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Authorbiography
I'llbeginwithwhyIamwritingthisbookitstartedalongtimeagowhenIhadbeenjudgedforthingsthatwerenotmyfaultandfromthatmomentmylifesnowballedtwistedandturnedtowhereIamtoday,thatwasalongwindingroadtogettothispointsomeofthisbookwillflowandyouwillgetitotherpartsnodoubtwillgooffthechartstoanewdemotionmakingalotofsenseinthiscrazyassworldthatwelivein,itwillmoveheremovingthereandmaybeback.
Istartmyrantwithsomethingthatshouldbeclosetoeveryone'sheartsogoreadchapter1now.
Contents
Chapter1ChildAbuse
Chapter2Depression
Chapter3Religion
Chapter4Rude
Chapter5TheMeaningOfLifePlusIntermission
Chapter6UFOAndConspiracy
Chapter7LGBTQIA+
Chapter8Cars
Chapter9Tattoo's
Chapter10TruthAndLies
Chapter11MoodsAndFamily
Chapter12BeingYourselfAndAnimals
Chapter13Racist
Chapter14LastRant
Chapter1ChildAbuse
Mental,physicalorsexualabuse,itisnotrightonanylevelforanyreason,nomatterifyou’reinabadmoodoryougetoffonhurtingachild.
PhysicallyabusedandmentallyIhavebeennotsexual,thankfuck.BeatingsatthehandsofmyMotherandstepfatherwerebrutal.
Motherwouldalwayssay,“I’mgoingtohityousofuckinghardyouwon’tbeabletositdownforaweek”orIamgoingtohityousofuckinghardillmakeyourassbleed”
Whatshesaidiswhatyougotblackandblueandyes,youcouldnotsitforaweekeitheranditwashardtosleep.Step-Fatheroccasionallypickedmeupbymyears,hitmyheadintowallsinmybedroom,whichwerealwaysfun,right?No,Ithinknot.
Othertimeswithhisfistsorwhateverwasclosetohim,myMotherlovedtoplaygamesmentalgamesonesthatwouldbreakyourspiritandtheoutsideworldwouldsayIwonderwhyheneverwenttohisownMother’sfuneralIfuckingwonder.
Peoplearejudgementalofthingstheydonotknowthetruthof,butthat’sok.Idon’tmindpeoplefrowninglookingatmeforjustbeingmejudgedforbeingdifferent.
AllbecausemyMotherkilledmystepfartherbyknifinghiminthechest.Noonewantedanythingtodowiththekidthathadjustgonethroughhellandback.Noonewantedtolendahand,noonewantedtoevensayhelloorevensmile.
It’snotlikenooneknewmepersonally.Istillremembertheirfacesandhowtheyturnedtheirheadsinshame.Forme,stunnedatfirst,Iscrambledtounderstandthegravityofviolence.
Mostlikely,writingthisbook,peoplewilltalkandsay,howcouldTonysaysuchthingsaschildabuse?Ormytimeinhell?Butthat’sok!Fuckyou,
Like,thehousematethatIlivedwithallthoseyearsago,shelovedtofight,lovedtoargue,lovedtothrowthingsatmeandthemindgameswereonthesamelevelasmymotheralwaystocatchyououtonalie.
Iputitdowntosoformofcontrolthatshehadanissuewith,shealwayshadtoberightevenwhenyoucaughtheroutinalieshealwayshadananswerandifyouwantedtoproveyouwereright,itwasneverworththehugefightthatwascoming,
Ifoundthatpeoplejustdon’twanttogetinvolvedtheydidnotwanttohavethestigmaofjumpinginonsomethingtheydon’tknowabout,butinsaying,allofthisIsomehowmadeitthrougheventhoughIfellthroughthecracksandthesystemfailedmemorethanonceandthat’sokI’moneoftheluckyonestocomethroughit,Ialmostdidn’tmakeitthoughIcamesoclosetodeathmanytimes,
Peoplewhohurtchildrenparentorparentseithermotherorfatherorbothnomatterifitisastepparentoneorbothnomatterifitisanuncleoranauntyorevenyourgrandparentsornotevenafamilymembernomatterifitisbyhittingthemwithanobjectoryourhandsormentallyabuseorevenworsesexuallyassaultagainstachildisunforgivable!
WiththechurchesnotnaminganyofthembynamesbutjusttosayyouuseyourpowerofauthorityallinthenameofGodwellitlookslikeyou’renotgettingintoheavenormaybeyouknowthatthereisnoGodthatmakessensetome,Nomatterthereasonthereisnoreasontohurtachildnoreasonatall,Ibelievethepopeshouldshowhishandsandsayenoughisenoughandfinallynameandshamethemallsothefamiliescangetjustice,
Ifyouhurtachild,Ihopeyougeteverythingthatcomesyourwaylikealongjailtermorevenbetterlettheparentspickthepunishmentnomatterhowunhumanitisasthosepeoplehavetakenachild’sinnocenceawayfromthemandmostlikelygivingthechildacomplexordisorderagainstmenorthechurchorevengod,
Noonemayhurtthesechildren,notmenotyounotyourparent’snotaPriestnotevenapolicemannotanyonesohandsoffthechildren’strulyIdon’tgethowseeingachildnakedcanmakeyouaroused?
Youarejustavilehumanbeing?Orisityouareweak-mindedfoolwhoneedstohurtchildrentomakeyourselffeelbetter,soithastrulycaredforyou.Yousickfuck.
Soyoufeelpowerful?Watchthemscreamforhelp?Screamtobesetfree?Screaminpain?Doesitmakeyoufeelallman?AllIcanreallysaytosomeonethatiscausingabusegotakeyourselfoutofthepictureentirelydon’thurtthem.,
Don’tgetmestartedwithyouwheresexuallyabusedbysomeoneandnowyoudoittothatisnoexcuseforwhatsoeverasthereisnoexcuseforthatsortofbehaviorwithachild,Youhurtchildrenbecausetheyareweakerthanyouandcan’tfightbackwhydoyouthinkyoudon’ttakeonsomeoneelselikeaman?
I’lltellyouwhyMr.it’sbecauseshewillkickyourassandleaveyoubleedingandyouregocouldnothandlethatbutyoulikechildrenbecauseeveniftheyfightbackyouwillnotgethurtandyoucanmakeyourselfalotofmanjustbytakingachild’sinnocence,
Whydon’tyoujustmanupandtakeabullettotheheadanddotheentireworldafavor?Forpeoplethatthinkthatdisciplinecomesonlyinoneformandthat’shurtingthechildasmuchasyoucaninonegolikeIhaveagoodidealet’sseeifthistypeofdisciplineworksoutfortheparentsnowyouhavetomakesurethatachildcanremembersaidpunishmentotherwisenopointright?
Foureasystepsnowstep1cutoffapieceofsayyourhouseholdgardenhosethenylontypeyouknowtheoldgreenonesthatmosthouseshadinthe80,slet’ssayafootlongandlet’salsosaynomatterwhatthechildhasdone,
Thisisstep2.Makethemdroptheirpants,notjusttheirjeansplusundiesdropthemtothegroundandifyouseethemshakinginfear,that’sokthereforewedoitmoreso,
Nowstep3thisstepisveryimportanttogetthisstepabsolutelyperfect,makesureyouliftyourhandhashighasyoucanandmakesurethatyouuseallyourmightandhitthatchildacrossthearsemaybelegsandlowerbackifyoufeellikeitasitdoesnotmatterdon’tbeshyandwithyourotherhandholdtheirheadnowtrustmethechildwillthankyouwhentheygrowupaspunishmentitistheonlyway,
step4sendthemtotheirroomcryingandinclearpainbutthat’sokbecausepeoplethatchildhasnowlearntavaluablelessontodayandnodoubtwillcarryalloftheirdays,nowdon’tyoufeelalotbelterIknowafterthattypeofpunishmentIknowIdo,
IamlikewaitupaminuteI’mnotdownwiththisshitandnotjustbecauseithappenedtomeI’mnotdownwithitbecauseitischildabuseit’snotrightonanylevelandifreadingthisandyoudidnotcringeatallthensomethingiswrongwithyou,achildisnotbornintothisworldtobeabusedbyyouevenifyouaretheparentoramanofGodoranyoneinatrustedpositionorjustanyone,trulywhothefuckdoyouthinkyouare?
Thiswholesystemneedsagoodshakeup,Iseegoodhomesweregoodpeoplecan’tgetevenonthelisttoadoptchildrenwhileyouhaveothersIknowhavetheirchildrenaroundharddrugsandthesystemreallydoesnothingIknowthisfirsthandasitmakescompletesensedoesn’tit?
TellmeifI’mwrongtoleaveachildinthattypeofplace?Arounddrugsandrealhardcorejunkiesallthistypeofchild-raisingisabuseandmostlikelythesechildrenwillgrowuptobeaburdenonsociety,Tome,thissystemisfuckingbrokenandtheonlypeoplethatarehurtherearethechildrenbutwhocaresright?Notwelfare,notGovernmentandsurelynottheparentsthemselves,
Iamoneoftheluckyonestocomeouttheothersideofapoorupbringingfrompoorfood,abusedmentallyfloggingstomumgoingtojailthenbeingaroundpeoplewhotookharddrugsandIsaidnotothembutdon’tthinkaboutmethinkaboutthechildrenthatarestillstuckinthetypeoffamilyupbringing,
Ifyouseesomething,pleasedon’tthinkthatsomeoneelsewillcomealong.Justmanupandspeakup.Letushelpputastoptoallformsofchild.Abuse,hereisonefineexample.
I’veseenyoungchildrensaytheageoftwoinnappiesstandingontheedgeofthecutteronabusyroadnowIpulloverandpickupthischildandIgoknockonthedooroftheclosesthousenowthisbityouwillgetalaughoutofIknowIdid?Notreally,astheladyopensthedoor,sheseesmestandingtherewithayoungchildinmyarmsshehadahorriblelookonherfacelikeIwasapedophileorsomethingshesnatchesthechildoutofmyarmsandscreamsoutatherotherchildrenwhoarelike5and6andshesaysyousupposedtobelookingafterhimyoustupiddumbcuntboomsheslamsthedoorinmyfaceIamlikewhattheactualfuckIcouldhaverunoveryourchildladyandyoudidnotevensaythankyou,
Let’ssayforargument’ssakeitwasmeandIhitthatchildinmycarbecauseIdidnotseehimatfirstthechildwouldhavedied,andshewouldblameme,andIcouldnotlivewithmyselfbutsomehowIwastheweirdoforsavingherchild?
So,youcanonlyimaginewhatsortoflifethatchildisliving,sowhatareyougoingtodothenexttimeyouseesomeonedoingthewrongthingtoachild?Standupstandtallandmakethecalldon’tbeapussybecauseyoudon’twanttogetinvolvedpleasepeopledoitforthechildren,Howisthisnormaltoabuseachildmentallyorsexuallydoesitmakeyoufeelall-powerfulandallthatshitdoyoureallylikegettinginsidethechild’smindplayingwithinitlikeafootballsayingthingstomakethemfeelgoodthenstripthemdownliketheyarenotevenhuman?
AllIknowaboutthisisifyoucan’teithercontrolyourmouthorcontrolyourtemperthandon’thavechildrenanddon’tgetwithsomeonewhohaschildrenIknowwhatitisliketobeatthehandsofviolence,Youknowitisnotnormalright?sexualabuse,emotionalabuse,physicalabuse,
Imean,comeon,weareallhuman,right?So,it’sokisitwhenyouleavebrushing?Howdoyoufeelwhenyouknowtheygrowuponeday?Itmightturnthemintoladiesofthenightorjustjunkiesorevenabusersthemselves?Butstillyourneedtodefileachildallforyourownselfishneeds,
Iknowafewpeoplethathaveseenabused,andithappensmorethanwereleasetheysaythatit’salwayssomeoneclosetoyoulikeyourfather,mother'sbrotheroruncle,forme,Ineversufferedbeingsexuallyabusedbutmentallyabusedandphysicallyabusedbutnotsexually,
Thishasbeengoingonsincehumanslivedincaves,butthisisnotanexcuseanymorejustbecauseyouwanttoactlikeaNeanderthal?OramIlivinginsometypeofpipedream?Thereisanoldsayingdountoothersthatyouwouldwanttobedonetoyourself,sofairisfairitnot.Evenaneyeforaneyeortoothforatooth?
WhatmanthoughtflockingintohisstepsonwasagreatideawhenhewastheadultandIwasthechildhealsoseemedtolovehittingmymotheraswellasmeandafterwitnessingwhatendedupbeingmyfateorjustdestinycamelookingformeandit’snotlikemymotherwasasaintandI’mnotgivingmystepfartherthegreenlightbutshewasalsoabusive,
Nowyoucan’tbelikethatwithaguyheisjustabruteoldschoolarmydudeandIknowifyouhadtosleepwithhimitwasnotoutofloveorbeinginloveIknowheforcedyoumorethanoncewhatheorbothofyouguysfailedtounderstandIcouldhearandit’snotjustwhatIheardIseenonover,
OneoccasionhimwithhishandsaroundyourthroatandthenextminuteyouwerebothnakedandfromthequickglimpseofmeseeingwhatwasgoingonandnowmebeingagrownmanitdidnotlooklikeyouwereenjoyingyourselfalotandapartfromwhatIwitnesswhathedidtoyouwassowrong,
Whatyoubothdidtoeachotherwasjustasbad.Youhadthecarfrequentlywhereyoucouldhavetakenoffwithus,soIguessI’mnodifferentinthataspect,butbackontopic!YoubothwerehorribleparentsandIthinkbothofyoushouldhaveneverbeenparents,letalonenowyouaddchildrenintothemix!
Iamsorrymumforhoweverythingturnedoutbutinmydefense;Iwastheonlychild,andhewashurtingmesoyoucanseemyconfusionwhenyouactedlikehimandIneverunderstoodthewayyoutreatedme,especiallysinceyouaremymum.Itnevermadesense,sowhy?
WhywasIlikeyou?Andyoucouldnothandleit?DoyouknoworunderstandthatIwasthatchildtormentedbybothbullyingparents,beingthelaughingstockinschoolbecauseIwasnotlikealltheotherkidsaswewerepoorandIcouldnothaveallthenicethingsthatotherchildrenworeorplayedwith,
IdohoweverunderstandnowI’mallgrownupbutseriouslypeoplewhatisfuckingwrongwithyoumanypeoplecouldtakethis,forexample,oneofmygoodfriendsyearsagocameforavisitIdon’tthinkhewaseventhereforover30secondswhenallIcouldhearwasmumshoutingouttellyourfriendtogohomeyouhavechorestodoandtomyself,I’mthinkingthisisnotrightIhavedoneallmychoressomyfriendleavesIgouptoaskmumwhatwasgoingonthereshestandsintheloungeroomwithanicepieceofgardenhoseinherhandyouknowtheonesheusedtoflogmewithofcoursetherewasnovalidreasonitwasmumdidnotlikehimandofcourse,
Isworewellyouknowyoushouldnotdothatbecauseit’ssobadtodothat?Whatabouthittingachild?Isthatnotbad?I’malittleconfusedaboutyourparentingskills!Yes,thereisnobookonhowtoraiseachildbutI’mprettysureiftherewasoneitdefinitelywouldnotbehowyoudowngradedmebywhippingsbythewayyouspoketomeorthewayyouhitmelikeyouwereinsane?
PeoplewhohurtchildrennomatterifitisbyhittingthemormentallyabusethembyyourvilemouthorevenworsesexuallyassaultagainstachildisunforgivableandforthechurchesnotnaminganyofbynamesbutjusttosayyouuseyourpowerofauthorityallinthenameofGodwellitlookslikeyou’renotgettingintoheavenormaybeyouknowthatthereisnoGod,
Nomatterthereasonthereisnoreasontohurtachildnoreasonatall,IfyouhurtachildIhopeyougeteverythingthatcomesyourwaylikealongjailtermorevenbetterlettheparentspickthepunishmentnomatterhowunhumanitisasthosepeoplehavetakenachild’sinnocenceawayfromthemnoonemayhurtthesechildrennotmenotyounotyourparent’snotaPriestnotanyonesohandsoffthechildren.
Chapter2Depression
TheFeelingofmydepression
IstruggletounderstandwhyI’vehadtolivethislifethewayIhaveinthiskindofmentalprison;IstrugglingsofardeepdownI’mnotsureitcanfindme.Ihavebeenstrugglingmorenowthatmylifeis