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This book guides you to achieve three main goals:
Also in this book we learn practical ways to solve many of the following different life problems:
1- Work (earn money) and how to start a new project.
2- The problem of confusing (we do not know exactly what we want, how to live, what our goals are).
3- Various fears: fear of poverty, fear of death, fear of the future, fear of facing people, fear of failure, fear of success.
4- Anxiety, tension, sadness, depression, anger and frustration.
5- Uneasiness in the current job or profession.
6- Self-management, how can we manage thoughts, feelings, and behaviors?
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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2020
From Passion to Goal
Written by Dr. Husni Hamad Almistarihi
All copyrights, intellectual and copyrights reserved to the author © 2020
ISBN : 978-1-7349183-2-8
The Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan
The Deposit Number at The
National Library
(2020/7/2615)
155.2
Almistarihi, Husni Hamad
From Passion To Goal / Husni Hamad Almistarihi
Amman: The Author, 2020
( ) p.
Deposit No. : 2020/7/2615
Descriptors: /Success//Personality Development/Happiness
يتحمل المؤلف كامل المسئولية القانونية عن محتوى مصنفه ولا يعبّر هذا المصنف
عن رأي دائرة المكتبة الوطنية أو أي جهة حكومية أخرى.
Table of Contents:
Topics
Page Number
Chapter 1: The Beginning of the Road
6
Chapter 2: Define the Way of Your Life
15
Chapter 3: The Equation for Success in Life
18
Chapter 4: How to Discover Your Talent
22
Chapter 5: Follow Your Passion
43
Chapter 6: How to Define Your Goals in Life
49
Chapter 7: In the Mid-Way of Life
58
Chapter 8: Development Skills
111
Chapter 9: How to Start Your Own Business
138
Chapter 10: The End of the Road
(Achieving Happiness)
140
Thanks and Appreciation
I want to thank God for helping me write this book, my parents and family who encouraged me, and especially my wife who stood with me all the time.
I also want to thank Dr. Mohammad Mahyoob Qassem for the review of the book.
An introduction
This book guides you to achieve three main goals:
Success
Happiness
Wealth (get rich)
Also in this book we learn practical ways to solve many of the following different life problems:
1- Work (earn money) and how to start a new project.
2- The problem of confusing (we do not know exactly what we want, how to live, what our goals are).
3- Various fears: fear of poverty, fear of death, fear of the future, fear of facing people, fear of failure, fear of success.
4- Anxiety, tension, sadness, depression, anger and frustration.
5- Uneasiness in the current job or profession.
6- Self-management, how can we manage thoughts, feelings, and behaviors?
We will tackle these problems through the ways, recommendations and ideas in the journey of life (offer ideas and solutions) in an interesting way, to start from passion and ending with the goal to achieve happiness, success and richness.
The book answers the question "how" more than the question "what", so it focuses on the most important experiences and recommendations based on practical experiences and not just theories or information. Thus, we will learn how to manage ourselves and our lives, how to change our thinking, how to succeed in our projects, how to think in terms of the mentality of the rich rather than the mentality of the poor, how to get rid of fear, anxiety and depression, how to live our lives happily, how to increase our income, how to develop our profession, and how to start our own business. This is done through practical steps based on the author's expertise and experience.
Notes:
1- All the characters and stories in the book are from the author's imagination and are not real.
2- The content of this book expresses the author's opinion only, based on the author's experiences and expertise, with the exception of some general concepts quoted from other sources and referred to by references [in brackets] and listed at the end of the book.
About the author
Dr. Husni Hamad Almistarihi, a Jordanian national, born in 1971. Through his specialty and his experience, the author has combined management and human development sciences on one side and computer science on the other hand because of the close link between the two disciplines. He holds a PhD in Computer Science from Malaysia and numerous international training certificates in management and human development.
He founded several companies and provided hundreds of training programs and workshops in several countries in both Arabic and English in the field of administration and human development. He held several positions during his career: a university professor at several universities, a certified trainer from several sides, a chairman of a board of directors, a general manager, and a director of academic programs.
Chapter 1: The Beginning of the Road
After the house was burned and his parents died, Ruby lived alone, without family and shelter. At first it was a shock to 18-year-old Ruby to find himself alone a stranger in this life. Negative thoughts and feelings began to surround him from all sides, sorrow, depression, anxiety and weakness. Ruby did not have a career that would enable him to survive as the death of his parents prevented him from his university studies.
Ruby slept in a public park near the trash can, from which he extracted what he was eating, and took the newspapers from which he brushed under him to sleep on. Ruby decided not to give up to these harsh conditions, and began reading the newspapers that he slept on to search for work, and during his search he found in the newspaper short novels, which he admired and began to read novels published in newspapers. He found himself he could write novels such as those in the newspapers and even better ones, and he began writing a variety of novels and spending most of his time reading and writing novels tirelessly.
After two months, Ruby found an advertisement for a cleaner in a company that publishes and distributes newspapers and magazines, and that's exactly what he was looking for, so he went to the address and got the job at the company. During his work cleaning the rooms and offices inside the company, he monitored journalists, media workers and authors and how they performed work and wrote articles and novels, and he began to gain his experience of writing by observing them indirectly and hearing their conversations. After a while, Ruby got a little room to sleep in and he resumed writinghis novels with passion.
One day, the company that Ruby worked for had a celebration outside the company headquarters, and he remained alone cleaning the offices, and after he had finished his work cleaning the offices, he took the pen and paper and began writing a new novel that came to his mind. When he was about to end the novel, the manager suddenly appeared and asked Ruby what he was doing. Ruby told the manager that he had finished cleaning and is now writing a novel. The manager took the paper that Ruby had in his hand and started reading what was in it. The novel impressed the manager and asked Ruby to read the other novels.
The next day, Ruby brought some novels that he wrote to the manager; the manager was impressed by Ruby's novels and found them very special and interesting, so the manager appointed Ruby as a novel writer in the company.
Ruby’s life began to change and his living conditions began to improve. He was homeless on the street, became an employee of a company, wrote very interesting novels and received a salary and rewards from the company. He began developing himself and studied at the university specializing in languages and literature to enhance his talent and passion more, and after five years he became a famous novelist, then he left the company and started composing novels and selling them through different publishing firms. He succeeded in his life, achieved wealth and lived happily.
Ruby discovered his talent for writing, especially writing detective novels, developing his talent, working with passion, distinguished by his work, achieving his goals in life, and living happily. Being homeless on the street, Ruby had the opportunity to read newspapers and magazines that he found in the trash can, and through which he discovered his talent in writing and practiced it with love and passion, then he developed and succeeded in his life and achieved the goals that everyone seeks in life such as a house, a car, an excellent income, marriage and social life.
The secret of Ruby's success lies in that he overcame his negative feelings and was thinking in a positive way, and he took advantage of his time to read newspapers and novels, which is the information available to him, and from here, he discovered his innate talent of writing novels. Then he set a specific goal, which is to find a job in publishing business and newspapers, which will be the path to his success.
Let's summarize the success steps from Ruby's story:
1- Discovering the innate talent.
2- Using time to develop talent.
3- Searching for useful information to develop talent and appropriate opportunities.
4- Defining a specific goal or goals related to talent.
5- Work hard with determination and persistence.
Ruby had three primary resources: talent, time, and information. Ruby did not possess other resources such as shelter, university specialization or a certain profession, money, and other such resources. As he discovered his innate talent, which is the art of writing (the resource of innate talent), by reading newspapers and magazines (the resource of information), then he used his time to develop his talent (time resource).
The golden rule here is relying on the three primary resources in the first place, and then relying on other resources available in the second degree. Other secondary resources facilitate and accelerate the path to success. But relying on other secondary resources without relying on primary resources, the path to success will be difficult and risky and the path of failure is possible in this case.
Take, for example, the story of Johnny who used to rely on other resources such as having a car, a job, and university specialization, without relying on the three basic resources that each person possesses (innate talent, information, and time).
Johnny was suffering from difficulty and boredom of his job because he was not following his passion nor realizing his talent and therefore not within his ability. Moreover, he could not use his time well to develop his profession because he does not like his profession at all, because the rule says that a person spends more time practicing and developing the work that he desires. However, Johnny was not working on his innate talent and therefore did not like his work and did not spend the time necessary to develop his work.
When Johnny got a financial loan to buy a house, he couldn't pay because his monthly salary was limited, and he was exposed to a financial crisis, loans and debts and began to weaken his work accomplishment, and he was fired from the job, and found himself losing the job and could not buy the home. He lost most of his secondary resources that he had, because if these resources were not managed by primary resources, we could lose them.
Now let's make a simple comparison between Ruby's story and Johnny's story. Ruby relied on the three primary resources, while Johnny relied on other secondary resources only without relying on primary resources. The primary resources cannot be lost, they are with us throughout our lives, and the other secondary resources are changeable; they can be increased or decreased. The primary resources such as the skelton of the building, and other secondary resources such as the floors, garden and fence of the building.
Dear reader, there is no need to say: I do not have anything, because we all have the following three main resources:
1- Talent. Innate talent is present in every human being.
2- Time. Every person owns 24 hours a day, the poor and rich, the employee and the merchant, and everyone.
3- Information. Everyone has Internet today that is the largest source of information.
Also some of us have other additional resources such as: money, job, and university degree. We start our journey of life by relying on primary resources by discovering the innate talent and using the time to develop it and then employing it with a specific job or field in order to obtain the appropriate profession and success in life, and to get rich.
How can one become rich in a fast and practical way? If we study the path of the rich people, we find something in common between them, which is working according to their passion and walking towards their goal. The main rule thus is from passion to goal. This is the title of this book, which will guide you to achieve the three goals of the book: success, wealth, and happiness through recommendations and practical ways to pave the way for life.
First: Look for your passion stemming from your innate talent. Your passion is the thing that you love to work with a very strong desire, and that makes you wake up early in the morning with vigor and vitality to practice it with great enthusiasm, something that you love very much and which leads you towards achieving the goal.
Second: Set a goal that is appropriate to your passion so that the goal is linked to a specific profession or work that goves you back to material income. Then link your passion to your goal, which constitutes the strength you have to reach success and richness with a desire and strong motivation within you.
A person who works with desire and passion in a specific job or a profession within his innate talent and acquired capabilities achieves success, while a person who does a job that he does not want and is not one of his talent cannot develop, but this work will be a heavy burden on the person, which makes him bored and without enthusiasm, Thus, he may has the problem of procrastination and failure to achieve the success and wealth that he seeks. For example, if you have a passion for writing novels and have an innate talent for writing, then your appropriate goal will be to compose novels, and success, richness, and happiness may be achieved.