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- Herausgeber: Julio Winslow
- Kategorie: Geisteswissenschaft
- Sprache: Englisch
Are You Struggling With Extreme Shyness And Social Anxiety?
Are You Losing Out In Life Because Of Lack Of Self-Confidence?
If so, “Overcome Shyness And Gain Self Confidence: How To Conquer Your Social Anxiety And Increase Your Assertiveness, Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem And Self Worth !” by Maxwell Nelson is the book for you!
Shyness and social anxiety is a problem that millions of people in the world struggle with. Their shyness keeps them missing out on numerous opportunities in school, at work, in business and even in relationships.
Here is what this book will help you learn:
- Determining the causes of your shyness
- Identifying the triggers that cause your anxiety
- Taking control of your own reactions
- Owning Your mind
- How to Build self-confidence
- How to improve relationships
In Overcome Shyness, you’ll learn to step away from distractions, overcome your shyness, and be more successful and comfortable in social situations.
With real-world examples, brief exercises, and simple tips, you’ll become more confident communicating in all situations from dating to work to large social events and parties.
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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2022
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Overcome Shyness
Unlocking Your Full Potential and Overcoming Shyness (Step-by-step Self Help Action Plan to Overcome Social Anxiety, Defeat Shyness and Create Confidence)
Julio Winslow
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Table Of Content
Introduction
Chapter 1: What is shyness?
Chapter 2: Improving Your Social Skills
Chapter 3: What Causes Social Anxiety?
Chapter 4: Defining Social Anxiety and Shyness
Chapter 5: Changing Thinking Patterns
Chapter 6: Developing Your Conversations Skills
Chapter 7: Doing Things Differently
Chapter 8: The experience of shyness
Introduction
This book is for anyone who is looking to sharpen their social abilities. You may feel uncomfortable, nervous, and anxious when it comes to people. You find it difficult to talk to people and leave a lasting impression on other people. You're feeling lonely and unconnected and don't socialize frequently as you would like, or have a few acquaintances and would like to develop more connections. Perhaps all of the above. Perhaps you feel you missed out on understanding the social norms that were not written down that the majority of people seemed to have got knack of when they reached thirteen.
If you're experiencing problems with social interaction it's not an isolated issue. You might feel like you're an outcast with a unique flaw, but these aren't uncommon issues. Many people are feeling the same way that you do.
The positive side is the fact that social issues are fixable. The notion of"late bloomers "late bloomer" has a purpose. Many people were lonely or shy at times in their lives prior to developing social skills, and then put their solitude or shyness over them. It is possible to boost your self-confidence. Learn to manage anxiety and shyness, as well as the negative thinking and behavior which feed these feelings. It is possible to practice and develop your communication abilities. Learn an effective method to make people and create a social life. Even if certain aspects of socializing do not come easily to you and you'll need to work harder than others, nothing about your circumstance can make you lose your way.
There is no need to completely alter your personality to be more successful in your social life and you can keep your values, interests and character traits unchanged. Just fill the skill or gaps in confidence which are holding you behind. You'll become a more confident and socially savvy version of yourself. The purpose for this publication is to provide you the necessary tools to feel comfortable socially however it suits you, whether it's drinking all night with a handful of casual acquaintances or staying in the privacy of your home, with the exception that you occasionally visit with a few very close acquaintances. It's not a desire to turn your character into one who is fake, so that they will attract the maximum number of people.
This book is a complete guide to having a social conversation. There are books that address the subject of shyness and conversation skills in separate books and this one gives all you need to be aware of in one location. The author had to deal with each of these issues as a child and created this guide as the one that he would have liked to have in the past.
The book covers the basic concepts you didn't know about when you grew older. It tackles the issues that only are faced by those who have had a difficult time with socially throughout their lives.
If your social skills can be evaluated on a scale of ten points it’s about helping you go from a miserable 3 to a satisfied useful 7. It's not a compilation of obscure tricks that help you go from ordinary to advance. It doesn't provide five secrets techniques that CEOs employ in order to create handshakes that are more memorable and powerful. However, people who are charismatic aren't simply because they're proficient in many techniques that the majority people don't have and they can perform a variety of social skills more effectively than average. This book can help you be a bit more charismatic by helping you understand the essential skills you can improve beyond the normal level.
The book focuses on everyday socializing. It doesn't tackle workplace-specific topics such as how to deal with difficult colleagues or influence your boss or even nail that presentation. The book also doesn't address the realm of flirting and dating. If you're struggling with social issues, the majority of the advice here will help your professional or your love life. It's hard to attract someone or even get along with your colleagues if they have difficulty talking to people or are unable to control your anxiety around others.
What's next?
After a few chapters on how to tackle social problems, the book covers three fundamental areas of social skill:
1. Beating anxiety, shyness and fear of failure Feeling more relaxed and confident about you and your friends
2. Engaging in conversation and interfacing with others
3. Making friends and meeting new people
The sections build on one the other. You'll have a hard time trying to talk to people in a state of anxiety and fear as well as be unable to form friends if you're unable to keep a conversation going. However, you don't need to read the sections in order. If you're confident and communication skills are adequate, then implementing the tips in “Forming and Growing Friendships" section "Forming or Growing Friendships" section may make the most significant and quick effect on how you socialize.
Chapter 1: What is shyness?
Talk, shyness and silence
It's often beneficial to think about psychological ideas to start with the language is used to discuss these concepts. The word "shyness" is frequently used in conversation, and examining how we express it is an excellent starting point to answer the question, 'what exactly does it mean to be shy?' We can do it in many ways. It is the way people feel and the way they act. It also explains the reasons why they are the way they behave and feel the way they do. In chapter 2 the word "shyness" can be used to refer to a temporary moment. As an example, we can declare that we are suddenly overwhelmed by shyness, for instance when our boss comes to our work group in the canteen or when we're with people we think are attractive. In another sense, the word "shy" refers to more permanent aspects of an individual's personality. For instance, we refer to someone as shy. If I have heard that you're shy, this will trigger in my mind a lot of expectations of your character. I suspect that you're at peace in a group and aren't one to push yourself to the edge. You'd rather relax at home reading a book and not attend an event that is lively. I'm not sure if you act this manner however, the description can lead to predictions of the way you'll behave. Of course, these assumptions might be based on stereotypes and are not based on a true observation.
It is also a way as a reason for why someone acts like they do. For instance "She was too timid to speak to him."He doesn't speak in public meetings since they are shy. The quiet, the avoidance of making eye contact with someone and appearing shy or uneasy These are typically the actions that are the basis for the notion that shyness is a sign of weakness. However, sometimes friendly and outgoing people surprise us when they admit that beneath their charming façade, they're actually shy in reality. If people appear shy when they talk little , and also speak a lot, then shyness is a very difficult concept to pinpoint.
Take, for instance the British disc jockey Chris Moyles who presents a highly popular breakfast radio program for the BBC and has attracted around seven million viewers. The popularity of his show is evident in the fact that he's reported to have added a million listeners to the program's audience, which was decreasing prior to his was given the show. He is known for being loud, confident sometimes rude, extremely friendly and eager to speak with strangers. In his autobiography, the author writes about his shyness when doing not radio broadcasts, the slackness as well as his lack of confidence engaging in conversations, and his fear of being at social gatherings. People who work with him say that he is shy.
