govern monogamous people with a permanently guilty conscience than polygamous people with a free spirit? Or was religion, as is so often the case, the driving force behind the concealment of the truth? A big question again today!

Nevertheless, it might not be a bad idea to have a cold drink ready. After all, despite all the objectivity in the presentation of this demanding subject matter, spontaneous excitement can certainly occur while reading! Even the occasional gasp cannot be ruled out!

For safety reasons, it is therefore recommended that you read the book together with your wife, husband or lover/lover! The questions that are sure to arise can then, after thorough discussion and any necessary sexual interaction, be formulated appropriately!

Before we embark together on the exciting heights of eroticism with all its pleasurable manifestations, confusing rules and difficulties, it seems sensible to take a closer look at eroticism, sex and love today.

Dear readers, you are welcome to send the author an e-mail (book e-mail) with any questions or answers you may have.

Simply write: "To page xx:" and then your text. A reply is guaranteed!

The aim is to create a useful exchange of ideas, a serious, intellectual interaction between reader and author!

The author is occasionally grateful for criticism. But please bear in mind that he has gained his life experience not as a medical doctor, but as a scientist!

So please don't be upset if the subtle difference between vagina and vulva is not precisely explained.

Eroticism today

Only "Mother Nature" is the person responsible in the background, who controls all natural love and erotic functions that were given to us by nature and over which we have little or no influence, but which nolens volens take place within us and influence us. So we can only complain or thank Mother Nature when it comes to our sexuality, but not our family minister! She can certainly be held responsible for many things, but not for our reproduction!

Or maybe you do? In our climate zone, you usually need a room, i.e. an apartment, to have sex. But there is currently a shortage of one and a half million of these in Germany!

So no sex? No procreation? No children?

It's not quite that bad yet! The natural urge to have sex always seeks and finds a secret place for the minimum twelve minutes necessary to preserve the species!

These twelve minutes are not a fantasy value, but a statistically determined value.

Dear experienced readers, do these meagre twelve minutes also seem a little too short to you? Quite the opposite of your own memories? Where - as you happily remember - such a comedy could last for hours?

So is it just an oversight in the statistics? Or is there something to the twelve minutes?

Without us really realizing it, our need to procreate, i.e. our sex drive, exerts great pressure on our decisions in all situations in life. Mainly at a young age. From the age of sixteen, when all the important foundations are laid and the course for life is set! The influence of sex is huge here.

But even around the age of forty plus, the topic of "eroticism" often becomes highly exciting again. When the inevitable question arises in the vast majority of marriages: "Is that all there is to our love life?" Or: "What do we need to change so that we are more satisfied again?" When we answer these questions, our need for sex comes to the fore again and plays a decisive role!

Until old age, the sex drive prompts all healthy men and women to have children. In the end, this is only possible with great effort and with aids. And finally, when the flesh fails completely, then only mentally!

This will remain the case for all eternity. Mother Nature makes sure of this, among other things by slowing down cell division with age. The flesh becomes weak! The mind remains willing! The synapses in the brain continue to switch quickly to sex stimuli.

It's reassuring to know: All attempts by the state, religion or sects to change our sex according to their ideas were unsuccessful in the long run. Mother Nature was stronger!

Puberty

During puberty, at the beginning of our sex life, we suddenly have to explore the opposite sex. This is truly difficult enough, as we make our first misjudgements with long-lasting consequences. Prejudices about the opposite sex are formed: "He's so stupid, he can't even kiss properly!" Or: "He doesn't even know how to deal with a woman!" explains the sixteen-year-old. Word gets around among the girlfriends. Consequence for the young man: the poor devil can no longer land with her friends either. Nevertheless, everyone is eagerly awaiting love.

Depending on mobility, the search for the "right woman", the "right man" is now expanding! Often even with success! Nature forces us all to make our first, second, third ... love: in other words, to choose which woman or man we want to connect with sexually in order to exchange genetic material. To father a child. Ultimately, to preserve humanity!

The selection criteria for men are dictated exclusively in the subconscious by Mother Nature: she makes him look and reach for large breasts with enthusiasm. Why? They promise sufficient nourishment for his children, whose procreation was imposed on him by nature. He now wants to take on this task with enthusiasm.

For the young man of fifteen, precious drops of his inheritance go down the drain when he just sees the beautiful, plump bottom of his classmate in her jeans or imagines her ample breasts. His feelings for her become even warmer, more romantic and even more mysterious when he imagines having her wonderful, round pelvis with a narrow waist and mound of Venus as a nesting place for their children. Before that, of course, comes the highly coveted act of procreation, which he eagerly awaits.

These considerations all take place in the subconscious. A young man could not formulate them! He still lacks a lot of knowledge and practical experience!

"He only feels what nature dictates to him." And that's what he does, within the framework of his upbringing and his possibilities!

The beautiful curves of a young woman's face, breasts, bottom, stomach and thighs trigger special stimuli in him: pleasant feelings of curiosity, excitement, positive arousal and palpitations. He has a burning desire for her to be his alone - he would fight for her too! Yes, he feels all of this clearly without knowing what it is. Which often prevents him from falling asleep! And when someone tells him it's love, he perhaps senses the connection between his sexual desire with an erect member - which he constantly carries around with him and which often prevents him from cycling in shorts - and his palpitations when he thinks about a certain girl.

"Sex and love obviously go together!" he suspects. "But wait a minute," says the inexperienced lad to himself, "men who go to brothels obviously enjoy sex too! And without any love?! Without any romance?" Hm ... There's something wrong with what the old men told him! So is lust alone really enough to sleep with any woman? Just to satisfy yourself? He can't quite believe that! Frightened, he also thinks about the responsibility of having a child!

Well, he continues to think, when he has masturbated, he is also satisfied, without any love or romance. In his upbringing, he was always told: "Only in love may man and woman be one flesh!" That's what the Bible says. So: semen may only be exchanged if both love each other?

This biblical claim seems excessive to him: If he sees a herd of elephants in which everyone looks after each other, helps each other, i.e. loves each other, and it doesn't matter who inseminates the lead cow, then perhaps too much importance is attached to sexual intercourse.

"Who's in the right?" the boy asks himself. "The one who goes to the brothel without love to be satisfied for money, regardless of the woman? Or is the one who seeks mutual satisfaction through sex with his wife in the comfort of his own home right?" - Very complicated, this thing with sex and sperm transfer! And what about the disadvantaged who can't find a partner for their love and sex?

Are they both right? "But then the woman in the brothel should also enjoy the same social status and the same protection as the wife at home," he thinks.

But the young man already knows that it's not like that here in Germany! The women in German brothels are usually economically exploited, beaten, raped, sold ... Disgusting, in his opinion!

Mother Nature would perhaps explain this difficult question to him as follows: "The most important thing about sex is to ensure the continuation of mankind, i.e. to produce children! Love is merely a stimulating element for procreation!"

"But if you conceive with love," she would say, "then in addition to the joy of sex, there is also a feeling of happiness: the pleasant feeling of belonging together. No longer being alone! Feeling secure, being able to cope with the future together. There is also a great sense of satisfaction in their shared happiness."

"These things are of far greater value than procreating without love, i.e. only with animal instinct - like a ram!" she would probably say! And further: "Strangely enough, a large part of humanity rams along without love! Nevertheless, most of them claim to be satisfied, even happy! With or without a marriage certificate! They are obviously content, but in constant hope of even greater contentment, of even greater happiness!"

Whatever the reality looks like, it is a wide field for speculation about the quality of satisfaction and sex, for which there is unfortunately still no DIN standard with quality levels. Sex platforms would also like to have such a standard for their advertising.

On the other hand, there is a simple but ironclad rule for the preservation of humanity: at least as many children must be born as old people die! If fewer are born, humanity will disappear from this planet after a very short time! It is estimated that the disappearance of mankind would take less than a hundred years! Mother Nature will hopefully prevent this!

So much for causality! Well ... would the extinction of humanity be a loss at all? - And if so, for whom?

Mother Nature might tell him this or something similar. It would probably make sense to him. But the young man would not be completely satisfied with these explanations today. He still had a few questions, for example: "Are there gradual differences in sexual satisfaction? If so, what are they, and how do you notice the difference?" He doesn't know any when masturbating! When his ejaculation is over and with it the high, he always has the same limp feeling of "a certain release with a bit of emptiness - nothing great that happens in a few seconds", says the young man to himself.

By the way: When the guy stops producing sperm sixty years later as an old man, his testicles will have produced around 50 liters of genetic material, i.e. sperm. That is 50,000 milliliters. At 5 to 10 milliliters per ejaculation, he will have used up this large quantity in around twenty-two thousand days and nights! He only needed 10 milliliters to bring his two children into the world. The remaining 49,990 milliliters were used for pleasure sex, for pure joy!

The young man would also like to know why women in brothels, i.e. these sex workers, are not better protected by society against injustice. After all, they fulfill an important function in keeping the male body healthy.

These are the young man's most important questions and insights of the day. He is satisfied with that for today.

Question to the readers: Is Mother Nature right? Is love merely a stimulating element for a greater willingness to procreate? Is it merely a compendium for the continued existence of mankind? Film and television occasionally take the same view.

Incidentally, the Christian religion makes no clarifying statement on this important question. It doesn't seem to care. It only gets specific when it comes to punishment: see the seven plagues!

Love - Rework

When our testosterone-driven young man used to masturbate, he didn't care about a woman in the back of his mind. In his mind's eye, he only saw gigantic breasts, an exciting big butt and a slightly open, wet vulva that attracted him insanely. The internet provided him with matching images. That was enough for him to have an orgasm! But immediately after ejaculating, his mind was free again for tennis and soccer.

That's no longer the case today. He has fallen in love with a girl. The woman has become a reality. She now has a name, a face, a body, a soul, a vagina. He thinks about her all the time! Sends her his thoughts, his feelings, his desires in a daily stream of text messages, e-mails and phone calls.

Yes, Mother Nature knows exactly what needs to be taken care of in advance so that conception can take place later on.

The young woman is also looking for love. Her desires have also been programmed into her. She also wants to be a mother one day, wants to bring children into the world. She doesn't know why she has this urge. It is suddenly there. She instinctively looks for the big strong man who can protect and nurture her and her child. This was also hammered into her DNA. There was no welfare back then. A woman was always on her own, or she had a loyal, strong ally who guaranteed help.

Perhaps this is how the first feeling of love and gratitude was born?

Her search for a penis that totally fills her up is also imprinted in her double helix. And not just because of the feelings of pleasure she has only heard about so far. No, she also wants it to be nice and big so that he can insert his semen as deeply as possible into her vagina. So that the dangerous journey of his sperm to the egg and then to the uterus is not too long! Otherwise they will fail and no new life will be created! Then there'll be no preservation of the species, despite the best libido!

Incidentally, Mother Nature had to do a bit of work on the male anatomy, or is still doing so: "The male penis grows larger from generation to generation when aroused!" That's what science says. Long-term measurements have been carried out.

The penis

Next to the car, it is a man's favorite toy. In the Far Eastern country of Bhutan, but also in Indonesia, it grows up to 2 meters tall: it is revered as a colourful lucky charm in the front garden. But you can also buy it everywhere in normal size made of wood for domestic use. The craziest designs are on display in shop windows.

In economic terms, it generates billions in revenue worldwide with the sale of toys, videos, literature and services in the sex trade!

From an engineering point of view, it is very complicated: It has a multiple feedback control system with two self-locking operating states, which it masters perfectly!

Task: Urine can only be drained via the urethra if the valve - i.e. the sphincter muscle at the exit of the bladder - is opened voluntarily. Another muscle automatically closes the urethra again at the end of urination, usually without dripping.

Only then was hygiene possible!

Task: loss-free sperm transfer, for safety reasons as deep as possible, into a vagina! To do this, the ureter is closed and a corpus cavernosum in the penis is inflated with blood until it has reached about three times its length and twice its thickness. This creates the necessary stiffness and hardness to penetrate the vagina - without kinking! Euler's kink formula is thus fulfilled! All nerves, veins, sensors and cells must be able to stretch and shrink by approx. 300 percent without being damaged!!! During ejaculation, the sperm shoots out of the vas deferens into the urethra in the penis, which has been switched to a sperm duct. From there unchecked into the waiting vagina or elsewhere. Sensors for pressure, temperature, fluid level and feelings are in constant interactive contact with the controlling brain.

Neurological tasks. The pleasure sensors located all over the penis trigger the brain to immediately pump blood into the erectile tissue, for example, if it threatens to go limp! And this continues until ejaculation with the desired orgasm has declared the act over! The penis then shrinks back to its normal size by 300 percent. In contrast to the inflated monster, it is now easy to handle again in everyday use - as every man will appreciate!

You can imagine the developmental effort that went into this organ with its up to 300 percent change in volume! Here, too, Mother Nature has succeeded in creating a biologically insane technology with feedback sensors and extreme cell, nerve and brain performance! Chapeau!

Partner search

It is the most difficult part of growing up! Because all rational resolutions are for naught when Mother Nature showers us with great sexual desire and strong love for a particular partner. In other words, a means of pressure that a man or woman can hardly defend themselves against - which also makes all the external and internal flaws in the partner in question seem secondary!

The fatal consequence: mating takes place despite occasional doubts about this guy, which almost inevitably led to a child in the pre-pill era. A person in the throes of love doesn't care about anything! Only feelings count. Everyone knows that! That's what all healthy people work towards! Don't they?

You too, dear reader? If you like, write about what it was like for you with the dictates of sexual feelings. Which ones led you to your happiness or misfortune. Your case could appear anonymously in a sequel to this book.

Few people still know the unpleasant consequences of a "one-night stand" where, despite the pill, Mother Nature prevailed. In other words, a child was conceived without the lust-driven couple wanting it. This is still a big problem today!

One consolation: only children can make us unforgettable in posterity - they say! Or even "make us immortal"? - After all, that's what we all hope and seek a little when we pass on our inheritance and are in our right mind!

If the product of a broom closet interaction is allowed to remain in its mother's protective brood cave, then Mother Nature also ensures that the little creature is ultimately the most beautiful baby in the world after all! At least for mom and grandma. The father, on the other hand, often has his bank account in mind when looking at his "incidentally" produced little human.

Process control

So we need sexuality for the process of procreation! At least the man needs it. Otherwise there would be no erection and no ejaculation, and therefore no child, no matter how hard the chosen one tries.

However, our pension system would not be able to cope with even fewer children! It already has to feed more and more non-contributory beneficiaries!

Today, in the age of the computer, we could demand: "To have enough children in the country, we need a good operating system for the right processes during sex, as well as excellent process control of all glands and feelings for the preservation of human life, also with special consideration of the pension fund."

The Chinese have tried birth control. They have failed!

Sexuality, with all its beautiful processes and pleasurable excesses, was developed by Mother Nature many hundreds of thousands of years ago and programmed into us, the later Homo sapiens.

Not in digital form, binary coded, which we consider to be the highest technical achievement today, but by means of DNA. All data on human life is packed into chromosomes and passed on. We don't know exactly how! It would be an impossible task for earthly engineers, biologists and chemists!

A mixture of men and women constantly creates unique new people! Chapeau, Mother Nature!

And who or what is Mother Nature? Answer: a metaphorical personification of incomprehensible processes surrounding the life of all beings and all plants!

Compared to nature's ancient DNA technology, our current digital technology is only comparable to the first hieroglyphics of writing in the Stone Age four thousand years ago! And the best thing about this DNA invention of nature: everything, both physical and mental life with its lustful thoughts about sex, is passed on unchanged from generation to generation in the genetic material. Even brainwashing by religion has not been able to erase this program!

On the other hand, today's inferior sex program, with all its prohibitions, is increasingly being called into question by the authorities: Coitus only with a man, only with a woman, shamefully in the dark, under the covers, completely wordless, done in a flash, something you're not allowed to talk about. No sex games, always thinking about the last drop! - Whew! Who is supposed to enjoy such bland, listless sex?

You have to know: Many widows actually saw their husband naked for the first time when he was lying on his deathbed. That was the height of false morality!

"Human sexuality is no longer something natural, but an artificial cultural product!"

This powerful sentence by a sex researcher in a weekly magazine back in 1969 describes a sex problem that has hardly changed to this day, some fifty years later. Unfortunately, it is still very often the common thread, the guiding principle - and also the "thread of suffering" - in our sexuality. Around it, many people's originally so pleasurable, natural sexual behavior with the greatest moments of happiness has gradually turned into a sterile, repressed cultural product without orgasm. It is mainly women who suffer from this!

The result was a sex life in which even the most suppressed panting during sex could be considered immoral behavior by a neighbor with a good ear.

The drop

Not infrequently, the whole act of love was labeled a "work of Satan" by religious hardliners. With devastating consequences: Sex was banished to the spiritual underground. The raped woman with a big belly was declared a witch and burned alive as a sinner! It was that simple for the church!

Even today, our thoughts on reproduction are still dismissed as "bad thoughts". Of course, we are not allowed to talk about that either!

Isn't it fatal that every drop of sperm that ends up in the sheets despite the utmost attention often becomes a problem? That's how messed up we've almost all become! It is removed as quickly as possible. Otherwise, by some stupid coincidence, the stubborn neighbor or the rapt religious follower might catch sight of the little stain - the proof of good fortune.

And in our culture, you still have to be ashamed of that. You feel like you've been caught doing something forbidden - crazy!

In this way, people were driven into dependence on the church with ever new coercions, i.e. decrees from the authorities!

Today, the well-adjusted mistress, and even more so the wife, has a paper towel to hand in good time. She even put a towel underneath to safely catch the ominous drop! Don't let it go into the sheets! Not even with the reflux, that's the top priority!

With the cloth already in her hand, holding out on the narrow towel and waiting for the drop, she may miss the most devout moment of her life: the conception of her child. (See cover picture!)

Dear reader, how do you feel about the aforementioned drop?

It took less than two thousand years for religion, intellectual progress and medicine to turn heavenly lust into an act of Satan, which is still forbidden or considered immoral to talk about in public today! In any case, it is still a taboo subject today. "You don't talk about it!"

As a man, try talking to your neighbor on the streetcar about the sex you had with your wife last night - instead of about your rheumatism. You'll be declared a pervert. And that's despite the fact that our age is so wonderfully progressive.

Pedophilia

This forced speechlessness on the part of adults has a disastrous side effect on children: for example, if children fall into the clutches of paedophile priests or other paedophile criminals and are abused, then it is very easy for these criminals to keep them silent: The child cannot articulate himself. They don't have the right words. His parents also keep quiet about such "disgusting things". The child is ashamed, has a guilty conscience and as a result also keeps quiet.

All the pedophile has to do is fuel the child's guilty conscience, threaten him with the terrible reactions of his parents if they were to learn from him - the blameless, God-fearing man - that their child, whom he abused, did not scream, did not fight back, put up with everything!

This makes the child compliant for sex crimes in the future! And why is that? - Because sexuality still has a negative connotation for most people; something you don't talk about in public! Especially not the church! The church obviously considers coercion and rape within its walls to be less bad than talking about sexuality in an educational way!

Sex workers

Today there are "sex workers" on certain parts of the street! That sounds much better than "prostitutes"!

Giving men an orgasm for money has become a (respectable?) profession! In brothels, "flat rates" are offered for an extra charge. Here, the omnipotent suitor can make as many sex workers happy with his semen as he likes or can. There are said to be amazingly potent specimens of the male species there. "Man" doesn't want to believe it: up to five ejaculations!!!

Please ask for more details on the Internet. Social networks are always happy to help when it comes to sex. In addition to their laudable merits, they have also become a gigantic house of pleasure. Thanks to the pill, thanks to Viagra and above all thanks to the guaranteed anonymity, their sex platforms are also the right medium for shady characters.

The inhumane crimes committed against sex workers, who often come from abroad and were forced into the milieu by violence - an unbelievable imposition! -must be discussed elsewhere. Presumably, many of the women, most of whom were left defenceless, are seeking revenge, marked by disgust and humiliation. May their desires for revenge be fulfilled!

Sex as a commodity seems to have become totally taboo. This is in stark contrast to sex in the home. Here, sex is still a dirty subject. It's not talked about! Not even during sex! It's probably the fear of saying the wrong thing that has led to this secrecy! For a long time, the authorities told people: "Sex is something bad, something devilish!" So it was only a small step to using sex as a weapon.

Species conservation

As you can read, all of Mother Nature's rules and tricks for reproduction are natural, unprecedentedly versatile, captivating, cunning and usually equally enjoyable for men and women!

Mother Nature strives by all means to bring as many offspring into the world as possible - with whatever partners, under whatever conditions. She also does not tolerate a stop in the flow of sperm, as is possible with all other substances that leave our bodies! If there were a sphincter muscle for this too, mankind would probably have died out long ago.

The biological make-up of men and women allows them to use their unlimited procreative capacity on a daily basis. At least in theory they could!

But not all men are as omnipotent as studs, even if they like to pretend they are! Not all women have a daily desire for "vaginal interaction" either. (Isn't that a great, precise word for loving, shagging, fucking, banging, popping etc.?)

Daily caresses would often be enough for them - that's what you hear from women. More often, however, there seems to be a desire for more sex. Less for young women, more for older women?

Many older men then become afraid. Fear that their best piece will give out despite their desire. He then needs help, which gets worse with increasing age.

What do you think, dear readers? Do men and women have to stop having interactive sex with their spouse altogether if he or she no longer wants to or is no longer able to?

Doing it yourself is a widespread emergency solution, but not very popular.

However, a new statistic shows that 90 percent of all men and 80 percent of all women masturbate! Why do they do it? Their bodies probably crave sex, but their pseudomonogamous system prevents intercourse: "He or she doesn't want to right now!" That's it! The consequences of dissatisfaction are well known.

These problems would probably not exist with polygamous sex partners. Maybe others?

In addition, Mother Nature has built in periods of infertility in women. Not for men. "Why not?" asks the man or woman concerned. Is this perhaps to be understood as meaning that he should help other women to be happy mothers during his wife's sex-free time? Or even has to?

Neighbor's thoughts

Omnipotent, as he sees himself, the helpful neighbor wonders the same thing. He nods his head approvingly when he sees his neighbor bent over in her garden in the summer. When her thin blouse flutters in the wind. When her ample breasts become visible, threatening to pop out of the bra cups D/E 105. Then he is so aroused that she must also be able to see it clearly. Her child-bearing pelvis and her flawless, plump bottom excite him more and more. He offers his help to work in her garden. She declines with thanks, but beams at him. "Maybe I was a little too clumsy," he thinks. Because he doesn't shake hands in his own garden, his wife does everything.

He doesn't even hide his ulterior motives from his neighbor. He wants to help her and himself sexually, no matter what - nothing else!

She bends down more and more often, deeper and deeper - more than necessary. She shows him her short, black shorts, beautifully round and tightly filled by her magnificent bottom. Her spread legs give her a secure footing, but also clearly show, with binoculars, that the fabric has sunk deep into the cleft of her buttocks and vagina. He develops exciting thoughts - his pants get tighter and tighter.

Everything about the little blonde neighbor is plump, beautiful and sexy. At least that's how it has seemed to him for some time now. She used to seem rather vulgar to him.

So he would find a kind of "compulsory sex help" for men whose wives are indisposed highly commendable! This "duty" could finally fulfill other women's long-cherished desire to have children and also stop the universally lamented decline in birth rates! So their social action would also be entirely in the spirit of Mother Nature! Thoughts like this shoot through his head in a testosterone rush.

"Nonsense," he muses: "Nothing will come of it! This beautiful, voluptuous neighbor is certainly very well provided for sexually." But why is she showing him her charms so freely? Her labia are shown in perfect detail, her magnificent breasts with their erect nipples are clearly visible - with binoculars! She's doing this specifically for him, even though she doesn't know him - how is he supposed to understand that?

Okay - we live in the age of the internet, of fake news, where the truth has become unimportant because there are supposedly several truths to choose from. But here her desire for sex with him is visually confirmed, which confuses him a lot!

Of course, she has long since noticed that he is watching her - in his thin, baggy trousers. And she likes him. So she signals to him, probably unconsciously, with her body language: "I want your seed, I want a child from you." So her body language follows her desires, not her mind, when she shows herself willing to have sex with him. The primal need to preserve the species has controlled the behavior of both.

Of course, today's society no longer works that simply. She knows that too. Nevertheless, it plays up this sexual challenge to him, just as it can be seen everywhere in nature. The social platforms on the internet do nothing else!

Our cultural figures in film and television also practice this every day.

Why are they doing this?

"It's obvious," his friend Xaver (32, married) would say: "They show the age-old stimulating images: Breasts, vulva, buttocks, which have always invited mating. This in turn triggers a joyful excitement with a desire for mating in us men - basta! For us, as in the animal world, physical touch alone is something unsurpassedly beautiful! This also includes showing ourselves naked to a potential sexual partner. To entice them to mate! It's the primal language, it's primal sex!", Xaver continues to enthuse - he's read about it!

The neighbor walks back across the terrace in front of his TV. After all, Bayern are playing HSV and he doesn't want to miss it.

"But what if there was an opportunity with the neighbor? What would I do then?" he asks himself seriously. He looks at his pants: his thoughts have tripled "his" volume again. His penis has jumped out of his briefs and the glans is now rubbing painfully against the rough fabric of his jeans again!

The hormone-ridden neighbor answers himself resolutely: "Yes, I would!" Only very briefly does he think of his wife: "No, I would never leave her!"

This seems to be the natural reaction of a man when it comes to sex, which is often condemned by women as mental infidelity. But why does he think in such an egocentric and undifferentiated way? Why does he think he has a right to cheat?

"Because he is a polygamous and not a monogamous being, that's why he has the right," Xaver would say. "It was imprinted on him to preserve his species, even if it doesn't suit religion and the state! This conflict has existed since time immemorial."

Xaver is right, but he points out: "After all, it is a fact that man has a divine mandate to multiply! Only he can initiate reproduction. Only he has the seed and the tools to inject," Xaver believes. "The woman only has the passive, unfertilized egg." - "Well," he continues, "both man and woman are needed after all!"

Which is of course true, but is always questioned a little by the male species. As if the sperm is more important than the egg. Which of course is not true - or is it?

However, it is somewhat unfair of Mother Nature to make the man's willingness to have sex so extremely high as a signal for every woman to see from afar and, on the other hand, to give the woman no visual signal of readiness at all! That must lead to misunderstandings! Or does she also give visual signals? For example, the woman's enlarged, erect nipples? But that's not a strong signal! It's barely visible. Certainly not from a distance, without binoculars! And not at all comparable to the man's highly erect ready signal!

For Homo sapiens in prehistoric times, this may have given the wrong impression: "Women are always ready to mate - and therefore always willing to mate!", which still occasionally leads to the well-known complications today!

Even today, many men still find it difficult to talk about infidelity. After all, they believe they acted "in sexual need" when they succumbed to the temptations of the woman next door.

How do you, dear reader, see the situation if your husband were really "doing it" with the neighbor? Would he then be in an emergency situation? Would his natural sex drive have forced him to cheat? Would his behavior be excusable?

Before you answer, please talk to your husband first.

Mating according to instructions

In addition to Mother Nature's joyful standards for mating, humans have also created rules for species conservation in the course of their development.

However, they follow completely different criteria. No longer the original lust, but the criteria of morality, ethics and fidelity. In other words, value concepts that Mother Nature can't do anything with. Because these lead to less procreation, to fewer children. That is not in her interest.

The dilemma: these new rules of reason have abandoned the natural ways of sexuality. They have been turned into a forced and cultural product. With their many prohibitions, the new rules are in stark contradiction to the ancient natural rules that humans were programmed to follow in the brain stem.

These primal rules allow everything that is important and pleasurable to humans for the preservation of the species. Every form of sexual pleasure that leads to joy, positive excitement and satisfaction is welcome and intended by nature! Otherwise, humans would not have become the crown of creation, but would have died out like other life forms!

Needs arose with the programming. And when Homo sapiens were finally able to speak, they used these to formulate sexual desires.

Since time immemorial, both men and women have insisted on the fulfillment of their desires. Both fulfilled the wishes of the other and made each other happy!

This sex program runs and runs and runs in people's heads to this day. Even the invention of religions could not stop it.

Is it any wonder that these old, natural desires occasionally reappear and assert themselves, sometimes more, sometimes less insistently?

How was it with the ancient Germanic tribes? If a Germanic man came along the road and met a Germanic woman who was bent over working in the fields, it was nothing unusual for them to have a consensual sexual interaction immediately and with great pleasure, which was also talked about at home in the family circle.

Of course, this totally "responsibility-free encounter sex" cannot be transferred to the present day: the hard shoulders and parking lots on the freeways would be bursting at the seams with bobbing cars if this ancient custom of the Germanic tribes were to be reintroduced. There could even be popular uprisings due to a lack of state support for the demand for more parking spaces. The many hundreds of thousands of men and women willing to have sex along the highways, country roads and country lanes would insist on their rights!

So - please don't apply to your local authority for free sex! Because it is precisely this beautiful, but also responsibility-free sex that inevitably leads to the questions: Who feeds the child? Who is the father? Who inherits what? - The justice system flourished!

The pinnacle of species conservation

It is nature's program, which for eons has developed the simple, actually stupid activity for the preservation of species into a bestseller, which is essentially based on oscillation, the simple back-and-forth movement, but which it has endowed in the brain with supernatural pleasures of lust - and this in connection with a sophisticated surge of creative sexual thoughts and pleasurable desires.

The extensive feeling of the naked body, the naked skin of the loved one, plus his caressing of the most intimate places with hand and tongue are already a great pleasure, but also need to be trained so that man or woman can find the zones of the most suitable places quickly enough if necessary!

Greedy kisses on erogenous spots further increase the longing for union!

This is followed by the first step in the transfer of genetic material: "the lovers sliding into each other". And so that the penis can slide at all, the Creator has provided lubricant in the vagina as a precaution! This precaution is truly amazing!

Feeling the great warmth inside your lover for the first time will amaze every man! Highly sensitive sensors on the penis and vagina rub against each other to further increase the pleasure! All this is even more overwhelming the first time than later. It leads to an inferno of feelings of pleasure, joy, fulfillment and security.

To make this act so joyful so that the species is preserved, so that a child is born, is already a supreme achievement of Mother Nature. No amount of sophisticated process control by humans could achieve this.

But in the second of orgasm, i.e. at the moment of conception, the handing over of the genetic material, to increase the feelings of pleasure even further, to accompany the handing over of the sperm with a roaring emotional peak of almost reverent grandeur, is the greatest thing of all, the most immeasurable feeling of happiness there is for a loving person!

This excess of happiness with a racing heart and simultaneous relaxation at the peak of procreation leads to a liberating cry, unlike with the male. The male then falls silently off the female and makes a run for it! In contrast, two humans usually fall asleep afterwards, cuddling tenderly and relaxed. Except for a few, not so few men: they wake up shortly after orgasm and stammer: "Oh God, it's so late already, I have to get home really quickly!"

It is Mother Nature's masterpiece! We should be grateful to her for it! Every healthy person who has experienced it will strive for it for the rest of their life! The Chinese even talk about the "little death".

A process of unparalleled sustainability has truly succeeded here!

As far as we can tell today, the act of procreation has worked almost without a hitch since time immemorial.