The Love that Remains E-Book

Gianpaola Tedeschi

• Herausgeber: Panda Edizioni
• Kategorie: Ratgeber
• Sprache: Englisch

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2016

Beschreibung

Gianpaola, returning back home from work by car, have had a frontal accident with a bus. She was taken to the hospital, has been in coma, and stayed there for a week. In those days, she lived an extraordinary experience which she calls “her Miracle”: she met again her Father, who passed away 10 years before. She had dialogues with him about the motive of that choice, the consequences incurred by that action, and also about the sense of existence and being here in this world.Writing this book, she wanted to share some of her other experiences, as well, which she believes to be somehow a source of comfort and hope.

Leseprobe

The Love that Remains

An encounter with my Father Up There

by Gianpaola Tedeschi

DEDICATION

I dedicate this work, firstly, to my Father Luciano, whom in this book I never mentioned his name. For me, he has been and will always be a Father, my Beloved Father. Then, to my family – my Mom Osvalda, my sister Lucia, my aunts Elda and Rita, persons who shared with me a big loss. Thanks to their strength and to their love, I became the Woman I am today.

PREFACE

I’ve known Gianpaola for almost 20 years now, since we went to the University together. Oh my, 20 years... It’s that long…

In this huge amount of time, many events in life have occurred to both of us. During study days, we’ve known and became close to each other, we lost contacts and then we reconnected. Thousands of adventures and many things have been shared together – the exams (both written and oral), the notes, and the laboratories.

Then came the work life which continued to interweave our stories. Life events continued to occur, as well. First, it was his father who passed away, then mine. There were the misadventures in Arpav then in ULSS in Mestre. In the middle of those events, how one forgets the “ludic” intervals of Ayurveda, the evenings of meditations and of massages? Yes, with Gianpaola, I shared many things.

I learned of the accident from a web site. I remember well it was on a Saturday morning. I was happy, until I saw a picture of a car in a ditch, I said to myself: “Look, it’s the same as that of Gianpaola’s. Oh my god…” Then I read on: the initials of the accident victim, G.T., and that on Friday afternoon she was returning back home from work. I knew Gianpaola habitually takes that road from work. I tried to call her mobile phone up, there was no answer.

Thanks to her colleagues, I came to know everything. The coma. The transfer from Mestre to Padova. Her awakening. As soon as I could, I rushed to visit her. She was in the intensive care unit of Neurology department. I was there in her first moments of pseudo-lucidity and I remember perfectly the face and reaction of her mother when she told the doctor: “Listen, she asked me about her father! What should I tell her now?”

That tightened my heart because I, as well as the others, couldn’t understand what was happening. But at that time, it didn’t matter. Important thing is that: Gianpaola has overcome coma, is still alive, and is still here with us. That was beyond expectation – the fact that she could speak, move and interact to those beside her. That was already a big step forward, a miraculous progress despite the fact that she couldn’t remember anymore that she lost her father for some time ago. Well, patience… Maybe when she recovers, she’ll remember everything.

She was full of tubes. It was terribly hot that time. The doctors advised every visitor to keep Gianpaola awake. She had the tendency of sleeping all the time and that was not good for her. It was necessary for her to stay up, to be forced into speaking and to interact with people. Hence, visits were strongly encouraged.

It was difficult in those moments to determine how much time needed for her recovery – not only with her memory but also with basic physical functions.

Then came her returning back home from the hospital – there was the joy of seeing her on her feet, walking and going around. That one, yes, her recovery is miraculous. She recovered from traumatic brain injury in just 10 days. Four months later, she was already back to work. Unbelievable!!!

I recall with pleasure our endless chats, the first faint memories that resurfaced, and the first pages written down. I have given her a book that I read a year before and that was suggested by a dear friend. The book speaks about contacts from beloved ones Up There. I liked the book so much. And there, many things have got to run.

It is senseless now to discuss the fact that in this historic moment of my life, I become an editor myself and being aware of a book which is fundamental to the life of a person close to me – a person whom I shared many things with. A book that speaks about her and of her father. How could I not publish it?

The text has its simple draft but the content itself is profound. Gianpaola’s writing is clear and pure, and that represents the kind of person Gianpaola is – clear and pure. It’s been fascinating and touching to read the drafts, perceiving into life the memories that were coming back to her. It is a book with beauty that made my heart palpitate.