Sex tips. 1001 mind-blowing techniques E-Book

Oliver Peers

• Herausgeber: Parkstone International
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch

Seitenzahl: 159

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2021

Beschreibung

Need to liven up your sex life? Open the box! Arranged by theme, just about every pleasuring technique ever devised is presented here – handy for quick reference! * Packed with explicit information. * Tips for you and your partner. * Keep the box by the bed!

Leseprobe

SEX

TIPS

1001 Mind-Blowing

Techniques

Please note

The author, packager and publisher cannot accept any responsibility for injury resulting from any of the suggestions and techniques set out in this book. Please consult a medical professional if you are in any doubt about any aspect of your condition.

The author or publisher cannot be held responsible for the information (formulas, recipes, techniques, etc.) contained in the text, even though the utmost care has been taken in the writing of this work. In the case of specific - often unique - problems of each particular reader, it is advisable to consult a qualified person to obtain the most complete, accurate and up-to-date information possible. EDITORIAL DE VECCHI, S. A. U.

© Editorial De Vecchi, S. A. 2021

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ISBN 978-1-78525-998-2

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Contents

INTRODUCTION

SEX PLAY

POSITIONS PLEASE!

FLIRT & DATE

SUSTAINING RELATIONSHIPS

IMPROVING SEX DRIVE

SAME SEX

INTRODUCTION

Welcome tosex tips.

Your love life is about to get better!

With 1001 loving and relationship-boosting activities for you to explore, you might be wondering how you’ll ever have time to fit it all in. And you’ll find that the creative suggestions will inspire you to think of even more ways to spice up your love life, too. So, where to start? Well, that’s really up to you …

You might like simply to have a browse, perhaps with your partner, until you discover something you’d both like to try. Or you could take it in turns to pick a tip at random, and give it a whirl right now! You might choose to challenge each other … or pick your most treasured, sensual treats. There are no hard-and-fast rules when it comes to sex. For ease of use, the tips are organized into categories (although the very nature of sex means you’ll find there’s considerable overlap), with tips for him featured on left-hand pages throughout, and tips for her on right-hand pages. That way, you’ll always know where to look.

If you’re feeling shy and need a fun way to warm things up with your partner, the sex-dare dice are on hand to help. Shake, rattle and roll both dice together and see where fortune takes you. You can’t lose at this game! And when you’re in the mood for some seriously sensual explorations, use the blindfold to plunge into a world of darkness and immerse yourself in your other senses (or use it to tie your partner up instead!). The twelve sex-tips cards can be used with the book to focus to an evening’s entertainment: choose a position that appeals to the moment, or just turn the pack face down and pick a card.

So, to begin, here’s your first tip: with sex tips there’s no excuse for complacency in your love life. Sex can always be better, and it’s never too late to try something new. There are plenty of tips here that will be just right for you and your partner, no matter the time, the mood or the inclination. Enjoy your love life!

SEX PLAY

Keep your love life tingling! A playful attitude to lovemaking can help you feel more erotically charged and free to enjoy your sex life to the max …

FOR HIM

Hot Air?Try balloon play: blow up a balloon but don’t tie it. Use the air to tease your partner’s intimate bits (don’t blow air inside her, though, as it’s dangerous).

Wireless WondersSome sex toys can be remote-controlled. Give one to your partner on a saucy night out but keep the remote to give her a real buzz!

Horny HangmanSpell out a fantasy, hangman-style, then start playing! If your partner loses, your dream comes true. If she wins, she chooses a fantasy instead.

Sexy ShoppingAdd some aphrodisiacs and food-play items (body chocolate, cream, honey, bananas) to the weekly shopping list to make a dull chore go with a bang.

FOR HER

Tickle Your Fancy?Erotic tickling is a great way to explore bondage and domination without painful overtones … so tie him up and break out that feather!

Give Him a HandLube your hands and grasp one hand at right angles to the other, pushing the top of his penis between your palms. Don’t just pump – try twisting, too.

Dream AwakeningSee if you can gently arouse him in his sleep. Hopefully he’ll be dreaming of some sexy woman and, as he wakes, there you are – ready for drowsy sex!

Slip-slidin’ AwayTreat him to a massage. Once he’s relaxed, rub oil on your breasts and slide them against his back. It won’t take him long to turn over!

FOR HIM

Sex on the BeachFor a ‘hot’ holiday, remember to take a blanket with you for outdoor loving (sand in intimate places doesn’t add to the thrill). Be discreet!

Rollercoaster RideGive your partner Chinese love balls, then take her to a theme park. If she wears them on the rollercoaster, she’ll be sure to have a thrilling ride!

Trigger ActionAsk your partner if there are any saucy trigger words that really get her going. Or invent them. Then use them in your sexy talk and love-notes.

Ooh, Just There!Don’t be afraid to say what you like! Tell her how great it feels when she rubs your perineum or teases your glans with her velvety tongue.

FOR HER

Tongue Tingler!You’ve tried breath mints; now try sucking on some cough drops before performing oral sex. It’ll add a terrific tingle that will drive him wild!

Art to ArtExplore new experiences with body paints. Use fingers, hands and soft brushes on the skin for different sensations and textures. And take pictures to admire later!

Write OnKeep a secret diary of your fantasies. Describe what your partner’s doing to you in as much – or as little – detail as you want, then ‘let’ him find it.

Timely TrystToo busy for sex? Make a ‘date’. Set a time and stick to it! Anticipation will get your minds working, and you can both be more spontaneous on the day.

FOR HIM

Read My LipsWatch for signs that she’s enjoying your tongue technique. Hips rising to your mouth, writhing and moving in anticipation, is good news!

Good VibrationsGet your partner to set her mobile phone to vibrate and then slip it into her underwear. Call her throughout the day to give her saucy thrills!

Make it LastAs you feel her orgasm beginning, slow down your licks and make them firmer to give her a more intense experience.

Ring the ChangesToys for the boys can be fun. Get yourself a penis-ring to help sustain your erection. You’ll last longer, and it’ll add clitoral thrills for your partner, too.

FOR HER

Oral AftersOnce he’s ejaculated, keep stroking his penis, sucking lightly for a minute. Flick your tongue around his glans. Try tying him up first for heightened sensations!

Sexy ShoppingAdd some aphrodisiacs and food-play items (body chocolate, cream, honey, bananas) to the weekly shopping list to make a dull chore go with a bang.

RoundaboutRun your tongue around the perimeter of his balls (better if he’s shaved!), then up his shaft and around the head. Do it over and over until he’s trembling!

Laid on the LineSpice up that business trip with a steamy phone call home. First time? It’s OK to laugh – and remember to disconnect ‘call waiting’!

FOR HIM

Play TimeLike to include sex toys in your love play? Slip a condom over a dildo or vibrator so you can switch penetrations without having to stop the action!

Hand in GlovePut smooth, round beads inside the tip of the index finger of a lubed latex glove. Gently stroking her G-spot with them as you use your tongue will drive her wild!

Win, Lose or Draw?Have a TV-free evening. Play games and agree that the loser does the winner’s bidding in the bedroom – or anywhere else they want!

Wet ’n’ WildYou may love her juices all over you after oral sex but she may not! Wipe your face on a towel or sheet before your thank-you kiss!

FOR HER

Tongue-tiedKeep your tongue firm and run it down the line of hair on his stomach. It can be a huge turn-on! Also, try darting your tongue in and out of his navel.

Yum, Yum!Wash condoms with mild soap to get rid of the rubber taste. Let them air dry, then add a drop of flavoured lube for tastier, safer blow jobs.

Saucy CinemaCut a hole in the bottom of your popcorn box and get your man to poke his penis through it. No one will know what you’re doing when you reach inside!

Summer Lovin’In hot weather, ice lollies and ice-cream cones are great to use for teasing and foreplay. Lick them suggestively to let him know you’re in the mood.

FOR HIM

Makes ScentsWomen think their odour can be a turn-off. Reassure her that you love it! If she’s still unsure, suggest a sexy bath or shower together first.

Worth ItLeave lingerie on as long as possible! Your fingers and tongue will feel fab through a sexy, sheer bra or pants, and even better when they touch bare flesh!

Read the CuesIf she’s lighting candles, taking a bath or reading sexy stories before you make love, take a hint! Offer to do them first or join her!

Is it Over?Many women don’t orgasm from intercourse, and find it can be kind of boring! Suggest you try more oral sex on each other, to keep your sex drive in high gear.

FOR HER

Different StrokesA genital massage will get rid of his stress better than any backrub! Use soft, smooth strokes over his testes with firmer strokes over his shaft.

Phone ZoneSurprise him with an erotic phone call at work describing your naughtiest secrets. Need some tips or descriptive phrases? Buy a dirty magazine!

What Mess?Don’t go all girlie and moan about the mess after he’s ejaculated, or complain about a wet spot. Just admire his prowess and ask him to help with the clean-up!

Toys for BoysYour lifelike vibrator or dildo is fine for solo play, but may threaten your partner’s fragile male ego! Get one that’s not penis-shaped for playing together.

FOR HIM

Tough LoveIf she only reaches orgasm a certain way, don’t do it for a month! She may hate you but she will learn to enjoy other experiences and increase her multi-orgasm potential!

Tongue-tiedIf you can roll your tongue into a tube, do it as you’re stimulating her clitoris. Slide your tongue up and down. This works best if she’s already wet and in the 69 position.

Oh, I Say!Try whispering something sexy or suggestive when she’s least expecting it. ‘Thinking about that time I blindfolded you really makes me wild!’

Lucky StrokeGently stroking your partner’s stomach, just above her ovaries, can feel great! Find the spot midway between her navel and the sides of her stomach.

FOR HER

Wait For It!Work his shaft with your hands or mouth to get him really revved, then pause for a second or two. Keep starting and stopping – he’ll be begging for it!

Deep Throat LiteLie on your back with your head over the edge of the bed. Get your partner to lower his penis into your mouth, while you hold the shaft at the base to control thrusts and avoid the gag reflex.

Smooth MoveCoarse pubic hair can irritate sensitive facial skin. Keep your hair soft by using hair conditioner when you shower. Better yet, ask him to rub it in for you!

Take ActionDon’t wait for him – do things that turn you on! Light candles, take a bath, read a sexy story. He’ll soon catch on and offer to do them or join you!

FOR HIM

Ear, Ear!Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Be careful about putting your tongue inside her ear unless she’s asked for it, though!

Oral TraditionIt sounds obvious, but when you’re going down on your partner don’t stop unless she asks (or begs!) you to. After all, you wouldn’t want her to stop mid-suck!

Slow RideDon’t rush penetration. Tease her with your penis by rubbing it between her thighs. Rub the tip on her clitoris, pretend to insert it, then back away.

If You Say SoFantasies don’t always require outfits, scenarios or acting. Try whispering the action as you use your fingers or a vibrator to caress her nipples and clitoris.

FOR HER

Just a TasteNot comfortable swallowing? Tell him that seeing the results of your talent turns you on more than tasting it.

Pole PositionYou can give a more effective hand job when he’s sitting up on pillows or on a chair, or even on the stairs. Kneel in front of him, between his spread legs.

Heads UpHis frenulum (the skin below head of the penis) is a sure-fire moan zone! Tickle it with your fingers during a hand job, and flick it with your tongue when giving him oral.

Eye Con-tactMake putting on condoms sexy! Keep eye contact, lick and kiss his nipples, and stroke yourself as you put the condom on him. It’ll be on before he knows!

FOR HIM

Tickle Your Fancy?Erotic tickling is a great way to explore bondage and domination without painful overtones … so tie her up and break out that feather!

Now Hair This!Hate getting hair in your mouth during oral sex? She feels the same! Show her you care with a trim, clip or shave. Better yet, ask her to help!

Sex DriveRev her up in the car on the way home by licking her neck and touching hotspots through her clothes. She’ll be in high gear when you hit the bedroom!

Smooth MoveCoarse pubic hair can irritate a woman’s sensitive facial skin. Keep your hair soft by using conditioner when you shower. Better yet, ask her to rub it in for you.

FOR HER

Kiss OffDon’t like your partner’s technique? Alternate kissing him the way you like with letting him take the lead. If he doesn’t start to mimic your style, be honest.

Instant OralTease him by sending ‘sucking’ or ‘O’ smileys on instant online chats, or on his mobile. There won’t be any naughty words on screen to get you in trouble!

Hot Air?Try fun balloon play: blow up a balloon but don’t tie it. Use the airflow to tease your man’s most intimate bits! (Don’t let him blow the air into you, though!)

Pressure PointUse your mouth to create suction and concentrate pressure on the head of his penis. Gauge his reaction and ease off if he’s not into it.

FOR HIM

Work Up to ItAnal play may scare her becauseshe’s worried about lack of experience, pain or taboos. Watch videos or go online together, to gauge herreaction.

Save It for LaterDon’t get into G-spot play too early. Lubed fingers feel – and work – best inside after lots of tongue action and even clitoral orgasm.

Extra CreditOrgasms are great cramp relief, so give her one – or several – during her period. If she’s into it, forget your inhibitions and get closer!

Instant OralTease her by sending tongue ‘licking’ smileys on instant online chats, or on her mobile. There won’t be any naughty words on screen to get you in trouble!

FOR HER

If You Say SoFantasies don’t always require outfits and acting. Try whispering the action as you use your fingers or a vibrator to caress his inner thighs and perineum.

Tea TimeGet him nice and hard, then take a gulp of warm (not hot!) tea. The extra warmth when your mouth enfolds his shaft will give him a total thrill!

Numbers GameRate him from 1 to 10 as he licks, kisses and touches you. His goal is to stay as closeto 10 as possible. It’s fun, and it’ll teach him whatyou like!

Vertical 69Lie on your back on the bed, with your head over the edge. Get your partner to straddle your face, bending forward. If he’s strong, he can then lift you up as you wrap your legs around his neck.

FOR HIM

Eagle EyeLay her flat on her back with her legs spread-eagled, knees over your shoulders. Rock her entire body back and forth during oral sex for arhythmic thrill.

Circle ItRotate your fingers inside her. Keep thepressure firm and even along the entire length of her vagina, but give the G-spot a little extra attention!

Dream AwakeningSee if you can gently arouse her in her sleep. Hopefully she’ll be dreaming of some sexy man and, as she wakes, there you are – ready for drowsy sex!

Numbers GameRate her from 1 to 10 as she licks, kisses and touches you. Her goal is to stay as close to 10 as possible. It’s fun, and it’ll teach her what you like!

FOR HER

Do the TwistWhen giving him oral, form a seal with your lips and a ring with your thumb and fingers. Don’t just pump up and down, but twist your handas you go.

Watch ItFor a real visual turn-on for him, masturbate in front of a mirror while he watches you. And you can watch his admiring gaze while you do it!

Horny HangmanSpell out a fantasy, hangman-style, then start playing! If your partner loses, your dream comes true. If he wins, he chooses a fantasy instead.

Skin DeepLightly massage his perineum (the area between his balls and his anus) with lubed fingers, pressing gently in a rhythmic motion, to elicit major moans!

FOR HIM

Vertical 69Get your partner to lie on her back on the bed, with her head over the edge. Straddle her face and bend forward. If you’re strong, lift her up as she wraps her legs around your neck.

Dildo DifferenceVary the length and width of penetrations when using a dildo on her. Don’t worry –it’s not a penis substitute, just another toy in your repertoire!

Nipple NuancesWet her nipples by licking and sucking gently, then blow on them. Cool air makes the nerves contract and can send shivers all the way to her clitoris!