SOS Twinflame Awakening - The Hero's Journey of Your Life - Your Awakening Process - Your Mastery E-Book

Romi SanTina

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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2023

Beschreibung

Guide on the topic of the spiritual awakening process, triggered/forced by encountering the twin flame. The meeting resp. seperation from this special person shakes you to your core, propelling you seemingly out of nowhere into an extreme intensely tumultous rollercoaster of emotions and pain. Nothing that worked before seems to hold true in this situation. This marks the beginning of your spiritual awakening process.

Leseprobe

Romi

SanTina

SOS Twinflame

Awakening-

The Hero's Journey of Your Life

Your Awakening Process

Your Mastery

The designations of persons used in the book refer to all genders, unless otherwise indicated.

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Hello, glad you are here!

This book serves as a guide to healing resp. Become conscious for those experiencing a profoundly challenging or painful phase in life, where navigating through the situation and finding a way out seems unclear. The conventional approaches from the past may no longer be effective, indicating that you might be in the process of awakening.

It's likely that a significant event has occurred, such as a divorce, accident, illness, a profound loss or an encounter with your twinflame, disrupting the familiar ground beneath you. While this might initially feel disconcerting, rest assured that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I can attest to this personally and I now express my sincere gratitude for the grace of awakening in this life.

The title reflects my own awakening, triggered by the encounter with my twinflame, thrusting me into the depths of the process. Nevertheless, the methods presented here can be applied universally, regardless of how your personal awakening was initiated—there are various triggers for this process.

Within these pages, I share insights into my own journey and how I navigated it. During my own awakening, I longed for explanations, guidance and/or support—WHAT was happening to me and HOW could I successfully and swiftly navigate this path? I painstakingly acquired knowledge, underwent holistic training and pieced together what I learned to establish a foundation. Eventually, I found my truth through my amazing teacher and in traditional spiritual teachings (Zen-Buddhism, Taoism, Advaita Vedanta).

After all, what's the use if you're left with the message to work on yourself and heal, but the practical steps remain elusive? This book is not a leisurely read; rather, it's a workbook designed to guide you on how to swiftly move beyond suffering, heal your issues, and integrate them, enabling you to continue your life's journey joyfully as a liberated individual.

The intention is not to provide a one-size-fits-all solution but to offer tools for personal improvement and progress. Using these tools manipulatively to influence the other person is counterproductive; the focus should be on you – this is your awakening process!

Importantly, there's no prescribed checklist or steps to be rigidly followed. The healing journey unfolds gradually, with issues revealing themselves as you progress. The ultimate "goal" is to arrive at your true, authentic self, revealed through recognizing and dissolving illusions of separation, ego, and duality.

Take breaks and rest when needed; don't try to rush through the process. Energy work can be challenging, requiring time for feeling and integration. While this guide reflects my perspective and findings, it doesn't make healing promises since consistent implementation of inner work is required and necessary and I can not check if the work is done properly.

This is not a quick fix but a sustainable approach, a realignment of lifestyle. Falling back into old patterns may necessitate the „run away“ of your twin flame. The complexities of individual issues prevent detailed exploration, but major themes are addressed, providing a starting point for those on this transformative path.

Having experienced the pain of this process, especially when overwhelmed by emotions and obsessive thoughts about the "other," I am passionate about sharing my knowledge to offer support and guidance.

May it help all concerned to gain helpful insights, inner peace, spiritual growth and access to their own consciousness and thus to their true authentic self.

You can do it!

Romi SanTina

To all my companions, my family, my friends and all the other precious and wonderful souls who have accompanied me on my way and brought me back to myself, and to all those who are and will remain by my side and continue my journey with me and to those who will come into my life:

Thank you!

I love you!

I bless you!

Contents

Indicators of a karmic (toxic) relationship, often referred to as red flags:

Karmic Choreography: Navigating Tasks in Relationships of Fate:

Unveiling Destiny: Recognizing Further Signs of a Karmic Partnership

Navigating Pitfalls: Common Mistakes in the Tapestry of Karmic Partnerships:

Embracing Liberation: A Guide on Letting Go of Karmic Partnerships

Awakening Unveiled: The Catalysts for Activation in the Awakening Process

Dark night of the soul - and the different stages of the awakening process

What is the dark night of the soul?

The Grand Emptiness: Embracing the Profound Silence

What do you do in this Phase of Emptiness?

Inner Woman an Her healing - what is female energy?

Inner Man and His healing

What is masculine energy?

Inner Child and Its healing

What is the Inner child?

Soulful Restoration: Embarking on the Journey of Healing Work

Unveiling the Depths: The Transformative Path of Shadow Work

What is shadow work?

Soul Unrest: Navigating the Terrain of a Spiritual Emergency

What to do with acute emotional/mental pain?

Pain resolution

Partnerships of the new era

Soulful Radiance: Illuminating the Essence of Unconditional Love and Self-Love – what is Self-Love?

A new form

Twinflame

Mirror Laws*

The Universal/Cosmic Laws*

Creative power

Indicators of a karmic (toxic) relationship, often referred to as red flags:

To put one thing first: the twinflame (dual soul) connection is not a karmic relationship. You cannot have karma with yourself.

Nevertheless, in this book I am going into the subject of karmic/toxic relationships, because they very often (not always) take place before the encounter with the twinflame.

Karmic/toxic relationships can be very, very painful and the karmic/toxic heartbreak can drive you sheer to despair. If you find that you are in a karmic/toxic connection and your situation seems hopeless, you feel completely disoriented and helpless, then please seek professional support/help!

The encounter with the twinflame also leaves one devastated (in the beginning; after the honeymoon phase), but has a completely different dynamic, different signs and a different purpose than a karmic connection (karmic connections, by the way, can occur in all areas of life, not just in romantic relationships).

Upon encountering a relationship that is characterized by intensity and drama, it's common to mistakenly attribute it to love. However, this perception is inaccurate. In many instances, such a connection falls under the category of a "karmic relationship." It's advisable not to prolong one's stay in such a connection beyond necessity. Yet, abruptly ending the relationship is not the optimal solution either, as this encounter presents learning challenges that require resolution.

Neglecting to confront and address these issues within the confines of the relationship means that recurrent experiences of a similar nature will likely persist. Recognition, introspection, and comprehension are pivotal for realizing that internal work, particularly the work of resolution, is essential in these circumstances.

Here are the indicators of a karmic (toxic) relationship /red flags:

Repetitive Patterns: If you notice recurring negative patterns or issues that seem to persist without resolution.

Intense Emotional Swings: Extreme highs followed by profound lows, creating an emotional rollercoaster within the relationship.

Lack of Growth: A sense of stagnation or a feeling that personal and relationship growth is hindered rather than encouraged.

Unresolved Issues: Persistent unresolved conflicts or a tendency to bring up past grievances repeatedly without resolution.

Dependency: Excessive emotional or even financial dependence on each other, leading to an unhealthy reliance.

Manipulative behavior: Regular occurrences of manipulation, control, or coercion, rather than open and honest communication.

Constant drama: If the relationship is consistently marked by drama, arguments, or heightened tension without constructive resolution.

Isolation: The relationship leads to isolation from friends, family, or support networks, creating a sense of dependency on the toxic dynamic.

Disregard for boundaries: A lack of respect for personal boundaries, with one or both partners overstepping limits regularly.

Feelings of guilt or shame: If you frequently feel guilty, ashamed, or emotionally drained after interactions with your partner.

Recognizing these signs can be crucial for understanding the dynamics of the relationship and considering necessary steps for personal well-being and growth.

The most common reason why a karmic relationship happens to us is:

A karmic connection represents a soul contract forged between two individuals, aiming to address and resolve past karmic debts while facilitating the healing of profound emotional wounds

Most likely we have this soul contract with a potential karma partner that relates to past life events that have not yet been balanced.

Important:

It does not have to be that one only has old wounds/incidents with this karmic partner, but this person can also make themselves available as a representative for other karmic entanglements with other people from previous lives, in order to be able to heal these in this encounter as well.

The reason why it is so difficult to detach from karmic relationships is often because there are strong energetic cords and attachments here, especially in the lower 3 chakras (root, sacral and solar plexus chakras).

When we attract a strong karmic partner, we feel strong attraction on an energetic level in the lower 3 chakras, especially in the sexual (=sacral) chakra (2nd chakra).

Because of these energetic cords, karmic connections feel so intense and extremely magnetic so quickly.

Sacred relationships have as their basis unconditional love.

This is not the case with karmic relationships, because the energetic cords exist only in the lower chakras.

The attraction between karmic partners is mainly based in the sexual chakra (2nd chakra), which is why these partners get into a relationship with each other very quickly. This is also the purpose of a karmic encounter.

This knowledge is extremely important in order to be able to get out of karmic connections as quickly as possible (after recognizing and healing them). Karmic connections are in the rarest cases (almost never) neither intended as a continuation in this life nor for eternity.

Karmic Choreography: Navigating Tasks in Relationships of Fate:

- Resolve the Veil of Old Karma: either only with this soul or also with other souls from past lives. Karmic partners feel familiar when they come into our lives, because we have already dealt with them in other lives/incarnations as well.

- To learn. A karmic partner is a teacher. He shows us our learning issues and he shows us our own deep wounds, which can affect the most diverse areas in our lives. Most often these are issues such as:

- our personality development (3rd chakra)

- our sovereignty (towards ourselves) (2nd chakra)

- our possession or basic trust (1st chakra)

That pertains to the issues of the lower 3 chakras.

Karmic partners serve as profound teachers, guiding us toward reclaiming our power and asserting ourselves independently. Through their actions, often involving mistreatment and devaluation, they compel us to recognize our inherent worth. This process, though frequently painful, prompts us to rediscover our value, cease allowing mistreatment, and assertively advocate for ourselves, our worth, and our needs.

These partnerships become a classroom where we learn the importance of self-respect and self-love. By confronting the challenges presented by karmic connections, we cultivate an understanding that we are deserving of genuine respect and love. Often, these valuable but painful lessons come to us through karmic relationships that reflect precisely what we don't desire and what we should not accept.

Unveiling Destiny: Recognizing Further Signs of a Karmic Partnership:

Instant Bonds: A Swift Unveiling of Familiarity and Connection

The familiarity and shared experiences from previous lives, coupled with the energetic connections in the lower three chakras, can often be misconstrued as genuine love. However, it frequently translates to intense sexual attraction rather than authentic love. Many times, these relationships involve co-dependency, a challenge that may not be immediately apparent. One indicator is placing the other person on a pedestal, viewing their needs as more significant and valuable than our own. Healing our own aspects of co-dependency becomes crucial in such situations. In another section of this book, I provide tools for our personal inner healing work.

The Mirage Within: Navigating the Misinterpretations of Our Minds

Our mind evaluates the tremendous attraction in the lower chakras as love. One reason for this is that at least of us have neither exemplified nor experienced an equal, loving partnership at eye level. Therefore, we mistake sexual attraction and drama (which ALWAYS prevails in a karmic relationship) as love.

Of course, this does not mean that there is no strong sexual attraction in a sacred connection - of course there is here. The difference is only that the feeling in karmic connections is not based on unconditional love, but the attraction is based exclusively on the strong energetic cords of the lower 3 chakras.

On the one hand insane feeling of unity, but at the same time the quiet inner voice that something can not be right here (is gladly ignored). Despite the strong attraction, one feels that this couldbecomepainful. In retrospect, all who have ever experienced a karmic connection confirm this subtle perception.

You have the feeling of knowing the other person. This familiarity is also confused with love. Of course, this familiarity is there. You already know each other beyond this life (only you don't know that at the beginning). That's why this connection is often over-romanticized at the beginning and people believe they have found "the one". Unfortunately, this is - if it is a karmic contact - a mistake.

Attention: just because you feel the sense of familiarity, this does not mean here that the basis/foundation of this connection is love.

You know him/her. Of course you do. But the fact is that you have already lived or experienced drama with this person in past lives.

The task here is to clear the negative karma of past lives (hint: forgiveness).

The main difference when we talk about karmic partnerships and sacred partnerships is: the karmic partners are known, they feel familiar. Familiarity is the term here. Sacred partnerships feel like coming home. One feels comfortable and secure.

So the basic feeling of the unhealthy union is familiarity, the healthy one is "coming home".

These are 2 completely different perceptions.

Echoes of Turmoil: A Tapestry Woven with Drama and Conflict

This is usually a "must" in karmic connections, because the task of the encounter in this life is to clear old karma and heal old wounds and come into one's own power. And because the basis of this connection is just not true love.

When two souls come together where the basis of this connection is not unconditional love, but the mutual attraction is based only on the energetic energy cords of the lower 3 chakras, the drama is already pre-programmed, because one can never love and accept the other as he is, but always wants to change him.

After all, one loves a person because he is the way he is. If you want to change him, then it is no longer the person you once fell in love with and thus it can never be true love.

Of course, even in a "sacred union" you can sometimes disagree or have different views. The difference here is that you still accept and respect the opinion and views of the other and/or you find common solutions without wanting to change the essence of the other.

Unveiling the Veiled: Illuminating Your Shadows

Sacred relationships (with dual souls, twin souls) also trigger shadow issues and wounds within us and mirror our hidden issues and bring them to the surface for us to feel and heal.

The karmic partner brings out only the worst qualities in one.

The karmic partner is also not interested in you evolving. He tends to slow you down, while the "healthy" partner (dual/twin soul) pushes you to become the best version of yourself.

A sacred connection also mirrors your issues to you, but this partner also brings out the best in you. A sacred connection mirrors everything to you, a karmic one only the worst. Only and exclusively the shadow parts.

This is the best way for you to find out what kind of connection you are in:

A karmic partner brings out the worst in you, but never the best. This is due to the dynamics of this connection.

Please always keep this in mind so that you do not confuse a karmic partnership with a sacred partnership (with a dual or twin soul).

The partnership feels heavy and laborious

Even if the karmic connection feels like love to you, it is always difficult and troublesome. It does not feel easy and beautiful. This is also a sign of a karmic partnership.

Passion

The passion is usually strongly felt at the beginning of this union. In some karmic partnerships, this passion remains even despite the perpetual drama. As soon as one has identified the karmic partnership as such and begins to address one's learning issues and heal one's wounds, this attraction and passion for the other increasingly disappears (Note from personal experience: but really only then. Not before. This is also important so that you look and heal and work on your issues).

As soon as one does this, the purpose of this encounter is fulfilled and can be dissolved, since these partnerships are not intended to last a lifetime, but only to clear the karma and to learn.When you do the inner work, as soon as you realize that you are in a karmic relationship, the energy, the attraction and the passion dissolves. The connection then either separates dramatically or simply dissolves more and more because it no longer fulfills you.

This is a good sign, because it means that you have recognized the issues and successfully mastered the inner work. The encounter with the karma partner has served its purpose and can dissolve. Both souls are now free, no longer need to hold each other and can both go on their own way.

Now, by resolving the karma, these issues do not need to be mirrored again by a new candidate.

If one does not recognize the karmic connection and does not loosen it and nevertheless goes out of the connection, one attracts again a similar partner (karma partner) with probability bordering on certainty. This partner then reflects the same as the one before. The soul wants to heal and the karma wants to be solved. One gets the same lessons until one recognizes and masters them. Only then it can go on in another way.

Unstable Ties: The Absence of Security in Connection

Despite the strong attraction to each other, based solely on the energy band in the lower 3 chakras, one feels insecure/not secure in this connection, as a feeling of security can only come from the purity of the heart. And a heart connection is the karmic connection - as we already know - not at all. And it will never become one, because it is not intended for that at all.

One partner does not trust the other in a karmic connection. And if the trust is missing, one does not communicate one's longings and desires - which one does quite automatically in a healthy partnership and which is also essentially important.

If you are in a connection where you cannot communicate openly and honestly about your wants, desires and needs, it is very likely due to the lack of security in that connection and you could be in a karmic relationship.

Untangling Bonds: Dynamics of Dependency and Co-dependency Structure

Karmic connections frequently exhibit traces of immature emotional dependency patterns. There's a sense of feeling unable to live without the other person, categorizing them as more important, and placing them on a pedestal. Excuses and justifications are often sought for the challenging behavior of the other person in these dynamics.

Karmic relationships mainly bring out attachment wounds (from childhood; inner child issues).

Co-dependency occurs when you lose your sense of self within the context of the relationship. It involves making your own self-worth contingent on the other person (for example, believing that being with them defines your value, which is toxic). Remember, your value is inherent and not determined by whether you are in a relationship. It's crucial to detach from this pattern, regardless of the actions or inactions of the other person. The key to overcoming this is practicing self-love.

In cases of co-dependency, emotional reliance is prominent, and behaviors often reflect immaturity. There is a significant dependence stemming from unresolved personal wounds

Unyielding Bonds: The Challenge of Departing Karmic Connection

Many people think they cannot leave because they (wrongly) believe that they love the other person so much. But this is - as we know - not true. It is a misinterpretation of the mind due to the perceived strong attraction of the lower 3 chakras.

This is the real reason - especially if the inner work has not (yet) been recognized and done.

One difference between a karmic/toxic relationship and a twinflame connection, for example, is that the karmic/toxic relationship is always based on an imbalance. The karmic/toxic partner is not interested in a partnership of equals and wants to keep control over you. After a while (after the nice initial phase in which they put you on a pedestal), they will probably start to devalue you, gaslight you, reverse the blame, etc. You will most likely start to doubt your own perception and your self-worth will become less and less. This often happens gradually, as most people who are in a karmic/toxic relationship are unaware of karmic/toxic connections or do not know that they are in one. Also, the karmic/toxic partner will not leave you alone after the relationship ends and will keep coming back for a while as they draw their energy from getting "feeds" (i.e. continued drama, fear, manipulation, etc.) from you. This will probably only stop when you break contact completely. Most people who experience or have experienced a karmic/toxic relationship are traumatized, their self-worth is in the basement and it can sometimes feel like dying. Toxic "lovesickness" should not be underestimated!

This is only a small indication. Since I am not an expert and in this book I dedicate myself to the subtle and energetic causes and illuminate them, please turn to information channels that specialize in toxic/karmic partnerships if you are more deeply interested in this topic (there are, for example, some very good psychologists and coaches on YouTube who do wonderful educational work and give helpful healing impulses).

The twinflame, on the other hand, does nothing of the sort. When the point is reached where the energies (have to) repel each other, this person is gone for the time being. They have no interest in devaluing or judging you in any way, insulting you, provoking you, manipulating you, controlling you or taking advantage of you. There is no excitement, drama, threat, etc. It is: calm.

These were the signs of a karmic connection. Let us now turn to the most common mistakes.

Navigating Pitfalls: Common Mistakes in the Tapestry of Karmic Partnerships:

Soulbound Excess: The Consequences of Overdrawing the Soul Contract

In other words, you stay in these relationships longer than you should. You stay too long in the human drama; you are stuck because of the false assumption that this is true love.

Karmic partnerships are usually only temporary. Only in very, very rare cases are karmic partnerships intended to last a lifetime.

Karmic partnerships are there to clear up old issues, to purge them and to prepare us for a living partnership with our true love (sacred relationship) or at least for a healthy relationship. This would only be strained if the old wounds have not yet been healed and would not be liveable at all.

A karmic partnership prepares us for a sacred, healthy partnership full of love and respect for each other! A karmic partnership is not true love, but it prepares us for it!

Your soul aims to guide you towards your heartfelt desires, advocating for your well-being. It is not in the interest of your soul for you to linger in unhealthy karmic connections longer than required. The purpose is to resolve and clear these karmic ties, allowing your soul to engage freely in life, embracing true love with purity, authenticity, and unconditional affection. This authentic connection is built on genuine heartfelt love, trust, and respect.

The familiarity established in previous lifetimes is a significant factor contributing to the tendency of overstaying in karmic connections. Recognizing and understanding this aspect can aid in navigating these connections more consciously and allowing for necessary transitions

We often get stuck in situations or stay with someone just because it feels familiar, even though it is fundamentally painful for us. This can be applied to all areas of life, not just love matters.

As mentioned earlier, we tend to mistake familiarity for love.

After reading this book, this won't happen to you (anymore) because you already have the knowledge you need.

Of course, you also have to put it into practice.

Knowledge alone is not enough. You also have to put it into practice.

But knowledge is the basis for being able to implement it at all.

Important

At times, individuals find themselves entangled in karmic relationships, fully aware of the karmic nature yet choosing to linger longer than necessary. They may rationalize it, thinking, "I'm learning so much from this connection with person X, so I'll stay for now." In a way, this behavior can become somewhat masochistic. Despite knowing the karmic purpose of the connection, they convince themselves that staying longer will yield more profound lessons. This self-made addiction stems from an underlying belief that they don't truly deserve something better.

If you recognize yourself caught in this cycle, it's crucial to clear this energy, liberating yourself even if stepping out of this perceived "comfort zone" feels uncomfortable initially. Remember, this comfort is illusory and, fundamentally, a form of self-deception.

Deceiving oneself has external consequences – mirroring back through people or situations. To serve your highest good, honesty with yourself is paramount. Embrace self-reflection, demand the best for yourself, and understand that true worthiness isn't contingent on whether you have a partner. You remain an incredible individual, with or without a partner by your side

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Tell yourself this:

I was ready to recognize and heal the lessons and learning issues this partner brought me. Now I am also ready to let go of this experience and this person, because I am worthy and ready to experience lightness in my heart. I am here to learn in love and lightness too and I am now fully prepared and ready for that!

Embracing Liberation: A Guide on Letting Go of Karmic Partnerships

Instructions for a step-by-step process if you are

a) in a karmic connection or

b) you have recently left a karmic partnership

Attention: karmic/toxic love grief can be extremely painful!

1. Awakening Within: The Journey to Become Aware

Become aware that you are in a karmic partnership. Become aware of the lessons that this connection holds for you, become aware of the karma, become aware of all that this soul brings to you. The more aware you are of this process, the sooner you can go through it, heal and move on. About 85% of all healing is awareness/intention.

When I become aware of something, that is already a big part of the healing.

You can find out which issues need to be healed by observing which patterns and behaviors show up again and again through this person.

The repetition of the same patterns and/or behaviors will show you the karma that needs to be resolved.

Write down these repetitive patterns and/or behaviors that you notice, write down what happens to you in this connection.

For example: I lost myself in this relationship. I have not been able to set boundaries.

Start to look consciously and notice what is being shown to you, what is hurting you.

The more aware you become of yourself, the sooner healing can take place.

This step may sound simple at first, but it requires conscious and honest looking and recognizing. This is not always easy, especially not when it comes to yourself. It requires a great deal of mindfulness, merciless honesty towards oneself and the iron will to go through the pain.