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Alankrita -

• Herausgeber: V&S Publishers
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch
• Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2018

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Practical guidelines for personal and professional success

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Build

Self-confidence

Alankrita

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Dedicated to My Father,Late Shri A.N. Banerjee

Preface

Mother Earth is inhabited by approximately 6 billion people out of which more than one-sixth of the people are living in the Indian Sub-continent. Amidst this sea of humanity, there are only a handful of men and women who are able to achieve greatness. They start revolutions, create epochs, author the annals of history, discover new worlds and pioneer novel concepts. These men and women come to control the destinies of millions and give new dimensions to human existence. There are always some attributes that are responsible for making a life great. These may be either mental qualities or the qualities of heart, body or soul. This book is a humble attempt to identify the persons who possessed some of such qualities. If one reads it, it is certain that he/she will gather the self-confidence which is absolutely required to lead a good life.

GREATNESS is never the prodigy of circumstances, it is always the outcome of great thoughts and their strategic implementation with utmost confidence.

It must be clearly understood that “Great” in the apparent sense is not a synonym of “big”. A Great man can nevertheless be humble in mortal gains but his deeds may carry within him, the intrinsic value of greatness.

This book contains innumerable stories, instances and lives that have left for us the imprints for future life. Whatever we possess today is owing to the sacrifices made by those handful of men, women and events which have transformed the very meaning of life.

Whatever may be our endowments, background, situation or time, we must try our level best to comprehend and nurture our true potential. Why not explore it?

In my previous book Positive Self Transformation, I gave exhaustive indications towards the true meaning of life as well as its positive transformation. In this book, I wish the reader to catch hold of the impulses that will enable him to find the right slot in the whirlwind towards Greatness by enhancing level of SELF-CONFIDENCE to unattained heights.

Here we commence a breathtaking journey towards greatness and exploring a world of Self-confidence.

Contents

Preface

Chapter OneJOURNEY TOWARDS GREATNESSTHROUGH SELF-CONFIDENCE

• The Benchmark of Greatness

• Breaking the Inertia

• Forming a Mini-Universe Within

• Inspirations

• Translating Ideas into Life

Chapter TwoTHE GREATEST EVENTS IN HUMAN HISTORY

• Learning from Our Past

• The Birth of America

• The French Revolution

• Communism Takes on the World

• The Renaissance of Japan

• The Great Sons of Modern India

Chapter ThreeCULTIVATING SELF-CONFIDENCE

• The Psychic Influence at Birth

• The Years of Adolescence

• Always a Winner!

Chapter FourCHURNING OUT A GREAT PERSONALITY

• The Personality Traits of Great People

• The Magnetic Aura of Great Leaders

• The Art of Communication & Oratory

• Revealing the Genius within you

• Stealing the Hearts of Millions!

Chapter FiveSTRATEGY FOR BUILDING CONFIDENCE

• Prioritizing

• Planning

• Time-scheduling

• The Significance of Motivation

Chapter SixOVERCOMING HURDLES ON THEWAY TO GREATNESS

• The Possible Hurdles

• Winning Over Odd Circumstances

• The Foes of Greatness

• The Greatest Comebacks in Human History

• The Great Virtues

Chapter One

Journey towards Greatness through Self-confidence

The Benchmark of Greatness

If a man hasn’t discovered somethingthat he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.

-Martin Luther-I

These words are as stirring and true as the life of its believer. In a few words, the very meaning of human existence has been summed up. Life is nothing more than a search - a continuous search for a cause to live and die to be governed by the thoughts and dreams and propelled by a concealed urge to achieve Greatness. In this vast sea of humanity, let us take a solemn pledge - a pledge to accomplish that for which we are born, to conquer our follies and failings and stand apart from the teeming millions, as the one who leaves his footprints for others to walk upon. But before we commence our journey towards greatness, we must contemplate upon its nature and try to find a coherence with it in our own short life.

Denning Greatness

Greatness can be termed as the measurement of the ‘intrinsic value’ of a person or his deeds. Greatness is never tainted with selfish motives. Rather, it is guided by a strong motive which is the ‘welfare’ of mankind. A man can earn lots of money, build palaces, provide the best to his family and wallow in the swamp of glory, but can’t reach greatness if his efforts are guided only towards self elevation. On the other hand, a soldier fighting for his country after putting everything at stake or a modest social worker dedicating his life for social upliftment without caring for his personal well-being, can definitely be termed as Great. Greatness has within its bosom, the central theme of “Giving” - giving knowledge, cultivating faith, giving solace, giving peace and above all giving up yourself for the good of others.

It has been truly said by Khalel Gibran -

You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.

The benchmark of GREATNESS comprises the following virtues:

Possessing a worthwhile causeIn the words of Swami Vivekananda “Life is short, Give up to a great cause.” It is only when a person rises above his own petty self and dedicates himself to a cause, that he sows the seeds of an enlightened life. He becomes an embodiment of an ideology and gradually loses his own tiny existence. This is the first benchmark towards greatness. He and his cause become one. The cause can be social, moral or patriotic.

One such man was Martin Luther. On October 31, 1517, when Martin Luther was nailing his thesis upon the door of the church at Wittenburg, criticizing the sale of indulgences, never did he realize that he was going to give birth to a new religious sect called the Protestants. Amidst turbulent opposition from the greatest powers in Europe, he kept his cause glowing like a radiant sun. What kept him moving was his unflinching faith in his cause which he believed was the voice of his conscience.

I can and will retract nothing, as it is dangerous to act against one’s conscience was his confident proclamation. Martin Luther was quick to recognize the spiritual fervour within him. He was grossly unsatisfied with religious abuses doled out by the priests. His strong religious convictions grew into a rage and he threw his entire life to the Reformation of Christianity. His contributions to religion helped to transform the medieval world into the modern.

Driven by a single obsession

Great men and women always live with “one mission”. Their minds are filled by an obsession to accomplish their mission. They are never daunted by circumstances or conditions, rather their eyes are fixed upon what they desire to achieve. Day and night, their thoughts revolve around their mission.

In ancient India, a little before the battle Mahabharata was fought, sage Dronacharya was assigned the task of teaching archery to his disciples-young princes of Hasti-napur among whom the name oîArjuna stands apart. As a young boy, he had only one obsession - to be the world’s greatest archer. One fine afternoon, all the princes were asked to aim at the eye of a clay bird. To test their concentration, Dronacharya enquired all the princes “What do you all see?” Some princes pointed towards the trees, the surroundings, some towards the well and the river. It was only Arjun who said “I only see the bird’s eye.” The surroundings made no effect on him, for he had just one thing in his mind - his goal of becoming the greatest archer of the world.

Our Ancient history stands as a testimony to the fact that our country has produced so many great archers but none can match the stature of Arjun.

Unchanging conviction

Swami Vivekananda puts it very aptly “I will drink the ocean, to preserve soul. Mountains will crumble into dust at my feet”. Such men of great mettle erect a fortress of strong and unmoving conviction around themselves which none can pierce. They always live with the feeling that they are born to accomplish some great task. For them, it is the cause that matters and not the condition.

One such hero was David Livingstone - the man who accorded respect and knowledge to the Dark Continent of Africa. Amidst the negative pursuits of his father, the dangerous journeys across Africa, the physical dual with a lion in which he almost lost his left arm and the ailing health of his children, he crossed the insurmountable Kalahari Desert and discovered numerous unknown rivers like the Zouga, Zambezi, and lands like Landa in Central Africa. He was nearly crippled with fever, ill-health, lack of food and equipment but he continued his adventures until he became a hero. Eventually he died in the lap of the mysterious continent of Africa.

Nothing could daunt him…. not even death for he continued to live in the hearts of millions of adventure lovers around the world. Africa definitely owes a never-ending debt to him.

Consistent labour

And thou wilt give thyself relief, if thou doest every act of thy life, as if it were the last

-Marcus Aurelius

We must work in such a way towards our mission as if every moment is the last moment of our life. Great people reap the fruits of their incessant labour. Their only concern is towards the work which they undertake without thinking of its results. They are always guided by the ‘spirit of action’ and not by the jugglery of words. Hence the most appropriate way to achieve greatness is to “burn the midnight lamp” both literally as well as figuratively and continue working towards the attainment

Therefore one of the Upanishads, the sacred Hindu texts, echoes with these powerful words:

Arise, Awake and stop not till the goal is reached.

When passivity takes to labour - actions take place. Peter the Great of Russia was a raw and uncivilized ruler of a mighty empire. He set out to study, acquire knowledge and make himself appropriate for his empire. “Myself a pupil, I seek teachers”, was a seal that he carried with himself.

He acquired immense knowledge and returned to his native place Russia for initiating the process of westernization and reforms. Russia at that time had no navy and seaports. Peter was determined to establish both.

In 1695, Peter made his first attack upon Azov but was utterly defeated. But he was committed to his plans. He made another attempt. This time he met with convincing success. With this success, he poured in large sums of money to maintain a fleet of ships in the waters that he had conquered.

Two years later, he sent a large number of Russians to Holland, England, Italy and Germany to acquire knowledge about civilizations. He himself studied Architecture, Mechanics, Fortification, Printing, Anatomy and Astronomy in Holland. His labour continued.

From Holland, he went to England where he learnt the theory and practice of ship-building. Apart from this, he gave his mind to many new things such as setting up universities, hospitals, Royal societies, cathedrals and churches in his country for which he visited all these in England.

Not only this, Peter also toiled in shipyards as an apprentice to learn about naval establishments and dockyards.

Although Peter had many vices, his energy was boundless. He undertook the biggest and the smallest tasks with the equal amount of ease. All his drawbacks could somehow be compensated with his extreme hard-work.

He exhausted himself in the endeavour to build up his country. He took up the responsibility of transforming a semi-Asiatic state into one of the most developed regions of Europe. His efforts bore fruit because of his consistent labour.

Devoid of evil inclines

All great men have one thing in common - their love for humanity and their hatred for evil. Before venturing out for a mission “clean up your soul” and submit yourself to a life of goodness. If you fail to conquer evil, you will certainly fail to enter the kingdom of the great. Every great movement which has flourished on the earth, has been triggered off by the “essence of nobility”. The renowned dictum “From log cabin to Whitehouse” sums up the entire life of Abraham Lincoln. A poor nomad born in a log cabin, lost his mother at an early age, hit hard by the humiliations of slavery and facing tough attacks from the US press, Abraham Lincoln went on to become one of the greatest men, US has ever produced - conquering the hearts of millions of people with his sense of justice and sincerity. His ascent to the post of the President of USA was not of as much significance as his notable contributions in the field of social justice and the abolition of slavery and amendment of the Constitution of America. His life echoed with one principle - the benefit of mankind.

“I have done nothing to make any Human being remember that I have lived. Yet what I wish to live for is to connect my name with the events of my day and generation, to link my name with something which will be of interest to my fellow-men,” said Abraham Lincoln

This was written when he was a young man of thirty-two. He had more misery in life than happiness. Once while he was trying to come out of a fit of depression, he strongly felt like committing suicide. This man could not have asked for more as from a poor man, born in a log cabin, he rose to become the President of the United States of America. His life is almost an epic of U.SA which almost owes him today, its existence as a Nation.

Born on 12th February, 1809 in Kentucky, Abraham was the son of a wandering carpenter. He was fascinated by the greenery and far away lands. At the age of four, Abraham began his wanderings along with his family. His father, being extremely restless moved to Indiana. For one year, the family had to live in floorless, half-built camp made up of uncut logs. Life was extremely difficult as the region was swampy. Animals did not thrive and human beings began falling victims to Malaria. While facing hardships, Abraham lost his mother on account of a fatal disease. After the death of his mother, family began to wander to distant lands. It was then that Abraham, for the first time saw his step mother. A new life began for Abraham. His new mother insisted that he should go to school. Abraham, known as Abe, began his educational career in fits and starts. He learnt some reading and writing. But from that day onwards he began to read everything that came on his way. He grew up into a strong man but was known for his eccentricity for he talked on various topics and tried to imitate preachers and orators.

The turning point in his life came in 1828 when for the first time he was exposed to the outside world infested with slavery. He began his career by carrying agricultural produce to New Orleans by boat. It gave him the opportunity to study the condition of Negro slaves. He was moved to see their appalling condition.

Abraham Lincoln found the mission of his life. He decided to abolish slavery from America. His journey towards Greatness commenced when he chose a mission that would alleviate the condition of the Blacks.

Later on, Abraham Lincoln became the manager of the store where he used to sell his agricultural products. There he engaged himself in extensive reading as well as in local politics by acting as a clerk of the local polls.

Being the scholar of the district, he became a participator in local political debates and was drawn in towards politics. But due to his interest in politics, he almost became insolvent in his store business. But he continued his involvement with politics.

Abraham Lincoln became the candidate for the Legislature in the year 1834. But another pursuit caught his interest during those days. It was law. Abraham formed a law partnership firm with William H. Herndon who later became his biographer.