Foreign travelers E-Book

Anna Ercsei

• Herausgeber: epubli
• Kategorie: Sachliteratur, Reportagen, Biografien
• Sprache: Englisch

Seitenzahl: 36

Veröffentlichungsjahr: 2021

Beschreibung

The published book accurately describes the necessary steps that most people who cautiously and wisely decide to restore their social life abroad go through. Although it's not easy, some don't know how to properly manage their emotions, what to start with, or maybe they just need a good reason to do it. How difficult is it in general? How can you overcome your ingrained fear? What undoubtedly made the character, the main character of the book, make that final decision? You will find out this between the lines here. The book captures and describes the steps that most of those who decide to do so, go through.

Leseprobe

Copyright © 2021 by E.Maria

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or used in any manner without the written permission of the copyright owner except for the use of quotations in a book review.

Foreign travelers

E.A Maria

Covers: Mihaly Sebesi

Copyright © 2021 E.Maria

All rights reserved.

ISBN: 9798705635832

Contents

I. Fear of the unknown

II. The move, the job, real challenges!

III Life with the family and children

IV Small guide for survival in Germany

Dear reader,

I know that you have made one of the most difficult decisions yet. That of choosing to build a new life in a foreign land. You may have left everything behind and you may have chosen to sponge it all off, perhaps for the sake of your child, or your whole family.

Maybe you feel like everything here is for nought, no matter how hard you try and struggle, and on top of that, you don't even feel appreciated enough at work. So, with a heavy heart, you decide to try something new and give yourself a chance in terms of your career and your new family life.

This wasn't easy for me either, you know. Just as it wasn't easy for the many who have taken the plunge, perhaps before me. It's a challenge, I know! But it's worth it. Especially if you have goals, dreams and aspirations. Know that nothing comes without sacrifice, work, and giving up. It may hurt now, but know that through patience and perseverance, you will succeed. It's not easy to get up, but it's not hard either. Seriousness and ambition are everything, and appreciation will come with time. Trust is built with time, so it is with everything, even in family life.

In the end, you will look back at all you have accomplished and you will say that it was worth it, even if one day you will decide to return to the places you hold dear.

I. Fear of the unknown

I think this is the first stage that Bubu experienced. The fear of the unknown. Although she knew the language, she knew it first-rate when he left. But still... she abandoned everything.

She barely gave up her career, even though her colleagues loved her colleagues and she enjoyed the team on which she worked. Not merely did she acquire a lot, but she learned how to manage her emotions much better and seem to organize herself. She commenced an extended period of documenting, scouring the internet for information and having many family conversations about the plans and decisions she was going to make.

Naturally, the descriptions of life here in Germany didn't stop there, from her mother and from her sister who had long since settled in Germany. Gradually, education and persuasion had begun to grow in her mind, especially after the documentation of German jobs and salaries at that time. As time went on, the pressure from her husband began. The thought of committing and securing a future for her little one became more pressing.

It is inevitably stated that the night remains an appropriate advisor. There were sleepless nights, lost nights in the yard on the patio thinking about what to commence with, and how to handle the situation. How would it be more excellent? How not suddenly separate little Iris from absolutely everything she was attached to?

She had begun to get used to Reghin there, and it might have affected her.

a lot more, all this transition and this sudden rupture.

Therefore, I started gripping her for walks all day to distract myself from all this stress that had begun to take possession of me.

But I said to myself:

-Some so many families take this step who may not have the opportunity to have someone with them, they come alone... it is possible, more than that they do not know the language, why should I not have the courage?

So I decided to focus on the significant things. I started to simulate and imagine what the day of my departure will be like and what I require to do to make everything go well. Let's not forget our documents, and then all the things we wanted to take with us.

Don't forget about yourself. Finally, your mind is important, too. You still need to take a breath and think about how to make things work out the way you desire them to be.