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Larry's interest in relationship difficulties was actually something forced upon him from life experiences. He witnessed his 1st homicide at a very young age when his father took his mother's life in his presence. Growing up without his biological parents created a desire in him to have children and give them the love he yearned for.
He served the government in various capacities from the age of 17 as a civil service electrician, police officer and soldier. As an officer he once again witnessed humans inflict unnecessary pain on one another sometimes in the name of love. Then he was given orders to leave for war in Iraq where the possibility of having to deal with loss of life on a greater level really concerned him. War is unfortunate whether it's a husband against his wife or two nations.
He had great difficulty in relationships culminating in sickness and even contemplating suicide at one point.
Luckily he found a workable system that helped him understand what was going on and it eventually created this book. Witnessing a friend place her husband before anyone else really opened his eyes to another way to love and created many questions which were answered for him with this work. Thanks V.
Larry hopes others will find peace once they raise their understanding of why we have failed relationships and create peaceful households.
All the Best,
LARRY.
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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2023
Larry Daniels Sr
The World’s Shortest Book on Relationships
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I dedicate this book to all the beautiful relationships I’ve destroyed due to my own ignorance on the subject.
MY GOAL AND DESIRE
“WHAT’S YOUR PROBLEM?”
“WHAT DO YOU MEAN?”
WHAT I MEAN
“THE ONLY CAUSE OF RELATIONSHIP FAILURE”
“PUTTING DEFINITIONS INTO PERSPECTIVE”
“THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOUR PARTNER”
“CREATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP”
“CREATION EXERCISE”
“CONCLUSION”
A Short Story To Remind You That…
I’m very impatient when it comes to learning. I want to know now. I’m sick of long, drawn-out presentations where the person is speaking while someone is drawing for 20 minutes. Then, when you are about to get into the subject matter promised, the speaker says, “But first, let me tell you about myself.” ARGH!
30 more minutes.
This book doesn’t drag things out. I’ve attempted to make this work short, powerful and useable without a lot of fluff.
Please acknowledge my desire to empower couples, those considering becoming couples and those who have given up on trying to be a part of a couple.
I ask that you do not copy this book, which is very easy to do given the number of pages, because that wouldn’t help me financially. I am sincerely trying to help individuals who are trying to become more competent in creating relationships, because competent individuals create competent couples, competent couples make society better and a competent society is full of happier people. One pillar of happiness is integrity, so I trust you’ll have integrity and insist that anyone interested in this subject purchase their own copy to further enable me to continue working, making this world a happier, improved planet, which is what I promised my children when I decided to bring them into this world.
In other words, please don’t cheat me and my family by making free copies.
LET’S GET TO IT!!!!
You can’t have trouble with something you understand. So, let’s gain some understanding.
A problem is something that goes against your desire(s).
How do we create problems? By looking at a given situation and deciding we don’t like it.
How do we solve problems? By placing our attention on a situation and raising our intelligence on the subject, we can affect the problem to our desired outcome.
Who is the problem creator in your life? You are.
Who is the problem solver in your life? Right again! You are, although you may not be a good one…yet.
I could take a look at something such as drunk driving and have a strong desire to find a solution for the number of deaths it causes.
Someone else might look at the same situation and never give it another thought.
With this understanding, I’d ask, who does every problem in the world belong to? Yes. You! You created it by agreeing that it’s wrong or improper, etc. You can solve your problems (if you know how). You can ignore them or just continue to complain.
There are only 2 reasons a problem doesn’t get corrected:
1. The person in charge of the problem doesn’t know how to fix it (ignorance).
OR
2. The person in charge just isn’t fixing it (lazy or has another agenda).
If you want to discover why things continue in a certain way, find out who is in charge of the area and if they don’t know what to do or if they’re just not doing their job. Both reasons can be handled if the person in charge has a genuine desire to be responsible for the problem.
This next exercise, which is the main component of this work, is designed for you to have a good, honest look at what you do or do not understand about relationships.
Please sit down with your partner, friends, or a learning group; this would also be very beneficial to teenagers on the brink of dating. Ensure that each person has their own copy of this work and, without using a dictionary or any device other than your mind, define the following words. Don’t discuss anything until everyone has completed the exercise. Then, discuss what you’ve discovered about your relationship vocabulary.
These discussions will help orient those participating in relationship culture. We all need to be properly oriented and educated about relationships if we’re ever going to break the cycle of divorce and one-parent homes that plague us currently. You can take things into your own hands or allow television and social media to teach your children how to interact with their romantic partners.
HAVE FUN!!!!