Reflections E-Book

Emmanuel Ojie

• Herausgeber: COMMUNE WRITERS INT'L
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2023

Beschreibung

This book shows you how to navigate the pains, difficulties, frustrations, disappointments and struggles in a society steeped in commotion and turbulence. It clearly lays out the time-tested principles for dealing with many difficult and real issues people face – personal effectiveness, marriage, family, parenting, leadership, citizenship, spirituality, and more.

Inspired by his audiences and their hunger for positive change, Emmanuel has compiled some of his most captivating and intensely thought-provoking writings based on biblical, philosophical and pragmatic perspectives. This anthology covers over fifty captivating articles organised into eight thematic chapters: “Character and Integrity”, “Citizenship and Nation Building”, “Education and Development”. “Singlehood and Marriage”, “Family and Parenting”, “Inspiration and Personal Growth”, “Leadership and Governance”, and “Spirituality and Christian Living”. He speaks to people at every level of society – children, young people, parents, leaders, policy makers and everyone in-between. Reflections will arouse within you a greater passion to become a better person and an agent of transformation in your sphere of influence, wherever that is: family, workplace, community or in government.

Written in a linguistically simple and friendly style, the book has been splendidly shaped by personal anecdotes and historical events. Reflections is destined to become a valuable resource for anyone seeking to make the most of life.

Leseprobe

REFLECTIONS

A COLLECTION OF INSPIRING THOUGHTS FOR A MEANIFUL LIFE

EMMANUEL OJIE

Unless otherwise indicated all Scripture quotations are taken from the New International Version of the Bible.

Published in Nigeria

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What people are saying about Reflections...

“Emmanuel Ojie has thrown together ancient wisdom and modern realities and the product is a revelation: of him as a gifted scribe and of divine ways and processes. Indeed, Reflections is many books in one and must be read in different seasons to make for a holistic understanding. The author, as a socio-religious crusader had a society in mind and he wrote for everyone in that society to read and be wise and/or be wiser; but again I see a silent appeal to important players and stakeholders in the school of human and social engineering, for a rescue mission to redeem our nation, our children and our social institutions from an inexorable march to annihilation. This is a book for all ages!”

His Lordship, Rt. Rev. Barr. Ekweremadu Osondu Emmanuel, Methodist Bishop of Enugu North East Diocese

“Reflections is a collection of nuggets requisite for pilgrims on life's journey who intentionally desire a delectable destination, and are willing to pay the price with the currency of character. In this collection of expressed thoughts, experiences and inspired quotes, Emmanuel has created a compendium that addresses real life issues from A to Z. It highlights the pivotal role of character, and demonstrates the place of citizenship in nation building among other vital issues. As is expected, the author sums up with the immense benefits and demands of Christian Living & Spirituality. I strongly recommend Reflections to anyone seriously desiring a meaningful and successful life.”

Prof Edith Ogonnaya Nwosu, FCArb, Former Deputy Vice

Chancellor, University of Nigeria, Enugu Campus

“With Reflections, Emmanuel has draped the mind-minding and mindmining landscape with a kaleidoscopic masterpiece. Readers should brace up for an exhilarating journey with this linguistically flawless and logically fluid author into the terrains of a practical piece that masterfully meanders through a multiplicity of life's layers - temptations, trials, tribulations, triumphs and more - from an incurably religious but philosophical prism. The outcome is a deeply reflective and values-laden guidebook on how to navigate life's endless trajectories. Reflections is a recommended read for everyone.” Kingsley I. Jesuorobo (Barrister & Solicitor; Author of “Province of Poetry: A collection of poems and philosophical phrases”, Amazon Bestseller.)

“Emmanuel’s aptly named book is a great resource for anyone seeking to take moment out of the relentless pace of life to pause, reflect and gain some wisdom. His writing style gives each chapter and subsection enough information and integrity to stand alone. When he muses about the decay in the Nigerian society and questions the integrity of the nation, I found myself shaking my head in shared grief for her lost potential. Our shared experiences in the university provided me with ample opportunities to engage with him in a personal way. The thoughts, lessons, and stories that Emmanuel shares in Reflections are not merely good content. These are tenets that I know he lives by. It is based on his authenticity that I am pleased to recommend him and this book to readers.”

Mr OmoruyiOsagiede, Director, Technology Risk, UK

“This book is a fascinating piece, very apt for the times we live in worldwide and particularly in Nigeria. Emmanuel's thoughts on character, integrity, family and parenting have been the most intriguing themes for me because I consider them to be the foundations of society. Going through its pages from the beginning to the end, Reflections has left me with mind-boggling questions about the nature of my commitment and contributions to the society. The book is eternally useful to people of all ages especially those who are avid readers.”

His Hon Chuba-Odum Elizabeth, President of Customary Courts, Anambra State Judiciary, Awka

“Reflections is a treatise written from the heart and it truly reflects the passions, disappointments and expectations of the author on genuine and practical Christianity as I glean from my interactions with him. Though Emmanuel Ojie seems to have covered many domains of life in the book, one common theme runs through them. This theme is 'How does my being a follower of Christ make a difference in the way I do things and respond to situations and circumstances that will positively affect the environment and events around me as Christ would have done?'. I strongly recommend not just the reading of this book across all strata of the Christian body but a deep reflection, meditation and prayers for grace on the issues raised so that the church will awake to her calling to be the salt and light in our society.”

Elder Prof Ken K. Agwu, Dean College of Health Sciences, Evangel University, Akaeze

“Reflections is an inspiring testament to Emmanuel's unwavering commitment to humanity and his remarkable Christian convictions. Each of the themes in this compendium of incredibly helpful thoughts could actually stand alone as a distinct book. His brilliant imagination, captivating anecdotes, and inspiring biblical references have made the book a rich resource for individuals and institutions that truly desire positive change at the personal, family, organisational and national levels in our society. I heartily recommend this exceptional literary work as an enduring legacy which will continue to inspire and empower children, young people and adults alike for years to come.”

Sir Ogochukwu Ekwueme, Entrepreneur, Chairman, Orumba North Local Government Area, Anambra State

“I have thoroughly enjoyed reading through these inspiring Reflections penned by Emmanuel Ojie, a dear brother in Christ. With the insightful observations and family anecdotes, it is delightful reading. Another cause of delight is the author's good command of the language as demonstrated in his good grammar and friendly writing style. Originally written for an online readership, the collection is gratifyingly devoid of social media jargon and 'trending' expressions. I look forward to reading these Reflections more slowly and reflectively in the weeks ahead. I tell you, this is a great read for everyone: young, old and in-between! Very well done, Emmanuel!”

Dr. Maureen O. Iheanacho, Independent researcher and scholar

“Brother Ojie has written a very practical and powerful book that deals with a kaleidoscope

of real issues that affect Nigerians of all ages, classes, tribes and religions. In the midst of many tight schedules and travels, I sat with Reflections and consumed every word of it, pausing to soberly pray for myself at many points. I have been very enriched by its contents. I have known and related with the author for more than ten years; and I've observed his life and drive and weighed it with what he has written in this book. He has not written from a theoretical point of view. He actually lives the life. Therefore, I wholeheartedly desire every Nigerian to soberly read, digest and apply the musings in this book.”

John IDOKO, Missionary, Chaplain, Author, Trainer

“Your decision to heed the Clarion call from your very genuine admirers to compile these highly inspirational, motivational, educative and original thoughts in the form it has taken for posterity, is one of your choicest gifts to humanity. Ojie dear, I thank you immensely for making yourself available for this assignment. This masterpiece to me, fulfills both didactic and polemic objective of a quality treatise!”

Prof Matthew A. Izibili, Professor of Philosophy, Ambrose Alli University and Founder, Esan Khide Development Foundation, Centre for Research and Documentation of Esan Cultural Heritage, Ekpoma

“True to his personality, Emmanuel has written a book that can serve as a roadmap for personal and national transformation. I found the book incredibly captivating and compelling as I read through the entire chapters – page by page. At such a time when Nigeria is steeped in moral and political dilemmas, Reflections provides a clear direction and guidance on how we can retrace our steps and set our country on a path of sustainable peace, progress and prosperity. As his former colleague, I share his convictions and recommend this brilliant work to everyone – regardless of age, gender, ethnicity and religion.” Simeon Ologode (formerly Olojede), FCA, MBA. CEO Simtech Consulting and Simstel Farms Limited.

“I make bold to state unequivocally that I have not seen or read such a life-transforming, compelling, thought-provoking, challenging, and educative piece in recent times as this book, Reflections. Here is a book that is systematically and logically structured with its illustrations driving home the desired goal – positive change. Reflections is academic and at the same time spiritual, motivational, and conventional. It is very much relevant for people of all ages - a veritable tool for the transformation of the church and human society at large. It is challenging to start and stop reading this great literary work without finishing the entire book. Perhaps the most important thing Emmanuel brings to these conversations is his personal character and integrity. I strongly recommend this book as a handbook for all (young and old) who desperately aspire to an ideal human society.”

Very Rev Amos Francis Dike, Minister of the Presbyterian Church of Nigeria/Chapel of Redemption, UNEC

“This is a remarkable book and a testament to Emmanuel Ojie's exceptional writing prowess, public/motivational speaking capabilities and profound insights into the human experience. I am truly delighted to endorse his work as a great piece of literature.

Reflections is packed with knowledge on many aspects of life. These include honesty, strong and sound moral principles, good family living, leadership, positive change of mind and soul, nitty-gritties of nation building among others, which are clearly elucidated by the author. All these give life lessons, teaching everything crucial to one's daily personal and even professional life. I believe this book deserves widespread acclaim as its thought-provoking sub-themes will be useful to everyone, young and old. In fact the book is for the living!”

Prof Ifeoma Pamela Enemo, mni, FCArb, JP, Dean, Faculty of Law and Former Deputy Vice Chancellor, University of Nigeria, Enugu Campus

“As a teacher of biblical righteousness and a Christian that is passionate about living the life that demonstrates Christ, Brother Emmanuel has given our world a timeless book that addresses real life issues from sound scriptural and practical perspectives. His profound statement on marriage, “great friendships and marriages are built on and sustained by shared values” resonates with me in such an incredible way. To the glory of God, I endorse and recommend Reflections for all categories of people especially Christian leaders; we need the Davidic mindset!”

Arc Munachiso Okorocha Snr, All-Seasons Evangelist, CEO, DesignHouse

“Emmanuel has penned down for the benefit of the society what I can describe as "the solution" we have been groping for as Christians, Nigerians and humanity at large. These captivating compilations transcend mere rhetoric into advancing thoroughly distilled truths, nuggets of inestimable value. Reflections is an excellent vade mecum for all that seek direction to functional institutions, governance, leadership, followership, family life, spirituality and alignment to the purposes of God. I would recommend it as a hand book for personal, group and institutional capacity building for an assured future.” Engr Steve Ononogbu Obi, Family Head, Trust Agent, Executive Director NCSL

"This is that book you will love to read again and again. It is a balanced diet for a fulfilling life. Your life will experience a positive shift when you read through. One of the big rooms in life is the room for self-improvement. Reflections is filled with timely wisdom for youths, parents, leaders and policy makers desirous of an outstanding life and trans-generational impact. I recommend you buy two or more copies because you will surely want to give out the other to your loved ones after reading it.”

Stanley Nwadike, M.Sc., NIM, ISMI, Lecturer and Award-Winning Author of Nigerian Christian Literature Awards (NCLA)

“Emmanuel's collection of thoughts and ideas on how to build a stronger nation by embracing a good attitude is relevant for all seasons. It is a clarion call for change and this change must be wholesome. He used his own life and family relationship to speak directly to the minds of readers, for attitudinal transformation that comes from an honest reflection. It is something we must do today in other to repair the breach in our foundation. Therefore, I unreservedly recommend Reflections to families, schools, churches, Africa and the world. This book can start a moral revolution and it is in our hands to make this happen.”

Obinna James Edeh, LLB, LLM, Lecturer, Faculty of Law,

University of Nigeria

“Emmanuel Ojie has pulled off a major 'tour de force ' by compiling this timely and epochal guide to national development in a Christian context. In masterly fashion, he has squarely addressed several wide ranging topical issues such as character, citizenship, education, family, leadership and spirituality – everyday issues that the average Nigerian can relate with. Reflections holds great promise as a stimulus to effective and progressive national and international development. I thoroughly recommend the book. Reflections is indeed a must read and a great collector's item. Were it feasible, it ought to be distributed to every household in the country, at subsidized cost.”

Professor Chioli Paschal Chijioke, Principal Investigator, Dietary Intervention Research Group, Honorary Consultant, University of Nigeria Teaching Hospital

“The arrival of this compendium is an additional voice crying out loud for attitudinal changes in all facets of human endeavour for the betterment of our society. Chapter one "Character and Integrity" encapsulates the whole book. Surely good character is the bedrock or foundation for success in all human activities; and life without it is a disaster! His statement, "Skill without character is like a sore tooth" provoked me (a dentist of many decades). Emmanuel harbours very rich didactic potential hence it will not be a prophecy to state that Reflections is a harbinger to more publications.”

Sir Dr. Sam Maduakor, Retired Lecturer/Consultant, UNTH

“Emotionally resonant and brimming with hope for positive change in our society, Reflections is a timeless masterpiece that will profoundly shape present and future generations. As Emmanuel Ojie employs biblical and pragmatic perspectives, he dives deep into real issues of character, education, marriage, parenting, governance, Christian living, and more. This book is written with sensitivity and grace, and it will stay with readers long after the last page is turned. I recommend this heart-changing, transformative work.”

Samuel Nwatu, PhD, Former Dean, Faculty of Law, University of Nigeria, Enugu campus

“This book offers a wealth of transformative content aimed at empowering readers and nurturing their desire to succeed in both personal and communal aspects of life. It equips individuals with tools necessary to embark on a journey of personal growth, spiritual development, and effective leadership. I recommend Reflections to anyone seeking to improve their personal lives, nurture their spiritual growth, and become exemplary leaders who actively contribute to the betterment of their nations. The book serves as a valuable resource for those striving to make a positive impact in their communities and play an integral role in shaping a prosperous future.”

Rev. Cannon Ifeanyichukwu Agu, President, Destiny Leadership

Initiative

Dedication

This book is dedicated to all the unsung Nigerians who strove in the past, who strive in the present-day and who will strive in the future as instruments of positive change in their circles of influence for a more just, more prosperous and much safer Nigerian society.

Acknowledgments

The writing of this book has taken many years of work, reading, teaching, and experience. Many people have contributed to my thinking and have been invisible guides as these themes came together. I would like to first thank my great friend Omoruyi Osagiede, for his inspiration and support of this work from its early stages. An extra-special recognition and gratitude to my beloved grandmother Deaconess Anna Ebarewe Onekpe who shaped my early

Christian thinking. A particularly warm thanks is offered to Dr Maureen Iheanacho, Brother John Idoko, Barr Ikenna Okoli, Mrs Chidinma Dinwoke and Barr Obinna Edeh for their helpful guidance, supportive friendship, editorial prowess and inputs on this book.

Furthermore, a heartfelt thanks goes to these great spiritual mentors, leaders and teachers who have had a profound influence on my Christian outlook – Rev Dr Felix I. Omobude,

His Lordship Rt Rev Osondu & Evang Mrs Anna Ekweremadu, Dr Levin Damisah, Rev Torty Onoh, Ven Dr Moses Omeke, Rev Canon Ifeanyichukwu Agu, Very Rev Amos Dike, Pastor Martina I. Oziegbe, Rev Surv Ugochukwu

Chime, Prof Edith Nwosu, Arc Munachiso Okorocha Snr, Prof Ken K. Agwu, Rev Levi Chukwunenye, Lady Dr Uzo Maduakor, Dr Ikechukwu Chime, Dr Mrs Pat Okpala, Dr Jeff Okorie, Prof Chuba Odum, Prof Peter Nkwo, Prof Iheuko S. Ogbonnaya, Engr Steve Obi and Dr Emeka Udeh.

I would like to thank these great personalities for their extraordinary and multi-faceted support for me and this work – Prof Edwin I. Nwogugu, Chief Eme Nwosu, Rev Dr Chuks Ronnie & Rev Dr Olachi Chuks-Ronnie, Emmanuel Gabriel, Engr Okoduwa Ibhadebhunuele Gabriel, Barr Kingsley Jesuorobo, Arc Munachiso Okorocha Jnr, Henry Amechi Ogbuchi, Mrs Ihuoma Okorocha, Evang Mrs Chinelo Chime, Barr Mrs Elizabeth Chuba-Odum, Dr Edison Imasuen, Barr Hillary Ekwevi, Prof Ifeoma Enemo, Chief Dr Vincent E. Obetta, Barr Mrs Doris Chinedu-Okoro, Arc Ikenna Lemoha, Sir Ogochukwu Ekwueme, Pastor Chukwuma-Agili Maduka, Prof Matthew Izibili, Mazi Emmanuel Udochukwu Iroka, Mrs Aboye Ezenna, Dr Ugochukwu Ogundu, Bernard Akonam Aneke, Stanley Nwadike, Sir Dr Sam Maduakor, Simeon Ologode, Prof Chioli Chijioke, Dr Sam Nwatu, and Barr Obinna Okeke.

I wish to express deep appreciation to my teams of graphics designers, printers and publishers at Ambassador Ville, Enugu Print House, Immaculate Publications Limited, EL ‘DEMAK Ltd and Distinct Minds Academy for their never-failing support, cooperation and friendship.

Also, I'm immensely delighted and grateful for the invaluable encouragement and enduring support of my parents, siblings, in-laws, uncles, aunts, cousins, relatives, friends, colleagues, the Alumni of CASOR UNIBEN/UBTH (ACUU), and the amazing congregation at Chapel of Redemption, University of Nigeria, Enugu Campus.

Not least, I thank my wonderful wife, Nosa and my affectionate sons – Darrell, Delbert and Duranel for their amazing contributions to the family stories and for their incredible support and patience during the long hours away from them to finish this book.

Finally, my deepest gratitude goes to Jesus Christ, in whom I live and have my being. While working on this book, there were days when I felt like quitting due to some interruptions and other demands for my time but He gave me the strength and provided me with the human helpers I needed to complete this project. Certainly, without His grace and goodness, there will not be me, and there will be no Reflections!

Of course there are many more people who deserve credit for their esteemed support for me and contribution to this book but their names are not mentioned. I take responsibility for and highly regret any omissions or inaccuracies in this book.