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- Herausgeber: The O'Brien Press
- Kategorie: Ratgeber
- Sprache: Englisch
- Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2023
Your symptoms are real. You're not alone. There is help for you and it is here! Everyone's journey through menopause is different, but we all need support through the challenges it brings. Catherine O'Keeffe is on a mission to shatter the taboo around menopause, and has already provided life-changing information to thousands. Drawing from the latest research, Catherine will answer all your questions about: - Gaining control of physical, mental and emotional symptoms - Assessing the pros and cons of HRT and alternative therapies - How to negotiate menopause in the workplace - Which supplements are best for you - How nutrition and exercise can helpFrom hot flushes to mood swings, weight gain to joint ache, brain fog to depression, Menopause Workplace Consultant Catherine O'Keeffe will help you navigate the different stages, from perimenopause onwards. With Catherine's expert help you will be empowered and informed, and feeling like yourself again!
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Dedicated to the lovely women of Ireland, past, present and future.
Contents
Introduction
The aim of this book is to be your tool, your friendly guide to navigating what can be a topsy-turvy time. It’s to give you the information you need as a best friend would – in a direct and sympathetic way – to help you make informed choices without influencing your decisions: those are yours alone. I want to tell it to you as it is – the good, the bad and the downright ugly aspects. And by the time you close this book, I hope you will feel empowered, informed and, above all, ready to embrace menopause as the inevitable life change that it is.
I have learned so much from the thousands of people I have worked with over the years, and I have always wanted to share that information with more people. How could I condense what I have learned to help others? A book was the answer. I love to see new books on menopause coming out, as they all approach it from a different angle, with a different view. I hope you will find this book different in its own way. The numerous stories I have been humbled to hear, the women who have helped me to learn more, the people who have asked for help for their partners, the questions that have led me to delve further and find answers to share with you – it all culminates in these pages. I am and continue to be a dedicated student of menopause. And it started when I was young – I just didn’t know it.
As a child, I spent ample hours lost in books in our local library, which was a stone’s throw from our house. In my late twenties, I took a backpack and travelled the world with my faithful journal. If I had thought then that I ‘had a book in me’, it would have been a tale of the adventures, love and fun on those whirlwind days – or a thriller, even. But a book on menopause was never on my radar. 8
So how did I end up here, sitting in my garden typing furiously on my laptop about hot flushes, throbbing vaginas and Wuthering Heights-style depression? Certainly, that eight-year-old girl in Carnegie Library, Kilkenny, had no notion or knowledge of the term ‘menopause’. But our lives bring us on a journey, none of us knowing where we will end up or the pitfalls and joy we will experience along the way.
So here is what I can tell you: menopause is a journey, a deep physiological and psychological rollercoaster ride that will cause anxiety and tears and reveal a depth of character you may never have expected.
I certainly didn’t.
If you talked to my friends or family, they would tell you I have always been interested in health and well-being. But I honestly had no idea that my life would take this path. After studying business in college, I started working in investment banking in London. Over the next twenty years, I built a successful career. During this time I also took some time off to travel. Nearly two years later, after many narrow escapes, adventures and new friends, I returned to London two stone heavier and, for the first time in my life, experiencing severe stomach issues. I knew the lunch at a rest stop outside Bangkok was the culprit – a week of horrendous food poisoning was evidence of that – but my stomach did not recover. That was the start of my next journey.
After a series of doctors, scans and tests, I was no better, so I sought any form of natural medicine that could help me to heal. I discovered an amazing naturopath in Greenwich, London, and within three months I was back to normal – all bloating gone and stomach pain a distant memory. I was hooked on all things natural. A few years later, I returned to college and studied natural medicine while continuing to work in investment banking – two polar-opposite worlds. I got married, continued to climb the corporate ladder, had three boys and then hit a wall. One evening, I came home after an exhausting day at work. All I wanted to do was get the boys to bed and veg out in front of the TV. Unfortunately, I’d completely forgotten we had 9friends calling over. Instead of being excited, I dreaded their arrival as I rushed to get the house ready and whip a meal together. The pressure was unreal. Even though I hadn’t seen our friends in ages, I didn’t enjoy a single moment from that evening. That’s when I knew my life had to change. Accompanied constantly by a Blackberry (remember those?), never switching off, working hard, returning home each day to my second job, it was constant juggling. I felt burnt out; I felt stuck, hemmed in – I desperately wanted a change. On top of everything, perimenopause had started.
My wake-up call came a month later, when I was sitting in a restaurant in Copenhagen with my college friends. It was November, and we were all dressed up for a night out – ready and rearing to go! Sheer panic ensued when, during the main course, I felt a deluge of blood leaving my body. My head spun. Here I was with some of my closest friends and I couldn’t even get the words out to explain what was happening. I let my napkin fall to the ground so I could bend over and get some sense of how bad things were. Not a pleasant sight. All I could see was blood on my seat. I didn’t dare go to the toilet for fear of people seeing my blood-soaked clothes. The chair was ruined. I survived dessert and got through the meal. On leaving, I had to tie my jacket around my waist – I was so cold stepping out into the Copenhagen winter and still in shock about what had happened.
The killer was that I knew I was fine. On returning home, I booked a GP appointment and had another scan – no issues whatsoever. It was one of those somewhat rare occurrences of perimenopause – my infamous ‘flooding’ incident.
I did acupuncture, and within two cycles my periods were back to normal. But I knew I was beginning perimenopause, so I started to find out as much as I could about what was happening and how I could support myself. I started running – anyone who knew me from my school days will know I used every monthly period I had to escape PE classes! It was the one subject I always failed. But a friend was doing Couch to 5K and asked me to join, and I took 10to it like a duck to water. I loved the feel-good hormone release I got after each session. Today it is still my go-to for managing daily stress – it’s my mental-health break. I also delved into as much health research as possible, investigating periods, moods, bloating, anxiety, loss of confidence, libido – you name it. After Copenhagen, I wanted to be fully prepared for anything that menopause was going to throw at me!
And juggling work and a busy home life became more of a struggle with the onset of perimenopause. I vividly recall one day being in a boardroom, ready to present to management from New York. As a director in investment banking, meetings and presentations were a regular thing – no sweat on that front. We had visiting executives, our own management team, myself and one other uninvited, unexpected guest: my perimenopause. Just minutes into the presentation, every piece of information I was hoping to deliver flew out of my head, which instead filled with brain fog, memory loss and embarrassment. Anxiety and perimenopause were in collision. I wanted the ground to open up. Menopause, though, was here to stay. My stomach still turns over as I recall that day. It left a big dent in my confidence and a spike in my frustration with what was happening to my body.
To this day, I can remember the view out that window, the window that my knowledge of specifics flew right out of. It had never, in all my career, happened to me before, yet there I sat, feeling my brain devoid of all sense and information. If you have been in that seat for even a minute, you will know how it feels. And, since then, there have been many more moments like that, but I learned from each one along the way and armed myself with the knowledge I needed to navigate my own menopause and work.
I had learned a lot about health and well-being over the years, but when I started to concentrate on women’s health and menopause it became all-encompassing and intriguing – for personal reasons and also because of the taboo and silence around it in Ireland. I felt a pull toward a new career and left the world of investment banking behind. The gap in knowledge that existed 11across society was very evident. This spurred me on and fuelled my passion – I started travelling around Ireland and talking to packed rooms of women about menopause and all it entails. I mean, really talking …
I have been told on many occasions that I opened the doors to taboo subjects – things women were embarrassed to discuss even with those closest to them. I’ve seen pure relief when women realised they were not going mad, that it was, in fact, their hormones and the trials of menopause making them feel as they did. On several occasions, women have cried with me with relief, which is humbling and touching. I vividly remember a brave woman at one of my talks who had to sit on an inflatable ring cushion because she was experiencing such severe vaginal dryness and pain in her pelvic area. She had been told that this was her life now and that intimacy would no longer feature. It was harrowing. This should not be the case – women should be fully supported in the medical system of the country they live in and have access to knowledge about their symptoms.
While I love and have studied complementary medicine, and find it very helpful, I am also aware of the necessity of all treatment forms when it comes to menopause. HRT (hormone replacement therapy) has received very bad press over the years, and it is an area I have worked extensively on – ensuring women have accurate knowledge of this treatment and all other options they can pursue. Too often I talk with women who are prescribed antidepressants that, for the most part, are not what is required: the hormonal change is what needs to be addressed. Educating women on their choices ensures they can seek and demand the right treatment – this starts with talking more about menopause. We are certainly making great progress in this, in Ireland and globally, but there is still much to do. So many women feel lonely and isolated in these years. This should not be the case. Medical and therapeutic professionals also need basic education and training in menopause that continues throughout their career. Women need to feel supported. So we need to open up this conversation – for women, for families and for workplaces. 12
All women work – whether outside the home or at home, every woman works on a daily basis. Managing your menopause symptoms while doing so can pose additional challenges. Every role comes with its own stresses, and stress is a major contributing factor (along with those good old hormones leaving us) to many menopause symptoms. And part of that stress can come from your dual roles – the worker bee and the menopausal bee. The symptoms you experience may be the same as other people’s, but the impact they have on you and your work will differ. The differences can be based on your environment, your job, your internal coping mechanisms and much more. Discussions are happening in the workplace on this topic, and I applaud those forward-thinking employers who have opened the doors to the conversation. To date, I have spoken to thousands of employees at the invitation of their employers, and I have seen at first hand the positive impact it has on women: they feel happier in their jobs, they feel supported and they feel empowered, because they are being listened to by their employers.
My work today is different from my days in the corporate world, but establishing a business and being an entrepreneur comes with its own set of challenges, and what I have learned most is that – while it never feels like work to me because helping and inspiring people in relation to menopause is my passion – the journey you go on when building your own business is a personal one of ongoing self-discovery. And menopause is this too, so perhaps now, for me, the ‘twain’ are meeting in a purposeful way in the culmination of what I know can be the most rewarding chapter in a woman’s life.
When I started perimenopause, I knew the general symptoms we all talk about – hot flushes, night sweats and so on – but I didn’t know half of what I know now about pelvic dysfunction, vaginal atrophy, depression and so much more. I have learned so much – I am learning more every day. And now it’s time to get this information out to as many people as possible – not just to women, but to men too: we all know someone in menopause right this minute. 13
Daily, I am learning from personal research and study, but it’s from the many lovely women I work and talk with that I learn the most. From face-to-face chats, live interviews on social media, video calls from cowsheds, cars, toilets, beaches, attics and the kitchen table – all these interactions with thousands of women have laid the foundations for this book. This has culminated with the launch of the Menopause Success Summit, where bringing women together in bigger numbers is shattering the taboo of menopause and allowing them to hear first-hand from experts on all aspects of menopause and to meet fellow warriors on the same journey, alleviating any feelings of isolation and loneliness that can come with menopause.
Menopause may impact all ages and all genders. Trans men, trans women, non-binary people and genderfluid people can also experience menopause or symptoms of menopause. As gender is a spectrum, the individual experience must be listened to. Throughout this book, you will see the term woman mainly used, as this reflects the people with whom I have worked to date. This is not in any way to lessen the impact on others.
So, I hope you, the reader, are sitting with your cuppa, relaxed and open to receiving the information in this book. I am not a medical doctor: I am a woman on a mission to get information about the menopause out there. I’m here to help you understand what is happening and provide answers to the questions you have.
This book is designed for you to be able to dip into, so each chapter can be read in isolation. With menopause, symptoms may change from month to month – I have worked with women who have had hot flushes to beat the band for years that then stop, only to be replaced by brain fog or another symptom. This book will provide informed, factual advice on the steps you can take as different symptoms appear.
The book is split into sections to make navigating large subjects easier. Part 1 tells you all about menopause – what it really is and what it isn’t, and what if it comes early. Part 2 jumps into the symptoms of menopause and gives you 14tips for how to address them, including in the workplace. Part 3 covers all the options, from HRT to acupuncture to CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy), that can help you. Part 4 looks at the 6 Ms, my guiding principles to help you thrive through these years, as I firmly believe that, once you get a handle on your symptoms, you can flourish in this chapter of your life. Part 5 includes a chapter for your partner and thoughts on how we can continue to break the menopause taboo in a diverse, inclusive way.
There is also a detailed references and resources section, which I encourage you to make use of, listing the research materials I have used and invaluable websites to explore as you navigate your journey through menopause.
So, right now, maybe jump straight to that symptom that’s causing you the most hassle – that’s my best-friend’s advice to you. And when you feel empowered to handle that symptom with the practical advice given, please do come back here to the very beginning and read in more detail about the what, the why and the how of menopause.
Part 1: What’s It All About?
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Perimenopause and menopause
The menopause journey is different for every single person, and that can make it unknown territory. When we understand what may happen, it helps reduce the fear and anxiety that can arise around this inevitable life stage. A key starting point is knowing what menopause is and why it happens.
I have had numerous conversations over the years with clients who are puzzled as to what is happening in their bodies – why, all of a sudden, intense emotions are a daily feature of life, why the thought of going out with friends makes them anxious or why they feel a churning belly before regular daily events. With not a hot flush in sight, the subtle and not-so-subtle changes that signal the start of perimenopause can take women by surprise. It’s sneaky, perimenopause. From sometimes slight changes in the early days, it can build to a crescendo with the arrival of the first typical symptoms – perhaps an intense hot flush or a drenching night sweat – leaving you wondering what’s happening to your body.
It’s normal, it’s menopause, it’s inevitable.
And it doesn’t just happen to humans – female whales and giraffes also experience menopause, albeit in a very different ecosystem. Whales stop reproducing in their thirties and forties and live in a non-productive state for many years after, mirroring the human experience of menopause, and 18becoming a wise matriarch within the pod. Giraffes spend 30 per cent of their lives post-menopause.
Right now, more than one billion women are experiencing menopause. So what is it all about and where does it come from?
MENOPAUSE IN HISTORY
If we refer back to ancient Greek and Chinese writings we can find mentions of menstruation and references to menopause. As far back as the fourth century BCE, Aristotle indicated that the average age of menopause was fifty. In the second century BCE, the Chinese made great progress in the study of endocrinology (understanding hormones) and are arguably its founders. They separated sex and pituitary hormones from human urine and used the output to treat ailments ranging from dysmenorrhea to impotence (in ways, a very early form of HRT). Hildegard of Bingen, a twelfth-century nun, wrote about the uterus folding and contracting and periods stopping between fifty and sixty years of age.
On a darker note, in the Salem witch trials of 1692 thirteen of the women accused were in the menopause age range. And we can thank the Victorians for turning menopause into a mental illness and sending many women to institutions to help with their ‘hysteria’.
Menopause has a complex and often dark history.
The actual first use of the word ‘menopause’ was in 1821 by French doctor Charles de Gardanne, who had previously coined it ‘menespausie’. ‘Menes’ is the Greek root for month and ‘pausie’ means cessation.
Historical references before and up to that point often referred to menopause as the ‘climacteric’, ‘change’, ‘cessation’ or ‘critical age’. It was also known as ‘the dodging time’, which I like for its lightness.
Medically, menopause is defined as when you have had twelve months without a period, but the word is also used more generally to encompass the time leading up to that anniversary – the whole process. 19
STAGES OF A NATURAL MENSTRUAL CYCLE
If life is a rollercoaster, for many women, perimenopause is Alton Towers. It all starts with your monthly hormonal rollercoaster: your menstrual cycle. The two are inextricably linked. When we are born, we are already on a planned journey to menopause (early menopause is an exception). The route is in the sat nav, ready to go. Your menstrual cycle is the key to understanding the importance of menopause hormones and the journey you will go on.
Days 1–5: Your period starts. Prior to this, levels of progesterone and oestrogen (big players in menopause) will have dropped and triggered the shedding of the uterine lining, resulting in your period. The fall in oestrogen and also inhibin creates an increase in FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone). FSH is made in the pituitary gland and communicates with your ovaries. Now, FSH gets to work and sends a message to the ovaries for the immature follicles to start developing. Your period can last three to eight days, with five being the average. Oestrogen production begins to increase.
Days 5–14: Generally, one follicle will respond to the messages from the pituitary gland. This now-maturing follicle starts to produce oestrogen and inhibin in large quantities. This will cause FSH, which reaches its highest level just 20before the egg is released, to fall. The increase in oestrogen will also stimulate the uterine lining to thicken in preparation for a fertilised egg.
Days 14–25: Oestrogen levels peak, telling the pituitary gland to release luteinising hormone (LH). The LH increase tells the developing follicle to release the egg from the ovaries, and it begins its adventure down the fallopian tube to the uterus. Progesterone production begins to increase.
Days 25–28: Now the mature follicle begins to produce progesterone. This works alongside oestrogen to prepare the lining of the womb to receive an egg. If there is no fertilised egg, the two key hormones drop, the lining sheds and your period starts.
This is based on the average cycle, but your menstrual cycle can go anywhere from twenty-one to thirty-five days – like menopause, it is unique to you. Your menstrual cycle can be seen as your fifth vital sign and brings with it health-restoring properties, so we want to keep our cycles going naturally for as long as possible. (If you are on the contraceptive pill, you don’t have a menstrual period but a withdrawal bleed.) You can also see how FSH fluctuates throughout the cycle – this is why it is not used as a key indicator of menopause.
YOUR CYCLE MATTERS AND EGGS MATTER
Two key parts of the menstrual cycle are the ovaries and follicles. Before birth, the female ovaries already store what are called dormant follicles – eggs waiting to mature (these are called your ovarian reserve). On average, there are one to two million of these follicles at birth. When a girl reaches adolescence, she has between 300,000 and 500,000 eggs; once she begins menstruating, ovulation occurs once a month, releasing mature follicles.
Menopause is when that store of follicles is depleted (you have gone from millions of eggs to just a few thousand). There are no more left to ovulate each month, and this has an effect on hormones, as the menstrual cycle is reliant on the monthly release of an egg. 21
The follicles are a key source of oestrogen, so when the cycle stops, it leads to a sharp decline in oestrogen production. In the pre-menopause years, the average body will produce 250 to 300 micrograms of oestrogen daily. Post-menopause, this dips to 20 micrograms. This decline in oestrogen will have an impact for many women.
Hormones are chemical messengers that control the functioning of our bodies. Perimenopause is when they truly demonstrate how powerful they are. The three key hormones involved – oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone – fluctuate and gradually decline through these years.
THE STAGES OF MENOPAUSE
Perimenopause is the start of the hormonal changes, the beginning stage for menopause (the culminating event). For many, progesterone is the hormone that starts to get ‘wobbly’ first, and this is when the psychological symptoms of menopause often start to show themselves – changing moods, anxiety, loss of confidence and more. At this stage, progesterone lowers while oestrogen can be higher and dominant. Your periods can still be regular or may change by a few days and/or become lighter or heavier. This isn’t just over weeks or months: it’s over years. The average age perimenopause starts at is forty-five. (Perimenopause may only apply to natural menopause – it will not be experienced if menopause is induced, in which case you bypass 22it and go straight into full-blown menopause, unless you are already on the perimenopause journey.)
Do you remember the rollercoaster of hormones you felt at fourteen? The changing moods, the constant need to eat, the skin changes, the body changes of puberty? Menopause is reverse puberty, with the different hormones colliding and declining in the latter years.
Perimenopause can be broken down into four key stages:
1.Very early or subtle perimenopause: cycle length can be the same or change slightly. Many women report seeing the start or return of PMT-like symptoms or experiencing night sweats before and during their period. You may start to feel ‘different’, possibly more anxious or just not yourself. You may also start to notice that you can go from zero to a hundred in nanoseconds, and feelings of rage are very common – that ‘flying off the handle’ experience. Progesterone dips and oestrogen will be higher.
2.The irregular-periods or early perimenopause years: cycle length and flow now change in a noticeable way. Oestrogen remains high but fluctuates wildly. Progesterone continues to dip and changes may be experienced in testosterone levels also. Physical symptoms start to become more obvious.
3.The skipping years or later perimenopause: the duration between cycles becomes longer (generally three to six months). The physical symptoms, like brain fog, hot flushes, night sweats and vaginal atrophy, may be heightened. Oestrogen and progesterone are both now low, possibly testosterone too.
4.Edging close to menopause: hot flushes, night sweats and vaginal dryness will be very common now for many.
Menopause is the next chapter after perimenopause, and it is like an anniversary of sorts: it’s the mark of twelve months without a monthly cycle. Is that it then 23– no more periods? Generally, it is, but sometimes there may be a final period or two that insist on saying goodbye before they fully stop. The average age for menopause is fifty-one. This varies based on geographical location and ethnicity – for example, the average age in Africa is forty-eight and in the US it’s fifty.
Then it’s post-menopause. This isn’t a defined chapter but the rest of a person’s life. Also, symptoms can, and will for many, continue into the post-menopause years. Menopause does not equate to the end of symptoms. The ways to support yourself described throughout the book also apply to post-menopause unless otherwise stated.
TYPES OF MENOPAUSE
While the majority of women will experience natural menopause, other forms can also occur. Earlier forms are when menopause occurs before the average age of fifty-one. Premature ovarian insufficiency (POI) means menopause before the age of forty, and early menopause is when menopause itself happens between age forty and forty-five. Early menopause can also be due to surgery or medication. (See Chapter 2 for further discussion.) If you experience early menopause for medical or surgical reasons, you may bypass the perimenopause stage and go straight into menopause – this is why these experiences are often referred to as ‘cliff-edge’ menopause.
Andropause is a male form of menopause, with symptoms resulting from the testosterone decline that comes with age. Research to date tells us it impacts 30 per cent of men, while all women will go through menopause.
HOW MENOPAUSE BEGINS
Think about your hormones like a jigsaw puzzle: every part has its place. Each hormone is a chemical messenger that moves around your body looking for where it fits into the puzzle – for its receptor.
Understanding the three main hormones involved in menopause (progesterone, oestrogen and testosterone) and how they interact can be very helpful. 24
Progesterone
Let’s start with progesterone, the soothing hormone, the mood and sleep supporter, the yin to oestrogen’s yang, its partner in the hormonal dance. It is made in the ovaries, goes out of balance in perimenopause and tends to be the hormone that starts its gradual decline the earliest. We think of it as the essential hormone for fertility, and the name itself means ‘promoting gestation’, but it does more. It is a key part of bone health (for bone formation) and also plays a part in the prevention of uterine cancer. When we delve into HRT, you will hear more about this (see Chapter 14). Progesterone is also known for its impact on mood and sleep. It creates allopregnanolone, which has a calming influence on the receptors in your brain.
The key benefits of progesterone are that it:
In perimenopause, progesterone levels start to decline, and its balance with oestrogen can go out of kilter – you may now have more oestrogen than 25before in your body. This imbalance will trigger symptoms like mood changes, breast tenderness, headaches, sleep issues and heavy periods. It is only after your final period that you reach a state of low hormones. Prior to that, it is all about fluctuation.
Oestrogen
This is the queen bee of hormones – the zest that sparks within every woman. But sometimes it can get too sparky, too high, and during perimenopause it may be the highest it has ever been. Erratic is the best word to describe oestrogen, especially in the early perimenopause years.
The reduction in oestrogen levels would be fine if oestrogen was just responsible for egg production, but that’s not the case. Oestrogen affects nearly every cell in our bodies, which is why we experience symptoms and also why no two women will experience menopause in the same way. One person might get hot flushes; another might never get them but might suffer from anxiety or palpitations.
There are four types of oestrogen: 17b oestradiol, oestrone, oestriol and oestetrol:
17b oestradiol is the strongest form of oestrogen. It peaks in pre-menopause then crashes post-menopause. The amount of oestrogen moving through the body changes throughout the monthly cycle and tends to peak right before ovulation. Oestradiol has a function in protecting the heart, brain and bones, but it also plays a role in over three hundred other processes within the body.Oestrone, produced by the adrenal glands and fatty tissue, is the key form of oestrogen made in the body in the post-menopause years. It has much weaker biological activity than oestradiol and doesn’t pack the same punch.Oestriol levels are generally very low, but during pregnancy it is made in much higher amounts by the placenta. Oestriol levels increase throughout pregnancy and are highest just before birth. This is the form you will see 26later being used for vaginal and urinary symptoms of menopause.Oestetrol is made by the developing foetus during pregnancy. Clinical trials are being performed to look at this form of oestrogen as a possible support for menopause symptoms.Oestrogen can sometimes be too high. This is generally in the early perimenopause years and can result in heavy periods, as oestrogen causes the endometrial lining to thicken – especially if your body is not producing enough progesterone to balance this out.
As you enter the late perimenopause stage, oestrogen is on the decline, and the high fluctuations will have reduced. This is when you may see the genitourinary symptoms of menopause taking centre stage and the very physical symptoms vying for their time in the limelight.
Your ovaries will completely stop producing progesterone in menopause, but oestrogen can still be produced in other areas of the body. As egg production is no longer required in menopause, oestrogen is then produced in areas like the skin and adrenal glands.
Testosterone
Testosterone is often thought of as the male hormone, but women need it too. Surprisingly, women produce three times as much testosterone as oestrogen before the menopause.
Testosterone is primarily made in two locations and split equally between them – 25 per cent in the ovaries, both in the follicle and also in the ovary itself, 27and 25 per cent in the adrenal glands (the small glands near your kidneys). The remaining 50 per cent is made throughout the body in the fatty tissue.
Because testosterone is not mainly produced by the ovaries, it does not experience the same reduction in levels that oestrogen does after menopause. But as we get older, testosterone declines, with the result that your libido drops, and when you do have sex, it may not be as pleasurable as it used to be. Currently, testosterone is medically prescribed for low libido.
Testosterone is important for bone strength, heart health, cognitive performance, energy levels and general feelings of well-being. But some women may have a time when testosterone becomes dominant and they can have symptoms like acne, excess hair growth and even a deepening voice (very rare).
Loss of testosterone is particularly challenging after surgical menopause, as the levels fall by more than 50 per cent. Those with POI and medical menopause will also experience significant loss of testosterone.
Other important players
Gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH): Have you ever watched the Minions movie? Their leader is Gru, and whatever Gru says, his minions follow suit. This is what GnRH is to your body – it’s Gru. The hypothalamus in your brain releases this essential ingredient. It sends a message to the pituitary gland that triggers your FSH and LH (more on those below) into action. As we age, GnRH loses its sharpness – messages may not be sent as effectively and that starts a chain reaction with the other hormones. 28
Follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH): This is made by the brain and sends messages to the ovaries to make oestrogen, promoting the growth and development of ovarian follicles. Its levels can fluctuate – in the early perimenopause years, you may experience high FSH on an infrequent basis, with the levels becoming higher as you are closer to menopause.
DHEA (dehydroepiandrosterone): This is not a superstar in its own right, but its power comes from the fact that it converts into other hormones, primarily oestrogen and testosterone. The ovaries can make a small amount, but it is mainly made in your adrenal glands from cholesterol. Once you hit post-menopause, it is the only producer of testosterone and oestrogen. It is a part of the androgen family.
Luteinising hormone (LH): Produced by the pituitary gland, this mighty hormone is responsible for the release of an egg from the ovaries and stimulates the ovaries to produce oestrogen and progesterone.
Leptin: This hormone regulates hunger and metabolism and helps our bodies adjust how we burn fat.
Insulin: Made in the pancreas, this drives glucose into our cells to be used as fuel (energy) and deposits fat. (For more, see Chapter 10.)
Thyroid: This essential gland plays a big role in metabolism and growth and helps regulate many functions in your body. It is associated with energy, weight and mood. It also regulates how the body uses energy and produces heat – many people with thyroid issues feel the cold more. When it is healthy, your thyroid produces hormones (TSH, T4, T3 and others) in the right balance so you feel energetic, don’t experience brain fog and feel good. Low thyroid (also known as hypothyroid) results in feelings of sluggishness and poor memory. Many women misinterpret these feelings as menopause or age – hence, having annual blood tests is a good idea. Hyperthyroid (also known as an overactive thyroid) is less common; symptoms are heart palpitations, shortness of breath and weight loss. One in eight women will have a thyroid issue at some stage in their life. 29
Cortisol: This hormone is just as important as oestrogen and progesterone, as it has a huge impact on women’s lives. Cortisol is produced by the adrenal glands and is an essential aspect of your body’s fight-or-flight reaction. Cortisol demands our respect: much of your optimum health in menopause and in the future is reliant on this hormone. Too much cortisol causes you to feel tired but ‘wired’ – your mind and body just can’t settle. Too little cortisol makes you feel drained, like a car running on empty. (For more, see Chapter 4.)
Sex hormone binding globulin (SHBG): The liver produces this protein, which binds to sex hormones (oestrogen and testosterone) in both men and women. It regulates how much testosterone your body tissues can use. The amount of SHBG in your blood varies depending on your gender and age. Obesity, liver illness and hyperthyroidism are some conditions that might cause it to change.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Though every woman’s journey through menopause is different, people often have the same questions. Here are some of the commonest ones I’m asked about menopause.
Why does menopause age differ?
The vast majority of women worldwide will enter menopause aged fifty to fifty-two years. The variations are small and can differ based on geographical location and ethnic background.
Does it really matter what age it happens to you?
It definitely does. As we will see with the early forms of menopause, there can be long-term health consequences that need to be addressed (see Chapter 2). Menopause occurring later than age fifty-four can be associated with an increased risk of endometrial and breast cancer. 30
What can impact age of menopause?
One of the myths I often hear is that the age you got your first period is indicative of when you will start menopause. Starting your periods earlier does not mean you will automatically start menopause earlier. Research to date on this has not been conclusive.
If your mother had an early menopause or late menopause, studies show you could have a similar experience. Smoking can trigger earlier menopause by two years. Toxins in your environment – pesticides, plastics, chemicals – can also have an impact. A history of heavy periods and a lowered immune system may influence your experience of menopause too, as will your general health – underlying health conditions may result in entering menopause earlier.
I hear about millions of symptoms. How tough is this going to be?
Let’s not get ahead of ourselves – there is light at the end of the tunnel!
The facts are that 25 per cent of women will go through menopause reporting no symptoms at all – you could be one of the lucky ones! And 25 per cent will experience severe symptoms, with the balance falling in between, with mild to moderate symptoms.
Remember, you are on your own unique and personal journey through these years, and being able to make informed choices around the supports you need is the key. Think of the perimenopause years as navigating the high seas – you are the ship in seas that can be calm (all is well) then quickly change to stormy (symptoms). The better the condition the ship is in, the better your chances of a smooth journey through any choppy waters that arise.
Can a blood test tell me I am in perimenopause?
Yes and no. In perimenopause, as the hormones are constantly changing, symptoms are the best indicator of what is happening within the body. Blood tests are great for checking overall health and ruling out any other 31underlying health conditions like anaemia (low iron) and thyroid imbalance – these two, in particular, can show symptoms very similar to menopause. The key marker medical professionals use for determining that menopause has happened is the FSH level, mentioned previously. However, these levels can fluctuate, and this is why looking at symptoms is so important. You can be in full-blown perimenopause and your bloods may not reflect it – but the tsunami of symptoms will! Remember, too, our hormone levels are changing hourly and daily.
Aside from ruling out other conditions, blood tests are an effective way of monitoring how HRT treatment is working – a blood test can show oestrogen levels being absorbed into the bloodstream. This tends to be more accurate for transdermal options (absorbed through the skin) than oral HRT (see Chapter 14 for more).
If you are having a blood test to look at hormone levels, three key ones will be taken into account – oestradiol, testosterone and SHBG.
My periods are still regular. How do I know if I am in perimenopause?
You can still have regular periods and be in the throes of perimenopause. Generally, as you get closer to menopause the cycles tend to become more erratic. So a woman who starts to go over fifty-five to sixty days between cycles is most likely in the latter phase of her perimenopause years. Here the final cycle might be three years away or less.
When it comes to knowing if you are in perimenopause, you need to look at the symptoms in their entirety and understand what your body is telling you.
I am on the pill. How do I know where I am during these years?
When you’re on the pill, you can’t tell if you’ve entered menopause. This is because hormonal contraception can alter your menstrual cycle. If you take the 32combined pill, you will get monthly period-like bleeding (withdrawal bleeds) for as long as you take it. If you’re on a progestogen-only pill, your periods may become erratic or cease completely for as long as you’re on it. Menopausal symptoms like hot flushes and night sweats may be masked or controlled by the combined tablet. These characteristics can make determining menopause difficult. If a woman is on the combination pill, the FSH test is likewise not a reliable indicator that ovulation has ended. For women over fifty who are on a progestogen-only pill, it can be a useful guide.
GETTING MENOPAUSE READY
So now you know about menopause and the important hormones involved, as well as why knowing your menstrual cycle and the hormones that affect you at each stage is crucial to your awareness and empowerment.
This is the time you should get a journal going, start tracking where your body is at and prepare to future-proof yourself through your menopause into those later years.
Here are the top things to track on a monthly basis:
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How your perimenopause and menopause years will play out for you cannot be predicted, but being ready and having all the information at hand, knowing where you can get the right help and advice to set yourself up for success in these years, will empower and comfort you.
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When menopause comes early
When I started studying and researching menopause I was struck by the many forms of early menopause and by premature ovarian insufficiency (POI) in particular. At the time, I struggled to find any information in Ireland and luckily I came upon the Daisy Network, a UK-based charity. Since then, I have spoken with women who started to experience hot flushes as young as twelve years old.
This chapter is about all forms of early menopause – from POI to surgical and medical menopause. When menopause comes early it is a very challenging experience, and it is imperative to have the right supports and knowledge at your fingertips as you navigate this terrain.
PREMATURE OVARIAN INSUFFICIENCY
The terms ‘premature ovarian insufficiency’ and ‘premature menopause’ both relate to the same form of menopause, which we’ll refer to as POI here.
The European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology (ESHRE) defines POI as ‘a clinical syndrome defined by loss of ovarian activity before the age of 40 years characterised by menstrual disturbance (amenorrhea or oligomenorrhea) with raised gonadotrophins and low oestradiol’.
Basically, it means the ovaries aren’t working as they should or they work 34sporadically. Two key things happen: the ovaries stop producing eggs; and the ovaries cannot produce the essential hormones (oestrogen and progesterone). This low hormone level causes menopause symptoms to appear. The long-term implications are crucial to understand, as many women affected by POI will lose this essential hormone supply years before the average woman, which will impact bone, heart and brain health.
When you are born, your eggs are already in your ovaries. Most women are born with one to two million eggs, but if you have a smaller number at birth or the egg count falls more quickly then you may develop POI.
Recent studies estimate that POI affects:
Why does it happen?
About 90 per cent of POI cases occur for unknown (idiopathic) reasons, so clearly more research is needed. The other reasons for POI are:
Autoimmune disease – roughly 5 per cent of cases are linked to such diseases, where the immune system attacks the body. There are numerous autoimmune conditions, including Hashimoto’s disease, Addison’s disease, lupus, rheumatoid arthritis and type 1 diabetes. If you have any of these conditions, you should ask your doctor or consultant to check for POI also.Genetics – generally an abnormality involving the X (female) chromosome; 10–15 per cent will have a mother or sister who also has POI.Infection – POI has been reported as sometimes occurring after a serious infection like mumps, tuberculosis or malaria, and 13 per cent of HIV patients will be diagnosed with POI.Surgery – when the ovaries are removed before the age of forty (due to ovarian cancer, ovarian cysts, endometriosis or other conditions), it will result in POI. 35Medical treatment – some cancer treatments like chemotherapy or radiotherapy may cause temporary or permanent damage to the ovaries, which again will cause POI.Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) – research is ongoing but when a woman has PCOS there may be a 3 to 4 per cent risk of POI.How is it diagnosed?
I have seen first-hand how difficult it is to get a diagnosis and find the right help. I believe as we increase awareness among doctors and all people we will see more accurate reporting of girls and women impacted by POI.
The first red flag is when you miss three or more periods consecutively and you are under forty years of age. An initial conversation with your doctor should rule out sudden weight loss, thyroid imbalance, PCOS and pregnancy. If these are clear then you should have more detailed blood work. These tests should include the following:
FSH level – if this is over twenty-four, menopause is close to happening or has happened.Luteinising hormone (LH) – high LH levels indicate the follicles are not functioning normally.Prolactin (a hormone produced in the brain by the pituitary gland) – higher than normal levels can cause irregular periods and infertility.Oestradiol – this will be low with POI.Testosterone – many with POI have lower levels of testosterone compared with other women their age.Depending on the results, a repeat blood test may need to be taken after four weeks. A scan can be helpful to see if there is anything physically wrong with the ovaries or uterus. This can also see how many follicles are in the ovaries. If POI is confirmed, one of the next important steps is a DXA scan (see Chapter 7). 36
Additional testing your doctor may recommend
Diabetes – due to the connection with autoimmune illness it is important to investigate for diabetes.Adrenal antibodies – checking the health of the adrenal glands is another key step.Hypoparathyroidism – this is not as straightforward as thyroid imbalance and has been associated with POI.HIV – POI is common among people with HIV.I was diagnosed with POI aged twenty-five in June 2020. I had not had a period in the six months leading to my diagnosis. I did not have any menopause symptoms other than that my periods stopped. A number of tests were undertaken and no known cause has been identified for my early menopause. I have been quite lucky in that I have not had any drastic symptoms. However, for me, I noticed I had dry eyes, vaginal dryness and mood swings. The most difficult thing for me during this time has been dealing with the effect on my fertility options. Unfortunately, two months after my diagnosis I had some tests and scans which showed no follicles in either ovary. Therefore, my only option is donor-egg IVF if I would like to carry a baby. I started HRT three months after my diagnosis and have changed from oral only to transdermal (patches) and progesterone (as I have an intact womb). This works for me and I’ve got used to changes and tweaks to my dose to reduce any sensitivity. Throughout this process, I have accessed therapy for feelings of grieving for the loss of my fertility. I found that I was losing control of where I wanted to be on this journey. With the right hormone balance, responding well to HRT, Pilates and therapy, I’ve learnt to control any problem by controlling how I react to it. I feel this will help me when I experience any other menopause symptoms throughout my POI journey. I’ve made some lifestyle changes including diet, sleep, routine, exercise, water and vitamins. To my fellow POI ladies – you got this!
– Dani37
What needs to happen in caring for someone with POI?
The long-term complications of POI include reduced bone mineral density, resulting in an increased risk of developing osteoporosis and fractures, increased risk of cardiovascular disease and reduced cognition. These risks increase the longer a woman has POI. HRT or a contraceptive containing oestrogen is a key step in the POI journey. It is very important to replace the oestrogen that the body is not producing, and either option will do that.
The standard rules outlined in Chapter 14 will apply here, but usually a higher dose of HRT is required. Generally, HRT is recommended until a woman reaches the natural age of menopause, but this is an individual and personal choice.
Treatment of POI in Ireland can be supported by referral from your GP to a complex menopause clinic. Many women with POI may not be taking HRT or may not be informed about HRT. This is an essential first step for anyone diagnosed with POI. In addition, you may be referred to either a gynaecology or endocrinology clinic and should be closely monitored by your GP.
It is imperative that women with POI get access to the most up-to-date treatment and appropriate psychological support. We need to continue to advocate to improve resources for women with POI, especially when it comes to accessing proper medical care, psychological support and funded assisted reproductive technology for fertility treatment.
Fertility
One of the hardest parts of a POI diagnosis is the impact on fertility. While 5 per cent of women diagnosed with POI may still fall pregnant, it can be very challenging and distressing. Many other routes are available today, like donor eggs and surrogacy. So do your homework here and don’t just think about what your country of residence offers. Please see Resources for more on POI. 38
Induced menopause
After breast cancer in 2013, I had to go on tamoxifen after treatment and was told I would go into pre-menopause straight away – that was all I was told. It was hard, as I didn’t know what my body was going through and had no one to help support my journey. During this time, I experienced very bad hot flushes, night sweats, brain fog, palpitations, aches and pains, low libido, anger, sadness, and at times felt I was going mad as I had so much rage against my partner. It was very difficult.
I was told ‘no’ to HRT by my surgeon.
I fought so hard to get vaginal oestrogen from my new GP, but she just kept treating each symptom rather than look at it as menopause-related.
I spoke to my consultant during check-ups and mentioned brain fog. I was told, ‘Yes, we hear this from a lot of women – we can put you on an antidepressant.’ I told them I wasn’t depressed, just staring into space a lot and had no motivation.
I spoke to my GP about other symptoms and was told, ‘Google may help.’ I felt powerless, so I decided to do my own research, and I am still learning to this day about being in menopause.
– Marianne
