Matrix for the beginners E-Book

Iren Kuzmi

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• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2022

Beschreibung

IREN KUZMI. A businesswoman, traveler, and psychologist. In this book, she shares her successful experiences in doing and developing business. You will receive unique knowledge, which was gained during 25 years of working with finances and running a company. A powerful scientific basis is connected with non-standard methods based on ancient and time-proven approaches to the life of a human in all its manifestations. You will find out how you could learn to take the right actions and — what’s important — take them at the right time. Any business has favorable moments, which must be correctly chosen to guarantee a high chance of success. The author had traveled to 78 countries in the world and had received 3 higher degrees to find the keys of destiny, which could be practically used to reach success. It is fashionable today to do biohacking and find ways to prolong active life. What if we could hack our destiny in the same manner and implement the most complex tasks? It is important to find the proper place and time to do that. The most important discoveries are always made at the junction of sciences. The author of the book offers a recipe for how to get the most out of your life by using business knowledge, psychology, and esotericism.

Leseprobe

Iren Kuzmi

Matrix for the beginners

It is a book for those who want to ‘hack’ their destiny and bring out the best in the offered circumstances.IREN KUZMI 

Inhaltsverzeichnis

Foreword

Introduction

1. An intelligent person and an alien world around them

2. Opportunities as they are

3. The bad and what’s good about it

4. Spiritual, personality development courses, and other…

5. Information world: blessing or curse?

6. Opportunities and complexities

7. Receiving knowledge and understanding

8. Sade Sati

9. Numerology

10. Family constellations by Hellinger

11. Holotropic Breathwork

12. The specificity of knowledge

13. Practicality and usefulness

14. Order and accounting

15. Employees and motivation

16. Fines and teambuilding

17. Vendors

18. Consumers

19. Competitors

20. Tax service, firefighters, sanitary and epidemiological service, and other “really helpful” guys

21. For our lovely ladies

22. Deadlock and the need to develop

23. Success?

24. How I work

25. Changes in life

Impressum

MATRIX

FOR THE

BEGINNERS

IREN KUZMI

Copyright © 2022 IREN KUZMI

All rights reserved.

ISBN-13

It is a book for those who want to ‘hack’ their destiny and bring out the best in the offered circumstances.

IREN KUZMI

Foreword

I started writing this book before the war invasion of Russia to Ukraine overthrew the world and started to create new rules. Looking at everything I have written in this book, however, I see that nothing of that has lost its actuality. Even vice versa. My book has become even more necessary for those people who would like to be on top of a new world together with their own achievements and successes.

The dominant influence of propaganda, which is thrown into the masses by all visible and yet invisible parts of the non-proclaimed war confuses many people and does not allow them to effectively use the standard tools. Any, even very small informational noise brings dissonance. Today, though, we are the beholders and participants of a huge information hurricane, where we, despite everything, have to live, strive for results, and move towards our goals. 

Even more — it isn’t that easy to keep the goal itself in mind. Egregors of many large organizations and unions try their best to make your attention, power, and energy flow within their line of energy movement. And for this, new goals are industriously imposed on everyone who is weaker, but those new goals are actually important only to egregors as such.

To avoid getting into such processes and to be stronger than everything, which tries to push on every one of us, one has to act wisely and decisively. I offer a tool of hacking destiny to all people who are ready to win and gain a happy and independent life. This tool is universal, verified in practice, and available to anyone who is ready to take steps towards success after reading this book and who then tries to apply the received knowledge in practice.

Introduction

“Mr. Demon Fallenangel! You have a new flock of volunteers!” Alina, the secretary, was, as always, full of precaution and hellishly at the wrong time. Her boss, comfortably sitting in the chair of the World’s Biggest Boss, was trying to pass another devilishly complicated level of some super-sophisticated mobile game. He was terribly bad at this, though. Every time he lost, he heard a mocking melody, denoting that the game, as they say, is over.

Throwing the mobile phone away in irritation, he commanded, “Okay, get me those…”

“Volunteers,” Alina reminded.

“Yeah, those.”

A flock of energetic people rushed into his office. Good-looking, sleeky, well-dressed. One could see inquisitive minds in their eyes; the decisiveness seen on their faces clearly denoted the readiness to fight and overcome everything and everyone on their way, including Mr. Demon himself.

A truce envoy parted from the flock of uninvited guests and handed the master of the office a piece of paper with some text written on it. Mr. Demon was already aged so he couldn’t get into the essence of the message without his glasses. The only thing he immediately spotted is that the paper contained too many exclamation points.

The truce envoy guy persistently waved the “document” in front of his eyes, “Here. Take it and sign your copy. We demand you do it immediately!”

Mr. Demon shrugged and touched the piece of paper. It immediately inflamed and burned to the ground. Alina, standing behind his back, sighed heavily, “I should vacuum-clean again.” Her boss was avaricious and he refused to hire a housemaid. 

Meanwhile, Mr. Demon pronounced instructively, “The form #3387 Em-Ef. All documents handed to me should be exclusively on the stone or iron carrier! Wood, leather, papyrus burn down to the hell faster than lightning.”

Saying that the Master of Evil, wondering where he could sign for receipt, took the second copy of the paper, which immediately went down in flames the same as its predecessor did. The flock was watching the remnants of the burnt paper in bewitchment. Alina muttered something ending with “…uck”.

The truce envoy guy turned back in hurry and rejoined the flock of the allies. They started actively but muffled discuss something. Finally, the guy went back to Mr. Demon, saying, “Then I’ll say it. We demand you immediately send us to Earth! It’s time to stop this insane bacchanalia!!!”

 The master of office wonderingly stared at the speaking fellow.

“What exactly bacchanalia do you mean?”

The truce envoy guy looked back, receiving a silent approval of his flock, and responded, “We looked at this planet to explore the composition of its inhabitants.

Nearly all of them are goofy, stupid, and hesitate to explore the world they live in. The only reason why it might be so with the potentially smart creatures is that you send there the goofiest ones. We have gathered a group of gifted representatives of Homo S. and we’re ready to make the change of Earth once and for all. We plan to evenly spread across the planet and put the end to a disgraceful tradition, which was initiated by dishonorable demons.”

The “dishonorable” sighed heavily. Those beautiful people literally radiated powerful, pure energy of genius and hunger to make the changes. He recalled 12 such groups just in this century. He used to send only the best of the best to Earth about 2 millennia ago and they all ended sadly — some were eaten, some degraded to the level of locals and started to eat everyone themselves.

He really wanted to stop at least those. Explain to them that Mother Earth won’t accept clever and active, that exactly such people find it the heaviest to be on Earth. But, heck! He was already called “dishonorable”, his life’s work was called “bacchanalia”… Mr. Demon felt sadness. He was trying so hard and they came here to offend him.

 At this moment, his phone squeaked, reminding him of the time of another attempt to try to beat the ill-fated level. Mr. Demon had a tangible internal struggle of offense and the desire to play, on the one hand, and his consciousness, on the other hand. He chose to make an effort and try to stop the new doomed people but as soon as he opened his mouth, the truce envoy guy unceremoniously and boldly interrupted him.

“And don’t try to fool us around! We won’t believe your false words. We will change the world no matter what!”

Mr. Demon shrugged and waved away in the gesture of giving up, saying to Alina, “Give them the paper. Let them go to Earth.”

The flock rushed outside the office and he snorted them goodbye, “The world changers…” 

After that, he approached his table to grab the phone. Along the way, he figured out how he could deceive the game, after all, and his mood immediately improved. Mr. Demon took his phone and launched the app, crooning the song with a line of words deliberately changed, “Don't succumb to a changing world. It will break you a thousand times…”

1. An intelligent person and an alien world around them

Aperson able to think and analyze might have a feeling of alienation from the world and society around them. No wonder – their approach, desires, and goals could contravene many things that are around us.

A thinker thinks. You think. This is not as widespread activity as one might guess. The overwhelming part of people prefers to use their brains very little and very selectively as if they fear they might spoil the brains with too much load. 

And where you might feel the need to stop for a moment and analyze the situation, another person, as they tell in an old joke, “don’t think, just jump,” would assuredly proceed and mess around everything with their little knowledge, making silly mistakes.

While you will be doing something cleverer, you again won’t match most people. The overwhelming majority has long ago chosen the simplest possible approach to “dig from the fence and up to lunch.” No unnecessary thinking, no regrets. You, unlike them, with your desire to do clever things and actions, trying to reach high goals, would look, at best, insane.

The dumbest people might tense their brain and mutter something like, “Are you the cleverest or what?” denoting in such a manner their absolute disagreement with your striving not for the same things, for which thoughtless inert people strive.

You would want something completely different, thus, forcing yourself into discomfort, loneliness, and — as I have already mentioned — alienation. Many social requests won’t find a response in your soul, and there is no one to speak about your thoughts with. Saying them aloud, you’d receive at best irritation and incomprehension from the people around you.

Looking through that prism at the world around them, people lose faith that their goals might be reached and that life could become beauteous in all its manifestations. This is not surprising — for every action, there is a counter-action. No matter who exactly has actually started to treat their other part of life as something alien, whether it was you or it was society. In either case, this process gave birth to its mirrored reflection — and so, all participants of this process already treat one another as something “incorrect”. This makes it extremely hard to reach any success under such conditions. It is very hard to implement your desires and tasks when nothing surrounding you is your friend, looking at you the same as you look at it: as an alien that has strange, not understandable goals.

It is possible that someone says he or she actually is able to remain to be a thinking person and do great with society. I won’t say it is impossible. But the most part of such statements is nothing but self-deception. Either such a person would groundlessly see oneself as a real person, who strives for thinking and analysis, either the “pink glasses” of such a person are so irreversibly spitted by everyone around that he or she really can’t see anything through those.

The feeling of alienation as is — is a much more frequent occasion than one might think. It is quite possible that a person in the hustle and bustle of everyday work and house chores won’t fixate on it. But if you, in this very second, stop and recall the past week you have had, you would surely stumble upon some episode, where you wouldn’t accept some processes or wouldn’t want to be their part. This could be some global world events or some local moments in your society. Please, note that every time you have had such a refusal to accept something alien, it was exactly that moment when you “turned on your head” and started to analyze everything from your personal point of view.

By initiating such a topic, I would definitely like to form a question in the heads of many people, “What should you do with it in the first place?” There are many answers to it and all of them are right and wrong at the same time.

At first glance, a good option might be to “detach” from all those alien moments and keep living your life, according to your plan or mission — whatever it is you’re having. This is a position of a very strong and, at the same time, very weak, even cowardly, person. True indifference to the world around us could be demonstrated only by those, who are so much higher than they really can’t be affected by anything at all. As they say, “Those who ignore are invulnerable.”

Along with that, there are only a tiny fraction of such people in the world. The rest are those who expressively demonstrate their indifference or even neglect to everything around; they, however, are simply afraid to counter-interact anyhow. Approach such a person simply on the street and punch them right in the face — they’ll keep walking as if nothing happened, having the same look as they had right before the punch because such a person really can’t give a required response.

Besides, a thinking person is not always the strongest person. I’m telling you that based on my experience of working with people. I have seen many cases when a client of mine, having a brisk and even powerful mind wasn't able to use it as a tool of struggle. They don’t know how, they aren’t ready to do it and thus, they have no practice in doing so. Such people would often require, first of all, to work on their understanding of what they have before I could start helping them gain something new.

One should understand that “detaching” from everyone is not as simple as it might seem at first glance. One should be more powerful than many circumstances and processes, which are around such a “detached” person. And one should be in such a detachment every day, every second of one’s life. And this goes not only for the obvious processes. 

What we see is only a tiny fraction of a huge iceberg. Everything that’s happening around us would invisibly but continuously somehow affect us on a daily basis. This is a more dangerous and deceptive process, which can win when other methods are ineffective. So, in order to “detach”, one should immerse oneself in the condition of permanent awareness and active thinking. Otherwise, that part of an iceberg that’s hidden under the water, acting like an invisible but constant pressure on you would hit through your armors so you would, repeating the destiny of the legendary Titanic, sink, approaching the level of everyone floating around you, from whom you so fiercely wanted to “detach”.

One could, of course, opt for the way of desperate and merciless struggle for mutual destruction. The question is that the world is huge, there are many people in it, and you surely can’t win in this struggle. In fact, things are much more complicated and easier at the same time.

Mindless and unprepared counteraction to the external, alien processes could have various consequences, including not the best ones. Let’s begin with the fact that the resource of every person is not endless. Surely, you could, as if an action hero, make a joke that you need to quit smoking, right after you’re shot with a bullet because it is bad for your health. But, honestly, let’s leave the action and superhero movies to young and romantic people, who haven’t started doing anything in their lives yet. To the rest of us, who have remained, regardless of their age and status, in the world of romantic and invulnerable shot superheroes, I recommend taking a needle and prick yourself with it, as hard as you dare, in the place, which you use to sit. Do you feel this pain? Well, imagine that — a bullet is a much more painful and dangerous thing.

Analogically to that, things happen in life. A struggle is a conflict. Even if you win, you should have born some casualties, temporary ones, at least. At the moment when you fight windmills, you neither earn money, knowledge nor realize your projects in your favor.

Also, the position of struggling with everything in the world deprives you of possibilities. You should see and understand the things around you to use them in your favor. Some people see a truck of manure only as a source of a bad smell while others see it as a heap of natural fertilizer. Thus, if you consider everything around you only as a bad smell, you miss all the possibilities.

So, an ever-going struggle against everyone is not an option. A conflict with people around you, principal denial of everything you could reach aren’t constructive or helpful; but you could slip into this pit very quickly and effortlessly.

How additionally one could interact with anything “alien” and unnecessary in their lives? I’ll reply in the words of a classic, “Frost and sun; a wonderful day!” You could not interact at all. Such an approach also has its nuances. Someone might try the option of disengaging from the world he or she lives in. Trying to adopt the alien nature of the world and “detach” as max as they could from everything that exists in the world. Not getting into the things, thus, securing oneself from the world’s influence. That is, mildly put, not the best option. In this case, one has similar difficulties that I have already covered above. 

We shouldn’t act radically. Like going to a deep forest and living there in a cave. In the rest of the cases, one couldn’t banally turn on the “detachment” from the world. Still, we should every day interact with society. And here we have a choice: either we do it in our favor or to our detriment. Any person, adequate enough, would choose benefit. It is a completely normal process. It shouldn’t be otherwise. But how you then could benefit from a process, from which you have “detached” and which you don’t understand? The answer is simple: you can’t.

You can’t refrain from the world also because of another reason: it can give birth to the feeling of loneliness. Given all the bravado of those who seemingly don’t give a damn, I can reassure you that my entire psychological practice reveals one thing: many people in the world hate loneliness and so they try to avoid it. 

So what you could do if you feel alienation from society and the world around you? First of all, don’t try to assess it anyhow. The circumstances are such that it is not someone’s fault. But think of one thing: the reason why you don’t adopt many things from the outside is that you are a thinking person. That’s surely not a bad thing. Trying to blame society is a thankless job. What’s the point to blame a rock because it is hard or water because it is wet? You might additionally quarrel with earth’s gravity to feel completely stupid.

You should simply adopt the fact of the alien world as something that simply exists. It exists, it won’t go anywhere, and — looking ahead — I can tell there is nothing too horrendous about it. It is simply a natural process for any developed man, who is a unique and one-of-a-kind person. People like you have never existed, there is no one like you now, and never will be. So, it is absolutely normal that your life is having some unique processes, which only you a part of. A person’s successful path is also something unique, where there is no conveyor or complete copying of someone’s path.

Secondly, by adopting the fact as is, you should finally focus on yourself. You should pay attention to YOUR goals and tasks. Imagine, how huge resources you’d free if you stop wasting efforts you were wasting on reflecting on the alien nature of everything around you. It would be a quite generous bonus, which you could receive from redirecting a vector of your attention, which’s able to turn you, a clever and capable person, into some sort of superhuman. You should wisely redistribute your efforts — from making problems to directing yourself to the movement towards your dreams or, at least, to satisfy your desires.

Thirdly, you should learn how to interact with society. If you think, I’m going to tell you the well-known truths that you should build yourself into society and akin, then I would disappoint you. Such an approach is adopted by many of my colleagues but I stick with a different approach.

Think of it — why then would I write to you so much text about the value of such a unique person like you? To try then to push you back like another faceless brick into the wall of the same species? That would be a very illogical and — I am not afraid of this word — dumb approach. It would be the same as, for instance, eating a cake after every visit to a nutritionist or throwing a loud party with lots of alcohol after every visit to alcoholics anonymous.

So, I have already told you and I will say it once again: don’t try to fit in. I think, such a path wouldn’t lead you anywhere, where you would like to be.

So, what’s the alternative that I could offer? Position yourself aside from the public processes and watch them with a scientific and practical approach. Yes, it is alien. Yes, it is not yours. So why would you treat it as something close to you? Simply accept the fact of existence and don’t give in to the influence. This way, you will not allow the whirling flow of life to attract you along, depriving you of any initiative and the possibility to manage your destiny. 

What I would also like to pay your attention to is that I’m telling you to set yourself aside from the processes, not above them. First of all, you’d spend much effort to put yourself higher than the rest. You should give a lot of time to the question of why they are below you and you’re above them. This will lead you to completely different results that you might need. Pure pride didn’t help anyone yet. Also, flowing high above the rest, we stop hearing and understanding them. Try to climb a high mountain and try to hear what people down there are telling, what their lives are. And the most important thing: try to make them hear you. You won’t succeed. You will not have any mutual understanding. And this will lead you to the already mentioned danger.

That’s why it is important to look at everything from the side, not from the top. You would be in minimal dependence on the processes but with a finger on the pulse. 

Telling about being a viewer, I don’t mean you should be a passive beholder of everything around you. I’m telling you not to be a part of unnecessary processes; instead, try to learn how to manage problems and solve issues with maximum efficacy. 

When I am working with a particular person, trying to help reach their goals, I call this process “hacking”. It is a specific approach, which can overturn the life of any person and gain much profit. To do that, one should concentrate on a completely new attitude toward the world and their own path.

One shall try to “hack” the destiny. This might give new information, new opportunities, and new life. The course of many processes changes while you have something superfluous and harmful exiting your life. Instead, you gain something new, maximally efficient, and useful. This all overturns your life, building a unique matrix. You don’t fit society — you fit a happy and wonderful life.

And to do that, you have to hack destiny. Don’t be afraid to change. Don’t be afraid of the possibility to be a happy person. And do for that a sequence of actions so as to be able to tell yourself after, “I feel so good and my life is so great!”

If you are at that point one day, you definitely shall try hacking. With me or with some other specialist. But you, undoubtedly, shall do it. Also, the very basis of success is to keep doing something all the time. It is a very harmful thing to remain where you are, feeling that this world is not yours.

In addition to that, a stop is just the first step on the way to losses and defeats. The course of time and life itself will cut you through and push on you, washing out your base. It will put pressure on you until you completely surrender and become an inert body, which the careless water of life would carry along with the flow, periodically bumping on the rocks and rigid shore. 

Doing nothing, giving in to society, indifferent about you, you, sooner or later, lose something very important — your own landmarks and understanding of what it is you want. Turning away from your unique path, you won’t reach your goals but you might only beat around the bush of goals of other people. In such conditions, you could only do the right motion if accidentally lucky. But let me ask you, how much money have you won in a casino? Could you count on having winnings every day? I stand for conscious movement and a clear understanding of what you need. And my approach is effective because it gives higher chances of faster and more effective gaining of what you strive for.

So, I’ll repeat: destiny hacking is a necessity for every person. This process will affect all manifestations of our life. 

1.1. How Alina went on vocation

“Mr. Demon Fallenangel, haven’t you forgotten about the flowers?”

Mr. Demon jumped in surprise, “Why are you creeping up to me like that, monster? You made my heart nearly stop!”

“Just for the sake of justice, Mr. Demon Fallenangel, I’d like to pay attention that the ‘monster’ here is you. And you have 4 hearts, by the way. So if one stops, nothing frightening is going to happen. Also, I was not creeping up — it was you who, putting it mildly, was really seriously pondering about your demonic business. And you were pondering about it with your eyes closed, making the noise, suspiciously similar to the snoring of a demon.”

Mr. Demon grumbled in response, “You’re disgustingly into the things and your ears are too big… Whatcha need?” 

Alina persistently repeated, “The flowers.”

Mr. Demon barked, losing his temper, “What, for the sake of hell, flowers?!”

Dragons that were flying around the office at this very same moment scarily soared up. The nearby building was deprived of its windows. Everything around froze in horror. But not Alina. She calmly corrected her hair, combing a strand of burnt hairs, responding, “The flowers that you should take care of while I’m on vacation.”

Mr. Demon Fallenangel flared up in earnest, “What, for the sake of hell, vacation?!”

An acoustic wave of his roar hit all fleeing dragons to the ground. After their painful landing they, screaming in fright, surprisingly fast ran away on their short and fat feet.

Alina didn’t want to surrender, “I have a law-prescribed vacation. Two weeks. I’m flying away. Someone has to water the flowers.”

Puzzled Mr. Demon stared at her, “What about me? Who will bring me coffee, newspapers, and read me… what is it called… Undernet?”

Alina wearily corrected him not for the first time already, “It is called the Internet. Nobody. Everyone who replaced me was either burned or eaten by you. Nobody wants to anymore.”

Mr. Demon started to run in circles in his office, “Then don’t go on vacation! I won’t allow you!”

Alina firmly answered, “You don’t have the right to do that. The law prescribes me the right to have a vacation.”

Mr. Demon grumbled, offended, “Then why does everyone have a vacation and I don’t?”

Alina responded, “Because I work. And I have the rights and possibilities, which are granted to me by society and the Labor Code. And you don’t work. You are a ruler, so you aren’t granted anything. You haven’t figured out to give yourself a vacation. Also, you declared that you would rule forever. And (making a parody on her boss), you told that ‘your reign would not interrupt even for a second’. So, you keep ruling without interruptions — and I’ll fly to the Maldives.”

Puzzled, Mr. Demon scratched his right horn, “So, like, ah… I might indeed have blundered,” and, after a sad sigh, he added, “Okay, show me what I shall water…”

2. Opportunities as they are

Everyone has three conditional batches of opportunities. The first one was given for granted when we were born. We notice it very rarely in everyday life because we did not apply any effort to get it. It is hard to realize the true value of the first package but I always recall air in such cases. It was also granted to us when we were born but we don’t even think of it until it is there. 

The second batch of opportunities is granted by society. Things are much more complicated here. Given the existing opportunities, we pretty often experience hardships with their implementation. They are given to many, so everyone wants to squeeze out as much as he or she can from those, forcing us to enter the competition.

Finally, the third batch. What has been won and suffered for is of special importance for us: the opportunities that we have gained ourselves. This is what we feel and understand the best. However, to be honest, this batch might be not the most valuable thing we’re having.

2.1. All efforts are in vain

“Alina!! Alina, fricking hey!”

Alina raised her eyebrows. If Mr. Demon Fallenangel starts swearing, something extraordinary must have happened. The last time it happened was when her boss found out she had prolonged her vacation and he should water the flowers for another week. She stood up with hesitation and walked towards the office of her boss, who was seriously saddened by something. Entering the office, she asked the most obligingly, “Did you call me, Mr. Demon Fallenangel?”

He jumped up and screamed at her in the outburst, “What, in the shiznit bum, is happening?”

The secretary batted her eyelashes innocently, “Are you asking about something specific or about life in general?”

Mr. Demon took a pile of papers from his desk, “Here! Read it.”

Alina started to execute the will of her boss, “A woman, who was abandoned by her husband, had discovered her entrepreneurial talent and has earned her first million.”

Mr. Demon cried out loud, “Why, in the name of doggone hell, I was putting under her husband various… women with low social responsibility?! She supposed to suffer, not become a genius businesswoman!”

Alina kept reading, “A broke businessman went to mountains to end his life by throwing himself off the high cliff. On his way, he met his old love, whom he lost, as he thought, forever. ‘We have never been so happy as on this day,’ commented the beloved couple.” 

Mr. Demon started to shout again, “Why in the heck, I was working for? I’m asking you! I specifically put her to work in the mountains so they never meet one another. Why that dude had decided to go there in the first place? Look at them! They were supposed to suffer, not smile. Why am I doing all these things, in a crappy hell? Am I the Master of Evil or what?”

Alina put the newspapers aside. Keeping reading about the rest of the people who let her boss down was, probably, not the best decision. He lately had problems with blood pressure. So why would she give him more stress? She replied gently and soothingly, “Well, that’s how the Universe works. Any minus can become a plus. Any loss — an opportunity. Any limitation — a new life path.”

Mr. Demon sighed heavily, “But I can’t work in such conditions. So, am I doing everything in vain?” 

Alina responded, “I don’t know the answer to this question. But I surely know that this world has something good for you, too. For instance, chocolate and cocoa.”

Mr. Demon asked with hope, “And the boiled condensed milk?”

Alina nodded to him in agreement. Mr. Demon in gesture gave in to the papers, “Oh, hell with it. Bring me those treats.”

Peace and calmness in the Demon’s kingdom were restored. For the whole 20 minutes.

3. The bad and what’s good about it

Speaking of opportunities for every one of us, I can’t ignore the restrictions, which are also inseparable partners of our lives. And there are several types of those. 

There are those, which we put on ourselves. These are the consequences of our own internal system of coordinates. Based on it exactly, we limit ourselves voluntarily in these or that processes, saying to ourselves, “I can’t!” Everyone has his or her own limits. Someone forbids having more, someone less but the fact is that they all have one common thing: we enter into a conflict when we break these restrictions. 

There are restrictions, which are imposed on us from outside. They have various sources, like government, society, or some specific people. These are easier to be broken during the internal dialogue but there can be punishment. Anyway, the force that puts the restrictions on us is more powerful than we are. And you have to deal with it. 

Just like the possibilities, the restrictions exist in different formats at the same time, forming a peculiar mosaic of the picture of life. Their composition at certain points creates the turning moments of fate. This is a sort of a crossroads, and choosing one of the directions of it, you begin to move towards the best or worst scenario.

This is a moment of choice and acceptance of decisions, which has one very pesky nuance: not having the necessary knowledge, you could very rarely see, into what life scenario you’re pertly moving. Someone is helped by intuition in that but, as a person, who helps develop it, I can firmly assert that using this tool without special knowledge can’t be effective. 

So in order to move normally to your life destinations, you have to make the right choice when it is necessary, for which, you have to hack your destiny. This is a wonderful tool, which allows totally change your life, turning from the person who’s strolling in the darkness into a charged and knowledgeable rocket, which is speedily rushing towards the implementation of your most daring goals.

Surely, you could increase the volume of your knowledge, bring here some philosophy, some higher matter, but I wouldn’t like to complicate things. Anything that every person operates must be maximally simple. Thus, one would make fewer mistakes and any possible complications would turn into the simplicity of the implementation. That’s why I work with fate hacking, which practically should lead you to one simple achievement — you should choose the best possible scenario in every turning point. That is the main idea. Or, it’s more like ideology, which starts a brand new approach and result. 

Imagine you’re living in a world, where all important and thoughtful actions lead to the fact that everything becomes better than it was. It’s not like you’re living a good life, which you have gained out of nowhere; instead, you fully understand that this is the result of your correct decisions and actions. What a wonderful goal! And you really should strive for it.

Your actions will have a completely different weight since every one of them will give a specific and desirable result. Every successful turn can completely change everything. Imagine — for instance — as a woman with high communicative abilities uses them only to chat with her female friends. The rest of the time, she leads a life of a respectable housewife, fully immersing herself in her family, and not realizing her own talents. I would like to refrain from judging her choice. There are a lot of “judges” of everything around. I’m only speaking about the realization of her own abilities. Thanks to her talent, this woman is able to perfectly build relations with her family, friends, or with a cashier in the nearest supermarket. That’s life, too. That’s also the realization of talent. But it’s not the fullest realization of it, however.

As an alternative, we might consider the same woman but this time, she was able to realize her communicative abilities much wider. If she does everything correctly, she, for instance, changes her life in some of the turning points. Some number of correct actions — and, after some time, this woman is a CEO of some large company, like Oriflame. Do you think, it is unreal? Trust me, things are much simpler as they might seem! She has a high-level skill. What she has to do right now is to apply it correctly, move in the right direction a few times, and the result is achieved! The question is what exactly should push the woman to change her life. And here the things come into play, which isn’t always good.

An example of something bad, as it might seem at first glance, can be the following situation. A businessman is pressed by the controlling bodies of a country. A “control shot” in his head is a huge fine, given by the tax authorities. 

This is a turning point, too. At first glance, this businessman’s position is completely hopeless. Limits, which are imposed by the state machine, can crush absolutely anyone. This entire process, one way or another, makes an imprint on the rest of the vitally important processes. Looking at such a hopeless situation, a businessman could adopt the decision, which seems quite obvious: stop his entrepreneurship. It might solve some problems but… Where did he turn and what is waiting for him there?

One thing is to set back to preliminarily prepared positions (if any) and a completely different approach is to simply run nowhere. It’s not excluded that after passing this turn, fleeing from the situation in panic, our businessman could get to someplace, where it would only be worse.

It is necessary to adopt the fact that the bad things that have happened are not the reason to make your life worse. This is a new turn, new possibilities. The businessman might opt for a turn, leading to a positive scenario. And instead of losing everything irrevocably, at this hard stage of his life, he is starting a new business in another country, setting the situation back under his control, achieving success. It might happen that his new business in new realities will be much more successful than ever before. And the entire mess coupled with the attack of the state could be stimuli to reach new heights, which were inaccessible for him in the old place and in the old business.

This is a bright case of destiny hacking. A person did not want to play the imposed game. He did not hide his head into the sand and did not run where his eyes lead him, forgetting that he is the one who controls his life and that unpleasant occasions are only a push for the improvement of the quality of everything that he has and gaining something new. Our businessman could overturn his life by changing his work into a new field, hacking his destiny to receive everything he needed. Contrary to the circumstances. Contrary to the expectations of every participant in the events. 

Surely, just like any other process, the hacking should be without overshoots. You don’t have to make it a meaning of your life. This is a worthy and effective tool to make life much better but you shan't go for hacking for the sake of hacking. And don’t try to see the turning points in life in everything that’s happening to you. Doing that, you might lose the landmarks and start seeing the signs in everything around. As a result, you simply start thrashing about, making every — even insignificant — episode in your life the one, which would require you to make the maximum investment and a lot of decisive actions. As a result, you will simply burn out and when you really have to act, you won’t have any strength and concentration because of tiredness. 

To make large achievements not occasional, it is necessary to understand when everything that’s happening can be called a turning point, which demands active and, most importantly, correct actions.

Consulting people on the issues as such, I often see that a person is ready to act… But if you allow him to implement the algorithm, which he or she has in their mind, most probably, they only aggravate the situation, not becoming its victor. The only realization itself that this is a turning point is not enough. The same, as it is not enough to be ready to run somewhere with the inextinguishable energy of a puppy to do something. You shall have the feeling of the moment and the understanding of which steps are right. And everything you do shall be in harmony with the moment. For the correct realization, one should also have special and general knowledge. 

3.1. The heavy burden of governing

“Mr. Demon Fallenangel! You have visitors,” an unbearable Alina, as always, appeared not in time. 

The Master of Evil, biting a lip with his huge fangs, concentrated on attempts of typing his name on the keyboard. He was trying to register on the dating website for an hour by now. The ad promised him the most beauteous female demons and he would like to have hanky-panky with someone. Anticipating the good time with the beauties, Mr. Demon was trying to type in his name but he couldn’t. Large fingers pressed several keys at once, eroding all his efforts. 

Surely, he could call Alina for help but then everyone would find out about his attempts to find a couple. Everyone would rush to register, and the people would start to… how do they call it… troll him. Mr. Demon did not quite understand why they used the word “troll”. Not a single soul among the big green guys he knew wouldn’t tell him anything even similar to what those bastards write on the Internet. Every single troll he knew was a well-bred creature. And those… As the practice showed, he couldn’t eat everyone who’d write nasty things to him. He generally didn’t understand who they were and where they were. That’s exactly the reason why he completely didn’t want that anyone knew about his love affairs.

The registration was complicated by one more obstacle. It turned out, the name “Demon” was already taken. He became infuriated, called the client support service, and started arguing that he is a Demon. They asked for his passport that would tell his name. But where would Mr. Demon get a passport?..

At exactly such a hard moment, Alina entered his office, telling him he had visitors. Mr. Demon sighed heavily, telling, “Let them in.”

Two grannies entered the office. One of them solemnly bowed to the very floor. Another brought herself down to her knees. Puzzled Mr. Demon stared at them, not realizing what was happening. Finally, one of them spoken, “I humbly ask you, the king of our land, to solve our dispute and help us share the cow, which is mine by rights.”

The second granny jumped on the spot, yelling “Wherefore thine? That cow’s mine! Mine!!!”

The female visitors have clashed with one another while Mr. Demon was stealthily calling Alina to his office. The grannies somehow scared him. These two were so loud that they’d scare even the Devil out of Hell. He asked his secretary, being frightened, “What is happening here?”

Alina replied to him with an ironic smile, “Well, as you remember, you have recently announced yourself the King of Kings, governing all the territories from the Moon to the Sun. So, now the people came to you, seeking the king’s justice. These two came with the cow. Others came with other issues.”

Mr. Demon asked in the rising panic, “What others?”

Alina showed a window with a finger, “Look down yourself.” 

Mr. Demon peeped out of the window to see a huge mass of people gathered around the building. He turned to his secretary and asked, “Are these all to me?”

Alina smiled, “Yes, to you. There are sheep and goats there… Full house.”

Grannies, meanwhile, turned from words to actions. Having given one another enough pokes in the teeth, they started to throw things at one another, taking everything they could reach. One grabbed the decanter with water and threw it into her rival. He turned away from it, unexpectedly briskly for her age, and the decanter flew directly into the laptop. The water spilled all around it, making it, desperately crackling and emanating a little smoke, turn off forever, which completely destroyed 4 hours of work of Mr. Demon, who was able, after all, to write his name with the ‘123’ addition to it.

The Master of Evil flared up and started roaring like a hundred giant giants and monstrous monsters. The grannies, feeling that there will be no justice today, swiftly turned around and fled. 

Mr. Demon approached the window, hoping that other people also fled but the crowd didn’t change at all. He heard in the open window, “Worry not! The King is stern but fair.”

Mr. Demon grabbed his head, “What have I done?!”

4. Spiritual, personality development courses, and other…

It is important not only to promptly and correctly react to turning points in your life but also you should prevent the occurrence of negative moments. And that must be not just as a part of the opposition to some specifically tough circumstances but also in your regular life, where you’re having achievements and breakthroughs. 

Take as an example a businessman, whose business has just only begun. At the start of the existence of any business, its founder should invest maximum efforts in its launch and work so everything would work correctly. There must be a so-called reasonable and well-thought fanaticism, which, as a powerful starter, would launch a business and allow it to develop effectively. This is an absolutely normal process or, otherwise, you face a fiasco. 

But, along with that, a moment comes when you should delegate some of your powers to evade the “operative hell”. If you don’t do that then, after a decade of such a marathon, you should expect collapses in every way: problems with your cardiovascular system, tensed relations in your family and the loss of all connections, burning out because of routine processes, the loss of desire to do anything further and, as a consequence, the lack of perspectives to create something other. 

These are quite unpleasant consequences, which might deprive a person of the joy of life and lead to the full absence of any interests. And that is important because this would happen not because a businessman starts boozing or behaving inadequately. No. He was only working too hard to develop his business, not more. But exactly this work was a reason for all things to fall apart at some point.

As you can see, an absolutely regular working process might lead to quite serious problems in a person’s life. And such moments are in large plentitude. Millions of people, doing something useful and right, at first glance, actually walk a minefield every day, risking and not realizing the algorithms of the things that happen, and not having knowledge, which might prevent a number of complex processes, which are provoked many years before they actually surface and start working negatively. 

Surely, one should study that and get help from specific specialists, which could help with existing problems and prevent the occurrence of new ones. Every person would decide for himself or herself how to do it better.

The most important thing is to understand that the solution to global and serious problems is often complex. It would be really hard to solve the situation using just 1-2 methods, especially if a problem is multi-layer. It would be the same hard to build a many-story house, only having a hammer. In order to cope with such a task, you’d need a much wider set of tools. Now, comparing life to even a large many-story house, we can tell, life is a much more complicated thing.

One should have the knowledge, skills, and the ability to use the available resources, in parallel, working to get the ones you don’t have yet. Today, it has become extremely fashionable to enroll in various personality development courses to receive new pieces of knowledge, where one would upgrade these or those skills. On the one hand, this can be very useful. On the other hand, harmful. The second, sadly, happens more frequently. 

First of all, the level of various trainers for such courses is too far from great. Many of them try to build their courses on psychology, somehow, calling themselves specialists in this scientific field. I categorically don’t understand what is the basis of their belief that they have the necessary level of knowledge and skills. 

Psychology is a huge layer of knowledge and scientific research. Many genius people have been working on the elaboration of approaches, which would allow mankind to “fix” and improve themselves and others. This is a very complex tool. Intervening in the psyche is like a surgical operation. How many of you know surgeons, who learned how to make surgeries after spending 30 minutes on some profile website on the Internet? 

Those trainers who lead the courses pretty often don’t have even an approximate idea of how big-scale psychology as a science is. Along with that, they don’t hesitate to call themselves psychologists and even try to teach other people!

Second, which is also of high importance, I have already written about how crucial it is to understand the consequences of your actions, how scrupulously you have to approach the result of this or that action of ours. Even if you do it correctly, you should do it at the right time as well — or you might receive a reverse result of your actions to the one you expected. Including a disastrous one.

Now, let’s take many — even too many, sadly — trainers, which lead their courses of personality development. Even those wrecked pieces of knowledge that these unfortunate trainers might possess are applied at the wrong place and at the wrong time, thus, harming people who have come to learn something useful. At best, visiting such unfortunate specialists turns into the loss of your money and time; at worst, it will deteriorate the situation, which a person would like to improve. 

For a better understanding, let’s take some tool or approach, which is advertised now the most. A bright example would be the fiercely advertized positivism. Everything here is built around one thesis, following which somehow should solve many different problems in a wave of a magic wand, even those, which are not connected to each other.

So. Why would the complexity and variety of everything be solved by only one tool? They offer us to build a house, only having a hammer in our hands. This won’t work. Sure, positivity per se is good. But it is only one facet of such a complex thing as a human being. The world principally does not consist of something one. Our life does not consist of one moment. All manifestations are dual, at minimum. So as the human being. In addition to positivity, we have an animal part in us, which is an aggressive beginning. This animal part had helped us reach our goals throughout the entire history of humankind’s existence.

Spiritual processes call us to behold, not strive for. This is a key moment, which assuredly tells us that one shan't concentrate only on positivity if you have goals to strive for and things to accomplish. Many conquests and victories are directly caused by competition and struggle. The wish to be better is also connected to the implementation of leadership qualities, which are often based on aggression as well.

You could endlessly positively behold the fact of active expansion of market competitors and the same positively tell yourself that bankruptcy is a good thing. Then, recalling in your head the rest of the fights, one could tell oneself that living with bums at the train station is positive as well. Surely, I simplify. The fact is, however, that this is a mirrored reflection of those people who try to use one universal tool to solve all tasks and complex issues.

But let’s get back to the personality development courses. The third problem is their mass nature and, as a consequence, an attempt to build a universal approach for everyone. Well, tell yourself right now that you are not having any individuality and you have the same thoughts in your head, as other people have: your psyche, wishes, way of life, dreams, problems… All these are 100% identical to what other people have. Doesn’t it sound delusional? Any individual person would not agree with these statements if only they don’t consider themselves a full copy-paste result of a conveyor work.

But that is exactly what the course trainers tell you. They gather a pile of absolutely different people without any attempt to know them better or filter them somehow, not trying to find out their personality, the nature of their problems… And they start offering the same set of tools to all of them. This won’t work. Every person is an individual. Their destiny and conditions differ from the rest. Consecutively, this requires an individual approach. 

In my work, I use a huge number of approaches and “keys” for every individual person, depending on their goals and conditions. These all give me a result, which will never be available for those, who only operate with one approach. For instance, by using only approaches, which are designed to raise awareness about the problem and its sources, the trainers might try to solve the conflict in their ward. What if the source of a problem, for instance, is a conflict with the mother, which originated at an unconscious age? How would you then raise awareness of something that a person cannot by default be aware of?

There are many such examples. And they all tell that one receives benefit from the trainer with a limited set of approaches if only true luck occurs. We all, however, try to manage our lives, not counting on the probability that some lucky turn would bring us to the road of happiness and we somehow will forever drive this road. 

I could give more other examples of why personality development courses aren’t the best choice. Frankly speaking, I could write an entire book about this issue. Maybe, one day, I will go for it. But what I’m trying to say right now is a different thing. In addition to that, speaking about the disadvantages of others is not as effective as speaking about the development of you and me. And I will again repeat a very important thing — one should have a complex approach to solving any problem and one definitely shouldn’t be limited to only psychology.

Take business as an example. Very often, in order to solve problems in this area, one should understand how the world works, where you do business and earn money. By “straightening” a person psychologically, we won’t replenish the company accounts or solve its problems with fines and other things. Surely, many things depend on the internal state of a business manager but not all. One should be able to see the business problems and provide complex assistance and consultations. Then, it might be called full-fledged hacking, which gives a large chance for success. And to do that, one should have certain knowledge and experience, offering the options of solutions across all directions. 

As an afterword, I would like to prick those, about whom I didn’t want to talk anymore. Imagine a picture: you see a trainer who promises you that every single of your problems will be solved after you complete this course. Ask him about business as a notion. About the specificity of retail business or anything other like that. Very rarely, you will be able to hear some comprehensible answers to your questions. Most trainers have absolutely no clue about how a business runs but they are somehow categorically assured that they can help solve the problems, which arise in business. That sounds too self-assured and ungrounded, don’t you think? 

4.1. Modern technologies in the life of Mr. Demon Fallenangel

“Good day! I am a virtual consultant of the company ‘Tortures Forever’. My name is Anya. How can I help you?”

Mr. Demon Fallenangel growled dissatisfactory, ”Put me on the line with someone.”

“Whom would you like to be put on the line with?”

“Well, I don’t know. I ordered the torture devices from your company. When shall I expect delivery?”

“Are you interested in delivery terms? I will be pleased to inform you. Your order is shipped within 10 days after the payment is received…”

Mr. Demon yelled, irritated, “I don’t need the flippin’ conditions! You’re bringing me my devices for three whole weeks!! Hello! HELLoooooo!!”

Still, the virtual consultant cheerfully finished sounding delivery terms and the same cheerfully and politely asked, “Can I help you with anything other?”

Mr. Demon shouted, “You did not help me at all, you, virtual heck!!! Put me on the line with someone or I will throw a meteorite on your company’s office!”

“Did you say ‘hermaphrodite? I’m sorry to inform you, this is not our specialty. However, we’re always pleased to assist all our clients the best we can. So, I’m readdressing you to our reliable partners in this issue.”

This time, Mr. Demon did not show any emotions at all. Hearing on the phone, “Good day! I am a virtual consultant of the company ‘Go Hermaphrodite’, my name is Alyona,” Mr. Demon simply smiled and snapped his fingers.

A huge blazing meteorite appeared in the sky, directed towards the building of the “Tortures Forever” company. In a minute, it completely destroyed the building and the ignorant people working there. Only the virtual consultant Anya survived and the IT guy, which coded and fine-tuned it – because he was an outsource employee and worked in a completely different building.

5. Information world: blessing or curse?

The basis of everything I have written before, by nature, this way or another, revolves around two issues: wholeness and professionalism. These are the basis for the approach to solving the existing problems of various people in various fields. And the entire implementation of the approach should be maximally pointed, carrying an individual approach.

Surely, there are some global processes, which, this way or another, are reflected on everything and everyone. This also should be taken into account when you solve the task. 

As an example of something really global, I’d like to give you an example of processes, which are collectively called the “information world.” The world of Artificial Intelligence (AI) in its simplest and most complex manifestations is a new religion, which impresses with its scale and power. It has billions of adepts all over the world and it continues to win new people and new spaces, progressing even further.