How to Make Him Commit to You Easily In 7 Days E-Book

James F. Peterson

• Herausgeber: James F. Peterson
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2023

Beschreibung

Are you beat from trying to get a man to commit to you? Does it feel like you've looked under every rock for the man that wants you for the rest of his life? Are you tired of being "in a relationship" and fear that your relationship will never make it to the next "step"?

If you answered "YES!" to any of these questions, you've come to the right place! With years of relationship expertise under the belt, it's easy to say that one of the biggest obstacles women come across in relationships is "Get Him to Commit" obstacle.

Solutions to commitment issues are never straightforward or simple. Men are notorious for "commitment phobia" and it seems to be an increasing trend in today's society for various reasons.

First of all, don't ever let your man, or anyone else for that matter, convince you that a healthy, relationship in which two people are "content", is acceptable you're your "forever". If you are a woman who believes in marriage (which is VERY normal), stand strong in your beliefs.

Men with commitment issues, and/or fears of committing to one person for the rest of their life, will often make comments like the following:

• "Why do why need to get married honey? Isn't our relationship perfect right now?"
• "If it's not broken, don't fix it!"
• "Look at our friends… as soon as they got married – their relationship went downhil!"

If you're trying to get your man to commit, it's likely you've heard statements like these from him. Don't let this type of response derail you from your goal. These statements form "walls" that men try to hide behind. Remind yourself that this is a defensive mechanism that men with fears of commitment use.

Prevent yourself from thinking, "Forget it, I'll never get him to commit!" These types of thoughts are toxic and will only make it harder for you to get him to commit….

Instead of thinking you'll never get him to commit, you need to start learning proven strategies that encourage men to commit! Yes, relationship experts have dealt with this problem for decades and have compiled different strategies that can be implemented to off set this frustrating relationship obstacle!

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HOW TO MAKE HIM TO COMMIT TO YOU EASILY IN 7 DAYS

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The Ultimate Guide to Getting a Man to Commit to You Forever

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James F. Peterson

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Published by James F. Peterson

© 2023 United States of America

All rights reserved. The contents within this book may not be reproduced, duplicated or modified without direct written permission from the author or publisher.

Table of Contents

Title Page

Copyright Page

DEDICATION

DISCLAIMER

INTRODUCTION

PART I: IS HE COMMITMENT PHOBIC?

The Trigger

Phobia Styles

PART II: STAND OUT FROM THE PACK: Traits Men Crave in a Woman

Contrasting Qualities

Challenge of wanting to tame you

Take on a motherly role

Activate the hero instinct

PART III: THE COMMITMENT TRIP

Are you moving too fast?

Stop deliberating about commitment

Stop with the giving

Keep your options wide open

Talk after your established timeframe

PART IV: LET THE CHASE BEGIN

You are the prize

Don’t be so accessible too early

Let him initiate contact most of the time

Never act exclusive with him... yet

Don’t be head over heels

Be ready to walk away

CONCLUSION

DEDICATION

I dedicate this book to my family and friends, but most importantly, to my lovely wife. Thank you for your support. May this book bless everyone that reads it.

DISCLAIMER

Please note the information contained in this book is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

This book is written with the understanding that neither author nor the publisher is engaged in presenting professional advice.

By reading this document, the reader agrees that he/she is solely responsible for any action or view taken from the information shared in this book.

INTRODUCTION

Time is marching on, and no one is getting any younger.

Chances are you're ready to commit to a future together, a life of total love and devotion, but still, you can't get him to commit – something is holding him back.

How do you get him to commit to you when you don't know what more he wants – what else must you do to convince him that you are made for each other?

You've been told that guys are different, don't think like you, only after sex, have no feelings, don't understand love, and don't want to commit to a relationship, etc.

Well, a lot of it is pretty close to the truth.

Guys don't think or behave like you, but they do want the same relationship you seek.

You might have found your Mr. Right but haven't yet figured out how to get the guy to commit to a long loving relationship with you.

It's not that complicated when you know a few little secrets about men, little known secrets that men don't seem to know about themselves.

Let's not beat about the bush – Men are different, and to be honest, they're pretty simple creatures.

If you tell a man you like him, you have a reasonably good chance to like you back. He will probably even really love you but still not be ready to commit.

Have you ever tried to be subtle with a man?

Chances are he missed the point. They need to have things spelled out to them – slowly is best!

And subtlety does work, but only if you disguise it from him!

These simple traits in men, and the more complicated subtleties and nuances of women go back to our core roots – our basic "animal instincts".

From time immemorial, man's basic instinct is that of a provider; he had to be fast, strong, dependable, and the best hunter, which also allows him to be the pick of the "crop" and selecting the woman that best compliment his skills.

A man is wired to find the woman who best fits his purpose, and he'll commit to her till death once he finds her.

Women have the same desires - to have the healthiest family who are well taken care of (fed, housed, nurtured, etc.)

To achieve this meant finding the best male available and then to get that guy to commit to her at all costs – it guaranteed the safety and survival of her and her family's future.

This basic urge remains to this day. However, times have changed; therefore, the game has changed.

Nowadays, we no longer hunt, but instead hang out in pubs, bars, restaurants, shopping malls, nights, etc. and many places that don't help us determine the real character of a person – male or female.

With the internet and social media prevalent today, men can get or be what they want in a snap. You get what you want mainly by marriage in the olden days, but now, you can get with apps like tinder and many more.

Today, men have the home court advantage, which leaves you ladies with several types of men e.g, the player, the commitment-phobe, the confused.

With that in mind, despite loving you, it's not enough for a guy to commit to you. That is because of specific mental roadblocks that continue to rule him and hold him back from fully committing to a relationship.

This book aims to explore some of these mental roadblocks that stop men from seeking the commitment that their very nature is predisposed to – Having a woman by their side.

The book helps you to dismantle these obstacles easily, and in the process of taking care of these blocks, your man will be compelled to commit to the next step in the relationship.

Whether that next step is a second date, being asked out as a permanent partner, or getting married – he cannot help himself, it is in his DNA.

Wouldn't you like to know what is holding you back (actually it's holding him back) and how easy it is to overcome?

Or do you want to be in a relationship in which you have invested a lot of time only to find it ends in heartbreak?

After which, it's back on to the dating merry- go- round where you end up in yet another BTA (better than alone) relationship. This situation doesn't have to be the case.