The Power of being One with your True Self E-Book

Niki Nelson

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• Sprache: Englisch

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Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2024

Beschreibung

Unlock the secrets to living a life of peace, purpose, and authenticity with The Power of Being One with Your True Self. In this inspiring and transformational guide, you’ll embark on a journey to reconnect with the essence of who you truly are. Through insightful teachings, practical tools, and empowering wisdom, this ebook will help you break free from limiting beliefs, heal emotional wounds, and align with your true purpose.

Have you ever felt disconnected, stuck, or uncertain about your path in life? This book offers a gentle yet powerful way to navigate through those feelings and rediscover the joy of simply being you. Learn to silence the noise of the outside world and tap into your inner wisdom, where clarity and peace reside. By embracing your authentic self, you’ll unlock a profound sense of freedom, self-love, and empowerment.

Perfect for anyone seeking personal growth, spiritual awakening, or a deeper connection to themselves, The Power of Being One with Your True Self provides:

A roadmap to self-discovery and inner healingInsights into overcoming fear, doubt, and self-sabotagePractical exercises to help you build self-awareness and mindfulnessGuidance on creating a life that reflects your true values and passions

Whether you’re starting your journey of self-discovery or seeking the next step in your personal evolution, this ebook is your companion for creating a life that feels aligned, joyful, and meaningful. Start living from a place of authenticity and watch as everything in your life transforms for the better.

Your best life is waiting for you. Step into your power and embrace the beauty of being one with your true self. Download The Power of Being One with Your True Self by Niki Nelson today and take the first step toward the life you were always meant to live!

Leseprobe

  

The Power of being One  with your True Self

Heal and connect with your deepest core

Niki Nelson

  

For my mother,

whose love I never understood

and Luc, my dearest friend,

high above the clouds.

 

The Power of being One with your True Self ISBN 978 90 6030 785 4 E-book En 2024 Published by Niki Nelson Illustrations and cover Laura Bertrands, www.studioberella.be Formatting Niki Nelson © Copyright, Niki Nelson All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system and/or made public in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the author. All illustrations are protected by copyright.

‘Wait for the sign,

this is the beginning,

there’s nothing in the world

that you won’t find now.’

-Niki Nelson

With great love I dedicate this book to:

My spouse, who always knows how to touch me and challenges me in a personal, unique, driven way to become the best version of myself.

My three brilliant daughters, who, despite the difficult journey, chose me as their mom and grew into three strong, balanced, loving women and beautiful mothers.

My grandchildren, who bring joy into my life every day and fill my heart with love.

My parents, who, despite the demanding path they walked, instilled values in me and taught me forgiveness.

My ‘Bestie’, who since my teenage years has been a beacon in the darkness, my rock during the toughest moments. 

My family members, ex-partners, friends, colleagues, neighbors, and many others who crossed my path, stayed, sometimes disappeared, and each in their own way contributed to my growth process.

Thank you, thank you, thank you,  for being a part of my life,  for allowing me to grow as a human,  as a soul,  as a part of everything that lives.

Niki

 

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction

PART I THE MEANING OF OUR EXISTENCE

1 - The emergence of the soul

2 -Prenatal predetermination

PART II FROM CHAOS TO FLOW

3 -  Burdened parents

 4 - An uncertain beginning

5 - Consequences of a Turbulent Childhood

6 - Struggling in your relationship

 7 - How do you survive as a single mom with children?

8 - The turning point

9 - Belief & trust

10 - How the world looks different when you look at it differently

PART III THOUGHTS ARE FORCES

11 - How do we perceive our reality?

12 - A spiritual approach

PART IV CONNECTING WITH YOUR TRUE SELF

13 - Creativity

14 - Connecting with your body and mind

15 - Choosing a new life

16 - Healing

17 - Manifesting

18 - Mission

PART V CHOOSING A CONSCIOUSLY, HEALTHY AND NATURAL LIFESTYLE

19 - Detox and body cleansing

20 - Healthy food

21 - Exercise and sleep

22 - A healthy environment

PART VI ONE WITH YOUR TRUE SELFCOACHING METHOD

YOUR NEW START

For Professionals

PART VII THE KEY TO THE MYSTERY OF LIFE

23 - The key to the mystery of life

Glossary

Sources

Acknowledgments

Cover and illustrations

  

Introduction

Congratulations on your purchase. It’s no coincidence that you’re flipping through the first page of this book. You’ve been led here, to this moment, to delve further into the meaning of life, to learn how to surf happily and freely on the flow of life. This is the right moment on the timeline of your life; you are ready! This book offers you a guide to achieving higher consciousness1. It will change your perspective on life, showing you that you are an infinite, unlimited, and brilliant being capable of achieving anything you desire.

Perhaps you’ve been searching for answers to existential questions your whole life, struggling with constant financial difficulties, experiencing burnout, facing health issues, or maybe you keep trying but things just won’t work out, your relationships keep failing, or you’re simply feeling lost. Whatever you’re struggling with, do not despair! This book will give you answers to your questions and show you the way to a happier and more balanced life. After all, you were born as a beautiful soul with infinite possibilities and powers. The only thing you’re missing is the manual on to use them. For years, I struggled with negative emotions, questions, and problems. It was challenging for me to find the right way to live effortlessly. Everything felt off, difficult. I had to fight to achieve anything. Despite starting my search for answers at the age of 25, undergoing therapy, and later working with a coach, it took half a century for the puzzle to come together. I want to share my experiences and acquired knowledge, which allowed me to connect with my true self, with you.

In Part I of this book, I will tell you more about the meaning of life, the origin of our soul or true self, and the preparation for our earthly life.

Through the fictional life story of Elisabeth in Part II, you can experience how we can be challenged to remain connected with our true selves during our earthly journey. It will be a journey intertwined with traumatic life experiences. You will see through Elisabeth’s personal lens the impact of these life events on her behavior and personality. From this intense experience, I will then share a piece of my own challenging journey and tell you how I was able to reconnect with my true self and step out of chaos into a life full of flow.

* Words written in italics can be found in the glossary

In Part III, you will learn more about how we perceive our environment, how we experience reality, and the influences on our behavior and thinking that shape how we see and experience the world. Our level of consciousness is determined by our thoughts and emotions. This makes it clear how our behavior is influenced and shaped. We gain insight into what determines whether we will live a happy or unhappy life. We approach the theme from a scientific, psychological, and spiritual perspectives, with an extensive section on my personal spiritual experiences.

In Part IV of the book, I show you how you can find your way to a more conscious and happier life. You too can take this step, no matter how much life has tested you. There is always light at the end of the tunnel. You will receive detailed information and practical exercises to help you heal and come closer to your true self.In addition to my mental healing process, 

I also made the decision to adopt a natural way of living. This lifestyle had a tremendous impact on my health, supporting my mental healing process. You will discover my natural lifestyle in Part V, which includes comprehensive information, tips, and recipes.

So, don‘t wait any longer! Start reading today, heal, and discover the power of being one with your true self.

Part VI: All the steps I took on my journey, the knowledge I gained from training, and my life experience, I have combined into the ‘One with your True Self’ method, a coaching model in personal and spiritual development. The book forms the basis for this coaching model. In this part, you will find a handy overview of the method that you can use to work on yourself.

Prior to my healing journey and the writing of this book, years of research and education preceded. I pursued training to become an Orthotherapist (Alternative therapy with a psychoanalytic approach), took additional coursework in Clinical Psychology, trained as a Developmental Coach, became a Reiki II Practitioner, obtained additional Certification in Mediation, completed a course in Developing Intuition, attended a Quantum Leap course, became an Emotion Code Practitioner, and finally, underwent training in the Da Silva Ultramind System. 

Furthermore, I delved into existential and spiritual paradigms using an extensive library and watched dozens of spiritual and scientific documentaries that broadened my perspective on the world and showed me the path to Higher Consciousness. Writing this book was part of the conclusion of a healing process that held me in its grip for half a century. This experience and my acquired expansion of consciousness form the common thread throughout the book. At the end of our journey, we conclude with Part VII, where I will reveal an additional key to the mystery of life.

If you’ve had little contact with the spiritual realm until now, you might encounter new insights in this book that may seem a bit ‘out there’ to you. That’s normal. You see, invisible things may seem strange but they’re necessarily so. In the past, people thought the Earth was flat, and 100 years ago, computers would have been considered magic. Gradually, you will find your way in the book. Everything happens exactly at the right time, and your time is now.

The

RIGHT

Time

is 

NOW

 

PART I THE MEANING OF OUR EXISTENCE

 

For years, life absorbed me and held me in its grip. It was only after the start of my official retirement that I was able to find the necessary time to continue my spiritual journey.

The existence of the soul is one of the existential themes I have been dealing with. It is a mystery that many question in our three-dimensional world. For me, its existence has always felt like my own truth.

Over the years, I have read a large number of books about children and adults who have had Near Death Experiences (NDEs). These stories felt very natural to me, as if I had always known the mystery of life and death.

When I became a member of Gaia last year, a web platform for transformational education, and started watching documentaries that offered a clear insight into the origin of the universe, the soul, and numerous other spiritual topics, my remaining questions were answered. I found my way home and completed my truth. I am now eager to share this truth with you.

In Part I, we explore more about the origin of the universe, which emanates from Source, the essence, God, from which souls arise. From this origin, the meaning of life flows. We then leap into the preparation of our physical lives through reincarnation, examining the predestination of our lives.

Together, we embark on a spiritual journey to the origin of our soul, our true self.

 

1  The emergence of the soul

A spiritual approach

In the beginning, there was nothing. Nothing but an infinitely small point where everything was one, the source, God, or Source, the beginning of everything. That tiny point had only one reason for existence, its presence in the first dimension, just being there. From that point, the universe emerged. When Source, the tiny point, wanted to discover what it could become, it exploded into countless billions of particles, also known as the Big Bang. Source split into a group consciousness of oversouls or individual souls.

Each particle, each soul, is a piece of unity, of Source, and was given the task to evolve, experiencing all dimensions (levels of consciousness), and then merging back with it, carrying all its experience and knowledge. This evolution of the soul can only occur through reincarnation across all perceptions of reality, through all dimensions, and by assuming different physical or non-physical forms that traverse each stage of the developmental phase, experiencing every reality and truth throughout many lives. The soul must contemplate everything, experience everything before it can merge with Source, the essence of which it has eternally been a part.

The entirety of all the actions, deeds, and thoughts that the soul will undertake during its many lives is called karma. Through these experiences, lessons are learned, and both positive and negative karma is accumulated. The essence of life is to discover the expansion of consciousness through love and compassion for our neighbors and all living beings. As your consciousness increases, you will release more and more karma and ultimately achieve enlightenment.

 

All souls originated at the same moment. However, each soul has the free will to determine the rhythm of its development. Old souls are those that have experienced a large number of reincarnations and are further along in their development than what are called young souls. Young souls have fewer reincarnations behind them.

The intensity of the learning process also varies for each soul. Some souls want to learn as much as possible during a reincarnation to reach enlightenment more quickly. Others take their time and reincarnate many more times. The ultimate goal of each soul is to develop, through all dimensions, perceptions, and truths, until they have learned enough to eventually merge again with theSource. Thus, the soul can reincarnate in various life forms, both material and non-material, in all existing dimensions and in all possible places in the universe and beyond.

Each dimension contains an infinite number of truths that each soul must learn based on its personal experiences and context, requiring thousands of lives to encompass all these truths.

The soul’s growth towards unity is ultimately rewarded by the connection with its twin soul. After its creation, the soul was split into two parts: one female and one male. One soul part embodies feminine, creative, and connecting power, while the other embodies masculine and powerful independence. Each soul part has the task of evolving during many incarnations until it has fully developed the other male or female part, experiencing reincarnations as both a man and a woman. Once the full development by both halves of the soul has been completed, they are ready to meet each other and connect in unconditional love.

Souls are part of soul groups or oversouls that support and guide each other through many lives, often returning as family members, friends, or partners. It is therefore common to experience an immediate recognition of a soulmate during reincarnation.

 

The connection between your higher self, a part of your soul, and your new body always remains. Your higher self contains complete information about all your reincarnations, the entire path of your soul existence. It is like a hard drive that stores all the data. When you connect with your higher self through meditation, in silence, you can access this information. A memory can also arise spontaneously when you meet a soulmate or during a moment of silence during a routine activity such as ironing or gardening; moments when thinking is suspended. Each soul group developed its own group consciousness. During reincarnations, this can have a greater influence on the evolution of life forms, planets, and galaxies.

Older souls with more spiritual experience continue to evolve until they can reach enlightenment. However, the soul has free will. It can also choose not to reincarnate again and remain within the higher dimension where it can share its experience with other souls in a role as a mentor.

What do science, religions, and philosophy tell us about the soul?

Religious and philosophical beliefs propose various explanations or theories regarding the origin of the soul. The soul is said to originate at the moment of conception, birth, or at a certain stage of spiritual development. In religious and spiritual beliefs, the origin of the soul is often seen as a divine creation or a gift from a higher power that transcends physical existence.

From a scientific or empirical perspective, however, the concept of the soul has no clear definition. There are no measuring instruments that study the existence of the soul or explain it through scientific methods. Science typically seeks to understand the world and natural phenomena through empirical evidence obtained through observation and experimentation. Concepts such as the soul, which are often considered metaphysical or not part of the physical world, cannot be subjected to scientific research in the same way as other natural phenomena.

 

Beliefs about the soul and its origin are therefore subjective and can vary widely among different individuals and cultural or religious groups. There is no universally accepted answer regarding the existence and origin of the soul. It is ultimately a matter of personal belief, philosophy, or individual interpretation.

Among philosophers, there is a broad spectrum of views on the existence of the soul. In general, the question of the existence of the soul remains a subject of ongoing debate and discussion.

 

2  Prenatal predetermination

My personal truth has been shaped throughout my 60 years of living and experiencing on this Earth. It’s a philosophical, spiritual truth that aligns with my worldview and personal spiritual experiences.

Each new life we lead is a part of our learning process, a fragment of experience that we gain. It is through this journey that we can truly understand what it is and how it feels to find ourselves in an infinite number of possible situations.

During one of our reincarnations, we will all have taken on the role of a wrongdoer, a bully, a murderer, a traitor, a torturer, a deceiver, as well as that of a loving mother, an altruist, a giver, a helper, or a victim. We will have experienced extremely terrible and intensely loving moments. It’s only by living through all these experiences that we can empathize in any situation, show understanding for others experiencing the same situation, and develop compassion. Compassion in the sense of genuine empathy between equals, not pity where the disadvantaged are placed in an inferior position.

Before the onset of a new reincarnation, the soul must make choices about the new lessons that will be learned during the upcoming life. These lessons are encapsulated in soul contracts with other group souls that will be incarnating alongside the soul. Group souls will take on the task of initiating and sharing these experiences with each other.

Hundreds to thousands of soul contracts can be created in this manner. The environment (a planetary system or dimension) and form (material or non-material) are chosen to align with the lessons to be learned. This determines the choice of parents and the family into which the soul will be born. The genetics, talents, experiences, and traumas of these parents and their ancestors are crucial in creating the right conditions during the upcoming life. The time of birth is not left to chance either; astrological considerations are also taken into account to select the appropriate model.

Finally, a part of the soul will attach to a fetus within the predetermined family. The part of the soul connected to the earthly body, the higher self, remains connected via a virtual umbilical cord to the rest of the soul, which in turn is connected to the Higher Consciousness or Source. This umbilical cord remains present throughout your entire earthly life.

Once born, as a young child, you still have a strong, open connection with your higher self. It’s common to hear children tell stories about past lives or how life was “in heaven.” These stories may be ignored, laughed at, or dismissed as untrue by adults, causing the child to push these thoughts aside as unacceptable or unreal. As a result, the connection with the Higher Self gradually fades away.

Scientists often approach such stories with skepticism and offer various explanations:

Children may have absorbed information through media, books, or conversations that they remember. Later, they interpret this information as memories from past lives.Children often have vivid imaginations and create stories about past lives.Children may misinterpret certain information, such as dreams or memories. Experiences from past lives are based on their own experiences and imagination. The beliefs, social and cultural factors, and expectations of their environment influence the child’s perception, leading to a different interpretation.

These are all logical explanations that hold true in many cases. However, there are also cases where children have such detailed information that they could not have acquired through conventional means. In such cases, it can be assumed that the child’s earlier experiences were genuine. Often, these children have experienced traumatic deaths in their remembered past lives and now struggle with phobias or other unresolved fears in the present. Some even exhibit scars or marks on their bodies, reminiscent of the cause of death in their past lives.

After birth, a veil is drawn that completely shields memories of your pre-existence by the seventh to twelfth year of life. Your brain or active consciousness develops correlations based on your upbringing and earthly experiences, which take precedence. We become more entrenched in our thinking.

In the last fifty years, there has been an increasing number of reports about Near Death Experiences (NDEs) and Before Birth Experiences (BBEs). Several universities are conducting research into these phenomena. Some stories have even been compiled by well-known authors such as Bruce Greyson, John Burke, Raymond Moody, Todd Burpo, Mary Neal, Betty Eadie, and others.

Adults and children who testify about their experiences describe how, after their death, they slipped out of their bodies with a non-material form that provided a 360° view of what was happening below them. They could move through any matter and travel instantly to any place in the world with just a thought.

Then, a large number of them moved swiftly through a tunnel toward a bright light. Upon arrival, they were welcomed by deceased family members and acquaintances. Some speak of a great light or the voice of God, while others mention Jesus instructing them to return to their physical bodies because their task on Earth was not yet complete. 

 

The all-encompassing love, warmth, and beauty they experienced made almost all of them choose to stay there. During their stay, they gained profound insight into the meaning of existence. They understood that an earthly life only has meaning when you learn to deeply love and show compassion for everything that exists. Each of them changed their way of life after returning to their physical bodies; a life dedicated to caring for and loving their fellow human beings and nature.

Women also testify about appearances or Before Birth Experiences of their unborn child coming to deliver a message during pregnancy or years before conception.

The True Self

Our accessible brain or conscious brain drives our intellectual thoughts. This conscious brain contains only 5 to 10% of all the information we store during our physical lives. The rest is stored in our subconscious, our hard drive containing all our memories. The pre-consciousness contains our memories that we can become aware of by going back in time.

Our subconscious brain also ensures that everything in our body works automatically, such as our breathing, the functioning of our organs through the autonomic nervous system... And our subconsciousness also protects us through intuitions. It is sometimes referred to as the 6th sense.

The higher self is a higher form of consciousness that communicates with us through dreams or intuitive languages. It is the part of our soul that has the means to communicate with our subconscious and conscious brain. It acts as an interpreter between our soul and our subconscious and conscious brain. When necessary, you can establish a connection with your higher self. This connection can be made by quieting your mind through sitting in silence (meditating) without judging and simply observing. The connection can also occur spontaneously; you may suddenly receive a clarifying insight during a moment of relaxing.

 

Our true self, our soul, embodies our true identity and is the person we essentially are. It is who we would be in a perfect world or in the pre- or post-earthly life in higher dimensions. It is who we aspire to become.

The way we are raised and our social environment will color our identity in this earthly life into a distant reflection of who we essentially are. The more traumatic experiences we go through or the more we encounter stuck emotions and developed patterns, the more we become trapped in our conscious mind. We become burdened with emotional baggage and negative limiting belief systems that influence our thinking, making access to our higher self more challenging. We experience a narrowing of consciousness. Only by clearing our emotional baggage, healing our wounds, and deprogramming our negative belief systems can we connect with our higher self and communicate with our soul, our true self.

As a human being, you remain a seeker of meaning, and existential questions, such as finding your true self and your mission in this life, will continue to arise until you have found an acceptable answer that resonates with your soul consciousness. Personally, 

 

I found some guidance in the teachings of astrology and Human Design. In this way, I gained more insight into myself and was able to partially assemble the blueprint of my identity. Below, I illustrate the information that astrology and Human Design can provide you with using my own blueprint.

Astrological report

An astrological report provides you with more insight into your life path. I’ve been interested in astrology since my childhood, but the weekly predictions found in newspapers or magazines didn’t appeal to me. I was fascinated by the ‘nature’ of humans, which astrology made somewhat predictable. I noticed that many of my friends, with whom I got along well, shared the same zodiac sign. Later, I delved deeper into the subject. I gained more insight into which zodiac signs complement each other and discovered the differences that make interactions with other signs more challenging. Last year, based on my date, time, and place of birth, I had an extensive astrological report of fifty pages created with my birth profile. I’ll spare you all the details and limit myself to the general predictions for my life.

What the stars say about your future.

The planets are the key to understanding your predetermined place in the world, how you fit into the grand scheme, and the universe. The placement of the Sun in your birth chart provides more information about the person you will become. The planet Jupiter is a sure guide helping and showing you the safe path.

With the Sun in Cancer, comfort and stability are important in your life. You attach great importance to healthy emotional relationships, which you cherish. A secure home base is crucial for you and provides the security you need in this turbulent world. Providing a safe nest for your family is an important theme in your life, and in whatever form it takes, it will remain a lifelong passion for you.

 

With Jupiter in Aquarius in your birth chart, you will have to navigate some waters and swim against the current to achieve your goals. Your life and your destiny are ‘outside the box’ of what most people consider normal. It is also this Aquarian energy that leads you to break free from the conventional. You try to give your own shape to things and depart from the tried and tested paths of others. There is no normal or traditional life for you. You will be richly rewarded by the universe if you follow the unbeaten path.

The planet Uranus in the sign of Leo ensures that you transform how you express yourself throughout your life. This often manifests as unique and eccentric creativity. You use your creativity and talent to break away from the conventional. You do everything differently than they have ever been done before. In due time, this will bring you much attention and fame. The downside is that during your youth, due to your unique and expressive visions, you will often be confronted with a firm “no” from people in your environment who prefer to stick to their habits. You will encounter harsh critics and admiring fans.

The spiritual and occult or supernatural will be an important aspect of your life with the planet Neptune in Scorpio. There is only a thin veil between you and the spiritual world. Especially in your youth, you may have seen and/or heard things that others do not perceive at all. This awareness may have made things a little difficult for you. As you grow older, you will learn to deal with these spiritual experiences. Your life will be about becoming one with your intuition. You will soon realize that unexplained things happen regularly in your life, but that doesn’t make them any less important.

Keys to Manifest Your Deepest Desires

You have the Moon in the sign of Aries, which gives you a deep emotional need to pursue your passions and desires without restraint. Anything, in any form, that holds you back from achieving this makes you want to overthrow things or even, like an Aries in battle mode, knock everything down. This is a theme that will arise throughout your life, and you’ll need to find balance in it. If you don’t learn how to consider the will of others around you, you’ll get stuck in a life that is entirely determined by your desires, with no room for others.

 

With the planet Saturn in the sign of Capricorn, you pursue recognition in your field. You want to achieve success and build a positive reputation. You are well aware that you will have to work for it, that successes are not achieved easily. It’s not the easiest path, but if you want to achieve success, this is the path you will have to take. You will reap the rewards and find satisfaction in the recognition of your hard work.

The planet Neptune in Scorpio gives you the instinctive urge to engage in deep emotional and intimate relationships with others. It’s these relationships that you prefer over more casual ones. You like to surround yourself with like-minded people with whom you can explore your desires and the depths of the human mind. This desire accompanies you throughout your life. It’s important for you to find people with whom you can share your passions, ideas, and ambitions. Intimate friends who walk this meaningful path with you.

When you are born with the planet Pluto in the star sign Virgo, you have an almost compulsive urge to improve the world. You know exactly what you want and don’t want from the start. You are extremely selective, which may not be fully understandable to those around you who find such behavior inappropriate for a child at such a young age. You may feel irritated and frustrated that your knowledge is not appreciated because of your young age, but as you grow older, you will be more appreciated for it. You will have the opportunity to finally share your vision and your desire to improve the world. It’s a chance you’ve been waiting for a long time.

This astrological report has given me more insight into certain behaviors that I have exhibited against my will and for which I have not been able to find an explanation. It’s as if it’s part of my blueprint. Our behavior is not entirely determined by our earthly experiences. Some behaviors we have from the very beginning and are stronger than ourselves.

 

Human Design Chart

Human Design also provides extensive information about the soul contracts your soul has made, your objectives, and the mission you want to fulfill in this life based on your birth data. Human Design is a system that integrates various ancient wisdom traditions such as astrology, the I Ching, and the chakra system to compile your blueprint. Human Design categorizes people into five different energy types, offers insights into how life energy flows through them and provides a better understanding of yourself. Living according to your own energy type makes it much easier to create success and happiness. Your energy type tells you about how you function best. Below, I share my personal information for illustrative purposes.

There are five energy types: Manifestors, Manifesting Generators, Generators, Projectors, and Reflectors. I myself was born as a Projector.

As a Projector, you have a talent for seeing things differently and bringing them to the world in a unique way. You possess a helicopter view, an understanding of the big picture. Your goal is to improve the way others function and to optimize existing systems. Being a Projector on this planet means that you are here to help others function better, but you must also learn to look at your own functioning. You can accomplish in a short time what may take others a whole day to accomplish. However, there’s a danger that you’ll exceed your own productivity and eventually experience burnout.

Projectors have profound insights and information that others need, but they can only provide this information when asked for it. Trying to assert yourself with your insights may fall on deaf ears. It can be extremely frustrating to wait during a meeting to be asked for your opinion, especially when you could provide clarity and solutions from the beginning. Patience is a virtue! As a Projector, you need to be available and wait for the invitation at the right moment.

 

Projectors have less energy compared to most other types, including Generators and Manifesting Generators, who have a continuous flow of energy. However, the limited amount of energy you have is much more efficient. You should use your energy only when necessary.

My personality type 4/6 is described as ‘The Royal Authority’. The first number (4) describes how you see yourself, and the second digit (6) represents how others perceive you.  Four is ‘The People’s Person’. The quality of your life is determined by your relationships with the people around you.  Six is ‘The Wise Sage’. You are born with inherent wisdom.  However, in the first half of your life, you may not utilize your knowledge due to relational obstacles and the lessons you need to learn before assuming a leadership role. Because your ideas were not valued as a child, you often feel inferior, not good enough, like an outsider. Before you can assume a leadership role, you must take the time to heal and believe in yourself so that later you can move things forward with an open heart. After all, wisdom and your connection to Source come from the heart.

As a Projector, you are driven by success and being successful, linked to your reasons for wanting to improve the world. Success indicates that you are on the right track. If things don’t go smoothly, you may stray from the path, which can lead to bitterness. It’s best to make decisions based on emotional intuition. To most people, this may seem like a subjective, emotional decision. However, for you, it’s the only correct way, based on intuitive knowledge and experiences gained over many decades. If it feels right inside, it’s correct in 99.99% of the time.

My life theme is The Right-Angle Cross of Tension (39/38 21/48). I am here to challenge others to seek spiritual growth by pressing their right buttons. This pressure may provoke negative reactions. However, the goal is to provide others with more insight into the cause of their reaction, which is driven by underlying sensitivities from which they can learn and grow spiritually.

 

I always have my Human Design chart with a full profile at hand on my iPhone in the ‘My Human Design’ app from Guernsey Ltd. The app contains my personal information, daily tips, customized meditations, and positive affirmations. It offers more than just your own profile. You can also add the profiles of your family members! I have added my partner, our children with their partners, and grandchildren to it, and I discuss it with friends whose charts I enjoy discussing. The app is not free. I chose the monthly subscription for full access.

Finally, a brief overview of the gifts listed in my profile:

A logical mindA giver and providerA tastemaker and marketerSeeing all possible outcomesExpanding the good in the lives of othersDaring to go to extremesA focused mindNatural purityGenerous in spiritIntolerant of obstaclesGrace and charmCreating unityA light warriorDesire to feel deeplyLove and concern with othersNotice trends and patternsA natural instinct for using available resources

They are recognizable to me and the people around me. It was also nice to discover that our grandchildren received some gifts in their basket that we found in the baskets of their parents. A beautiful warm mix.

Create your own blueprint

Your blueprint consists of the character traits you were born with that shape your unique personality. There is a wide range of tools on the market that allow you to create your personal blueprint. These tools provide valuable insights into your personality and show you how to deal with it. You will immediately recognize yourself in them.

Creating a blueprint together with your partner or family members is a supportive tool for enlightening conversations in your relationships. Closed, introverted, or less articulate individuals will find the necessary tools to express themselves in this way.

Your blueprint is the record of your prenatal destiny. It helps you become the best version of yourself and allows everything to flow naturally.

Is everything predestined?

When you discover how much preparation precedes a life and how much influence universal laws and other factors already have on your life before it begins, you may wonder whether everything is predetermined. It is not. Possibilities are created, but as a free being, you make your own choices at every moment of your life. You can even renounce soul contracts that you have made in advance. Just like when you go to the cinema, you choose whether your life will be a horror film, an adventure film, a drama, science fiction, a comedy, or a love story.

Indeed, events will occur along your path that will make it difficult for you, such as the loss of a loved one, a significant financial loss, a life-threatening illness... However, you choose whether these events determine who you are and how you feel. You are the creator of your life. You decide who and what you want to be!

 

PART II FROM CHAOS TO FLOW

 

Everyday life doesn’t constantly revolve around your sense of well-being. You go about your life, feeling and experiencing your life, both rationally and emotionally. Often, you live your life without much thought, jumping from one busy day to the next. It’s only when you begin to experience certain problems, whether mental or physical, that you eventually begin searching for solutions.