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- Herausgeber: John Wiley & Sons
- Kategorie: Ratgeber
- Sprache: Englisch
An essential toolkit to help teachers and parents foster wellbeing in kids and teens In this book, you'll find fun, practical activities and strategies to develop an attitude of gratitude: the positive mindset that kids and teens need to successfully weather ups and downs, successes and setbacks. Growing with Gratitude outlines simple steps that you can start to action immediately, whether in the classroom, the whole school or at home. Drawing on over two decades of experience and research on how practicing gratitude leads to a happier, healthier life, author Ash Manuel shares how mindfulness and positive habits can benefit kids and teens of all ages. * Learn how to make time for wellbeing in an already busy day * Understand the psychology behind positive habits * Discover and share the five habits of happiness * Engage kids with games, activities, and reflections * Get tips to manage your own wellbeing It's time to take action and teach the next generation the skills they need to navigate whatever life throws at them. This book is not just for times of crisis: it's for growing a culture of gratitude that will give kids and teens the balance and stability they need every day.
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Table of Contents
COVER
TITLE PAGE
COPYRIGHT
DEDICATION
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
FOREWORD
INTRODUCTION
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
CHAPTER 1: Why Growing with Gratitude?
A different kind of value
Three key challenges
An invitation to come together
CHAPTER 2: Embed commitment
A whole-school approach
Not one, but all
Move your troops
CHAPTER 3: Allocate wellbeing time and routines
It's time for wellbeing
Examples of wellbeing at work
Wellbeing at home and in class
Stacking wellbeing sessions
It's time to practise
CHAPTER 4: Address the 5 Habits of Happiness
Happier for it
Five habits (not one)
Why we practise the 5 habits
CHAPTER 5: Make it fun
Variety is the spice of life
Fresh long-term perspectives
The game of life
After the games
Reward systems
Classroom connection
Go wild!
CHAPTER 6: Encourage students to lead
The Caring Agreements
The Kilkenny Way
A voice of reason
Make the message stick
Get creative
Lead by example
CHAPTER 7: Manage your own wellbeing
The stats say it all
The root of the problem
Two central skills
Prioritise you
Serve others
Three easy ways to shift your mood
Wellbeing in staff meetings
Be Good to Yourself Day
Sharing resources at school
THE FUTURE IS NOW
Practise what we preach
GRATITUDE
CONNECT WITH ME
Free Resource Pack
The Positive Education Podcast
Teacher and education training
Clubs and coaching
SOURCES AND RESOURCES
Introduction
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Chapter 5
Chapter 6
Chapter 7
The future is now
HELPFUL RESOURCES
INDEX
END USER LICENSE AGREEMENT
List of Tables
Chapter 4
Table 4.1: Home service planner example
List of Illustrations
Chapter 2
Figure 2.1: Diffusion of innovation theory
Chapter 3
Figure 3.1: Lucky Dip questions
Figure 3.2: Wellbeing routine worksheet
Chapter 4
Figure 4.1: The 5 Habits of Happiness
Figure 4.2: Four Corners of Gratitude
Figure 4.3: The 7-Day Kindness Challenge planner
Chapter 5
Figure 5.1: Gratitude Yahtzee player sheet (cont’d on page 82)
Figure 5.2: ‘Gratitude Skittles’
Figure 5.3: ‘Gratitude Cards’ game sheet
Figure 5.4: ‘Rapid Fire’
Figure 5.5: Students playing ‘Flipper’
Figure 5.6: ‘Flipper’ game set-up
Figure 5.7: The ‘Badges I can earn’ poster
Figure 5.8: Outdoor Habits of Happiness wheel at Gilles Street Primary
Chapter 6
Figure 6.1: Student hand-drawn characters of the Kilkenny Crew
Figure 6.2: The Kilkenny Way poster
Figure 6.3: Students at the Microsoft head office, Adelaide
Chapter 7
Figure 7.1: Wellbeing check-in scale
Guide
Cover
Table of Contents
Title Page
Copyright
Dedication
About the Author
Foreword
Introduction
How to Use This Book
Begin Reading
The Future is Now
Gratitude
Connect with Me
Sources and Resources
Helpful Resources
Index
End User License Agreement
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First published in 2023 by John Wiley & Sons Australia, Ltd
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Disclaimer
The material in this publication is of the nature of general comment only, and does not represent professional advice. It is not intended to provide specific guidance for particular circumstances and it should not be relied on as the basis for any decision to take action or not take action on any matter which it covers. Readers should obtain professional advice where appropriate, before making any such decision. To the maximum extent permitted by law, the author and publisher disclaim all responsibility and liability to any person, arising directly or indirectly from any person taking or not taking action based on the information in this publication.
This book is dedicated to Jason ‘Lehmo’ Lehmann, Brooke Jeffs and Nigel Osborn.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Ash Manuel is passionate about positive education.
He is the founder of Growing with Gratitude, a wellbeing program and platform that teaches people in schools, organisations, workplaces, sports teams and at home the happiness and resilience skills they need to build and protect their mental wellbeing long into the future.
Ash's experience in education and sports coaching spans 25 years. It was in 2010, while working as a primary school physical education teacher in Adelaide, South Australia, that he discovered a number of people who excelled in their chosen field had identified gratitude and happiness as the keys to their success and achievement.
Through further investigation he discovered an entire new world: that of positive psychology. His greatest learning was that resilience and happiness are things you can actually practise. After a number of personal breakthroughs using these skills in his own life, he questioned, Why don't we learn these skills back in primary school, when we are young?
So that's exactly what he set out to do.
Today, Ash is widely regarded as a leader in positive education. His programs and resources have reached close to half a million students across the globe, as well as elite sports teams, and are currently accessed in 45 countries.
He has interviewed and hosted many high-profile people on The Positive Education Podcast, is often seen in the media and presents at numerous wellbeing conferences.
Ash believes gratitude, kindness, empathy, positive reflection, self-awareness, ownership and serving others are key building blocks to resilience and happiness. These are skills he practises on a daily basis, whether it's through personal reflection, by facilitating a gratitude game in the classroom or while playing social T12 cricket with mates.
growingwithgratitude.com
FOREWORD
How grateful am I for the positive contribution that this book affords in prioritising wellbeing as a shared educational community responsibility.
From my initial collaboration with the author Ash Manuel on a whole school Growing with Gratitude: Exploring a school community's gratitude approach and influence on student wellbeing and achievement research project (Price, Green & Manuel, University of South Australia, 2014/15), I have been personally and professionally enriched by his passion, positive outlook, happiness, determination and deep belief in wellbeing.
In this book, Ash advocates wellbeing as the foundation to one's sense of self and identity, feelings of belonging and connectedness to others, spaces and places, and personal and collective achievements. This book prioritises preventative and hopeful messages as Ash models the importance of self-care by his self-awareness of personal lived experiences and integrating educational and positive psychological strategies for personal development and growth that are best facilitated and sustained through not only individual agency, but also through shared whole school, home and broader community endeavours.
Nurturing Wellbeing Development in Education (McCallum & Price Eds., 2016) has been growing as a priority amidst the predominant emphasis on quality learning and academic achievement on global, national and local measures, with increasing evidence that Well Teachers supports Well Students (McCallum & Price, 2010), and the critical importance of teacher wellbeing (McCallum, Price, Graham & Morrison, 2020) and examining the Ecological influences on teachers' wellbeing and ‘fitness’ (Price & McCallum, 2015). However, given COVID-19 influences, wellbeing has risen in status, emerging as an essential pillar in educational philosophy, with evidence of the immense power of altruistic and pro-social acts such as habits of happiness and expressions of gratitude through community acts of helping one another.
What I love about this book is how Ash invites everyone, including students, parents/carers, educators, educational community members and himself, to take time to self-reflect on one's own wellbeing. That is, to appreciate the richness and learnings from life experiences, having a growth mindset and resilience in turning challenging experiences into positive opportunities, and taking time to recognise and acknowledge the strengths and contributions of those around them.
The positive wellbeing and educational outcomes of whole school, community, family and individual engagement with the strategies outlined in this book over recent years, is testament to Ash's advocacy and impact in scaffolding self-empowerment in responsibility of our own sustained wellbeing. Further, Ash promotes the significant benefits for self and others through supporting the wellbeing of significant others and expressing gratefulness for acts of kindness.
As you immerse yourself in these engaging chapters, Ash and I challenge you in continuing to build advocacy in championing the importance of wellbeing as fundamental to optimal learning, societal engagement and sustained wellbeing. An individual approach to wellbeing is important, however a collective commitment to self and others' wellbeing can ultimately foster a thriving and prosperous community.
We are grateful for your commitment to wellbeing of self and others and Ash provides practical suggestions throughout Growing with Gratitude.
Dr Deborah Price
Senior Lecturer Inclusive Education and Wellbeing
Research Degrees Coordinator
Centre for Research in Educational and Social Inclusion (CRESI) Education Futures, University of South Australia
President,Australian Curriculum Studies Association (ACSA)
INTRODUCTION
Hi Ash
We have had major issues at school lately with students having thoughts of suicide; we have increasing levels of self-harm and we have students trying to help each other and access support.
It is really becoming a massive concern. I have never, in my whole time at a school, had to support so many young people who are just dealing with such horrendous things, nor have I called ambulance and police so many times in one week before.
This is an extract from an actual email I received in June 2021 from a wellbeing coordinator at a high school (for the purpose of confidentiality, I won't name the school).
It's quite frightening, right?
Yet, I know for a fact that this is not a standalone case.
There are many other teachers, principals, educators — and parents — who have either experienced an escalating situation like this or are worried about experiencing one. Many of us report that we feel so utterly helpless when it comes to the mental health and wellbeing of our youngest, and most vulnerable, generation.
And who could blame us?
Over the past few years, we have been in and out of lockdowns; we've had interstate and overseas borders open and then close; jobs have been lost; vaccinations have been rolled out at record rates; sports have been suspended; and other social and community events have been impacted. All of this uncertainty and unrest has understandably affected our wellbeing like never before — and especially the mental health of our kids.
According to the United Nations Educational Scientific and Cultural Organisation (UNESCO), 1.38 billion — yes, billion — learners were impacted by school closures worldwide during the pandemic.
Meanwhile, latest statistics report that one in five parents or carers said they needed mental health and wellbeing support for their children. Of those, 73.2 per cent said they actually sought help. Yet, of those seeking help, 40.9 per cent said it was either difficult or very difficult to access mental health support.
Can you hear the alarm bells ringing?
There's no doubt that as an educator, a student, a parent, even a human being, times are challenging — and will continue to be. But there is hope.
As someone at the forefront of looking after our next generation, you have an amazing opportunity to create an environment that teaches and encourages students to practise adaptable thinking and emotional regulation to enhance children's resilience skills. You and the teams at your school can achieve this by setting up a strong, robust whole-school approach to positive education and wellbeing, and an environment where students and staff all feel they belong and can thrive.
Now, I won't lie. In the past this would have sounded like a lot of positive mumbo jumbo. But we've come a long way over the years.
In Australia, the BreakThrough Mental Health Research Foundation reported that 50 per cent of diagnosable mental illness onsets occur in children between the ages of 11 and 14; and 75 per cent of diagnosable mental illness onsets before age 24. So we know early intervention is crucial, and we're starting to make headway with the key role our schools play here.
Our education system now recognises the critical role that wellbeing programs play in our schools for the prevention of mental health issues. More and more schools are either looking for, or already have, a wellbeing program in place — which is great! But then how do we do this in a sustainable way so that it doesn't become the latest trend or ‘fad’?
This is the same question Principal Robert Hoff asked his leadership team at Immanuel Primary School in 2012. A year later (as I was heading into my ninth year of teaching at Immanuel) the school employed, for the first time, a part-time wellbeing leader. The role was created with the aim of implementing a wellbeing strategy across the whole school. And, by their own admission, it was a challenging task because this new person was coming in with a blank canvas and with very little knowledge of how to implement such an initiative.
As the 2013 school year came to an end, nothing consistent had really stuck. You could see the odd poster on walls around the school, every so often a resource was shared and occasionally an article was emailed to staff featuring the benefit of social and emotional learning. (If you've ever worked in a corporate office, I'm sure you'll recognise the ironic similarities between this and how company values are often introduced and expected to be taken up.)
Rolling into the new school year, I knew something had to change. Cases of anxiety were on the rise at the school due to friendship issues, lack of friends, academic pressure from parents and a growing number of changing family circumstances (such as divorce).
As I was on my daily run in Glenelg East — something that I had adopted into my own routine to take care of my mental health — I took a breather, standing there on a corner, washed over in adrenaline driven by passion and I said to myself, What if I combine what I know as a teacher with what I've learned for my own benefit in the space of positive psychology? Maybe I could not only help Immanuel Primary, but also a number of other schools implement their positive education programs.
You see, just like we learn to ride a bike, run or play a sport or musical instrument, we can learn and practise to be a more resilient and happier person — no matter our age, gender or background.
The skills themselves — such as gratitude, kindness, empathy, positive reflection, self-awareness and serving others — are not really anything new. You might even roll your eyes when you read this and think, Yeah, we've tried that before. For example, maybe you've already experimented with gratitude journaling, yet 12 months later you're at the same point and still struggling to keep on top of all the anxiety, bullying and behavioural issues.
You see, the real trick is to know and understand how to teach and apply these skills in a way that works for the people you're working with: our youngest and brightest minds. We may have made a great start, but we're stuck treating instead of preventing. And we don't realise that half the time our kids find this stuff boring, so it loses its desired benefit and then, of course, it's not going to stick!
With this rush of adrenaline, I upped the pace to one that Cliff Young would give the nod to, and swiftly ran the remaining 300 metres home. I immediately started researching ‘How to teach gratitude to young people’ and jotted down lesson ideas. And that was the start.
Since this moment in January 2014, I have been obsessed with and have dedicated a large part of my life to creating resources and a framework to help schools and teachers with how to integrate positive education in the classroom and across the whole school.
As a result of starting this passion project, Growing with Gratitude (GWG) was formed. The purpose of GWG is to help schools implement wellbeing programs as well as in-person student and teacher workshops and online programs. We have created a stack of activities, games, lessons and other resources to help schools integrate their wellbeing across the school, in the classroom and at home.
It's also important to note that schools, individuals and families are at different stages in their wellbeing journeys. Some schools have invested hundreds of thousands into their wellbeing journey, some may have started but are looking for new ideas and some are just starting out. Wherever you and your school are at, there's something in this book for you.
The work we've done in schools has impacted close to half a million students and helped more than 800 schools, and it has been accessed in 45 countries. We've helped teachers, wellbeing educators and others integrate daily and weekly routines in the classroom and across the whole school.
We've tried, practised and researched the numerous activities, lessons and games shared in this book, which will help you practise the skills of resilience needed for long-term consistency across different ages.
So, everything you'll read in this book is real, practical, actionable and, most importantly, achievable. It's an accumulation of my experience and decades of working with academics, wellbeing leaders, school leaders, families, carers and the students themselves to create fun and engaging resources, frameworks and systems.
I understand that teaching is a tough job and we know a lot is added to the curriculum and little taken away. I know this because I've been there and I get it. However, I'm also aware that you know the importance of teaching wellbeing skills to students, of helping the next generation of young people grow up in a culture that promotes gratitude, happiness and resilience so they can cope, no matter what.
Whether you've been on a positive education journey for some time, only recently started, are exploring the idea or if you are a curious parent or caregiver who'd love to develop a culture of gratitude at home, this is the book for you. It is your toolkit: a guide on how you can create a culture of gratitude in your classroom, around your whole school and in your home.
What if, in 15 years’ time, we look back and see a decrease in mental health issues? In bullying? In anxiety? In self-harm? The only way this is possible is if we reset and teach young people skills as early as possible that will assist them in dealing with challenges: skills that help them be adaptable thinkers, be self-aware and take ownership. I'm not saying by any means it will wipe out mental health issues altogether. As we know, mental health is very complicated, with many layers. But what we also know is the early years are critical in the development of a young person's brain, as well as for forming habits and skill development.
Today more than ever we need to stop just analysing the data and make things happen.
Now it's time to act and take the steps to implement a wellbeing or positive education curriculum across your school so that, together, we can equip the next generation with the skills they need to help them move forward through whatever life throws at them.
There's no time to waste.
Ash
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
You can't expect to master your tennis serve the first time you practise it, and the same goes for the skills you're about to learn — and learn to implement — in this book.
This is why everything you're about to read has been designed for you to add to your own practical toolkit: one that you can keep drawing on over time. Within these pages, you'll find activities, games and ideas that you can adopt and experiment with in the classroom, across your whole school and also, importantly, at home. There are plenty of real case stories to show you how others have done the same. You'll even pick up some things you can adapt and practise in your workplace!
My suggestion for working through this book is to keep it simple and achievable. You don't need to wait until everything is perfect to start your wellbeing practice. Simply add to what you're already doing in the classroom and across your school, and expand from there.
Ideas are great, but they mean nothing without execution. So, I encourage you to choose a couple of things that resonate with you as you read, and start to action them immediately.
As you're about to see, positive education means we need to all be working together. Our future, and the future health of our next generation, depend on it.
It's also a good idea to share what you learn from this book with others, perhaps in a dedicated staff meeting, so you can start to work out ways to implement the bigger and more consistent concepts together.
You can download my free Resource Pack of all the games and activities in this book — and much more — from book.growingwithgratitude.com.au.
Keep this Resource Pack handy to draw on whenever you need — for example, when you have a spare few minutes to throw in a game before class ends or lunch begins.
Let's get into it!
CHAPTER 1Why Growing with Gratitude?
I grew up in a sports-mad family. We had a table-tennis table set up in our parachute-lined-ceiling shed in Happy Valley, a southern suburb of Adelaide, and I loved to play with my mum Bev, dad Mark and sister Toni. We'd have a hit and then crouch around our little TV to watch sport: usually footy, cricket or basketball.
